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dechandel: Op state your sourceI got it from there, I can't state Source when I am not yet done. |
Davido is currently having a good year, the young artist has yet again been nominated for an award, this time around, he is nominated for African Artist Of The Year award at MTV EMA, Glasgow 2014. The Young Man is surely balling. Hate him not because this year is his year. Other nominees include Goldfish (South Africa), Diamond (Tanzania) and Toofan (Togo). The 5th and final nomination slot is still up for grabs with Tiwa Savage (Nigeria), Anselmo Ralph (Angola), Sarkodie (Ghana), Mafikizolo (South Africa), Gangs of Ballet (South Africa), Sauti Sol (Kenya), all vying for the Wildcard. To get Tiwa in, simply tweet #MTVEMA followed by #NominateTiwaSavage. |
Real Madrid will launch a bid for Eden Hazard if Cristiano Ronaldo decides to quit Spain and move back to Manchester United. Madrd fear the Portuguese superstar will force an exit and will ready a £60m offer for Hazard DailyStar Real Madrid want make thunder land for their santiago bernabeu ![]() |
lirusehn:Check your phone inbox, a bank alert should have been sent. ![]() |
#1 Expectation Vs. Reality Not everyone is as seductive as Angelina Jolie, but this girlfriend gets an A for effort. #2 Ever! You said you loved me forever, and you better not make me hold you to that, darling. #3 Get That Confidence Up If there is one flaw almost every woman is born with, it is the curse of vanity. Women are beautiful creatures, its about time they realize it. #4 We Are So Done I had nothing else to do, that's why I'm watching my ex from 300 yards away with a pair of military grade binoculars. I definitely am over him. #5 We Can't Read Thoughts Men are not psychics, oracles, or prophets. We are mere mortals, and once and for all, we cannot read your thoughts! #6 Never! They always blame everyone but themselves, don't they? #7 Double Standards! Some women just never understood the phrase 'you can't have it both ways'. No matter how much you try to reason with them, you will never meet their unattainable demands. |
1. Understand what a gold digger is, and is not. There's nothing wrong with a person being concerned about your financial stability. A long-term partnership means depending on each other through the ups and downs, and being financially reliable does help with that to a degree. The difference between a gold digger and someone who values your role as a provider is that the gold digger would deride and perhaps leave you if you lost your ability to provide for them financially. A good person can appreciate your financial resources, but a gold digger appreciates only that, and will not see the relationship as worthwhile if you're not well off. 2. Gold diggers drop hints that they're having trouble paying their bills (sometimes they might even ask you directly for a "loan" to tide them over). They know that you don't want to see them get an eviction notice, or get their car repossessed, and you're a good person who's in a position to help. But there's a difference between a gold digger and someone who's just fallen on bad times. What you should be looking for is if, despite their situation, this person is making poor financial decisions. Do they buy a brand new car with luxury features when they're struggling to pay rent? Do they buy $300 shoes or watches when their phone service is at risk of getting cut off? Do they go to expensive restaurants when their credit cards are maxed out, because they "work hard" and they "earned it"? Many gold diggers know better than to ask you to fund their more luxurious tastes, at least in the beginning; they'll tap into your desire to help them afford the things they need (food, shelter, transportation) so that they can spend their own money on the things they want. 3. When they discuss their financial woes, suggest ways in which the suspected gold digger can make money fast. When you mention the possibility of them selling their luxury car, video console, guitar, diamond bracelet, or any other expensive item that could keep them from becoming homeless or having their utilities cut off or car repossessed, how do they respond? The average person will be saddened and may even become angry or upset, but a gold digger will be appalled at the very idea that they should have to give up their prized possessions in order to meet their own basic needs. They'll treat the idea as ludicrous. More often than not, their dismissal of the idea will be accompanied by anger or even rudeness. This is a very subtle pointer that would give you a very good sense of their sense of entitlement. 4. Look for a sense of entitlement. Gold diggers feel that they deserve to be treated well, and that includes knowing that someone is willing to spend money on them. Maybe it's because they had a bad childhood or relationship, and they feel they deserve to be happy (and it just so happens that their joy carries a high price tag). Or maybe they feel it's their right to be able to pursue their big dreams at the expense of financial stability, and, coincidentally, haven't considered who will foot the bill of their soul- searching. Have you noticed unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment? This sense of entitlement is one of the symptoms of narcissistic behavior, which has other symptoms that a potential gold digger might harbor: Grandiose sense of self- importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements). Preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love. Believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions). Requires excessive admiration. Lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others. Often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her. 5. Search for signs of generosity and gratitude towards you. After having gone on several dates, has this person ever offered to pay? When you do pay, does he or she say thank you? Do they ever offer to help you in other ways? (And no, physical intimacy doesn't count); do they cook you dinner when you've been out working late? Fix your computer? Run an errand for you when your schedule's especially tight? If these character traits are missing, is this really someone you want to get involved with? A person doesn't develop gratitude and generosity overnight... 6.Indulge in a pipe dream. A pipe dream is basically a long shot. Take one of your childhood fantasies and run with it. Tell the person you're dating that you're thinking about becoming the mechanic, farmer, supermodel, writer, [insert dream career here] you've always wanted to be. Explain how if you were to ever do this, it would require a significant lifestyle change; you'd have to go back to school, relocate, or whatever would make it clear that your standard of living will go down dramatically. How does this person respond? Do they seem concerned? That's normal. A good person will encourage you to follow your dreams while simultaneously helping you think of ways to do it practically and responsibly. A gold digger will look horrified or disgusted and say things like "You're not really serious, are you?" OR they are ready to call it quits and leave because you are paying attention to "you" instead of "them". 7.Watch yourself. It feels good to help people, whether you just helped someone avoid becoming homeless, or you're helping an aspiring artist or entrepreneur launch his or her career, but you have to be careful that you don't fall into a pattern where your help become the norm, so much so that without your financial assistance, the relationship would crumble. If you're the kind of person who has trouble saying "no", or who is intensely sympathetic and compassionate, you're more likely to bump into a gold digger. You might also face the feeling that this is one of the most attractive or intriguing people you've ever dated, and you don't want to ruin your chances, but don't be fooled by a good looking exterior. It could cost you. 8.Listen to the types of questions you are asked. Even seemingly innocuous questions like "What do you do?" and "Where do you live?" can be loaded questions, asked in an attempt to ascertain your net worth and lifestyle. In any case, do not answer these questions directly - but start out by explaining your life story. What things happened to you as a child/ teenager that shaped the life you live today? A person truly interested in who you are will listen intently and ask questions of a more personal nature - whereas a gold digger will not have the patience to get to know you first; they will only want to find out your current financial position before investing any time in you. Gold diggers in a social situation will work the room and are "on the clock". The longer you can delay telling them what you do, they will be unable to size you up and you stand a better chance of weeding them out. 9. They have temper tantrums when you don’t buy them things. A gold digger has the emotional age of a child and will not hesitate throwing a tantrum when things don’t go their way–especially when you refuse to buy something for them or give their more money. 10. They only suggests expensive gifts, trips, restaurants, etc. A gold digger will turn their nose up at heartfelt, sentimental gifts because they are eager for gifts that are caked with money and expects nothing less than 4 star accommodations and food venues, shopping at designer stores and exotic vacations. *Updated* Credits: http://m.wikihow.com/Spot-a-Gold-Digger and http://datingfortodaysman.com/2011/11/8-signs-shes-a-gold-digger/ |
Feedmemore: You think so?I can't answer that, but if it was to be connected to beliefs,that means those guys can go to any extent for revenge. |
Feedmemore: This is very scary. We know that there are crazy fanatics in the world that want to kill anyone who doesn't share their beliefs at any cost. Biological warfare? Prayers for the man that was attacked and for all of humanity.I don't think this is related to beliefs. |
I saw this on twitter. Fear-not air marshall, all will be well. |
If he keeps dropping money wherever he goes as if those people are dustbins where money is disposed, I wonder what he will be left with. SOME PEOPLE NO GO GO WORK. DROP SOMETHING KOR, PICK SOMETHING NI. |
Happy birthday Oscar dos Santos Emboaba Júnior! |
CityNG: I don't mean to slight you but what kind of a fan are you if I have to educate you on him?I am a post fan of what happened to him, I recently became a fan. |
The both are good, but I prefer Lil Kesh's remix of Shoki, Olamide kill it!! |
D'Prince- OYO |
Feedmemore:The look though |
WoodcrestMayor: Not at all.I'm indifferent,really#WORDS |
AirborneLacer: Val this must be ya genius way of saying ''Hey mates, I've been to Cameroon''I thought "Monsieurs" is Masters. |
WoodcrestMayor: Foolish talkYou have said it all, but it seems you don't like Egebri Papa. |
CityNG: Reminds me of Arsenio Hall, Red Foxx.What happened to Arsenio Hall? A concerned fan. |
Bonsoir monsieurs ![]() |
iceberylin: MY OPINION: Those guys are Wack!!!If no be say you be Chelsea fan, I for cuss you .. Why u dislike those two guys? |
Goodluck. |
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coogar: rooney is a more marketable asset.... ![]() |
Nice list op... But Yung6 looks younger than his age. |
mayapop: yeah, he did, but he was just saying that to feel cool,lol.K |
mayapop: Where are the ones featuring Chris brown and Rihanna?He already talked about this in his interview with THE TRUTH. |
Lol ![]() |
I will download it CTRL+S |
Like we give a damn if you don't like us. These ones dey jaiye ori won. Ctrl+S
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Nice one. |
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.. Why u dislike those two guys?
i thought he said he got new songs featured with them in his new album. Is he lying or what