Politics › Re: Cosmas Ndukwe Files Suit To Stop PDP Primaries by Tustrange: 5:09pm On May 05, 2022 |
APC in disguise |
Politics › Re: INEC To Political Parties: Deadline For Primaries Will NOT Be Extended by Tustrange: 5:07pm On May 05, 2022 |
2023 will be bloody, Tinubu already inviting Foreigns into the country |
Politics › Re: Sit-At-Home & JAMB: What Is The Fate Of South-East Students? by Tustrange: 5:04pm On May 05, 2022 |
Good Question now we are waiting for Answer. Sit at home is gradually killing trade in east and we are quiet abt it. |
Celebrities › Cry For Help by Tustrange(op): 8:13pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Please can someone sub my phone 09029746449 airtel, will be grateful. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I'm In Urgent Need Of Job by Tustrange(op): 8:10pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Now have a shop where I sell ladies shoes. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Did This To Me... Was I Wrong? by Tustrange: 8:04pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Your Mumu never mature yet, continue begging otule |
Travel › Re: Which Is The Richest City In Nigeria? by Tustrange: 5:41pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
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Family › Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Tustrange: 9:23am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Trust me it's going to hard for now. Just try to focus on your kids and whenever you need someone to chat up, Will be here Optimistic4life: Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months. The case is still in court though.
We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.
Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.
How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?
I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.
What is life like out there for me?
The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc |
Crime › Re: Youths, Hausa Clash In Akwa Ibom Community, Three Dead by Tustrange: 9:04am On Jan 05, 2022 |
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Business › Re: Adaora Umeoji Emerges Anambra Woman Of The Year by Tustrange: 10:11am On Jan 01, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by Tustrange: 5:22pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Don't know why I find this funny GurlFriend: I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.
My Experience
I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'
My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.
That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.
So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.
I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.
He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?
Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.
I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.
After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.
Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?
That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.
Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.
Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.
What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.
I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men. |
Romance › Re: See What My Ex Girlfriend Once Did To Me by Tustrange: 12:30pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
You be mad man  Ocholu: Back then in the university, when I was mildly still a simp, I met my ex towards the end of our third year. So beginning of 1st semester, final year, she had a little accomodation issues. She was unable to a hostel allocation from the school so the only hope was for her to stay off campus.
Money for lodge to stay off camp wasn't there. Will her parents send her money? Nope! Upon all these lamentations, she was just looking at me to shake body. So one day, see dragged me out to go see a lodge an agent found for her, while we got there, she liked the house and was ready to pay for it immediately.
After them give her account details; oya pay na she started doing anyhow. Few minutes she came to me asking me to borrow her 60k. That she'd refund me soonest. As a lover boy then na, I no too reason am. I think say the banny go pay back. I wired the money Everything settled.
So one day na, after we finished some heavy gymnastics in za other room, my ex open mouth tell me say "as of today, she's not owning me anything". That she has balanced me. Meaning all the s**x we've been having she's been deducting it from the money I borrowed her.
The thing shock me. I just shake head. Well, after our graduation, if our relationship was based on transactional s**x, I for de owe her up to like 10 Million. Because wetin we knack ehn! Hmmm! |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Am Not Yet Married – Kiddwaya by Tustrange: 6:49pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
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Pets › Re: Inside China's Dog Meat Trade As Animals Are Beaten, Boiled & Burned Alive(Pics) by Tustrange: 6:26pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: I Fit Just Enter You – Burna Boy Warns Fans Against Jumping On Stage (video) by Tustrange: 6:24pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
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Food › Re: A Nairalander Served With Chicken Head At An Event (Photo) by Tustrange: 6:22pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Since it's an event why get angry, If you want full chicken go your father house or get one yourself. Pele sha mytravels: See This: Why Is It That I Am Not Just Lucky When It Comes Food At Event?
I am angry right now i am at an event and i have been served with chicken head, while others are served with half and quarter chicken.
It has been happening like this either i am served with small beef or something else. 
Please share your experience.
Please take this forward |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Post Abuja Jobs Here by Tustrange: 8:08pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Is it still available aylipple: That's your problem. I've nothing to hide reason I spelt everything out here. I'm not taking advantage of anything as I didn't put a gun to the person's head; it's a matter of choice.
Meanwhile, the job isn't for you doesn't mean it isn't for others which if I've to say, has been paying atleast 7 other staff.
Meanwhile, go find out how much other businesses in Abuja pay "graduates" who must come to work Mon-Fri. Again, this isn't compulsory, if he doesn't want it, he can pass, others will take it up. |
Jobs/Vacancies › I'm In Urgent Need Of Job by Tustrange(op): 4:50pm On Dec 07, 2021*. Modified: 8:09pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Just finished my NYSC and have been doing nothing since then making me have evil thoughts, I now understand why the say 'An idle mind is the devil's Workshop'.
Please I stay in Abuja but ready to relocate if the job requires because I really do need it.
Bar attendent, Hotel receptionist, Surveys, Research and marketing. Osuji ifeanyi |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Blessing Time by Tustrange: 4:37pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Traveling to abuja to look for Job tomorrow, Just graduated and incase anyone here has a job Bar attendent, survey work, marketing and shop management. I'm here for you Thank you and God bless u
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 7:28am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Your Reasoning get issue better go check yourself before it's too late. KingOKON: WM a man that bleaches thinks by staying in the kitchen his gonna escape EVICTION |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 1:06am On Aug 01, 2021 |
Who the breeet?
White Money got me smiling tonight, had a rough day. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 11:03am On Jul 29, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 10:35am On Jul 29, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 8:24pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
*Arin is APC's Politician Femi Gbajabiamila's daughter?* *I say again, Big Brother is not for the Poor�* |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 4:54pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Wtf is wrong with you guys |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 4:17pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Nd dey gav him 150k suit to wear for the ushering job
He think sey dem go collect am back But the man dash him Nd he brought the suit to biggie house E Dey inside box �� |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 4:15pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 1:58pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Tustrange: 8:51am On Jul 25, 2021 |
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