I do hope this is a make believe story line because if truth is to be told, no single lady will take a position as yours, not to talk of a married one.

Bro it is sad that you lost your job. But my guy, if truth is to be told, you ask for it tho.

Even if you take up this matter, based on your explanation, it is only logical that you actions has proven other wise eventhough your intentions might be honest.

You said you ask her to come and eat, she declined, after an hour, you ask her to at least take a break since she has been working all along, she declined again.

Thereafter you stood up, walk to her and rest your hand on her shoulder. My brother, in civilised country I no think say you go get the time dey this forum dey explain all these.

In as much as it hurts bro, you called for it. I will advise that you allow sleeping dog lie. Truth is no one accuse you of rape but your actions was what prompted the decision your boss took.

Another job will come your way and this event will definitely shaped you to be a more gentleman in the future.

LESSON: DO NOT PUT YOUR HANDS ON A WOMAN YOU ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH. USE YOUR MOUTH AND NOT YOUR HANDS.

Peace.

The question here is do you really want to date this lady for real or you want to take advantage because you have access to her based on the present circumstance.

The qualities you said she possesses cannot swing your sister opinion in your favor because whether you like it or not her reason(s) might just be what I stated above.

She is not saying no to you because she is her maid but sometimes in life it is only safer to maintain the traditional way of how things are done so that you dont end up chewing more that you bargain for.

Bros, go out and there and get yourself a girlfriend, Las Las, she will be alright.

Peace.

My dear, it not suprising because most women are guilty of that. It takes a God fearing woman and the one who understands that marriage is all about love and sacrifices especially if you have been the one holding on all these while.

A man who has been up and suddenly found himself down, it just a matter of time before he eventually gets back on it feet, as long as he is determined to.

You will bounce back and when you do, just remember that the only family you have are your children and your children alone.

Until then, just be patient and continue to do your thing.

Peace.

The way this dude is been condemned really shows how aggressive humans can be towards judgement when the chips are down.

It is a known fact that no party would tolerate cheating in a relationship because having the ideal of that alone is an emotional torment to the other party.

I wish you luck in your pursue to make things right and win back the love of your life.

As for the ladies, this is my take and I stand to be corrected:

"95% OF MEN WILL CHEAT, GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY AND IF THEY WOULD NOT BE CAUGHT."

NO ASK ME HOW I TAKE COME UP WITH THE STATISTICS, JUST ASK YOURSELF HOPE SAY YOUR MAN IS NOT AMONG THE 95 LOL.

PEACE.