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TWO THINGS ARE JUST ABOUT TO HAPPEN TO YOU.

Number 1; It is either you find favour.
Number 2; OR favour finds you.

Challenges are not forever, the bible says surely there is an end and your expectation shall not be cut off. It is your expectation that destroys the challenges, Once you expect it to end today, it has no choice but to end. I decree the end of those issues you don't like in Jesus precious name. So Expect It To End Tonight . Proverbs 23:18.

Just in a moment, NEWS will reach you on the reversal of that negative verdict. God who has the final SAY is opening those difficult doors. He is not going to open them one by one, He is opening all at the same time. So when you sense a testimony today, KNOW THAT MANY GREAT THINGS HAVE HAPPENED ALREADY. REMEMBER THE DEVIL IS SCARED OF YOU, DO NOT BE AFRAID.

OVERCOMING FORNICATION AND SAVING YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

People continue or remain in this sin of fornication because they do not really know the proper way out.Many however have tried several ways but still ended up in this ungodly act. I know you want to be free from this but you don't just know the way out.Christians and pastors are also not left out.

You do not overcome fornication by speaking in tongues, as you might end up licking her tongue.Prayers are powerful but praying to overcome the temptation to fornicate when there is a temptation is praying amiss.

The bible says flee fornication,do not resist it, flee!. Sex is stronger than you, so you must flee,it has pulled many great men down,it has hindered many.Fornication is not a weakness it is a sin.You can resist the devil but you cannot resist fornication.Please the moment the thoughts and the passes comes, flee.Don't pretend that you did not know or sensed it, just flee.Don't explain, flee then explain later.I know you don't want that relationship you have built over the years to crumble.You can save your relationship by fleeing whenever the urge comes till you get married.

it is possible, try it Gods word never fails,do not pity him or her,your destiny and value is more precious.I know this word has changed your mindset.You don't need deliverance, you need this knowledge. proverbs 11 vs 9b says by knowledge shall the just one be delivered.

You are delivered in the name of Jesus.

THE MONEY RAIN.

The rain falls on both the good and the wicked. Likewise the money rain, it falls on both the good and the wicked. The money rain has no friend or enemy. It is always falling. The problem is that many are carrying about umbrellas and directly or indirectly, knowingly or unknowingly shielding themselves from the money rain. The bible says in Ecclesiastes 5:9 that the profit of the earth is for all. The rain of money is for all. How exposed you are to it determines how wet you will become by it. Haven established the fact that money is a rain destined to fall on all, it is now time to expose the UMBRELLAS people are using to shield themselves from this money rain.

1. THE UMBRELLA OF MISCONCEPTION: Many misconception exists in the minds of people about money,Some see money as evil. Money is not evil, it is the love for it that is evil. You are not to love money, to the extend of getting ready to do anything just to get it. Money is a spirit, if you love it, it can control you. So use money as a tool, don't worship it or see it as bigger than you. See money as a slave and a messenger. Another misconception about money is that people see it as what gives value to them. It is you that gives value to money. Money is valueless on its own until you use it wisely. Another misconception about money is that money increases by hoarding it. Money increases by using and investing it wisely. Proverbs 11:24. Finally, it is important to know that money does not always come by hard work. It comes by wise,right,creative work.

2. THE UMBRELLA OF THE LACK OF THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE CHANNELS THROUGH WHICH MONEY FALLS: It is important to understand that, although money is a rain that falls on all, it also has its various channels through which it falls. Money falls PRINCIPALLY through the channel of work. And this work includes; business, vision, job,talent,skills. Anything you do that adds value to people, systems or humanity either in the form of rendering services or selling goods is work. You need to know that the earth has been programmed by God to automatically favour those that add value to people and humanity in whatever form as far as it is positive.

3.THE UMBRELLA OF NOT ACKNOWLEDGING THE REAL OWNER OF MONEY: Many people have failed to acknowledge the real owner of money. I doubt if they really know who owns money. God is the owner of money. Haggi 2:8. He is the owner of the silver and the gold. You must acknowledge this God who has money. It is the blessings of the LORD that makes rich without sorrows.Proverbs 10:22. Wealth gotten outside God will diminish, it comes with sorrows that makes money a curse. But when you acknowledge God, it makes your wealth everlasting without sorrow. To acknowledge God you must pay your tithe(ten percent of your increase).Malachi 3:10. To acknowledge God you must invest in the business of the gospel on earth, to acknowledge God you must give to the needy. 

My prayer is that nothing will shield you from the down pour of the money rain. Be blessed in Jesus name.

GOD is releasing countless unexpected testimonies today just key into the testimony below. GOD is releasing countless unexpected testimonies today just key into the testimony below.

I have received a commandment to bless you today,that blessing that makes things very easy amidst the chaos and difficulty in the world.From today you will live your life as if there is no problem.And as nothing keeps you in command like the Joy of the lord.I release the Joy of the lord to flood your spirit,soul and body in the name of Jesus Christ.When men are complaining you shall be singing for joy,You shall not see misfortune,your going out and coming in is preserved in the name of Jesus.You will fulfill your destiny on a GRAND style.The works of your hand is blessed,your family is blessed,every long drawn issue is attended to by the power of the Almighty God.you are consistently favoured by the mercies of God.Issues of concern becomes issue of command.

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Is love SEX!!!!

What is the difference between sex and love making?

1. You make love to your wife. While you have sex with a girl friend or a prostitute, hence the term PRE-MARITAL SEX.

2. Sex is self centered, wanting to satisfy self. But love making is mutual and the satisfaction of your spouse is primary.

3. Sex is just the use of the sex organs but love making is the use of the whole body.

4. Sex does not depict love but love making is love.

5. Sex is for pleasure, love making is for expression.

6. Sex is short, love making is long.

7. Sex is without romance, love making is romance packed.

8. Sex is taking, love making is sharing.

9. The pain of a person during sex gives the other person pleasure but in love making it is not so.

10. Sex may be bad but love making is true.

11. Eyes are closed during love making. Eyes are opened during sex. Love making blends couples because they are doing the right thing.


Many have been deceived that a guy loves them because he had sex with them. A guy can only love you and make true love to you after marrying you.

So even in this valentine season show love, don't allow a person who is not your husband have sleep with you.

SEX DOES NOT MEAN LOVE!!!

TOPIC: HOW TO BE FINADABLE AS A LADY FOR MARRIAGE SO AS TO AVOID LATE MARRIAGE.

LINK: https://www.nairaland.com/2464526/how-findable-woman-marriage

HOW TO BE FINDABLE AS A WOMAN, FOR MARRIAGE. IT IS POSSIBLE THE RIGHT MAN IS FINDING BUT YOU CANNOT BE FOUND.[b][/b]

He that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD. Proverbs 18:22. The bible says He that finds a wife, not a girl or a lady but a WIFE. The bible calls a woman a wife even before she marries. This implies that wives are easily found, it is wives that are findable. It is the responsiblity of the woman to train herself to becoming a wife even before she gets married. The outward appearance of a woman is not what makes her a wife, it is the content of her mindset that makes her a wife. Real men identifies a WIFE when they see one. Husbands recognises wives when they see one. Wives are responsible, they are purposeful, they don't move around, they are findable. If a wife is not in a relationship you will know, when she is you will know, because she is committed. She is not confused about who to marry, she knows who to marry.

It is time for women to know how to position themselves so that they can be found, the earlier they do so, the better. A man can find even at 50, but a woman has a particular time when she could easily be found. Many highly placed, affluent unmarried ladies are making themselves unfindable. This has nothing to do with their wealth or position but it has to do with their mindset and their attitude. For instance, where do you find them, they are always in high places, you cannot see them in ordinary places, what if her husband happen to always visit the ordinary places most of the time. They tend to attract men of their status and class who may not be their husbands, they need to slow down, How can a woman that does not leave the house be found? how can a woman that is so busy with her career and does not have time to go to the right places be found? God brought Eve to Adam in the garden, there was a meeting spot. A lady that is always seen with men(ordinary friends) is not making herself findable. A lady that cannot take herself out sometimes is not making herself findable. For a woman to be findable she must always treat and carry herself as a wife. A wife dresses smart, good and not seductive. A wife fears God. A wife starts praying for her husband even when he has not found her. A wife is lovely and a help-meet indeed. When a woman is findable she will easily be found by her husband. Delay in marriage most times is not the devil, but ignorance, the devil only takes advantage of the ignorant. Finally as I begin to round up, A WIFE IS DOWN TO EARTH NO MATTER WHAT SHE HAS OR DOES NOT HAVE. It is my prayer that things becomes easy for anyone reading this message through KNOWLEDGE IN Jesus PRECIOUS NAME.

WHY GOOD PEOPLE STILL EXPERIENCE CERTAIN DELAYS.

Delays can make you lose hope.Proverbs 13 vs.12 says,HOPE DEFERRED MAKES THE HEART SICK...And when you lose hope you lose faith.Without faith you cannot please God.So delays are dangerous and must be dealt with.

One thing that causes continuous delay is your intention or your motive.Are your motives pure? are your intentions right? Do you need money to oppress people or show off or do you need money to be a blessing.Until you decide to be a blessing you may not be truly blessed.1st Samuel chapter 2 vs. 3 says God is a God of knowledge and weighs our actions
(paraphrased by me).

You may be good but your intentions may not be Godly. You may be good but pride may be your intention unknowingly and because of pride you may be experiencing delay in one or two areas of your life.

Some people's motive for getting married is to please their parents or to make some of their friends jealous.This is a wrong motive,your motive for getting married as a lady is to be a help meet to a man in all areas.With this in your heart God will be glad enough to connect you to your marital breakthrough.

What is your motive for going to church? are you going to church to serve and worship God because you love God or you are going to church because of what you can get from Him.Until your motives are right,your breakthrough may not come.Now imagine for a moment,if 200 million dollars is in your hands right now what will you do with it? or what will be the first thought that will come to your mind.Check your motives regularly,always ask God to purify your heart.I believe as you make your motives right every form of delay will just disappear before you know it in Jesus Name. BB PIN IS 568CC1E7

Before you sleep, write your expectations down on a piece of paper and leave it close to your door. God will answer every one of them.

You are going to have a head on collision with divine helps tonight. The angel of helps will visit you tonight and do for you what men have refused to do.

You are going to have a head on collision with divine helps tonight. The angel of helps will visit you tonight and do for you what men have refused to do.

TITHING IS THE INVESTMENT OF INVESTMENTS.

If you will not tithe, you will keep struggling. There are things you must know about tithing;

1. Tithing is what God uses to test you if you are matured enough to handle great resources. Just 10 percent of your increase demanded by God will keep you eternally away from struggles.

2. The Poor can become rich by tithing, the rich can become poor by not tithing. God is no respecter of persons.

3. You are where you are by your decision to either tithe or not to tithe.

4. Tithing is the easiest instruction God gave us in scriptures that commands the greatest future. Indebtedness, losses, sicknesses and diseases, frustrations, begging are all evidences of a NON-TITHING LIFE.

5. Tithing is the simplest instruction because God didn't ask you to go and look for money from somewhere, it is from what comes to your hand that you pay your tithe. If nothing comes to your hand, then you are justified not to pay your tithe. But if something comes to your hand then you must tithe if things will stop being tight for you.

6. The tithe is what you remove first before any other thing.

7. You cannot pray the devourer away, you cannot fast the devourer away, you can only tithe the devourer away because it is only God that can rebuke the devourer because tithing is a universal law. He said "bring ye all the tithe and I will rebuke the devourer...." Malachi 3:11.

8. Where you pay your tithe is as important as paying your tithe. You only pay your tithe to churches or ministries or men of God that meets your spiritual needs. 1st Corinthians 9:11, Galatians 6:6.

Please pay your tithe, so that you will change levels a thousand times better even before this year ends. Malachi 3:10.

Tonight the force stopping your helpers from helping you must crash. You are waking up with phone calls of helps in Jesus name.

DEFINE A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE IT DEFINES YOU AS A HEART BREAKER OR THE HEART BROKEN.

Do not start a relationship if you are not sure of where it is going to lead to. Do not fall in love before you think. No matter how strong your feelings are, think first before you act. Proverbs 16:25. It is difficult to know the will of God for a marriage partner when you are already deeply in love. The best and easiest time to inquire from God is before you begin any marital relationship or when the relationship is just starting. Define a relationship before it defines you as a HEART BREAKER OR THE HEART BROKEN. Many people are in relationships without clear definitions. Assumption is the mother of frustration. Your heart is so precious, do not play with it. Some people judge the way things turn out at the end to justify the fact that it is not God's will. It may be God's will and you can still miss it if you fail to play your part. Once again define a relationship before it defines you as a heart breaker or the heart broken. Receive wisdom for direction in Jesus name.

Before you get married please read...

1.Once you are hooked to the wrong person the battle is over,you may either be managing or patching till you die.If a goat marries a fish,how would they live? or where would they see each other.It is only when the goat comes to the river to drink water that is when they will see briefly as the fish will jump out to greet the goat and swim away.Any marriage where both partners see each other once in a long while is likened to the goat and fish illustration above.Marriage does not make marriage.It is the people in marriage that makes marriage.

2.Compatibility is worked out,of course you may never get a perfect person.But with dedication,knowledge and wisdom compatibility will start building,that is if he or she is the right person.

3.But the major challenge in getting married is choosing the right person.You don't choose a person because he or she is available or eligible.You choose a person because that person is the right person for you.

4.Run away from any man or woman that is easily angered by nature;that is getting angry easily is he or she's lifestyle.It is difficult to change that person.But if someone gets angry by mistake,that person can be corrected but if it is his or her nature,you have to think twice.

5.It is possible to mis-marry.It is possible to be living with the wrong man or woman.John chapter 4:18.It is possible to be dating the wrong person or be in courtship with the wrong person.

6.Once your choice is right then you are on the right track.How can a lion be married to a goat,what now happens when the lion is hungry.Any man that beats his wife is likened to the above illustration.Also any woman that oppresses her husband is also likened to this scenario.

7.There are some people that are highly inflamable,Please do not take a box of matches near them.What this means is that these people's hearts are made of stone,giving them your soft heart in love is a mistake.They will not value it and will take it for granted.When you marry somebody that is highly infammable,do not carry matches into that marriage.Because when fire marries a higher fire,then the result is explosion.

8.Love may be blind to many,but marriage will definitely open their eyes.Love in reality is not blind when you start seeing those unchangeable signs during courtship please keep off.When a man starts cheating on you when dating,it is a sign that he will do much more when he is married to you.He or she may legally begin to cheat on you because he is now married legally to you.

9.Dating is not for outing alone,dating is for knowing,watching and examining. Watch out for negative signs to see if it can be dealt with,if it cannot be dealt with in courtship it may not change in marriage.

10. To get the right person,try to be the right person.Work on yourself,work on your flaws.

11.America and the western world is plagued with divorce today because they marry without paying attention to these facts listed above. They marry without knowing the person they are marrying at least to a large extent.

12.Don't practice divorce before you get married.That is when you are breaking relationship over and over again,your emotion is also affected in the process.Wait for the right person.

13.Don't marry because you cannot enjoy your singlehood.If you are happy being single,then you will be happy being married.

14.Marriage is not an escape from singlehood but marriage is actually a graduation from singlehood.

15.Do not rush into marriage because you are under pressure or if you feeling you are the odd one out.When you are feeling everyone is getting married except you then you are already a wrong person.

In conclusion,consciously pray before making a choice.God will always direct you when you pray a prayer of enquiry before taking even the smallest step. Be blessed in Jesus Name.

How to discover your purpose, or destiny?

God said to Jeremiah in Jeremiah chapter 1 vs. 5

Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto nations.

Jeremiah’s purpose was defined before He was born; your purpose has been defined before you were born by God your creator. And just like the purpose of a product is defined by the manufacturer so also your purpose has been designed by God the author of life. Every genuine product has a manual. The manual of life is the word of God which is the bible. If you must know your identity and your destiny on earth you must go to scriptures. It is the understanding of scriptures that guarantees a buoyant enviable future.

Right inside you are gifts, talents, potentials, heavenly resources, skills to make life easy for man kind and also to populate heaven and depopulate hell by using such gifts to glorify God. YOUR INNERMOST POTENTIAL CAN PAY YOU MORE THAN ANY THING ELSE IN THE WORLD.GOD DEPOSITED MORE THAN ENOUGH RESOURCES IN YOU. YOU ARE ENVIED BY ANGELS YOU CANNOT BE PITIED BY MEN.YOU ARE COMING OUT OF EVERY PIT OF OBSCURITY BY THE MANIFESTATION OF THE GIFTS THAT GOD HAS GIVEN YOU.JOSEPH BECAME A PRIME MINISTER IN A STRANGE LAND BECAUSE OF THE GIFT OF INTERPRETATION GOD GAVE TO HIM.

It is very unfortunate to know that many people are using such gifts to glorify the devil and to fulfill satan’s purpose other than to glorify God.
Every good and perfect gift comes from God.

You are too loaded to fail, hear this; you have more than enough to make you a wonder, therefore discovering it is not enough you have to develop it.


You carry a potential with eternal value, are you gifted in writing then use it to glorify God, Are you blessed with a voice to sing use it to glorify God, are you gifted in speaking then speak to the glory of God. Do you have great inventive ideas then run with it.

No matter what you do on earth the only thing that will matter at the end is; DO YOU LIVE FOR GOD OR NOT.

This is the only question that will matter at the end. So let’s weigh our self in the balances before God weighs us.
Are you living for things, are you living for gold, and are you living for your family or you are living for God. The only life that will matter at the end is the God life.

God created us to live for him that is, have a fellowship and relationship with him and in doing this He directs us and helps us in fulfilling our destiny.

You will fulfill your destiny, God will be proud of you at the end as you ride in His majesty into heaven. From now on the Spirit of God will continually direct your steps into places of favor you will not waste your time on Earth but you will redeem the time.

God bless you, see you at the topmost top and in anything you do remember to put God first. This week is going to be the most remarkable week in your life as things will begin to change on their own for you as you boost your relationship with God in studying His word which is the Book of life, the bible.

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DREAMS.

1.Dreams are not pictures, they are messages. Although they may appear in form of pictures, but behind those pictures is the hidden messages. People most times are so moved with the pictures, they often times get so scared, or get excited depending on the picture they saw. But the most important thing to watch out for in a dream is the message. In Genesis 37 from verse 5, Joseph had a dream where the sun, the moon and the eleven stars were bowing down to him. Ordinarily the picture in this dream is the sun, the moon and eleven stars. But in interpretation, the sun was his father, the moon was his mother and the eleven stars were his brothers. Genesis 37:10.

2.Go beyond the faces you see in a dream, look at the messages, that is, the events or actions. If I have a dream today and saw a close friend betraying me, the message in this dream is betrayal. So I have to prayerfully deal with it and watch my steps. It may not be my close friend, it could be a colleague, it may not be happening to me directly, but the supposed victim could be a close friend or relative. So to start hating my friend may not be a solution.

3.God reveals things to us through dreams.

4.The devil also reveals things to us through dreams.

5.The state of your mind could influence nature of your dream.

6.When you are at sleep, your soul is at rest, but your spirit is completely alert. So a dream can actually be defined as the gathering of information by your spirit man when you are asleep. Some of the information may be relevant, while others may not be relevant. So when you wake up and can locate the message in that dream you will know the relevant ones and the irrelevant ones.

7.No matter how scary or real a dream is, it’s coming to pass to a large percentage depends on you. If you do nothing about a bad dream, it may come to pass. If you do nothing about a good dream it may never come to pass.

8.Your dreams could help as directions for you if you are prayerful and if your spirit is always loaded with the word of God.

9.It is not compulsory for God to speak through dreams but God always speaks to a quiet soul and spirit. So if you are always restless or noisy or always busy with activities, God will have to wait till you are asleep, that is, at rest to reveal things to you through dreams. The danger here is that it may be too late. So always maintain a quiet life. No wonder one of the fruit of the spirit is gentleness. Galatians 5:22.

10.Dreams can be canceled by the prayer of faith; dreams can also be enforced by the prayer of faith.

The best way to stop your husband from cheating on you. (Both mental and physical cheating)

Most women believe that all men cheat or have the tendency of cheating. Now cheating is a negative expression of the adventurous nature of a man. Not all men cheat but some men do, if not physically they do mentally. Most husbands make love to their wives but imagine she is some one else they saw some where. That is still cheating. We have physical and mental cheating.

Why do men cheat?

1. A man chases and finds his wife but after marriage it is the duty of the woman to keep chasing the man. Men like to conquer. Marrying you means they have conquered. So if you as a lady relax without running after him in different ways then he will look for another to conquer.

2. Men will cheat if you don't treat them as finished products. Most women keep treating their husband as raw materials not being perfect. Yet when a lady treats him as a perfect man outside then he will follow her.

3. Most married women don't wear night gown. They don't know that it is not your naked body that really moves him but what is on your body. Wear night gown because single girls will wear any thing to take him away. A man gets tired after a while of seeing your frame but when you dress good, and wear night gown at night. Please do not let your husband mentally cheat on you.

4. Every man likes respect, give him the highest respect so that he would not get it else where. You must treat your husband as your baby.
Ecclesiastes 10:10.

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KEEPING YOUR MAN.

The three basic needs of a man.

It is important to know that the man is designed to give love. Hence the bible says husband love your wives as Christ loves the church. A man may not necessary need love the way a woman does but he needs something else which to him is greater than love and that is the first primary need of a man which is called RESPECT. This is the need that propels him to show love in an unusual way. Ephesians 5:33.

The first primary need of a man is respect; A man values respect, no matter how much you claim to love him, if you do not respect him then that love is nothing, your respecting him is interpreted as love to him. Please this kind of respect does not mean kneeling down before him or saying SIR! SIR! all the time, this respect is fulfilled when the woman reminds him of his capabilities and help him to maintain his self esteem, to her he should be the richest, the most hard working, the most handsome. She should be proud of her husband not out of duty but as an expression of sincere admiration for the man she has chosen to spend the rest of her life with. A man needs the woman to value his accomplishments no matter how small. Now if a woman meets this primary need of a man the man will do anything just to love and please her, it will help the man to even work harder. Don't you know that a man telling a man that he tried will make only a little impact, but when a woman tells a man that he tried then that man's ego is boosted.

The second primary need of a man is recreational companionship; Where the woman needs conversation the man needs recreational companionship. The man needs the woman to watch football or any other games with him sometimes. He wants the woman to share his sporting and recreational ideas, if he like computers, he wants the woman to like it too. Now the woman may not really like it but if you can just show him that you like it a little, show him that you like the games he likes or the things he likes to do in his leisure time. If you don't like his sporting activities or recreational activities, any girl that likes it may win his heart a little.

The third need of a man is sex; Please note that this is for the married. Where the woman needs affection, a man needs sex. He needs it because he is principally a driver, he is always ready, he likes the event of sex, while the woman is more interested in the environment, like romance, hugs, holds, touch and kisses. The man must learn to meet the need of his wife by satisfying her romance appetite then she will offer him the best sex ever. Husbands please don't think your wife reacts to sex the way you do, she reacts differently so take out time to show her enough affection first, through texts, calls, gifts, hugs, kisses. Please note that these are only primary needs.

IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LIVE LONG, THEN MARRY A BAD WIFE. (The two greatest problem in the world today were initiated by women but allowed and seconded by men)

In a world of fast foods, fast cars, fast charge phones, fast cash, the world is sporadically entering the age or stage of fast marriage. How do I mean? People are rushing into marriage without understanding some important fundamentals. And I will be outlining some of these fundamentals below:

1. The woman is more powerful than she appears, a good one is a plus, a bad one is a big minus.

2. What you become tomorrow as a man, is not dependent on God alone but also on your wife.

3. Women can easily be manipulated by the devil because of their inherent verbal and emotional power.

4. The hardest thing for a woman to do is to submit herself totally to her husband.

5. God will hardly deliver you from a bad wife because spiritually a man and his wife has become one flesh.

6. A wise woman builds her home with her mouth, but a bad one destroys it with her mouth.

7. Watch the friends your wife keeps, they influence her faster than you.

8. The past of a woman is not just her past but her make-up. Deal with it because they can easily slip back if not handled well.

9. Everything a woman does or says comes from her heart. Take what she says seriously she hardly jokes.

10. If she does not see you and treat you as her head, then you are in for trouble.


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Paul was arrested by Jesus on His way to persecute God's people. He was on his way when Jesus intercepted him. Anybody that is on his or her way to do you evil is arrested by Jesus Christ. Acts 9:1-6. From tonight your enemies will work for you.

WOMAN UNLIMITED. GIVE A WOMAN THOSE THREE BASIC THINGS AND YOU WILL SEE HER BEST.

I will advise every man to read this short message, this will enhance your relationship as a single or as a married man. You need to understand the basic needs of a woman.

The first basic need of a woman is LOVE;

A woman needs love just as the way she needs the air she breathes, she was programmed by God to receive love, and God designed her this way. she needs love, A man may buy her a house, an expensive car and she will not still be satisfied if you don't tell her that you love her, she wants to feel loved, she becomes scared if you become too busy to tell her that you love her.

The Second thing a woman need is conversation; she needs somebody that will listen to her, she needs a man to spend time with her just to listen to her, she needs someone to talk with. Not just talk to but talk with. She may not really like being alone, that is why she always talk. Husbands, if you shower your wife with all that she needs but if you are not there from time to time to discuss with her, she may look for someone else to fill that space. It is not that she does not love you, she does, but she needs conversation.

The third basic need of a woman is affection; she needs affection, not sex, but affection. She wants a man to hold her hands, she wants a man to hold the door for her as she enters a place, she wants a man to help her carry heavy luggage, she wants a man to hug her, but the problem is that a man may start thinking that she wants sex, she does not, she just want a show of affection. So please understand the need of your wife and she will help you to meet your own need.

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God endued the mouth of a woman with so much power. To take everything she says seriously when she is angry is the express way to a heart attack. Listen to what she says but don't take it to heart. Listening to a woman whether she is making sense or not weakens her. She can say things that can make you mad. But she may not mean it so do not take those negative things to heart.

HOW TO STOP SEX AND ENJOY YOUR RELATIONSHIP TILL MARRIAGE.

Sex is sweet, it is enjoyable, everybody likes it, but the value of sex is only truly experienced in marriage.
No matter what you seem to enjoy pre-maritally, it kills love instead of nurturing it. Fornication is sweet but your destiny is sweeter. Marriage is honorable when the bed is not defied, you may be having fun but in essence you are only preparing for the fun-HELL.
It can be stopped; you don’t have to break that relationship because breaking the relationship does not really solve the problem. You might still continue this in the next relationship you may enter.
Sex outside marriage or before marriage open invisible doors for the devil to come into your life to strike later in life.
Once started it is difficult to stop, but it can be stopped.

It is wrong to practice it outside marriage; it is not valued at all. It does not make your guy love you even better neither does it make your girl love you more. Rather it kills love if you don’t try to stop it.

Once started it is difficult to stop, but your desire to stop it has half solved the problem.

Breaking the relationship does not stop it you might even loose because that man or girl could be divinely meant for you. Not seeing the guy or keeping away does not either, the question is; when you now see each other what happens? Not sleeping in his house does not stop it, you can visit him in the afternoon and still have sex.

Let me show you how you can truly stop sex and revive and enjoy your relationship more till you are married when you can now tie her if you want and make genuine guiltless love countless times and become more intimate with the God and His blessings.

The first step to stop sex in your relationship is: believe it is wrong outside marriage. Don't feel it is impossible to do without. It is possible to stop.

Prayers and fasting does not stop it; what stops it is renewing your mind with the word of God daily. You can fast and the next thing you are on it.

Refuse to be guilty if you have done it don’t hate yourself God loves you he wants to help you because you cannot help yourself, can't you see all your strategies have failed.
The moment you feel like doing it, don’t consider, don’t think just flee from it. Don’t explain, Escape.
You must flee because sex is stronger than you; the only thing it respects is FLEEING. Joseph fled to escape potiphars wife. Great men and women have fallen to it and are still falling; you can’t afford to fall again.
It is not normal it is abnormal; don’t pay attention to it in their thoughts. The moment you think of it CAST DOWN THE IMAGINATION IN THE NAME OF JESUS. David was a man after Gods own heart, He heard Gods voice but still fell to it, because He entertained it in his thoughts. You are what you think.
I am not saying it will not come, it will, may be even today but CAST DOWN THE THOUGHTS IN THE NAME OF JESUS IN FAITH.

Change the way you see sex in your mind and renew it by reading the bible daily and you will see that your girlfriend and yourself would begin to make progress. It takes the two of you and God (his word) to make it. You will make it in Jesus Name.

Just in a moment, NEWS will reach you on the reversal of that negative verdict. God who has the final SAY is opening those difficult doors. He is not going to open them one by one, He is opening all at the same time. So when you sense a testimony today, KNOW THAT MANY GREAT THINGS HAVE HAPPENED ALREADY. REMEMBER THE DEVIL IS SCARED OF YOU, DO NOT BE AFRAID.

God can crack the palm nut with an egg just to disgrace the stone. God will give you a testimony today that will shock the people that thought you cannot do without them. Ephesians 3:20.

Whatsoever is too strong for you to conquer that has lingered for more than three months. In 3 hours shall fall down and you will see the fall of it. Every mountain that you have lived with is about to disappear now.

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THAT STORM MUST END TODAY. STORMS ARE NEVER FOREVER.

Was there any storm that lasted more than a moment in the life of Jesus Christ? No storm will last more than a moment in your life in Jesus name. Storms are not forever, they are meant to be over sooner than you imagine. Jesus was in a boat and there was a storm, He woke up from His sleep and spoke to the storm and there was a great calm. He had the understanding that when you speak to a storm it must obey. 

Many people speak and are still speaking about the storm. You are to speak to it not about it. The more you speak about that storm the more it rages, but when you speak to it, it must obey you. Everybody in the world have challenges, what you do with your's is what determines when it will end. 

Jesus said to the storm, PEACE BE STILL. The disciples with him were trying to proffer physical solution to a problem with a spiritual root, they were trying to make the boat light, they were bailing water out of the boat, but Jesus was sleeping, He was at rest, He was not in worry. Why? Because He understood that whatever you speak to (not about) will obey. So my beloved speak to that challenge, speak to that storm, tell it that you are representing Jesus Christ who is in your boat of destiny. Declare with a loud voice; OVER THIS OR THAT CHALLENGE, PEACE BE STILL IN JESUS NAME. Mark 4:36-40. 

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UNDERSTANDING THE COVENANT OF TITHING.

If you will not tithe, you will keep struggling. There are things you must know about tithing;

1. Tithing is what God uses to test you if you are matured enough to handle great resources. Just 10 percent of your increase demanded by God will keep you eternally away from struggles.

2. The Poor can become rich by tithing, the rich can become poor by not tithing. God is no respecter of persons.

3. You are where you are by your decision to either tithe or not to tithe.

4. Tithing is the easiest instruction God gave us in scriptures that commands the greatest future. Indebtedness, losses, sicknesses and diseases, frustrations, begging are all evidences of a NON-TITHING LIFE.

5. Tithing is the simplest instruction because God didn't ask you to go and look for money from somewhere, it is from what comes to your hand that you pay your tithe. If nothing comes to your hand, then you are justified not to pay your tithe. But if something comes to your hand then you must tithe if things will stop being tight for you.

6. The tithe is what you remove first before any other thing.

7. You cannot pray the devourer away, you cannot fast the devourer away, you can only tithe the devourer away because it is only God that can rebuke the devourer because tithing is a universal law. He said "bring ye all the tithe and I will rebuke the devourer...." Malachi 3:11.

8. Where you pay your tithe is as important as paying your tithe. You only pay your tithe to churches or ministries or men of God that meets your spiritual needs. 1st Corinthians 9:11, Galatians 6:6.

Please pay your tithe, so that you will change levels a thousand times better even before this year ends. Malachi 3:10.

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