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Inked_Nerd:

lol, I'm not saying I haven't been in a relationship. I'm just saying I haven't been in an open relationship before. Give me your e-mail address and I'll send you an e-mail.

Inked_Nerd:

Thank you. I'm always happy to help . No, I'm not in a relationship. I'm just open to love of all forms. I always try to look at life from different perspectives. If you have any other questions about it, feel free to ask .

Nainai:
Why so curious?

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Nairaland gurls order of preference is so much that they even refuse dating brad pitt's like me

Esp the tpiah's,-,queeneva-,tink_sh,-Jennycandy,-madladies and inkerdnerd

Inked_Nerd:

It depends. If you're in a solid relationship then yes. If not then no. The reason I say no is because the present status of the relationship is a bit rocky so it may actually make things worse. There's a possibility that it may bring you two closer. You'd really need to sit down and evaluate things before you make the decision to get involved in an open relationship. It's nice that your open minded though .

Inked_Nerd:

lol, I wasn't advising you to get involved in an open relationship. I asked if you have considered it. It doesn't always work for everyone though. Does it sound like something you might be interested in?

Inked_Nerd:
Ok, an open relationship is essentially having your cake and eating it too, romantically speaking. When two people agree to be in an open relationship, they admit they love and care about each other but mutually agree that they want to see other people too. Oftentimes those in an open relationship consider themselves to be in love with each other, but they can have lesser attachments and sexual relationships outside of their main love interest without any ill effects on their primary relationship. By the way, I have no idea what an SSS site is. I had a friend who was in an open relationship with a girl due to the fact that they were in a long distance relationship.

tpiah:
^^you act like someone is forcing you to date a man you dont like.

abeg calm down.

the point is a man you feel is unattractive may what another woman would consider her ideal partner.

no one is saying you have to admire seal but dont generalize and say no black woman would date him just because you wouldnt.

that'a a big fallacy.

Nainai:
WE ARE TALKING ABOUT PHYSICAL FEATURES. IF you find him so attractive why must you give me his character/traits? Why not refer to his chiseled abs or his big brown eyes? EXACTLY, you have contradicted yourself. Not wanting to date someone I find unattractive only makes me a honest human being. You have a victims mentality and sound like you've been picked on for years, so in order to feel better about yourself you're defending Seal. Look, Seal is and always will be UNATTRACTIVE TO me and I will never touch that guy with a 12 inch pole, so will most SANE women. You want your children looking like poo? I don't care if he has a skin disease; He's a ugly mo******* Stop making excuses for him!

madlady:
Some guys are far more picky than females, they have lists sooooo long,
only the QUEEN OF SHEBA will do for them.

tpiah:
i think you're hungry for attention.

figures.

Nainai:
Abeg, give me a sane BLACK woman that finds Seal attractive. Seal CANNOT get ANY woman he sets out for, maybe the white ones who are desperate for black ****but abeg who would wanna make a baby with Seal and is black? Would you?

tpiah:
the fact of the matter is one shoe does not fit all.

what is ugly or unattractive to one person may be ok to another.

seal just has a preference for white women, i think. Not that he couldnt get a black woman if he wanted to.

after all, abiola married a very beautiful woman even while he was still poor.

so never say never.

tpiah:
no, i'm just saying you obviously fit into one of the categories you mentioned in your original post.

hence your rant.

Inked_Nerd:

Well, its two different sensations. womanly intercourse isn't the same self-service. The sexual goals are the same--to have an heavenly feeling/climax but its different [I suppose]. Both womanly s.ex and m.asturbation provide simliar yet different sensations which varies from women to women.

Well first of all, do you know what an open relationship is?

Nainai:
KEEP ON DREAMING, GIVE ME A SANE BLACK GIRL THAT"LL DATE SEAL!!!!! ZIP NADA ZERO ODO, ONLY WHITE WOMEN WILL OPEN THEIR ARMS FOR HAND ME DOWNS LIKE HIM, IF YOU DO LOOK LIKE SEAL, I'LL PRAY SOME LADY IN THE CAUCASIAN RACE (PREFERABLY FAT WITH NO TEETH) LETS YOU "CHOOSE" HER.

Inked_Nerd:

lol, like I said before men do the same thing. Its no different.

Inked_Nerd:

Stop using girls in such a general manner. We're not all the same. Just because your down on your luck relationship wise doesn't mean you need to become a player. If I let every damn fool that pissed me off get the best of me, wouldn't I be a bitter woman? Of course I would, but I'm not. I refuse to let the minority ruin it for the majority. Hmmm, have you considered an open relationship?

By the way Osama10, I'm waiting for you to rephrase your question.

Inked_Nerd:
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Stop using girls in such a general manner. We're not all the same. Just because your down on your luck relationship wise doesn't mean you need to become a player. If I let every damn fool that pissed me off get the best of me, wouldn't I be a bitter woman? Of course I would, but I'm not. I refuse to let the minority ruin it for the majority. Hmmm, have you considered an open relationship?
No, truth be told, i don't know hows is done or even what it entails, Plz throw more light on that

tpiah:
the really handsome guys dont make this kind of noise- i've noticed that.

madlady:
I'm not sure what that is.

Most guys want the best partner they can find, it's only fair that females look for the same.

Inked_Nerd:
What are you talking about? Are we all like that? Have you met all of the girls on Nairaland? I understand that you're hurt but please don't take it out on us. Besides, there are men on Nairaland that do the exact same thing that you say.

Inked_Nerd:

Well, all I can suggest is m.asturbation but that can only do so much. Girls really enjoy m.asturbating and some don't. For some its nothing close to the real thing.