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FarSide:
"Unprotected sex with 12 girls in 4 years, I'm afraid I might have HIV"

https://www.nairaland.com/7893353/im-afraid-might-hiv

Good evening fellas...
I made this post two weeks ago, I was so terrified, was going crazy but thank God for the words of encouragement from you guys. Your kind words and encouragement made me took the bold step
After thinking about my life, I decided to do the test; if I perish I perish. It is better than all the sleepless nights and nightmares.

For over a month now my Google searches is 99% related to HIV; the modes of transmission, early signs, late symptoms, prevalence rate in Nigeria, my state, general world stats.

To worsen the whole situation, last week when I was trying to hold myself together, my latest girl called that she's been feeling feverish, vomited 3x or so, she's lost weight and all... I froze. That's all what google fed me as early signs and it's barely 2 months we had sex...

So I woke up one day and fixed today, Friday 10th November for the test come rain come shine.
This morning, I woke up, promised myself it must be today. If I have it, I have it already. It's not like the test will put the virus in my system. Just a confirmation.

After all, I've joined some HIV support groups on Facebook and saw many were requesting for a match making. These would be my family at worst, they are humans too!

So I left very early for a mission hospital kilometers away from my house. I got to the place, sneaked in after watching to ensure the coast is clear from anyone that might know me.
I asked the gateman and he directed me to where I can get a compulsory patient's card. I got to the office and met no one on duty, so I had to wait. Just as I was waiting, a primary school classmate walked in with her husband, they a planning a wedding and the church directed them for same blood test.
"Whick kind wahala be this" I asked myself, I thought no one will see me here today. No wam, we waited together until the card lady entered, we got the card and proceeded to the electronic capturing center.

The woman at the electronic center was reluctant to attend to me that it must be couple that will come for the test, ahhh cou what?? Madam I'm single and I want to do a blood test to know if I'm health for a relationship or not... People come dey laff me.
Finally, I was attended to and was directed to financial department. I went and made my payment and was redirected to the electronic capturing center, when i got back, I called on the woman "ma, I'm asked to give u this receipt" she turned, "you?? Your case is different" she said. I was like has she confirmed I'm positive by mere look? How is my case different?

At long last she directed me upstairs, to the test office. Omo, I actually thought they would collect my blood sample and ask me to come back for the test result.
I had planned to go take some alcohol before I will come for the rest but no... Korokoro, the lad pricked my hand got and test strip and it was it.... Ma ma I stammered... Like are u seriously doing this now??
Just like when Kalistus ate the poisoned fish, I began to get weak.
She began asking me questions, but I was busy watching the test strip until a line began to form at the down side, it was a single line. I was a bit happy but it wasn't over as I heard it might take up to 20 minutes.
I burst prayer oo. Just then the lady at the opposite side called to ask my age and all that. Before I could turn back I say the test lady writing Negative. Omo, I jumped out, they called be back to come take my result sheet.
I rushed out dancing skelewu as I made my way to the exit gate.
My good people I'm Negative to HIV 1$2.

So now you understand what I told you

You don't have hiv

But you keep saying you are positive
So be careful bro

skultrick:
I went to uba and generated statement for my dorm account, I was believing that since they have branches in other countries it would help but it didn't.

Pay Pal still went ahead and close the account.

how can you make that costly mistake

PayPal doesn't recognize Nigerian and as such how would you send them uba bank statement

BItt:
Its a scam you and Op should not fall for it o.
A thread about it made front page last month
Cc pride4legacy

I already know
I wanted him to post the link so everyone can be made aware and I know they won't be able to provide the link to him as it is a shady business

pride4legacy:
I got a message to complete a task of reviewing businesses on google business page which I did.

I was credited N2000 as a welcome bonus. After which I was onboarded to perform tasks of reviewing businesses. I was paid N5000 after reviewing 5 businesses.

I continued to review to make more money but was told I need to do a task of of depositing 15000 to get 19500 in 10-15 minutes.

I was jittery at first but I did it. after sometime I was credited 19500. I was allowed to continue reviewing businesses and was paid the normal 5000 after reviewing five business.

Now I am told that I need to do 50000 package option to receive 65000 before I can continue using the site.

I am jittery about this next step. Please who is in this business I want to know if it is how it portrays it's self.

Below are screenshot from the telegram. They don't even clamour for more people.

Can you help me with the telegram Link

dmostcheerful:
She is not trying to high jack it, she said she is going to refund cause the fund is fraudulent, he said she shouldn't refund that i should convince her.
She got furious and left for work.
She probably is still at work, stays a month or so.
Like I said, she will refund when she is back.
The fund in questions was money he scammed someone to pay for lodging.
Like they open an account on booking.com and create a profile, convince people to pay.
I didn't know it was scam either cause he said it was a gift.
Until the account owner sent prove to show it was.

Are you for real
Hold on no be Nigeria you dey, No take us as fools abeg
Since over a month she hasn't refund and she isn't online right

Do you even know how the military works on foreign soil
They basically have shifts also. They are not always working
Or do you mean to tell me for the past 1 month she has been in warfront that even her family she doesn't chat them.up or something

Haba madam. This is clearly scam.

doneback04:
Pls how much does it to to do the genotype?

hiv and genotype test cost me 2k only

It depends where you live.

henndukwe18:
Hello, good morning everyone, am a freelancer, i have a client from USA who offered me a job bt our issue now is the payment method, normally i use payoneer, bt the client insists on paying with a cheque, he said i should give him the name and address of a relative in US who will receive the cheque and transfer to me and i dnt have any relatives there, he said he was warned by his bank not to make transfers, so he pays in cheque. I want to know if there is a way to receive cheques from US, anyone who knows shud please enlighten me, thanks

just avoid him
Na scam bro

UcheKingsley1:
What are the symptoms of HIV? And how long will someone start seeing the symptoms?

I did HIV test close to a month after I had unprotected sex, it came out negative.

Just forget about those symptoms you read online

Go for another test

And once it's negative

You are negative

FarSide:
No p na
I go try run am. If I survive this one, na me and my babe forever

That's the Goal boss

Just no dey run around again

FarSide:
Na just fear shaa. I don't have any symptom ever since but I went to one clinic last month and they were just gisting about HIV. How some people don't even know they have it and all that. I just felt there were talking to me
Now my girl started the same test thing. Me that doesn't go to church, I've been praying ever since.
Wahala dey oo

Just remove that from your mind
That's what I heard also when I was about to do the test

I have to just get courage
When they were doing the test
I nearly past out
But it turns out negative and I did genotype stuff
It comes out AA or so
Naso I just say my life is in order now
And I promise myself never to indulge in any thing again except I got married

FarSide:
Omo e no easy oo.
When I was galavanting and jumping from one girl to another, I never thought of all these.

naso I feel when I went for test also for my marriage
But it turns out negative. After that I went two times more before the marriage and na dis year also

And let me tell you

I slept with someone last two years who was rumour to be positive but I never confirm but I don't have anything

FarSide:
The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

stop this

Just go ahead. You don't have hiv
That's what I felt when I went for hiv test also

But it came out negative


Just be calm. It's going to be okay

Pmedia7787:
How much please

I currently do not have access

Was actually referring to you

14k

Send me a message here.

SharingIsLife:
This is my second time in a few months. I suddenly see my 2-year old baby girl holding this inside our flat.

I don't know where she gets it from. I don't know what it's used for. But, I think I've seen this with some street boys at a work sight some time in the past.

My daughter attends a kindergarten close to our residence. She came home with her older siblings some two hours ago. No one saw this on her all the while. Then, suddenly, she has it.

Sorry if I'm being alarmist but honestly I'm a bit scared to see this out of nowhere in the possession of such a little girl. Please, help me with genuine mature responses only. Nlfpmod and everyone thanks in advance.

relieving cold, nasal congestion and headache, motion sickness in vehicles and ships, bruises and sprains, muscle socreness, abdominal pain and tooth ache, there is also the anti malarial version or something

Pmedia7787:
Do you still sell verified PayPal account
If yes
What country
Are they business or individual
Can they receive funds

Boss I have a SA account with identity card verified
Business account

Gentew:
I need someone to develop my personal real estate website. I need something affordable for a startup.... 0 7 0 6 7 0 2 8 6 7 8

Let's get you setup

I have send you a DM

Ajomoghem:
Please I need help. I registered with the NIMC 4 years ago and it was successfully linked to my SIMs. It showed successful but when I checked it , is showing not verification by the NIMC. what does that mean?

omg

Babalegba:
Those two will shortly follow suit.

yes but not for now.

johnobama1:
How did we get here?. Chipper now charges N12k to create dollar card.

get grey card or geegpay card. And use am.