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Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

CHIDINMALOVE:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVZ0rbtsnCE

Where are the 800 Coronavirus patients, this Corona na lie lie o - Man says as he shares a video from empty isolation center in Kano

A man triggered an outcry on social media after sharing a video from an empty isolation center located at Sani Abacha stadium in Kano state.

The social media user who countered an alleged claim of the isolation center housing 800 Coronavirus patients in the video he filmed on May 24, sarcastically said "this Corona na lie lie o".

He also disclosed that the facility is still under construction, as he maintained that the state government has only been telling them to wash their hands.

#Covid419: Bursted-This is the 600 capacity isolation center at the Sani Abacha Stadium, Kano. They lied to us that the center has over 800 Covid19 patients but the center is totally empty, still under construction. Watch and share.@WHO @NCDCgov @EUinNigeria @UKinNigeria @UN pic.twitter.com/7hAXXi3dXf

— ibu thomas🇳🇬 (@Hailfinger1) May 25, 2020

nairavsdollars:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos



https://www.independent.ng/edo-2020-oshiomhole-dumps-odubu-ogiemwonyi-airhiavbere-others/

tutudesz:
Rivers and Delta State what happening now! The KK Boys (Kano and Katsina) are back already and Imo name don nosie maker list too.
Abeg Delta people I no fit shout O! Make we take care on top this Corona matter, has the number come dey go up small small.

bolaayenimo:
Obaseki: You see, that is why I'm opposed to direct primary

AmazingMOG:
my guy shut up you bini people makes too much useless noise.


That's why you people hype your useless city, the most useless and under developed city in South south full of mud house


Making noise about your culture and king but it took the British 3 days to burn down your kingdom then exile your king to Calabar


Making noise in politics and your state has nothing to boast of better political position in the country.


Do you think politics is by noise? Please go and sleep you're a lazy youth. go and repair your old city ravage with cultism and prostitution.

ijustdey:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/covid-19-lagos-enlists-600-patients-for-chloroquine-clinical-trials/%3famp=1

WriterNig:
https://twitter.com/davido/status/1264550560486883328?s=19

https://twitter.com/davido/status/1264559469213691905?s=19[/quote]Davido with the big heart o

ujahfabian:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/police-kill-eight-suspected-kidnappers-in-taraba/%3famp=1

ijustdey:
https://thenationonlineng.net/crises-brew-in-nass-over-tenure-of-clerk-others/

joyandfaith:
what if obaseki wins direct primary? what if government declares curfew in day of primary and scuttle the whole process?

Crownbefitsme:
https://punchng.com/reps-strip-psc-powers-to-recruit-constables-protect-cps-from-govs/?amp=1&__twitter_impression=true

Medtelly:
Policemen seen arresting a citizen who is dragging with them for not wearing a face mask mean while two off the police officers out of five were not wearing a face mask.. this happened early yesterday evening at Sauka Lugbe Airport road F.c.t Abuja


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nF98hYgHuT0

Nigerianization:
Please don't go to Germany to negotiate electricity deal for the NATION, we have a Minister for power

Shehuyinka:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/crossriverwatch.com/2020/05/breaking-ayade-orders-arrest-of-civil-servants-for-allegedly-leaking-information-to-crossriverwatch/amp/



https://www.google.com/amp/s/crossriverwatch.com/2020/05/3-civil-servants-detained-for-allegedly-leaking-document-showing-withdrawal-of-lg-funds-in-cross-river/amp/

APCNig:
Is that why Igbos are omitted in the list? We are watching you closely and you will hear from us.

JosWatchDog:
Mimi Atedze reporting, Makurdi Nigeria

It is confirmed that CEO Star Sharwama was arrested and detained yesterday by EFCC officials in Makurdi.

A female EFCC staff ordered and paid for an item , she was supposed to pay 1500 but made an online transaction of 1600 instead.

Meanwhile Star Sharwama was expecting an alert for the Payment of 1500 but the alert did not drop , they saw an alert but assumed it was for another person's order not hers because her bill was 1500 and not 1600.

kept calling to remind her of their money, when they finally got the statement from the bank which showed that she was the person who made the payment of 1600, Star Sharwama called to inform her and apologize for everything but she was very angry and vowed to deal with them .

On Wednesday Miss Ato was arrested with other staff of her restaurant and detained at Efcc office in Makurdi, the others were later released, but she was kept in detention and released around 7 pm, she was accused of fraud .

She was asked to report back today on allegations of fraud. Miss Ato was to be charged to court today for fraud.

This is the arrest video and that the the charge sheet ....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLsSAKieNVo

I found out also that many people contacted the zonal head of Efcc to let go off this issue but he did not listen to anyone....

More photos below;

Source: https://www.jtownconnect.com.ng/2020/05/video-owner-of-star-shawarma-detained.html

Hedonini:
You are a bigger fool for not recognising comparativeness, since no one is perfect. The natural question is - which is better? Which is preferable? Jonathan out means Buhari in. Those were the only two options at that time. For a fool like you to say that you are STILL not sad that Jonathan is out means that you STILL prefer Buhari to Jonathan, in spite of everything we have all seen. You are an incorrigible bastard if that is your opinion. No doubt an afonja.

Wouldn't waste my precious time replying you oily nincompoop after this.

Hedonini:
You're not sad that Jona is out means that you still prefer this disaster called Buhari to Jonathan? Why wouldn't God punish you? That's why I wish nothing but misery and suffering for any bastard that voted for or supported Buhari in 2015, 'repentant' or not. Anyone in that category is worse than nothing. Useless. Forgiveness is not an option.

bukatyne:
You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.

For that, you are half way there.

You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.

You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.

Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.

She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.

She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.

I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.

Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.

Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.

And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.

It is well.

Omooba77:
https://nigeriainfo.fm/post/adesina-to-nigerians-you-cant-order-president-buhari-around

The man told us this morning, 2023 is around the corner, go and pick your form.

oshozondii:
https://punchng.com/breaking-covid-19-germany-donates-additional-e5-5m-to-nigeria/

bolaayenimo:
https://www.independent.ng/buharis-speech-uninspiring-curfew-cant-work-in-lagos-adegboruwa/

specialbobby:
Sup bro

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

psychologist:
Nonsense and ingredients

Always coming with the right ideas but with underlaying motive to syphon

I went to recharge my prepaid meter last week, money was deducted and no unit was given, wen I went to their office, met people with similar cases, and we were told either to stay "without light till after the lockdown, because if we try to recharge our meter again that the previous money that we recharged will be gone for good" or go to alausa for reverting..

Shehuyinka:
https://www.icirnigeria.org/covid-19-controversy-trails-ministers-decision-to-mine-data-of-phone-users-without-consent/

HisExcellence:
114 new cases of #COVID19 have been reported;

80 in Lagos
21 in Gombe
5 in FCT
2 in Zamfara
2 in Edo
1 in Ogun
1 in Oyo
1 in Kaduna
1 in Sokoto

As at 11:30 pm 24th April there are 1095 confirmed cases of #COVID19 reported in Nigeria.

Discharged: 208
Deaths: 32 https:///NIDV1zTh9o


As at 11:30 pm 24th April:

Lagos-657
FCT-138
Kano-73
Ogun-35
Gombe-30
Katsina-21
Osun-20
Edo-19
Oyo-18
Borno-12
Kwara-11
Akwa Ibom-11
Kaduna-10
Bauchi-8
Delta-6
Ekiti-4
Ondo-3
Rivers-3
Jigawa-2
Enugu-2
Niger-2
Abia-2
Zamfara-2
Sokoto-2
Benue-1
Anambra-1
Adamawa-1
Plateau-1

Victorious1000:
Thought 5 have been discharged in Edo? Why still 15 cases?

Is NCDC a scam?

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/breaking-india-returnee-dies-of-coronavirus-in-lagos/

Ravon:
https://www.nda.edu.ng/#news/item/293