₦airaland Forum

ghettowriter:
They should all pool there resources behind Peter Obi if they mean well for Nigerians.

The real problem is that the Northern voters only listen to one or a combination of the following things - you are either a Northerner, or you are incumbent, or your religion is Islam..... Sadly they have the numbers and that is very very important.

To make matters worse, almost the entire Southern governors are on Tinubus side, including 3 governors out of 5 South East governors] (Alex Otti(organic Tinubu person), Imo and Anambra(the one that doesnt want another igbo hero apart from himself) [/b

[b]5 out of 6 governors from the SS are with Tinubu as at today(Edo, Akwa Ibom, Cross River, Delta, Rivers) the only one that is not with Tinubu(at least for now) is the one with the lowest number of voters(173k) in the last election. It is almost a complete takeover in the south.
That is where Obis problem is right now, his voter base has been invaded. Ofcourse he can still win in those states, but with those governors being with the president, it is going to be very very close.

Osun governor meeting with Tinubu with his brother- i am sure u know a deal is in place, As long as Tinubu is on the ballot Oyo governor is decoy opposition, the remaining 4 are APC states-ApC will not let what happened in Lagos happen again(whether by hijacking o, killing o, beating o, writing the result o) - they are that desperate
Fubara meeting with Tinubu behind closed doors, I am sure you know he is receiving template on what to do-he doesnt even need to decamp. He will just be told to watch Wike handle the election in the background. I even suspect he has already signed his resignation letters, and who will be State Chief Judge going forward has been given to him

So all these "I be KC boy" na fraud sef
CMS, Igbobi and Baptist Girls own no surprise me - those great schools dun fall off sinceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
All these children na yahoo yahoo and content dem dey create now, dem no dey read again.

Alumni of these great schools are also part of the enablers, a lot of them very well placed in the corporate and business world will rather employ a girl with bumbum and Breast with empty brains while ignoring the brilliant ones wey no dey sexually attractive. They have become MDs and directors in big multinationals and they are signing off tens and hundreds of millions ambassadorship for Big brother naija and nollywood prostitutes, while ignoring the applicants that will come in and do a great job giving you organic growth. How will the children in school be motivated to study.
Some of these parents are the ones looking for miracle center for their own children.

The set of parents to this current generation of secondary students, na them worst pass, they are just raising boys and girls that are big liabilities to the society. No useful parenting, the only thing they do for those children is buy them pizza(that some of them cannot even afford based on their income), take them to see movies, buy iphone and play station and expensive clothes and shoes for those children but not books(meanwhile book cheap pass cloth)
Content creation, yahoo yahoo,iPhone, how much a man can give them,Benz, wigs, vacation, these are the only things that motivate both children and parents

APC loading, una go hear am. We keep telling you, nothing like APC vs PDP or North vs South or Igbo vs Yoruba

it is Political class vs Others, know this and act accordingly

Karlman:
Ok
But what was the hundred mili dols used for?
...my friend wants to know.

infrastructure, security and patches, personnel cost, content acquisition and production, licensing, rights, data center cost/cloud computing & storage, software engineering, marketing & advertising, Research & development..many more

nothing must happen to Nasboi o, one of the most talented persons out there

even if you are useless, dont give up, you can still flourish, see where olosho beahaviour dun carry this one reach now.
the way she is celebrating it, Feels like a big achievement to her, so I am happy for her that she is finding fulfillment(that is the most important thing in life)

I dont pray and hope that this is the kind of stuff that will make my own daughter fulfilled sha

Freshtruth:
Greed

So what amount will you not see as greed, 1m or 2m or 5m or 6m....when e reach ur turn and ur sun dey rise, put ur value for floor.

yes it is not too much...make dem price the market give am 7m or 7.5m

Anthony Oluwafemi Olaseni Joshua, please now, na beg i dey beg u......end this misery now, Let God use you.

i see some resemblance

DrFunmisticGlow:
I will ask that if heaven forbid you fell into difficult times financially? Will you allow your wife to bear the burden of going out to provide for the family and still come home tired to cook, clean, chase after children and still have sex with you? Or would you help her by relieving her burden a little?

2. Do you think that the men with common sense outnumber the men without, you have male friends. Can you say that not one out of all of them have treated a woman in a way that you wouldn't like your loved ones to be treated? It is unfortunate that women live in a world, in a country where the streets are not safe for her to walk without harassment in broad daylight or night time. You saying that I should look for a man with common sense. What are my odds? How confident are you in your gender? Bad men are rampant in this country because good men like you who claim to be one remain silent but can open their mouth when a woman weaker than them is involved. It is not about finding a man with common sense but with good values and character who will not fail in integrity and make choices that hurt his loved ones because he can do so without consequences. That is the hard part. Such men are rare.

The best way to raise a daughter to receive and give love is for her parents to be in love so that she can know what it looks like and not settle for less than that. How many marriages today can boast of that?


May God help us all. Both men and women. Both genders have hurt, envy, hatred and love towards each other and will keep hurting each other and transferring the hurt to future generations. Hopefully our fate will not be like that of the west.

Amen

CyberWolf:
That’s why clubs shouldn’t build their team around a player. With funds, there are decent players out there with low cost that will give you what you want. Just get a good and humble coach and be ready to spend the money when it’s necessary.

I agree with you

does this coconut head know that school is expensive but there are jobs

DrFunmisticGlow:
if the woman has to start picking up a previous responsibilities for her man then yes temporarily, she is the de-facto head. She will have to make decisions with the family's best interest in mind while still respecting her husband. But to have him lord over her? Why? She is doing the work of two people to sustain the family, should she now add her husband's whims to her list of worries?

2. The same way men will be very quick to lose interest in a woman who is no longer beautiful, sexually attractive, or becomes barren, or sick? Why can't they take the same medicine they dish out?

3. Raise your daughter how? I hope you know that finances is one of the main reasons marriages scatter. Teach your daughter not to plan her future around a stranger's son because of the hormonal imbalance people call romance. Teach her that should someone mistreat her, she can run to her father for refuge and protection instead of bearing the pain in fear until her next news will be an obituary headline on a newspaper. Teach her that she must plan her future financially for her and her children, if she marries a good man, that is a bonus. That the covenant of life will always be stronger than marriage. That she should learn to set boundaries and not tolerate insidious disrespectful behavior. Las Las, no matter what happens, she will be alright.

1. We are talking about head of the family. Your opinion is that whoever holds the lever of finances is the head of the family. One of the ideas that feminism and equality is fighting is the same idea you are projecting- because we are now talking about a woman having the financial superiority in this case. Headship is not defined by money, stop being excessively money-minded, if actions and responsibilities and roles are are given based on financial capacity- then it is no longer a marriage, it is now a transaction, a business arrangement, a mercenary union. Anybody with this mindset(man or woman) is a liability to the marriage- no capacity to give genuine love- money will always change the dynamics in that marriage
A partner submits does not mean the partner is lording over her. It is important that you marry a kind partner and one that you have confidence in his ability to lead and provide direction. For some of us with parents and their friends now in their 70s and above, we witnessed submission of wives, and husbands giving power back to the wives and those wives excelling in their endeavour- even reaching a higher zenith than their husbands(with the support of the husbands ofcourse). Understand that your experience is your experience- not that of everyone else. And Stop trying to use the phrase "lord over her" to justify your idea.

2. Well our own fathers and uncles and brothers did not lose interest in their wives when they became less beautiful. The husbands of our sisters too, (after decades in marriage) have not lost interest in them as they are getting old. Our sisters are submissive and they are progressing with their careers and businesses. Why not take your time, find a man with common sense, instead of assuming majority of men will lose interest in their woman as she ages. Leading you to preparing a wicked aggressive strategy that will only affect your ability to give genuine love and receive same


3. Thank you for the advice on how to raise my daughters to be confident and high level of self-esteem. But while you are raising yours, also ensure you are raising a balanced female with ability to give love and receive same.

DrFunmisticGlow:
they are looking for submissive provider. May those kind of men aviod me and my loved ones.

Submissive provider kwa! In this economy, where power and influence is blind to gender. If the woman is the provider, then she is head of the household, yes she should respect you, but to submit?

I laugh in Mami wata.

So you expect your daughter, your sister to be a submissive provider for somebody else's son?

1. So if the husband suddenly loses his income or have downturn in business, he stops being the head of the household. If illness suddenly prevents him from being the one that brings the bigger income, he stops being the head. And what happens when things pick up again for him, he becomes the head again.
Is there anything the female gender cannot make money-dependent.
He stops being the head becaue u now make more money than him yet you respect him.

2. I'm not raising my daughter to condition her existence or assumption of responsibility on availability or scarcity of money or resources. If she decides to derail, then it will be her cross to carry. At least me too I deviated from some teachings by elders and when it was time to dance to the music, I carried my cross.

Demola on his way to APC. He ill cave as he doesn't have the financial warchest of Rivers

Lucky

[quote author= post=135571481]You Will Not Kpai, Before Your Time, Say Amen[/quote]No one kpais before their time, people kpai at their appointed time(whether young or old). Lfe is almost a script

It's no longer enough that you were with him when he was drinking garri, men dun wise up now, when he was drinking garri did u give him peace. Did you contribute to the garri.

Men have totally flipped the script. As a woman you have to come correct now. Young guys are now looking for submissive provider, nobody come this world come labour just because he was created with a penis. Men dun scarce now, so as a woman you now have to bring so so so much to the table and still submit. The basic requirement is not enough anymore, you have to dp so much more. Otherwise just go and freeze your eggs until your simp shows up.

All the Nigerian girls that say 10 and above years age difference is a pedophilia, will not like this.
Most of them are 30years minimum and they will jump at a man that is 20years older than them, if e come their way

ebubeson:
Its been years I put on radio FM to hear. Do many people still put it on to hear?

Yes I put it on everyday

Radio is life

Nodogragra4me:
For something that majority of the holders didn't do jack with?

Opl ,in a marginal field ....not oml


And you borrow billions and drill and not find commercially viable quantities..what do you


Some of them have gone there with improved technology, done soil test and come to the conclusion that it is not worth it

Alakija got opl in a marginal in 1993, na several years later e turn magic. It was a worse than a marginal field, IOCs did not want it.
In 2025, Business men will drop any kind of kickback or gift to either retain the marginal fields or have it reallocated to them. In 2025 people buying marginal fields are not the alakija's of 1993, they are wealthy billionaires and millionaires in dollars who do not mind taking a chance, even if it is the generation after them or beyond that will benefit it.

tinubu's cash out period is here

BENEAMATA:
All thanks to them for making today possible . By knocking Chelsea off the Europa league spot last season,
They thought they were selling the Blues to conference league ' slavery ' like the brothers of the Biblical Joseph did to him , but here we are today just over a year later , greatness chelsea initially did not aim for fell on their laps and they latched on to it . The only European club to make a clean sweep of all UEFA major competitions.

Sent us to Conference league, gave us sancho, took Mount from us for 55m..their younger brother-arsenal took sterling on laon to free up space for useful players... ManU steady assisting chelsea to glory

maybe the legend dey price her market

The point Governor ENo of Akwa Ibom state delivered is what will finally bury PDP and the opposition as a whole.
People call it silly excuse, but it is what will keep reverberating in the head of every politician in Nigeria- especially 99% of politicians not in APC.
It is the reason almost ALL of them will decamp to APC.

If u submit all ur paperwork and u win ur election landslide, only for the courts to come later to say your form was signed by the wrong person, so u were an ineligible contestatnt in the first place, the party that is second takes ur position. u go come explain tire-no evidence.

SO essentially we can say the selfishness of Atiku and the hooliganism and dishonourable nature of Wike finally KILLED and BURIED PDP.

politicians aligning based on personal interests
followers, especially the ones on nairaland and twitter aligning based on tribe, na-my-brother

YOu have spent 30years of your life, taking care of her, most likely supporting her growth, sacrificing some of your cravings to make her happy, I dont know which is worse, that YOu have technically simped for 30 years, OR that u now want your sacrifice of 30 years to fly away. If you endured for 30 years already, kuku endure till God calls you home. This is what happens when you are not decisive protecting your peace.