₦airaland Forum

Ah ah but she was jus loving him everywhere in the media recently na.

Abi is she unstable ni?

Baba blow this chic na.

E nor hard like dat to be honest.

Jus march am make she believe as e dey hot.

chukwudi44:
We want results not pictures. Enough of this useless propaganda. Wake me up when boko haram is eliminated or their attacks stopped

Ode. No be from clap dance dey start?

How would they now design the coffin if someone died at a ripe old age after many years of meritorious service to Nairaland?

Fayose is just a trouble maker.

In the first term he served in office he robbed the state blind and the state didn't have as much as it does now. Now Fayose is painting the crusader of Ekiti masses picture of himself.

Well...it what they Ekiti ppl want sha. Don't work, just talk and come and buy our yams and boli on the roadside and drink shekpe with us. Governor of the ppl my foot.

ladyF:
Lol. They for chase dem comot na, y lock shop?

The gods have come down in the likeness of men!

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

Funmi Williams

Passingshit:
Hmm, NL and injustice! I opened this same thread before 4 o clock but the mods turned a blind eye

Wait bros, is there a cash prize for the person who opens a thread? Why are you taking it this p?

Hmmm. E go beta.

Gaddem!

Some naija babes fit follow am so if e hit one kain bar like dat.

This Ikorodu sef...

America is FINISHED!!!

He could have gotten a waaayyyy better crib for half the price.

shikshark:
hard work pays bur you guys should find a place in your hearts and touch the lives of less previleged or internally displaced instead of acqiuring g-wagons.

Nice message, good heart.

However, can you kindly update the house on how many people's lives you have touched this month?

chukwudi44:
Government of propaganda!!! I do not doubt that money was indeed looted by previous Government officials but the rate of propaganda by the APC is becoming nauseating.

The order was issued just yesterday and now this ridiculous story barely 24 hours later

Ode ni e. People like you are the ones that don't want Nigeria to move forward. Whenever something proper is done, you say propaganda. If the information is kept discreet, you'll say something else.

Looks cheap

engrlarex:
this is the problem of Africans, we fear to ask questions from our religious leaders.

I'm not scared. Infact I'm very into topics like this naturally. However, it suddenly dawned on me recently that for so many years we have argued some arguments and today we are nowhere closer to have definite answers on many of the issues...why bother asking questions that would never be answered?

This OP is an alarmist

Ode. She didn't know cults were bad my foot.

kendrick9:
None of my concern tbh.... Buhari has been an abject failure so far.. everything stagnant,no progress.... Same old nigeria i guess....

You're just ignorant

Wa sere. Correct guy.

Maybe now they can call those of us they subjected to inhuman conditions just to write their exams late last year after 2 years of waiting.

Why do some of you like starting inciting topics that we know will only cause acrimony on the thread?

The problem with girls like zaragal is that they don't listen to advise from people like us. I am telling you CATEGORICALLY...The only women entitled to my resources are my wife and daughter. Any other is going to be decided by charity, discretion and the situation at hand.

zaragal:
It's simple ooo...oga don't do anything for ur woman have her go out with u and pay ur bills okkk...and be a MAN abeg don't quote me again

The day you have someone new on your p and you guys go out for the first time, let me give you one dub...offer to pay at least HALF of the bill and no less. He might not agree and if you are insistent he might. The next time, offer to pay half or even if its a little fraction. Of course he's not likely to let you. By that you would have won his respect forever and if he has sense, he wouldn't let you go. You would also have painted yourself as an independent, not-fazed-by-your-cash picture even though its all yarns. You'll thank me later.

Btw, I'll quote whoever I want to quote.

zaragal:
All does shouting they can't carry any responsibility and Gold digger, u plan on dating a girl for free??...I don't get

Do you buy a relationship? I don't get. We have a funny picture of what relationships are these days.

zaragal:
Hy nairaland ,

TGIF, today is a chilling out day for most of us. pls I've got a question to ask. How many percent of a gal's responsibility a guy is to wield, I knw for sure some guys will say am not her father dis and dat, but you know dating isn't free, time, attention is money even tho love is free, u cnt be going out with a girl and you won't assist her with one responsibility or the other, although I have issues asking guys for money I really don't knw how to do it but dat doesn't mean I don't have needs that I struggle to meet and need assistance, @least as my boyfriend you should be sensitive to my needs and try as much as possible to meet some, although I was dead sick a time like that and I was broke @ the same time I couldn't ask my bf for money to go to the clinic but I outrightly told you I was very sick and the illness was serious, he said he was going to be praying for me, ofcos I believe in God and prayers but I also think when one is sick he/she prays and visit the doctor. I didn't like the fact that my friend went through my msgs and saw dat and she talked abt it and was like....ur guy is strange, u are sick he said he'll pray for the sickness to go instead of talking how u ll get yourself treated.

Anyways, I did self medication and got a little better I was silence about everything because am bad with asking guys for money but I appreciate if he is sensitive to my needs but then again I didn't want to put too much pressure on him too, but I want to know the level of demands one can ask from ones boyfriend, like if am sick shouldn't I expect my man to say "how ll u see a doctor and get yourself treated?" am not a person particular abt fashion and all other ladies luxury I jst focus myself on the important things of life plus am not demanding but I felt a relatnship should be like we help each other

Anyways, what do u think its sensitive to ask your man for, and wat percent of responsibility should a man carry for his babe

Thnx guys

But your boyfriend is a stingo sha

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firstEVA:
Once in a while if he has the fear of God, he should give you some money for hair and some little things. If he is really financially stable, she should put you on an allowance. I don't subscribe to demanding for it though, allow him use his mind, if he refuses to use his mind, ask with love ( ) if he still does not use him mind, the conclusion is he is a selfish guy, u either run, or manage him.

I do not owe you an allowance.

If you are financially stable would you give me an allowance?

I am not obligated to carry any part of your responsibilities. The only difference between a guy and a girl is the gender.

These days where women are clamouring for gender equality which they have more or less achieved, they cannot now jettison the responsibilities/consequences that come with gender equality. If you work and you have an income, you should be responsible for your needs.

Now, as a human being and not just a guy, if I am in a relationship with somebody, it is necessary that I give as is convenient and reasonable for me to. That means that my girlfriend can also take me out to eat or should at least offer to offset a fraction of the bills when we go out EXCEPT I insist. As a guy, I also have to be wise enough to realise that in order to make my babe feel more special and wanted I should go an extra mile.

What many Nigerian girls do not understand these days is that a relationship where giving is mutual and almost equal is sweeter and very intense because it is a partnership and there is always something to look forward to. I have a colleague who she and her husband always look forward to birthdays/Christmas/anniversaries, etc because they both go out of their ways to spoil each other. And pls don't tell me that in exchange for the material things I give you, I get your attention. Your attention is not supposed to be paid for. It is not an item or service.

In a nutshell, spending on someone you love is supposed to be discretionary and not obligatory. The only person who is obligated to provide for a girl is her father and I say so because the father-daughter relationship is not a partnership. He brought you into the world and is expected in conjunction with your mother to bring you up. By the time you are married, it is a partnership and a partnership works when both parties are alive to their "responsibilities".

Nice family.

ROSSIKE:
The article writer calls the women ''whores'' and other names. But has barely a word to say about the millions of men without whom the 'industry' would not exist. Talk about double standards.

Women are incredible. Stop this victim mentality!

A woman will do everything wrong, insult the man and his parents, cheat, lie, disrespect everyone, cause scenes in the neighbourhood while the man is quiet. The day he slaps her out of anger when she is misbehaving that is what she would hang on to forever. "Ah! He slapped me!" Like the slap is worse than everything she has done.

That is what you are doing. IS A WOMAN THAT SELLS HER BODY FOR MONEY AND RENTS A ROOM AT 3K5 A DAY TO CONDUCT HER TRADE AND DOES 5 OR 6 SOMES AND STANDS BY THE ROAD AND ALLOWS JUST ANY MAN NACK HER EVEN IN THE ANUS FOR AS LITTLE AS 10K NOT A WHOORREE!!!

Forget the men. Their own is a different topic. But today and right now, men are not the focus of the topic. Don't turn it around and cannibalize the man. He too would not be patronising her if she did not have goods for sale.

Nigeria...country with many barbarians.