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obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]I was raped repeatedly by older women when I was 14, this ordeal took a toll on my confidence, self esteem and whatnot.. I sustained a big injury on the left side of my shaft which made my dick useless for a year and 3 months.


I didn't report this to anybody because I felt only girls have to report to the authorities or parents when raped.. Moreover, I'd feel more embarrassed telling anyone. I lived with a broken mind for years and nobody knew!

Men all around the world are being raped, women just love the publicity.[/color]

I agree with your submission bro! Did you by any way give the older women the green light or you were seduced by them?

glimpse33:
Its Actually A Thing Of Joy For Most Guys

Even for a 4 year old boy?

DonUjay:
.Report to My Parents? I was a matured Guy when this Happened. I was 23

oh! I see.

It beats my imagination, because I can't phantom what they enjoy in an immature innocent ROD






Ladies, make una come confess o how una take collect the innocence of that small boy.

DonUjay:
I was sexually assaulted by a Lady who was 10 Years Older

although I didn't want to Have sex, was it my Fault that I sucked her N*pples and made her feel Horney? Only for her to pin me down.and Give me the Best Fork of my Life

Hmmm!!! I guess you didn't report the case to your parent because you enjoyed it, right?

If I am not mistaking, more than 95% of sexual assault cases we have today were filed by ladies. I am of the opinion that equal numbers of men have been sexually abused without been reported.
I discussed with a few of my male colleagues and about 80% of them have been sexually assaulted when they were younger.
The reason why I am opening this thread is to take the census of men who have been assaulted by older women. The guys in the house who were abused by an older lady should let us know and also state their age and the lady's age as at the time.
Ladies who have sexually abused younger boys should also tell us about it stating the age and the guy's age as at then.
Let me open the floor. I was sexually abused by a lady 2 years my senior when I was 17 years of age. She was 19 as at then.
Let's see this as a research! God bless you all.

Pastor Mike Bamiloye's Tribute to his wife
"MY DEAREST SINGLE SISTERS"
(Tribute to My Wife - Sister Gloria Bamiloye)

Proverbs 31:10-12, 23, 28, 30 NKJV
[10] Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies.
[11] The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain.
[12] She does him good and not evil All the days of her life.

[23] Her husband is known in the gates, When he sits among the elders of the land.

[28] Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her:
[30] Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.


Yesterday, February 4th, 2015, was my wife's 51st Birthday. And this year would be the 27years since 1988 the year we got married, when she was only 24 years old and I was 28. Since then, we have travelled through the thicks and the thins together, we have climbed the mountains and descended into the valleys together. We have faced adverse physical and spiritual situations together. We have both confronted together, daunting challenges that have stood and those that are still standing against our lives and ministry.

Yesterday, she was 51 and she got phone calls and congratulatory text messages on phone and on Facebook page through out yesterday till late in the night. Our two sons brought her gift - two digitally painted pictures of her early years on film set. And I also bought her a small teddy bear. The several phone calls and congratulatory messages of the birthday made us feel a large crowd of well-wishers had attended our birthday party. Thank you all.


But what is special about this great woman is when I remember how we started and how we have been journeying this journey since then. And when I recall some of the things that happen today among our single and marriagable sisters, I can not but give praises to the Lord God who brought this simple and humble sister my way several years ago.


I have written this story in some of my write-ups and in one of my books, however, there is need to recall some of it for the benefit of some of our single sisters who might need to learn from it. I graduated from higher institution in 1983 and served in 1983/84. Right from the Campus days, I had been involved in drama ministry, all through my Youth Service, I was sending drama scripts back into the fellowship for drama presentations and I would travel down from Plateau State to direct the rehearsals and participate in the major drama presentation on Drama Night.

After my Youth Service in 1984, I was involved fully in campus drama evangelism with the fellowship drama group, travelling to other campuses and churches outside the campus for drama presentation. And Sister Gloria was among the new members that joined the drama group.


In 1985, sometimes in early July, I proposed to her to marry me and she told me she would pray over it. On August 4th, 1985, she revisited my proposal and said "Yes" to it. So, our journey began. Now, the real issue was that, I had nothing. I had nothing physical or material that any lady could be proud of. I had only one single room, with one bed, one table and chair, a standing hanger where I hanged my few fading shirts and only one suit which I used to iron from time to time and red tie from special occassion. Inside the single room was my cooking stove and a dilapidated standing fan, which had lost its foot and the head was tied facing the bed. And of course, a precious item - my bookshelf serving as a small library.


So, when Sister Gloria visited my abode for the first time, these were all I had and she saw. My physical and material possessions could never be compared to what I was on the campus. "Bro Mike" was famous among the fellowship as a "gym-gym" brother full of zeal for drama and drama only. And the drama group of the fellowship became the most influential of all the sub-groups of the fellowship, because almost all the executive officers became members of the sub-group, including the President and the Vice-President and the General Secretary of the Christian Fellowship. So I was so rich in spiritual substance and full of great visons, but had no enviable physical or material possessions any young lady could be proud of.


But, when Sis Gloria entered my room, one afternoon, she never saw all those things I mentioned but only one thing arrested her attention: my bookshelf containing several spiritual books, including the books of Kenneth Hagins, Oral Roberts, T.L. Osborne, Osward J. Smith, etc. She hasten to the shelf and shouted "Whao!", and she sat by the bookshelf and began to look at those precious books she had longed to have and read. Ah!. I was happy I had what she wanted and desired. She wanted spiritual books that would make her grow. And I had just that! All other things never mattered to her.

I had nothing physical, but I had a great vision of the future and she embraced that vision with all her heart and might. When her senior brothers and her parents were demanding from her to know the work that her fiancee was doing that could qualify him to marry her, she stood on my behalf to defend me before her people that I was into drama ministry and there was a great future ahead of us. He people could not see what she was talking about, because I was already on full-time drama ministry and I had no physical enviable thing they all could hold on to. They were furious with her and thought she must be out of her mind to have decided to marry "a man who has no job and no physical possession and no appreciable future". When we informed them we wanted to get married three years down our courtship, they revolted and my Mummy ( my elder sister), led the war to Sis Gloria's parents to warn them never to give their daughter to me in marriage because I had no job to take care of their daughter. She stood by what God had told her about me, that there was a great future ahead of us.

The Lord convinced them all and they supported us and we married in 1988, three years after the Mount Zion ministry launched. And our journey to that future began.


AND 27 YEARS AFTER, WE ARE STILL ON THE JOURNEY TO THE FUTURE.
WE HAVE NOT YET ARRIVED THERE, BUT OUR STORY HAS BEEN GETTING BETTER
THAN WHEN WE BEGAN THIS JOURNEY TOGETHER.

Now, to my Dearest Single Sisters, a lot of us are missing it today. A lot of us have been seriously deceived and misled by erronenous marriage teachings and lectures of confused marriage counsellors and teachers. A woman was once invited to one of our sisters' conference, invited to come and minister to our single sisters. She mounted the pulpit and shocked us by saying, no sisters should marry any brother who is not materially capable of being a husband. She said she also counselled her daughters to be gather as many materials as possible before getting married; that her daughters must go into mariage with enough self-sufficiency. She ought to have got a lot of things like fridge, electronic gadgets, dinning sets and other things that could make her stand tall as a self-sufficient lady. I told my wife, that the woman would never be invited to any of our conferences again. Her teaching was confusing.

I heard some marriage teachers taught their single sisters to check the Bank Account statement of the man who come proposing to them before they consider their proposals. If the Bank Account is very lean, then, they need not bother themselves considering the proposals. Some sisters would go and pay visit to the houses and apartments of the men who proposed to them, before they could begin to consider their proposals.

A young brother who had waited for almost a year before the sister finally said "Yes", later came back to me after almost one year of courtship, to tell me that the lady suddenly began to ask some strange questions about his projections for the future and what he hopes to achieve and possess in a year's time and what he hopes to acquire in two years' time; the amount he hope to have saved for the wedding in two years. And when he told the sister that he was not sure of the amount he could save for the wedding neither does he have any future projection, but he is a minister of God and she could see all the works he has been doing for the Lord and he knows the Lord has a great future for him as he keeps serving Him. This made the sister began to reconsider the relationship. Then, she said later, that she didn't think they were compatible, because she thought he had no future plans.

Meanwhile, such sister would readily believe a lie. If the brother had began to blow an invisible trumpet of himself and began to paint an unrealistic picture of his future for this same sister, she would have believed everything. If the brother had said something like "making a saving that would enable him acquire a jeep in a month to their wedding; and how he would tender a business proposal before an oil company or come up with a business idea that could fetch him some millions, which would afford him an opportunity of purchasing a duplex apartment in Lekki part of Lagos, the sister would readily believe that he had a future plan. She would take him for a very serious-minded marriagable brother.

We have come to a strange generation where lies sell heavily than the truth. We are now in a season when our young sisters believe a man by what they see of him physically or how sweetly he could run his mouth by saying big and boastful plans and not by what they spiritually perceive of him. This is a season when, it is the way you package yourself that many sisters take you, even if the fine shirts and suits with shoes were borrowed to be returned later.
MANY, NOT ALL. MANY OF OUR SISTERS LOVE TO BELEIVE IN LIES TODAY.

Some sisters' choice of who to marry would depend on where the man is working: Bank?, Oil and Gas? Real Estate? Insurance? Constructions? And some sisters' readiness to consider a proposal rests on the family status of the man who proposed: is the family rich and wealthy? Are they based in US or Canada or Germany or Asian nations? Famous and Influential?

Today, a lot of brothers love to live on lies and falsehood, because this is what many sisters want. I once read on the Whatsap page of a young brother in Christ whom I happened to know. He wrote under his name, CEO of a Motivational and Purpose Group company and under this are about two or three website of his Motivational Purpose company. In one of his write-ups, I read where he said: One day, as I was coming from my office, I saw....." When I read that, I wondered which office he was talking about, because, I knew him to be working as a shop attendant or sales man in a shop. I look at the picture he posted in his profile, he dressed up like a Director of a corporate organisation, but he is a sales boy working in a shop. These are the type of lies many of our sisters love to hear before they could consider a proposal.

What does the Bible say about responding to marriage proposals:

Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV
[5] Trust in the LORD with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
[6] In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths.

A christian lady who would have a great future and pleasant home would commit her ways, the proposals into the Lord's hand. I THINK THIS IS THE ACTUAL SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM: MANY SISTERS CAN'T WAIT BEFORE THE LORD TO KNOW THE MIND OF GOD CONCERNING WHO TO MARRY AGAIN.
MANY SISTERS ARE GUIDED INTO MAKING THEIR MARITAL CHOICES BASED ON THE PHYSICAL APPEARANCE OR MATERIAL OR FINANCIAL POSSESSIONS OF THE MAN, AND NOT ON THE LEADING AND CONVICTIONS OF THE LORD THEIR GOD.

If Sis Gloria were to consider my physical, material and financial possessions when I proposed to her, I would have been outrightly disqualified, because I had nothing but the burning visions to evangelise the world through Drama ministry. And if She were to consider my proposal based on my future plans or projections, she would never have considered me, because, I had no financial, material or physical future plan or projections at that time, but was only armed with evangelistic visions of the work of God.

And what are the unpleasant results of all these fake future plans and projections: because no life is secure except the ones hidden in Christ and entrusted in His care. Many of these future plans and projections flopped and they are castles built with sea-sand on a sea-shore, they crumbled fast when the foundation is not laid on the leading of Christ and the home is set on fake foundations and false projections. The banking industry is not what it used to be. The oil and gas industry is no longer like before. Considerations of your response to a proposal should never be based on anything physical or materials, but Godly leading and convictions after a lot of heart-searching prayers and humble waiting upon the Lord to know His heart on the man who proposed.

ONLY THE LORD GOD KNOWS THE FUTURE. THE BROTHER WORKING IN A BANK OR OCUPPYING A MANAGERIAL SEAT TODAY MAY BE DEMOTED BY CIRCUMSTANCES AND NEGATIVE SITUATIONS TOMORROW.
AND THE MAN WHO HAS NOTHING NOW MAY BE ON HIS WAY TO THE TOP VERY SOON.

So, physical or material status should never be paramount in considering marraige proposals, but the voice of the Lord who knows tomorrow. If you desire a peaceful home and fruitful marriage that will afford you the opportunity to be ministerially fulfilled, don't let any physical, material or financial things give you your husband, let the spirit of the Lord lead and convince you of who to marry.

You are blessed,
MIKE BAMILOYE

Onegai:
It's a very poor meal, as it has very little nutritional value. Almost everything there is processed and low in all the good stuff a child needs for healthy development. One of the sugary snacks should be exchanged for a fruit or a fruit pudding. The noodles has nothing to offer unless one adds vegetables and shredded chicken/beef/fish to it. The sweetened yoghurt should be exchanged for unsweetened (add fruit to it as well). And a flask of water.

I envy your children o. It shows you will pay much attention to their nutrition.

These Alsatian puppies are for sale... They go for 50k each.

Saheed9:
I hope wailers won't mention buhari again

Is he not the COMMANDER IN CHIEF OF THE ARMED FORCES? Why won't his name be mentioned?

Naija new media no go carry this one o. Dem dey fear make BUBU no come after them

Juxtified:
There should be an automated IQ test for everyone who intends to open a thread online

Or rather , there should be an automated IQ test for any one who wants to comment on a thread that is he is not obliged to comment on.

I just want to ask peeps in the house; is it proper to bring these much variety of snacks and food to school as lunch?

tunwumi:
Seun it is highly recommend that u look into this and say something. I believe u are a good listener and u do take wise counsel. You can pm me I want to say some other things.

I am optimistic he will too cause we Yorubas are good listeners.

kay29000:
This is really interesting. I didn't know TB Joshua was really this popular.

Search for TB Joshua on YOUTUBE.. You will be amazed by the hundreds of thousands of videos you will see of him.

He has to let go of the past and forge ahead. For now let him forgive his wife and give her the last warning.

prettythicksme:
like if dey want us to feel good wen giving head,dey should attack d clitoriss most of dem dont knw this!

Wow! You just schooled me...

cruzita:
this op dey craze ooo why u go post olosho totori here

Close your eyes na.

SAVE THE VAGINA NOW!!!

To maintain a healthy vagina you must know what to do to avoid infection and it is equally important to educate your sexual partner on some of them to also help you help the vagina.

Here are some few things you can do or avoid.

1. Fingering
During pre-intimacy or romance, as part of it some people insert their finger or fingers into the vagina. The question is, how many people wash their hands before sexual intercourse? Some people do not even keep their nails clean so it gathers a lot of germs and during the fingering, these germs are deposited in the vagina...leading to infection. Same thing apply to autopleasure acts or masturbation.

2. Anal sex
I am not here to tell anybody to have anal sex or not to but I simply want to draw the attention of those who engage in anal sex with the opposite sex that it is dangerous to have anal sex and continue having penovaginal sex. If this is done, the penis will pick bacteria from the anus and deliver them to the vagina even if you are using a condom....which will lead to infection.

3. Quest to make the vagina TIGHT
Some guys complain bitterly about the vagina of their sexual partners. They complain that it's too big and they no more feel any sensation during intercourse. Some ladies are therefore pushed to find a quick solution and in the process some use herbs or other substances in the vagina with the hope of making the vagina tight. Some of the substances cause infection or sepsis. Some of the herbs can cause the vagina to get tighter to the extent that penetration is no more possible. This will require treatment.

4. Douching
Some parents, when bathing for their baby girls put warm water in a milk tin or dip a towel in the warm water and pour the water through a hole made beneath the tin or squeeze the water out of the towel into the vagina of the baby. This is sooooo WRONG as it can damage the hymen.
Some parents also insert ginger or pepper or both into the vagina of adolescents as a form of punishment. This is sooooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

Some people are use to bathing by adding dettol or other detergents to the water and they put this solution inside the vagina with the help of sponge or towel or just the hand with soap to clean the vagina. This is soooo WRONG as it will change the normal flora in the vagina, leading to infection.

5. Use of water closet
Some people have the habit of not sitting on the seat of the WC when using it so they end up urinating on the seat. The possibility of picking infection when using it in that condition is high. Don't let your pant be at the thigh level when using the WC especially the public ones as the inner of the pant may rub the surface of the WC. Where the water is not running and people have used but have not flushed and you don't have any choice but to also use it, use enough toilet roll to cover before using the WC to avoid any splashes on the vulva.

6. Washing and drying
Develop the habit of disinfecting your panties frequently...depending on the number of pants you have. Keep exclusive panties to wear whenever you are menstruating and don't mix those panties with your regular panties. Pay particular attention to those panties when washing. Ensure that the panties are made of cotton and are dried in the sun or well ironed to kill germs.

7. Change sanitary pads
Some people try to economize the use of their sanitary pads so during the period they tend to still wear the pad because there is little or no blood. This is soooo WRONG as it can lead to infection.

NB: If there is any bad scent from the vagina or there is a discharge coming from the vagina then it might be an infection which you have to have it treated.

Help save the vagina by ensuring that you get the message to as many friends as possible. Help save the vagina by getting the message to your sexual partner or sisters. Let us all join hand in saving the vagina.

Source: Facebook.com

On new year eve, One of Nigeria's foremost prophet TB Joshua gave the first part of prophecies which he said will be divided into four parts. Below is the 2nd part which he gave on the 3rd of January 2016 during a live Sunday service.
Source: https://tbjfansuk./2016/01/04/minority-party-will-be-lifted-up-in-nigeria/


After an eight month absence, Nigerian ‘Prophet’ T.B. Joshua returned to his Lagos-based church, The Synagogue, Church Of All Nations (SCOAN), on Sunday 3rd January 2016 with more prophetic revelations concerning Africa.Speaking on the Nigerian political scene, Joshua declared that a minority party would soon rise to significance.



‘One of the minority parties will be lifted up and reckoned with,’ he told congregants. ‘Let us pray for God’s love and unity in Nigeria.’It would be recalled that Joshua allegedly predicted the rise of the current ruling party, All Progressives Congress (APC), in 2010.Joshua further called for prayers for Nigeria’s new Agriculture Minister, Audu Ogbeh.

‘We have to pray for God to sustain him because much is expected from him,’ Joshua declared, alluding to his earlier advice for the government to invest heavily in the agricultural sector.The cleric also ‘prophesied’ extensively concerning Southern Africa and the challenges the region would face in 2016, particularly the farming industry.’There will be little rain at the wrong time, which is not good for farming,’ Joshua warned. ‘Many farmers will be discouraged,’ he continued, calling on the government to build ‘dams and irrigation mechanism using available water from the sea.’He further warned Southern African nations not to yield to any temptation to surrender their industries to foreign companies because of the challenges that would arise.Speaking in his usual parabolic tone, Joshua called for prayers for the regional leaders as ‘the ending of February to April are very peculiar months in the Southern African sub-region.

‘Joshua further gave a global warning concerning the volatile North Korean leader Kim Jong-un. ‘I am seeing an ‘arrow’ from there and it will affect the world,’ he declared, adding that North Korea possessed weaponry that most countries were unaware of.’The war we are fighting already in Syria is still there. We cannot afford another one again,’ he stated, calling for those involved to embrace peace.’

There are going to be unusual, uncommon challenges this year 2016 but in challenges, we children of God flourish,’ he added, encouraging congregants and viewers of his popular television station Emmanuel TV.Followers of the Nigerian ‘Prophet’ were delighted to see his return to the pulpit, claiming his unusual prolonged absence was for ‘spiritual fortification’.’Can you see that your pastor did not go on holiday,’ Joshua jokingly told the crowd after he had moved in the midst of the huge congregation, ministering ‘deliverance’ and ‘prophecy’.

The service had over 3,000 foreigners in attendance, including those who had travelled from the Eastern European nations of Ukraine and Russia.Joshua’s last public appearance at The SCOAN was in April 2015, shortly before his ‘Miracle Crusade’ in the Aztec Stadium in Mexico City which allegedly attracted over 150,000 attendees.

Morning all.

realjoker:
I was here, just passing through.

Are you Wande coal?

Aminat508:
Seun biko where is my new year gift sef? koda oo

Aminat! Aminat!! Aminat!!!
How many time did I call you?

You too like EGUNJE!!!

Raymondenyi:
Well thought sir @ OP

#Theyearofmakingsense

ksstroud:
Pukka!!!!

This is very meaningful...

Thanks bro. It's 2016 #theyearofmakingsense

BH no be some bush meat wey no dey fight back when you point gun at them o...

Iyaomolere4:
how are we to know she gave birth to them and they are not adopted



I wanna see d DNA records

Doubting Thomas.

I have been a registered member of this WONDERFUL Forum since 2012. There is hardly a day I don't grace nairaland with my presence.

I have lost count of the number of people whom i introduced to nairaland who are now registered members.

I believe many people are in THESAME scenario as myself.

I don't know if it an oversight on the part of SEUN and his team, but I feel a great deal of burden to point this out.

I BELIEVE THE RIGHT THING FOR SEUN AND HIS TEAM TO DO IS TO OPEN A THREAD THANKING NAIRALANDERS FOR MAKING THIS FORUM WHAT IT IS TODAY.

Members go to every length to source for interesting stories just so they can make front page.

I smile when I see people type FTC any time they are the first to comment on a front page topic. It's not because they are jobless, but because of the love they have for this forum.

I AM NOT ASKING SEUN TO PAY US FOR OUR LOVE AND COMMITMENT FOR HIS FORUM. ALL WHAT I ASK FOR IS A "THANK YOU" THREAD FROM SEUN AT THE END OF EVERY YEAR SO WE HIS LOYAL MEMBERS COULD FEEL APPRECIATED.

Thanks and God bless for I know you will take corrections.

Cc: lalasticlala.

RIP boy. May God accept your young soul.