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SultanOfPuna:
I have lived alone in apartment from 2019 to 2023
Due to financial struggles i relocated to my parents house 2023 since then i'm still with them good decision

Now its 2 years and i have gotten financially stable and solid.
I want to leave but my parents are old and they want me to be around them at this stage of their life. as long as living with them is not limiting you from making moves towards economic and financial empowerment, nothing wrong in still staying with them, no kill urself with pressure.


My parents are really old
My siblings are all married except me. My siblings are in different states far away from my parents.
I'm the only one closer to them

I'm the one taking care of the house and making sure things are in order.
But deep down i want to leave the house and go create my own family. why do you want to go create your own family when you it appears you dont have the means. have u not seen people that started creating their own family at the age of 25 and by the time they are 35, they have lost the family. You should only be creating a family if you have the means to raise the family you want to create

If i leave them and move out i fear that things will be out of order and disorganised due to old age.
Unfortunately no younger sibling to help look after them. once again if moving out is not increasing your chances of making money, why do you then want to move out

What should i do? whatever makes you happy and gives you peace

Samantha125:
What will money do for you at old age? Because chances are you'll still be alone and lonely with your money while your children and grandchildren will be too busy with their own lives to make time for you.

They'll be just waiting to hear news of your demise so that they can benefit from your life insurance and inherit your assets.

AllBlack:
Why una dey like this? 😁🤣

bayplus:
Aregbeshola is now in opposition talking about good governance.

, Even Obasanjo is still talking about what Nigeria need to do right.. True federalism etc. After being military and civilian head of stare., Obasanjo now want more powers for the states. All the good ideas to move Nigeria forward is now bustling in his brain.

Very soon, Mele Kyari will write an article in the major news papers on how NNPC can be like ARAMCO of Saudi Arabia.

Nigeria is a country full of deceitful leaders. Tinubu criticized every borrowing from PDP govt, now he alone wants to borrow about $24billion dollars at once, this year.

That is why I am worried President Obi may not be different. His years as a state governor doesn't show he is different from the rest of political class. For Campaign purposes, he is telling us we should move from Consumption to production, yet he is a major importer of different goods in Nigeria. Which means he is practicing opposite of what he is preaching just to deceive the gullibles.
I assess people on their past actions not what they say. Action speaks louder than voice or rhetoric.

yarimo:
It's very unfortunate EFCC apply mercy on you

Codes151:
Have they finished the budget?

otipoju:
I agree. My primary concern was/is the correct choice of word and not the tense of the word.

You are right for taking it one step further.
Plural Subject must go with a plural verb...according to the laws of concord.

Omolgbala:
Nigerians never seizes to amaze me

Fekumzi123:
PDP betrayed him first.
Tambuwa and Atiku. He's only fighting back

moatacad:
@Obaidan,

What do you mean by unrealistic?
Are you saying that all of the persons mentioned there aren't real?
Do not discourage people from pursuing their dreams in life. People like you were the skeptics when alumni like Mariam, who works in a senior role with Sourcegraph (headquartered in Silicon Valley, USA), came to the bootcamp. If Mariam had listened to individuals like you, she would not be where she is today; last year, she was named a global Tech hero!