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Marriage itself iss not for the weak... It takes courage and true understanding of the concept of life and value for each other to go into marriage. Every marriage will be tried! I will continue to say, marriage is so beautiful, and like every other things that is beautiful comes with a price! I see many using this opportunity to downplay marriage |
We still have many doctors in Nigeria... Atleast, Dr Sid and Small Doctor are part of those still in Nigeria This is just medicine, what about other profession? |
Aonkuuse:When we tell technicians, artisans and craftsmen that their safety is more important, they think we're making noise. Once assigned a task, inspect the place and ensure you have a safe work environment House built under high tension is already a danger zone. Safety first, safety always! |
babakb:Currently studying Master In Power Engineering in the US from a prestigious university of technology amongst first five in the US. Studying masters, like I explained previously depends on the courses you did, as in my case, electrical engineering, the years, your GP in key courses and most importantly, your Work Experience. Let me even burst your head, you study almost same courses for Electrical Engineering in both University and Polytechnic and those schools in US are only interested in your Transcripts and most especially your work experience for graduate programs and not the name of the certificates as in the case of Nigeria |
omolola12345:Both years are even the same if not more for the HND holder. Perhaps, you're referring to an ND holder. Get the understanding. It takes you a minimum of 4yrs to be in HND 1 regardless of the course you're studying in the Polytechnic. I'll give you a breakdown, 2yrs for your ND, 1yr compulsory IT (This is only when you've successfully passed your ND without CO), 2yrs for HND. Altogether, you have a minimum of 5yrs in obtaining HND Certificate |
It takes 5yrs to study any course in HND and graduate. Anyone who passes through the HND program spent a minimum of 5yrs regardless of the course of study which is unlike the University where some courses are less than 5yrs. The discrimination is very unnecessary They both spent same years to study Engineering and one is discriminated after years of studying. One is trained in technology while the other is trained in research and science The combination of both graduates are needed in a modern day technology driven economy. As a student of Masters In Power Engineering in the US, I used my HND. Over there, the courses you did in your undergraduate level, the years and experiences in your field of practice is what counts. This is why the US structure has two master systems, master in technology and master in science. Master in technology is for the industry while master in science is for research and development. Very straight forward Both the university and the Polytechnic offers same engineering courses and read same textbooks, spent same number of years. I wouldn't know what other discipline |
ibechris:Your statement is barbaric and very uncivilized. You don't use people's actions to judge a whole region or tribe. Condemn what is condemnable If they're guilty,they should pay for their crimes |
Shouldn't Akpabio be excused from leading the Senate pending when investigation is concluded? Akpabio being the President, Senate, won't it jeopardize the investigation and cause undue interference courtesy of his current position? |
I must say this price drop is only on SM as we've not seen it translating into the reality of living in my area. If the rumor is true, then, the agency responsible for regulating market prices should get into the markets and start arresting sellers selling otherwise |
Adonisty:So, as lovely as Bio-Chemistry, the best thought is to go take a UTME form? This is my take... The problem with graduates is "the money syndrome". After NYSC, we want to make money and not build career Building a career takes you following processes. For you, all hope isn't lost Get an Internship position asap in a big lab or chemical firm (maybe a pharmaceutical company). The challenge is, you might not even be paid, best bet, a stipend. But, these are your building blocks in growing. Sadly, you're doing this now, but, that shouldn't discourage you I hope this helps |
Adonisty:What's your field of study as a graduate? |
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I came for a function in Ekiti State, having schooled here many years ago... The only striving business that can stand the test of time in Ekiti State, is building tertiary institution. The state is almost the same over fifteen years ago that I left This government understands this and are making everything possible to seeing that these two state close to each other fully benefits from FG in terms of building of tertiary institution. |
DrAda:In this part of the world, we're too use to money and gift. People don't respect you because you're rich, they respect you because of the value you give |
As a man, I sometimes wonder why this kind of question consistently keep coming... Your mother is your father's wife. She can never take the place of your wife. Maybe, you will call your mother to take care of you when you're old You'll live more with your wife than you'll ever stay with your mother. And the constant use of my mother supports me here and there doesn't make sense. Marriage, especially for the young is a growth process. Even your wife at a certain stage will start recognizing the duty of her immediate family and then start prioritizing her. Your mother wasn't this caring when she was newly married. She grew into the responsibility you're seeing. How will you compare your mother to your wife when the age gap is generational? Men should learn to accept their wives and give them opportunities to make mistakes, learn and grow. Marriage comes in stages I frown against comparison between mother and wife, father and husband. It's a sign of weakness and ignorance |
iamonpointa:Thank you so much for this. I hope ops will read this |
Well, I have seen comments and your reply op... Life has processes. So, if your salary is 85K/month, what are the services you render? What profession are currently plying your trade? All I see here is complaints and no single time you took to tell us the services/profession you can render Many of us today didn't even have the opportunity to earn this much in equivalence when we started. I might not be able to advise you much cos I don't have those information I needed in your epistle. In any case, you need a second hustle. I personally have close to three different side hustle even as A Project Engineer. You spoke about Marriage. Marriage isn't automatic. It starts by making plans, getting a certain partner and understanding your values and road map to a successful home. Talking about business, you can always think big but start small. Just last September, we ventured into wholesales selling of drinks, but, guess what, we took 200k to depot and even the manager was shocked and told us to go gather more money as this said amount is too small to start wholesale. My wife and I understand what we needed. Within few months down the line, a lot have been learnt, more money raised, with proper book keeping, loan was granted and we could say thank you Lord! On business, you have to think big, but start small. Starting small isn't a sign of foolishness or lack of funds. You already have an accomodation. You're putting too much pressure on yourself. Why comparing your age with your accomodation? Who is setting the standard? In life, everyone have their routes and story. In your story, your script and directors are different. You should be grateful that you have that accomodation. Focus on improving yourself and side hustles. There's no late coming when it comes to success You spoke about car... You see to the extent you've allowed social media to control your emotions? At 33, you didn't even thought of those who are still pursuing admissions. So many don't even have a job not to talk of salaries. You're earning 85k and already thinking about a car, a family, a business all at once. Why not settle yourself first, be proud of your achievement at this age and be thankful for life. This is a new year, seriously think of some side hustles. Get the necessary skill needed to trade in those areas. Focus on self development within the first half of the year. Some self development are even free with your data on YouTube and Facebook Platforms you will consume massive educational contents for some side hustles. If you intend to rent a one bedroom flat for 450k, nobody is pointing a gun for you to stay in that area. Look for a less environment to stay. No put pressure on yourself Let me hold it here... Find a reason to be grateful at 33 Peace! |
emkz:It's called suggestions. Anyone can suggest to the president It's about the good of the land Learn to focus on the message and not the messenger |
Can True Love Survive Without Money? Absolutely, true love can survive without money. Money, though essential for meeting life’s practical needs, is merely a tool—it’s not the foundation of love. What aspiring lovers should focus on is value. True love cannot thrive without values like responsibility, empathy, care, patience, vision, and commitment. These are the pillars that uphold a lasting relationship, even in the face of challenges. This is evident in all walks of life, as even the wealthy often struggle in relationships. Why? Because money cannot replace core values. A PERSONAL REFLECTION: After graduating from school and before embarking on my NYSC (National Youth Service Corps), I met a lady while she was still a student. We began dating, but during my service year in Ogun State, my father passed away, and life became even more difficult. My only hope was my vision and the future I was building. Over time, my then-girlfriend left, saying nothing good could come out of me. It was heartbreaking, but I pressed on, holding onto my dreams. A few years later, I met someone who believed in me. She saw my vision, trusted my potential, and chose to walk this journey with me. That woman is now my wife, and our story has completely transformed. Ironically, the lady who once despised me and prioritized money over values eventually lost what she thought was secure. By God’s grace, I became the instrument He used to help her find stability again. The Lesson For Me: The word “love” has indeed been overabused. True love isn’t about abundance or comfort; it’s revealed in the presence of nothing, scarcity, and want. Let’s remember: love thrives not because of what we have but because of the values we hold dear and share with one another. Welcome to the last day of the year |
lailo:Thank you for successfully confusing me... Right now, I just need somewhere to wine off, cos it's the last day of the year 2024 and I refuse to be confused |
lailo:I'm an Obedient and I support this laudable progress in our democratic system. Sometimes, the problem is with the supporters. Great initiatives are always welcomed. The Obedient movement isn't a political party, it's a revolution that have come to stay. You have to see beyond your nose to understand this movement, hence your naive line of reasoning We seek the progress of Nigeria just as you do too, the only difference is in our ideology. While we praise the laudable achievement in this regards, we'll continue to mount pressure and constructively criticise the government of the day where we deem fit Hope this have helped you to get solace as we approach the end of the year Peace! |
I was actually looking forward to seeing his reasons for support BAT, but, I found none There must always be a reason for an action, otherwise, we become same politicians we constantly criticizes due to lack of shame and standards. Once there's money in the other party, they're gone, no reason attached! |
Ishilove:My younger brother raised a child and ten years later discovered the child isn't his. If you like, reduce your love for him or not, it doesn't changed the fact that he now knows the children are his or not. Your love is inconsequential If you reduce your love for him and in turn weakens your marriage, he marries another lady. Simple! |
Samantha125:Even in Nigeria, it's your legal right to conduct a DNA test on any of your child when in doubt. You can even make it formal by going through the court if you so wish! |
Samantha125:Shouldn't the man carry a DNA test when in doubt? Is it a crime? And who on earth told you the child will grow up to hate the father. This is an information age where children can even read their own story when they grow up. Marriage is between two families and you think a family will sit and watch you take their child from them just like that? Stop watching too much Nollywood movies. |
DF cases is still the easiest case to prove in court He spoke his truth. And according to him, they were his personal encounters and as such, once he can prove them, Otan! |
jazzman7711:Could you please explain how he plans to tackle unnecessary inflation rocking the country? Also let us know how his administration plans to ensure that private sector key into the implementation of the new minimum wage in his media chat |
Newusername:Yes |
I beg to differ ops Each time I see women striving to be disruptive in their thinking, I'm always wowed! That being said, having a family is great, I mean very great. And having a successful family is the best! Family becomes everything, cos you have to invest some of your time, emotions and resources Family has never been the cause of failure. Once you understand proper time and schedule management, you can combine family with building of career and business to becoming that woman of recon As I speak with you, The Current President/Chairperson of the Nigerian Society of Engineer is a woman. She's the first female NSE president in the history of NSE. She's happily married and blessed with children. Very successful in her career. She was one time my branch chairperson. In view of this, even the current branch chairperson of my branch of NSE is a woman, very intelligent, savvy, blessed with kids and a wonderful husband. Like, she's happily married. Let's take it a step higher, you have read about Okonji Iweala, a blessed mother and wife! You have a wonderful dream, your focus should be up and down. Up in the sense of the how and resources for your big dreams, down in the sense of the choice of the man to marry. You should be focused on marrying a goal getter and supporter. Someone, when he speaks, motivates you and makes you and takes you to the top just be talking with you. One that you both can inspire Lastly, all dreams are achievable if you have what it takes to pursue them! Peace! |
LegendHero:You have not answered my question vis-a-vis the constitution except you wrote a new constitution that we don't know And has the author of the book ever for once claimed he doesn't have enough evidences If Afe sure of himself, he shouldn't intimidate the man but allow him to go prepare for his case. This is while people are supporting Dele cos in his book, he also mentioned intimidation which Afe just showed the world You spoke about rape... Rape is a major crime unlike defamation. I understand you don't even have the Nigerian constitution, if you do, you should know defamation is a minor crime. Defamation is a bailable offense, but, with Afe, it's not. Meaning, he also controls the NPF and some judiciary cabals which have put this country as one of the most corrupt |
LegendHero:You're the one I pity for. This is why I shake my head in pity when I see Nigerians defending oppressors Someone is oppressing a Nigerian all in the name of 'you defame me' and you come online to type. Does prison look like where defamation is settled? The person that defame didn't run away. He answered all invitation by the NPF. So, what's is crime? You imprisoned someone because of a petition without fair hearing in a competent court and you want me to believe Afe isn't guilty of what he's been accused! |
deji17:And you think using police to harass Dele is the solution? Illiterate! |
