₦airaland Forum

a lot of the young people that are suffering from Tinubus policies and want him out will be on social media on election day, retweeting and joking and just yapping and watching channels and Arise.
They are so fresh that the sun will be too hot for them to go out and cast their vote and defend it.
They will be on nairaland abusing any name they see that is from the tribe of the contestant they dislike.
They want to be free from their oppressor, but they want their oppressor to hand them that freedom on a platter

where is the lie

aswani:
Dat Comfort jus dey catch cruise, you remember to wear wig but you nor wear bra.

Nigerian women are not all scum please, no more than Nigerian men at any rate.

Follow simple instructions people, switch your phone off when asked.

Tt is a messed up society, Nigerians dey use "not listening to instructions(and not respecting constituted authority)" do big boy/girl. It starts from primary school

If he has another daughter, he should sha raise that one to be wearing bra when going out.

women are scum sha - how will you tear the cloth of another woman
If na man tear that babe cloth, Nigerian Feminists for dun dey bark like dog wey get rabies

Softmirror:
You talking as if men don't intentionally get married to women just for the fun of sleeping with her and then kicking her out. Just accept it. The irresponsibility by men is what is breed this in our society. So a man should run away from his responsibility because a woman he has been mounting pressure on for sex finally opened her legs for him? Haba now? You saying women are the gate, gate go open if key no dey? Abi women det get belle by herself?

Wait. relax. read what i wrote carefully. I did not absolve irresponsible men of blame in this kind of situation.
- As a woman u be gatekeeper of sex, stop opening ur legs anyhow for who never marry you - at least that will reduce(I SAID REDUCE NOT ELIMINATE) the risk of father of child running away or abandonng his father duties.
- You will agree with me that a man that puts his wife in a family way is less likely to abandon to his responsibilities to his children compared to a man that gets a woman he isnt married to pregnant.
- I totally agree with you that the irresponsibility of men breeds this kind of issue in the society.
- However, here is what i am saying, in this kind of situation, i have very limited pity and compassion to give- and i will have to reserve it for unlucky ladies that got married to irresponsible men, i dont have enough to give to ladies that opened their legs for irresponsible men they are not married to

Watianoengineer:
Gradually freedom of expression is being strangulated because of desperation to migrate. I rather remain in Africa than subject myself to stupid scrutiny. America is not heaven

No- freedom of expression is not being strangulated? I dont want you in my house if you are always saying damaging things about me is just fair.
Meanwhile objective opinion will not stop anyone from getting US visa.

I love what US is doing, subtly arm-twisting(paradox) the world to start speaking positive about the United States.

Softmirror:
The real problem with our society is men who are not ready to become responsible. Look at that kid, what DNA is needed again?!

I believe you, I agree with you. But women who open their legs for men they are not married to are as useless as irresponsible men.
Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are gatekeepers of commitment. For women the rule should be get married to a man that is commited to you. But if you want to put the cart before the horse, ensure you have the means and resources(not just money) to give that child father and mother privilege- whether by marrying a simp that will be a step daddy or by honourably using your own dad as the father figure for the child. Just incase the person you decided to open your legs to turns out to be irresponsible.

this one na novice, e never know women. A Woman will use anything to fight a man. Even if they tell her this fight will mess her entire generation up, she will not listen, she just wants to fight the man, every other thing is secondary

Gender wey no care if the daughter they are raising grows up to become a bitter, angry, toxic woman - once the daughter will sha hate her father. Whatever becomes of the charater or personality of that daughter in the process is secondary to them.

Soludo always rubbishing anything that appears to be a pathway to igbo presidency - they will not attack him. But once they hear you have a Yoruba name like this, attack dun start.

He has sense.
Most women will rob you of your peace, you will also use your money to provide, she will nag you. She becomes your responsibility and you hardly have time for people that supported you to become successful. Some of them dont even want you to pamper your parents and siblings-The same people that will take care of you without complaining if you ever become sick and need support for daily living.
The idea of marriage(to modern Nigerian ladies especially) is increasingly becoming pointless for a successful man.

1. Chelsea
2. Any team playing against Arsenal
3. Any team playing against Manchester Utd

Make una dey run mouth until JP20 show starts on sunday

Love800:
Liverpool will be relaxed, because they won it last season.

Hungrier clubs that suppose to win this season is chelsea, arsenal and Manchester United.

Mancity... Pep don dey tire for the club gradually.

Also, who hungry no go carry money go buy Madueke

yinmu she talk pass this one with the fitness entrepreneur she left abi na the guy leave am sef
Toke own still better sha, at least she no release blue feem like aunty Tiwa

Congratulations to the three of you. When will you tattoo his own name on your body

DOnt celebrate her birthday till she gets to 100, lets check something

Oshey another avenue to release money for next elction campaign

This boy is the most insecure rich person you will ever see.

pocohantas:
If they ask you to bring one post where Toke said this and take 5m, will you be able to?
Bunch of pained humans!

This village Mgbeke dun come again. Pele o, TokeMakinwa FC

cococandy:
I love how y’all get hypertensive when the mirror is turned on you.
Cry me a river

Why would anyone get hypertensive that you are on a self-destruct mission. If anyone’s going to be hypertensive on the sad path you have chosen to tread, it’s probably the people who raised you, watching all they invested in you circle the drain.

Ebenezer2021:
[s]How are we sure she will survive at child birth after all the abortions wey she don do damaging her womb.
Las last na CS go settle am.
And there's a slim chance of surviving during childbirth at that age that's why we preach to these feminists, submit and get married to a man at early age but they won't hear.[/s]
Team single and independent boss lady my foot

Nah this does not make sense, sounds evil and bitter. You sound like the male version of that @Cococandy moniker

This gender ehn, na man be scum, man sperm no be scum.

cococandy:
Face the stupid advice your fellow men are giving here.
Maybe address them?

Most of your comment reads like someone auditioning for the role of ‘Most Unhappy Person Alive’ and believe me you're nailing it. So because you feel some people sound stupid, you also have to mirror their stupidity. Why would you let your emotional compass spin like a broken fan.
Cococandy don't let bitterness consume you. Give yourself a chance at finiding peace

cococandy:
That’s actually not true.

But yes men who cheat deserve to have their firstborns be fathered by the gateman 😎.

This is confirmation that bitterness and logic can't live in the same brain

cococandy:
They need each other.
This is actually what for better for worse means.
Not when the man is cheating or beating her then yall will remember they took an oath.

That oath is for times like this when they face challenges that they couldn’t have predicted or prevented

True, marital vow is for times when unforseen challenges arise
However infertility testing before marriage for both partners could have revealed some of these things.
Maybe the money spent on wedding could have served better purpose in getting her medical help.

TheGift:
Not your wife's infertility, but your minds instability is causing your mental health issues.

If it was not her "infertility" it would be something else. Focus on fixing your the "infertility" of your mind before blaming your wife for what is going on inside you.

I dont understand. Medical tests revealed the wife has issues, medical tests revealed that he is ok.
But he should focus on his mind, it is his mind that is stopping him and his wife from conceiving - how do you people come up with these ideas

G0odharddick:
That money is more than enough for him to use and get a second wife and have children in peace.

Nigerian girls dun use their bad charcater turn Nigerian guys to wicked boys, no mercy again

KobeMan:
W

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

I read this and I feel so so sorry for you. I can only imagine what you are going through right now. Your biggest challenge right now appears to be insufficient finances to get your wife to go through proper medical procedure. I dont even know how to advice you but I sincerely wish you strength and favour as you try to find solution. Hopefully your wife is a good human being- try to support her as much as you can.

oz4real83:
Unfortunately, this is one of such situations I don't want to be called 'a real man'. Even if I cheat, if she cheats back, she goes

na real man you be!!!
i dont have to catch her cheat sef, if she decides to be ignorant and starts to innocently play around what can lead to cheating, i dun dey plan her exit