₦airaland Forum

sunshineG:
sis why do try look smart by omitting the obvious

Didn't you see where I wrote that sa indians have been in Durban since the 15century

Now you forgot she claimed I only knew Durban right, so are not smart enough to see that she changed her story later about her claims

She initially claimed that Durban was more like northern nigeria to dispite my claims that most women in sa also cheat . she said I cannot use Durban to generalize the situation in sa because it is culturally conservative as northern Nigeria. To backup my piont you even crashed our conversations to back my claims

Now why are trying to make me believe you have selective amnesia

Lionessza:
Lol, good thing you didn't, feelings are already hurt hence it's so difficult moving on .


Jozi still cold and all, how's things there ?

Lionessza:
Lol, let's just thank him for the education so that the wounds would heal already and he can move on cus if not this unnecessary " discussion " will continue for days.

sunshineG:
my sis you insulted my educational background

She asserted that Durban is just like northern Nigeria and you accepted without doing proper research
She claimed she made her assertion based on culture

What is culture? Culture can be defined as ideas behavior and customs of a particular society. Clearly it has to do with the norms in every society

She also claimed Durban is developed yet it is still it as culturally conservstive as northern Nigeria

Now is that possible? Can there be development without cultural evolution

The north of Nigeria has a strong Islamic culture which is very resilient. You will hardly spot any outsider tying to impose his/ her culture. One of the main reasons for its slow development

Durban has a very dynamic culture because of its openness to outsiders, which have significantly influence the people's lifestyle
The Indian who have settled in Durban since the 15th century comes to mind
The large number of African Diaspora comes to mind
The large influxes of Asians mostly Pakistan and Chinese comes to mind


So how is it possible to draw comparisons between those two places, to the extent of insulting my educational background for disputing her claims

sunshineG:
oh sorry sis
I have a lot of friends from zim, I forgot
Yeah I heard botstwana is a good country. It is nice meeting you

sunshineG:
good morning sis
I am surprised you saw my comments this way
I was purely joking around yesterday ptz is 30 mins from Durban and even if i only visited Durban for the very first time I think I will find out that ptz is not part of Durban
I attended the Durban university of technology and I am currently using my student email to access nairaland, so if you Want to know the school I attend you can pm me or I pm you
I always thought Botswana were nice people because I have friends from Botswana I meet through online forums even before I went to southafrica.
I think you should read her post again where she said I only lived in Durban
She claimed Durban is more like northern Nigeria which I disputed with facts
I don't need to go over the facts again because they were very obvious
Now how do you understand the comparisons between northern Nigeria and kwazulunatal when you haven't been to northern Nigeria, at list I have been to both places and I strongly disagree with that assersion
I don't judge people but I am surprised by your assumptions about me based on few post I made
honestly I am truly shocked

Lionessza:
Lol, please don't educate me about the location of SA universities I know these already . Kwamashu and umlazi are in durban not surrounding it , you see I told you to stop talking shyt abut things you know nothing about cus it's becoming embarrassing now . Like I said you only know some parts of Durban not SA.

sunshineG:
Swaziland
Lesotho
Namibia
Bostwana
Mozambique

Which one sis ?

sunshineG:
sa chick?

Lionessza:
Lol, I think he's just trolling though .

Lionessza:
Stop repeating the same excuse. How do you know what's common in SA when you've only lived in one city? Might i add , a city situated in a province which still has a lot of traditional people . Have you said you lived in Jozi, particularly hillbrow I would not question you because we know the type of women who live there but In kzn? . Not in this life time. Like I said you might have met slutty wives there , I wouldn't doubt that but in a province like kzn that cannot be common because kzn is more like the north part of Nigeria

Lionessza:
LMFAO, exactly girl but let's not put words in people's mouths . You are naughty.

Lionessza:
Lol,the me having thought bad things about someone I shouldn't have one . Lol , he sounds dangerous. No thank you I don't want to end up a cripple with no memory

Lionessza:
Trump should should put her into good use and throw her all over Russia, she would destroy the whole country in one minute with that butt alone.

Lionessza:
I can't relate to any of these , maybe except one maybe. But I would love to experience number 6 ,especially when I'm going through some shyt . When I'm going through hard times I will read up on how he could make it happen . Number 10 is crap cuz what's the use of feeling like you have added that amount in your account and a few minutes later reality hits you in the face.....

Lionessza:
We are doing it as a company, hence we are taking turns. When the first group comes back the second one will leave to continue where they left off. Lmfao @ having no choice, but yeah it's a great thing to do. Sure girl.

Lionessza:
Lol, I knew you'd pick that up. He is. Well if you go for his cuteness and forget the rest just like that , you deserve everything he's going to dish out to you.

It's going ok hun , just freezing cold. Haven't done my service yet , will be volunteering at 12 or 1. Some of my colleagues have already left for their sixty minutes to some old age homes. Are you doing anything over there?

UbChapter:
What are you guys blabbing about? That you are in a pool party automatically means you must use the pool (swim)? To use the pool now is no longer by choice?

Lionessza:
Lol, that was a hundred years back fool .

Lionessza:
Lol perhaps it means something else in other regions

Lionessza:
The only thing I see that should have gotten the Internet talking is the guys clothing choice . How do you go to a flippen pool party dressed like you're going to church or a normal party? . This is very unusual and disrespectful to the host , they should have been thrown out.

Lionessza:
Lol, you're truly fu* ked up in head I give up on you

Lionessza:
Lol, liar. What did you read about ?

Jayceon:
The reason they run after you is because you play hard-to-get game,once they get you they move on to next targets

Jayceon:
how is the city and country as a whole?

WORLDPEACE:
I don't think she has the balls to kill me. She's just saying it because she really misses me. If I die she's only going to miss me more. Besides, I'm a trained psychologist. I know the right things to say to make her calm.
So they are crazy like that, huh? How did you survive your time there

WORLDPEACE:
So if I visit kimberly I'm going to be feeling like the only real black man there ?

Jayceon:
LOL but you are the ones chasing after the vultures and when they finally scavenge in you,you complain

Jayceon:
you been to Lagos?

TayserMahiri:
so she is orange under the sun
South Africans cant survive searing West African heat. Especially the Lagos one

WORLDPEACE:
Oh I thought one was extinct and the other extant.
I was also hoping you guys went into Asia and made babies in Asia, not the other way around. That's what I would expect from real gangster ancestors. That's what I do .
You can never be done with me. I say when we are done, kapish?