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Nerdg:
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go

Let her go she doesn't love u, y would she test u, for wot? Since she has tasted man b4 ur own should not b new to her after all she knws u love her. U've been waiting so long. Let her go, take ur mind off her that's all.

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

May b u're too dirty or virgins is seriously smelling if so they wouldn't tell u so but live u

NwaAmaikpe:


An Alora should not be next to an Egede man for any reason..


They are so unrefined and typical touts.
Unlike the typical classy sailors.

AWU OOOOOO

Is very easy, hav don it b4 if u gat d brain. As far back as 1997 I was running my Computer science in Kwara State Polytechnic at same time studying Electrical in Unilorin. Though it wasn't easy lik dat but I came out bright. Wish u gud luck

EmekaBlue:
I'm not endorsing crime but whether we like it or not there must be criminals,especially in a difficult country like the zoo

U called NIGERIA a zoo that means u're an animal in a zoo

ESDKING:
Ndi mgbati mgbati have done it again.
Look at the way he's eating the stuff with courage.

Terrible human being.

Na una people dey rituals pass, ndigbo

Naija don dey beta. Buhari is working

OrestesDante:
A clear indication that the little sense you have again has been taken away.

Can't you just comment 'okay' and leave if you know that you have nothing reasonable left in your word bank?

90% of Armed robbers today na igbo so don't like say u no get sense

Nice one, Abiola lives on.

I would rather go for Range Rover instead

Let's c Alhaji's picture, that is only way to find him

Na lie no b him, she b u tell us say hin don die ni. Abeg say something beta

I888:
my brother, I knew that guy was killed that day. It's very obvious from the video and so I am not surprised.

Too bad only one police officer was around.

D brave mopol is not dead if u take look at d video very well u'll realize d mopol at d corner still return fire, u can even c d rubber dodging bullets. Just for security reasons is dead. How can they tell us they don't his identity n his age is not possible at all

D brave mopol is not dead if u take look at d video very well u'll realize d mopol at d corner still return fire, u can even c d rubber dodging bullets. Just for security reasons is dead. How can they tell us they don't his identity n his age is not possible at all

Ifebazz:
Do you know if he escaped into a cul de sac? He could have been shot dead where he ran to if the escape route was not open. He was gallant anyways.

D brave mopol is not dead if u take look at d video very well u'll realize d mopol at d corner still return fire, u can even c d rubber dodging bullets. Just for security reasons is dead. How can they tell us they don't his identity n his age is not possible at all

For Dino, All I know is that everyday for d thief and one day for d owne

Now Buhari is working, we ll b expecting more of this

Swaycater:
A Step in the right Direction! Who said we got no Innovative Minds roaming the Streets of Nigeria? God bless Nigeria!

Nice one, now Buhari is working