₦airaland Forum

JobAndVacancies:
they're pronouncing it the English way not knowing it's a french term

janeedema:
Fristly, Chioma Chukwuka is single—separated or divorced. Secondly, what gives you the impression that a single mum cannot advise anyone if she is genuinely happy living her purpose?
In that case they can get their advice from others-not chioma. In my opinion, a single mum may be in the position to advice on how to escape abusive marriage(if hers was abusive), but if the advice you are looking for is to balance marriage and career-common, u sef think am now

There are people that will get both right but there also some whom giving up their career would live to eternal regrets. No marriage can wipe that feeing in old age of not living your dream.
I am glad you said some. There are also some(documented), who are now saying, if they have to do it again, they would trade a big part of their flourishing career to make marriage work

Her advice is for those in a cross road— not to choose one over the other. Those who give up their dream always live to regret it.
Most of the others I mentioned have said that they were at crossroads too, and some of them talked about sacrifices made here and there(by both parties), and all of them are still acting till today. And yes, no one should give up their dreams

And her advice is to have fulfillment, to for someone who respects what you do.

But if push comes to shove, choose your happiness. Cause regret is also detrimental.
Surely, choose your happiness.

So why bash her if she is happy with her choices?
I did not bash her, she is a single mother of 2(fact), and if i am looking for ways to navigate the challenge of career-marriage balance, i will take advice from someone who faced same challenge but still acting, still married. If your call is to create a balance and manage both career and bmarriage successfully, you take advice from people who are managing both successfully

Lastly, if someone truly meets her mate, you won’t have to choose between him and her career. He would instead make it a duty to make her happy knowing she finds fulfillment in her career. And according to her, you will always see the signs of a man who won’t be supportive of what you do.
I agree with this too

meobizy:
The article talks about how people enter marriages with set standards only to change later and try to effect changes. Humans change with time, most times for the worst. Nobody marries bad partners, they became bad with time.

ACRI:
Wrong advisor

This gen z are in soup with the kind of advises flying up around them

Rugal:
But the same men like to watch those kind of scenes. Hypocrites!

meobizy:
Marriage is always going to hold somebody back. We were raised to be independent. All of a sudden, we're forced to depend on another while trying to chase our dreams. Ko le werk. I will achieve my dreams first before giving this marriage thing a go.

Finestbae1:
For some reasons,,, this remi guy is not worthy of that woman… women de marry anything shaa

Elock1:
E no hard to identify people way no get vision.
So them no dey break record for England or people way dey play for England no be human being like am?

Chelsea's biggest issue with osimhen is his wages

75 millions for signing is high enough
Not to talk of over 10m salary annually

Although he seems injury prone and one dimensional, nevertheless he is efficient, physical, defensive and aggressive in front of goal

So the gamble is now on Chelsea
Wish to see him in England though

DMerciful:
So who do you think should be there?

DMerciful:
All the coalition needs to do is throw up this ticket and it's game over for Tinubu

iamL:
You have said all there is to say. I am even surprised Benin republic students hasn't overtaken Nigeria students in waec.

Irony1:
Oga stop this use of grammar. You are gaslighting me simple and short.

Irony1:
You are also one of the people that attack others, stop gaslighting people here.

blowjohn:
After tailors, fear politicians

festacman:
Looking obvious that President Tinubu had since formed an alliance with Gov. Soludo/APGA as evident by his deliberate overlooking of Anambra State APC to appoint Bianca Ojukwu, Mark Okoye jnr, etc of APGA into key governmental positions.

By implication, Gov. Soludo is hoping, believing and trusting that by this alliance, APC will not rig him out in next Anambra State governorship election.

Perhaps, it is most likely that Tinubu also believes that an incumbent governor Soludo will guarantee 25% in 2027 than an imposed APC governor.

We keep watching.