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Samantha125:
Is Nigeria Kuwait?

Even in Nigeria, it's your legal right to conduct a DNA test on any of your child when in doubt. You can even make it formal by going through the court if you so wish!

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Shouldn't the man carry a DNA test when in doubt? Is it a crime?

And who on earth told you the child will grow up to hate the father. This is an information age where children can even read their own story when they grow up. Marriage is between two families and you think a family will sit and watch you take their child from them just like that?

Stop watching too much Nollywood movies.

DF cases is still the easiest case to prove in court

He spoke his truth. And according to him, they were his personal encounters and as such, once he can prove them, Otan!

jazzman7711:
This Oseni Rufai has serious issues, honestly.

I listened to that media chat, and Tinubu was very clear and forthright on where he is taking the nation.

Could you please explain how he plans to tackle unnecessary inflation rocking the country? Also let us know how his administration plans to ensure that private sector key into the implementation of the new minimum wage in his media chat

Newusername:
Are you talking about NSE, Ikeja branch?

Yes

I beg to differ ops

Each time I see women striving to be disruptive in their thinking, I'm always wowed!

That being said, having a family is great, I mean very great. And having a successful family is the best! Family becomes everything, cos you have to invest some of your time, emotions and resources

Family has never been the cause of failure. Once you understand proper time and schedule management, you can combine family with building of career and business to becoming that woman of recon

As I speak with you, The Current President/Chairperson of the Nigerian Society of Engineer is a woman. She's the first female NSE president in the history of NSE. She's happily married and blessed with children. Very successful in her career. She was one time my branch chairperson. In view of this, even the current branch chairperson of my branch of NSE is a woman, very intelligent, savvy, blessed with kids and a wonderful husband. Like, she's happily married. Let's take it a step higher, you have read about Okonji Iweala, a blessed mother and wife!

You have a wonderful dream, your focus should be up and down. Up in the sense of the how and resources for your big dreams, down in the sense of the choice of the man to marry. You should be focused on marrying a goal getter and supporter. Someone, when he speaks, motivates you and makes you and takes you to the top just be talking with you. One that you both can inspire

Lastly, all dreams are achievable if you have what it takes to pursue them!

Peace!

LegendHero:
Yes defamation is settled in prison.

If you defame me without evidence and it lead to me losing credibility and inturn losing clients and means of livelihood, I will make sure you go to jail.

If a girl accuse you falsely of rapee, then lead to you losing your job, your livelihood, and all your friends, and spoiled your reputation in public, what do you think is enough respite from that sin? You look away or you take her to the court?

You have not answered my question vis-a-vis the constitution except you wrote a new constitution that we don't know

And has the author of the book ever for once claimed he doesn't have enough evidences

If Afe sure of himself, he shouldn't intimidate the man but allow him to go prepare for his case. This is while people are supporting Dele cos in his book, he also mentioned intimidation which Afe just showed the world

You spoke about rape... Rape is a major crime unlike defamation. I understand you don't even have the Nigerian constitution, if you do, you should know defamation is a minor crime. Defamation is a bailable offense, but, with Afe, it's not. Meaning, he also controls the NPF and some judiciary cabals which have put this country as one of the most corrupt

LegendHero:
Useless blackmail.

I trust Afe Babalola, the man no be your usual regular simp, he is a thoroughbred SAN and he will use Farotimi as a scapegoat.

Make una dey push Dele, I’m sure when he go jail, you guys go find another person to finish.

You're the one I pity for. This is why I shake my head in pity when I see Nigerians defending oppressors

Someone is oppressing a Nigerian all in the name of 'you defame me' and you come online to type. Does prison look like where defamation is settled?

The person that defame didn't run away. He answered all invitation by the NPF. So, what's is crime? You imprisoned someone because of a petition without fair hearing in a competent court and you want me to believe Afe isn't guilty of what he's been accused!

deji17:
Someone published a defamatory book that will outlive both the Author and the person defamed. But these baby Lawyers think that is cool. Many of them will regret all these things they are doing if they happen to grow old enough for younger ones to be defaming them and rubbish whatever name they have built over the years. If indeed Farotimi can prove his allegations, he has an opportunity to do it in court.

And you think using police to harass Dele is the solution?

Illiterate!

Kewtt:
Shut up! Dele Farotimi must prove his allegations in the court of law. Kapish!!

No shortcuts.

If you want to beg you and Dele Farotimi should go and beg your chi.

Is the prison a place to proud his allegations? You illiterate! Tomorrow, you'll cry police is misbehaving but because it's Afe whom I know in my days in Ado-Ekiti, you don't know Dele deserves to be bail to prepare himself for the case

If Dele isn't granted bail, then, there's truth in what he said against Afe

LegendHero:
Useless blackmail.

I trust Afe Babalola, the man no be your usual regular simp, he is a thoroughbred SAN and he will use Farotimi as a scapegoat.

Make una dey push Dele, I’m sure when he go jail, you guys go find another person to finish.

Chief Judge... When Dele sued him years ago, I believe you were there

A man spoke his truth and challenged those offended to sue him to court, you're hear talking trash

The point isn't Afe suing him, it's the harassment he got from the NPF who should even protect him

A defamation case is a very minor case in our constitution. Let me make you understand. Even if he's sentenced, he can't spend more than two(2) years. So, where is the lesson there

You need to go read about Dele... He's one of the intelligent lawyer will have in this country. Actively practiced and retired from practicing. Abi you think he's a small boy!

Someone stake his life to fight for a just cause, for you and the future of the nation including his line of trade, you come out to condemn him because Afe is 90yrs without proper trial. Are you sure you really understand what freedom means?

Those leaders who have drained this nation and deprived the youth of everything they once enjoyed when they were young... Are most of our leaders not Baba Afe's age brackets. Those who abused power and stole our common resources

If Afe doesn't have anything to hide, he should allow the guy to and let them meet in court. Or is prison court?

Slaves that loves their chains

Marriage isn't biblical. Marriage is traditional and cultural.

Don't marry any man you can't respect

BoldBrainz:
Gbam!

Babalola should lock him up and throw away the keys until the ill-mannered lunatic learns to respect his elders according to Yoruba ethics, even if those elders are thieves and Judicial conmen😊.

So, how old do you think is Dele? A child right?

seunjungle1:
Uncle Dele really fvcked up. You don't have enough or tangible and clear evidences to fight the person of Afe Babalola in court on the defamatory case you blew out yourself.

Had it been Alafin Oyo, Iku babayeye still alive now, I would have love to usher uncle Dele to the palace to see the king and beg Baba Afe on your behalf, but......

I pray God help you because there's nothing obedient people or uncle Sowore can do on this hot soup you put yourself into.

I really don't understand how you people thinks. Dele have been to prison before. This isn't his first time

Dele is a renowned lawyer who won many cases and lost some like other lawyers. He has even retired from active service. He once faced this same Afe Babalola in some cases and his book streamlined those cases with his facts and evidences according to him. So, what's the childish talk of begging? I really don't understand

Afe Babalola is the Patron of my Alma Mater but, he should not use force to coarse Dele. Dele should be allowed to go and prepare for his case with being intimidated

dominique:
I wouldn't know, does it mean every single one oftheir commuters move from Mowe to sangotedo seven days a week?

You should consider those persons too cos that's a route for the vehicle. Most of the vehicles moved from Mainland to Island. See the sizes of these vehicles. They Will consume more fuel/diesel as per their sizes

So, disputing the cost of servicing without you having access to the data isn't sensible

dominique:
Essentially they're saying their commuters spend almost ₦6000 daily on transport if they're to go oit all seven days in a week. That's a tad exaggerated, I wonder what else they're exaggerating about

From Mowe to Sangotedo is how much to and fro please?

I entered this bus for the first time last week Friday. Due to the situation that made me entered after the bus we boarded spoilt by the road side, I couldn't even check the body. We just entered hurriedly. I saw the people, over 30 in numbers. So, I was waiting for the conductor to collect his money, it was then I realized it was RCCG Assisted Bus.

I quite commend their effort. An average Nigerian working in the island and staying around Berger Axis spends over a 100k monthly. So, you can imagine the relief this is bringing to the people regardless of your belief system

Other organisation, religious body and members of the public who are capable should do something to relieve Nigerians from the harsh economic situation and not always criticizing.

Since I'm one of those that speak up when it's wrong, I should also be able to speak when the right thing is done

Thank you the management and members of the RCCG for this wonderful initiative

Dbegining:
You are the daft one here. Ironically.

The EFCC refused to make the person from whom the chattel was seized. They release a statement after they were challenged about it saying they won't tell the name of the person because the suit and court case didn't allow for it which was a lie which sowore later exposed by getting the court documents.

The EFCC has now deleted that statement.

Even the EFCC conceded that they did wrong after proof was brought. So, you see that you're the daft one.

Not forgetting that if it were students suspected of internet fraud, without even winning or even taking the case to court, the EFCC will publish their faces and full government names.
Talk about double standards.


Remind me, how old are you? Cause discuss like this are for adults. Move to the romance section. It's where you belong.

Lol... That last sentence was a fatality!

I guess you're talking about "slaves that still loves their chains".

The romance section with a touch of the entertainment section is the perfect place of that dude. This is for men and not children to comprehend

Injustice somewhere is threat to justice everywhere...

It might be Dele today...

wonder233:
I agree with you on this. I was also once married, and it turned out to be the greatest delusion humans can subject themselves to. It is torture for two people to be bound for life. It is against human nature. The older people who have done it merely endured. Is that life? Lets have open relationships and coparent if kids are involved.

Why do you need an open relationship and co-parenting? You should be independent and not looking for kids or co-parenting. Just live as an island!

MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

The narratives of marriage is overrated is all time wrong. I understand the point of personal opinion, but not in this case due to your use of marriage and overated

You spoke about limitations, it's not the marriage that was limited but the players. No human being is created independent. Understand this and have peace

In business, you need the gig, in health, you need the professionals and so his marriage. If you want true independence, then, it's in the grave...

Marriage is an institution... An institution is built and heavily invested on. I strongly doubt your knowledge about marriage before you married. Maybe you thought it was the I love you I love you thing. You never understood marriage from the point of being an institution before venturing into it

Marriage is unique and it comes with it own challenges, but, it's worth the time, it's worth the confirmations, it's worth the investment and for men, do everything to be sure you're with the right partner to building that awesome but challenging institution that will stand the test of time

I come in peace

Britishpea:
Wisdom is expensive! That Tinubu could sway El Rufai who had been campaigning against him since 2020, to his side is enough to make you know that Tinubu is even underrated.... Saraki messed with him and hes trying hard to not to remain a history today...

Same Rufai is currently in moribund...

He (Tinubu)totally destroyed LP.

HE knows what Nigerian politicians want which is money and power and he knows how to lured them with it...

No strong politician without loyalists... and you must know how to gain your loyalists...All these qualities and many more, Tinubu possesses with a high touch of maverick, smartness, and sagacity with alot of brute and ogbaa in readiness to give WHATEVER it takes to get his mission accomplished... and you think any party or politician will remove him without the approach better than him pradeda by all these weak and unintelligent Obi, ATIKU, of the almost extinct PDP, non existent LP and a new party that will surface at the 11th hour..


grow above your wisdom to embrace other peoples views boy

I support your view. Nevertheless, Obi and a strong northern voice can do better than what Obi got in 2023.

Our political structure will be better of if we have strong oppositions. This is why I will stick with Obi and Kwankwaso combination

[quote author=Alsenora post=132981038][/quote]The great Awolowo is from Ogun State. I happen to serve in that state and the NYSC Orientation Camp is a stone throw to his home town Ikenne

Brother, taking Ogun into account, from Mowe down to Opic, about two LGAs can't boost of eight ( well equipped State owned Secondary School. Secondary Schools you see mostly are organized by the community, not even local government. That's how bad the state is in terms of education. The three states in that region I can is still trying to meet up education wise in terms of the old legacy are Ekiti, Oyo and Lagos

The truth is, South South will always come top in major or positive investments such as education, sport and infrastructures

In sport alone, four out of five indigenous coaches that graced the Super Eagles are from South South. Only Delta State boost of over seven FIFA standard Stadium while Lagos and Abuja can barely name three(3), respectively

With time, South South might takeover South West in terms of Industrial Infrastructure, especially if Seaport is optimally functioning in the region

Crowd isn't even my thing. So, I jejely told my younger brother, my counselor and a friend. Services the gen and did follow-up on when she'll be coming for the weekend

Deal day, my playlist was Johnny Drille since we both love the dude's songs. With confirm pepper soup... As she's coming out from the kitchen, na so I propose. The rest was just history. Years counting, we still dey ball in commitment

Like the Ops rightly said, avoid public proposing... If she rejects you in private, just few close persons will know, otherwise, your matter will trend

UltimateCSH:
How far today game I see your super flies played well today and lost 1-2 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Small Eagle of Nigeria 🇳🇬

The meaning of game and sportsmanship are synonymous

You lose some while you win some. This lies the fun

You forgot the part were we're topping the table and we've qualified even before playing the match. Many of our A-list players didn't even play the game

The team did well. There's enough room for improvement. The players who played yesterday's game needs the confidence

UltimateCSH:
Nigeria supposed loss... Played nonsense football

So, you think the nation we're playing came to watch us beat them. Just listen to yourself!

Sometimes, we just think we should be able to beat any team! Their current coach is even our formal coach. They have the capacity to keep him

Benin is no small nation when it comes to football

SE played their best, secured a point which for me is great

DiamondsAreFore:
It's a Range Rover, not a Rolls Royce.

Buying a Range Rover, especially if it is a fairly used model, isn't really a big deal if you have 3 billion in your bank account.

And you actually think our actors have up to N3b Naira in their account because the media say so?

Many of them take loan to shoot a movie. Even Funke had to marry a money bag producer, Nevermind even if she's the third wife

Most movies she produces in recent time are co-produced and owned by she and the husband

DiamondsAreFore:
I'm not sure this dude knows what he's saying.

Funke Akindele's movies have made almost 3 billion naira at the Nigerian Box Office. After paying taxes to the government and royalties to actors who star in her movies, I'm sure she will have at least 2.5 billion naira as her own personal profit.

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The top movie makers in Nigeria, like Funke Akindele, Kemi Adetiba, Kunle Afolayan etc who are putting out good content which is professionally made and which can be watched in a cinema or on a streaming platform like Netflix or Amazon are actually cashing out big time.

What you posted is same as saying because a footballer is signed with big money he's very rich

There are many factors involved here. Do you know how much bloggers collect from these producers. Paying the actors and crews. The PR work and so on

There's so much involved in making movies, especially good movies

So,the money as you posted in reality isn't as you see. A lot is involved!

No reasonable producer will use the earnings he or she got from producing over 3 classic movies just to buy a Range

Banks don't joke with the name Twitter especially when you tag them with CBN... Be sure to see your money reversed

Is Obi on the news regularly, the answer is Yes.

He needs to be on the news, faces and ears of Nigerians for the forthcoming elections. This is one of the reasons I love Trump.

In all these interviews has he ever said something that is perceived wrong or right, better put, twisted or controversial, the answer is yes!

For me, Companies should be turned to churches and mosques. Nigeria needs more pastors and imams now than ever... We must recruit more prayer warriors than recruit more disruptive thinkers

I already know that NNPCL is placing politics with Nigerians. I still affirm, Dangote Refinery is a private business who will always be open to doing business. They can't jeopardize that for petty politics