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Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.


Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

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donbachi:
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Hello bro

Women are hypergamous in nature. They are always looking for a better deal. The only thing that makes a woman overcome this is her own personal morality. Not you.

From your story, this girl already has someone else or some others who she is probably cheating with. And you probably know this. But because you have invested a lot, you don't want to let her go.

Know this: No woman on earth deserves such a sacrifice of yourself and make your dreams. Not even your wife.

Trust me. A woman will ask you to make such a sacrifice, but you should understand that she is to follow you and you are the leader. She won't expect you to make it. But if you do, she will lose respect for you.

A girl I dated once told me that she and her friend once came back to her uni at very late night and there was no bike. She then called one of the guys that was on her case to help them get to the hostel. With great personal sacrifice, this guy came from where he was to help them to their hostel. It involved a lot of sacrifices on his part.

Guess what? She told me that after he did that, she knew she can never date him. Why? He had no spine. He could have told her it's not convenient and she should call her boyfriend, but he didn't. He wanted to please her so much that he was willing to sacrifice precious things for her, even when they were not dating. No woman will respect such a man. She may stay with him for comfort, but she will find a real man outside and probably cheat with him.

This is what I think happened to you. You sacrificed too much. She didn't deserve it. She isn't your wife. Until when she is, she doesn't deserve such. She will disrespect you for it.

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Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

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