sevule:
Sorry to hear that your father is abusing you emotionally but the truth is that you cannot afford to move out on a 22k salary. The only way you can move out is if you live with a friend or relative rent free.

If this is not an option for you, you might have to put up with your father. Try and be political. Give your father money on a monthly basis as part of your contribution for food and bills. Buy him nice things when you can afford it and never raise your voice at him.

Truth be told but at 27 your father can tell you to leave his house as he doesn't owe you anything. Plead with him to give you some time to arrange yourself but you need to start planning to move out ASAP! Start looking for another job because 22k is definitely not a salary you can live on.

Best of luck!

thank u so much for ur advice. But the fact is, I try but he always wants more. Presently I buy all the provisions we use at home and this costs me like 10k every month. I rarely eat at home, so I don't even bug him at all. Last year December, I got him a 10k wrist watch and a 12k material for sewing, but on a normal day, he still says am backward. Its just so frustrating!!!!!!

Hello guys, please I need ur constructive advice on this.. Really don't know where to start but i'll make it as brief as possible. Am from the southern part of nigeria, a graduate of political science and I just clocked 27. Mum died last year and since then, dad has made life unbearable. Am not surprise though, cos he's always been like that even when mum was alive. He keeps reminding me that, at 26 he was already married and had my elder brother, he compares me with his friend's children that are already married wit kids.I work as a private school teacher wit a psaltry sum of 22k, but dad keeps shouting that I don't contribute to the family upkeep. He got involved wit a young lady (about 30yrs old) since January and this has worsen the situation. To cut the long story short, dad ask my younger sista to tell me to leave the house, so that he can remarry. His "NEW WIFE" saw me wit a group of friends and reported to my dad that I am now a prostitute, Lol. Since then, dad keeps calling me a prostitute. It got to the point that even our neighbours started advising me to leave. Dad has neva seen anything good in me, and what really breaks my heart is that, am a total opposite of what he thinks of me. I may not be a saint, but I've got morales. At 27, I've still not had sex. But my father thinks am a LovePeddler. Am gradually loosing my mind and the best I can do is to leave. 1. Is moving out the best idea ?? 2. Can I survive wit my meagre salary ?? 3. What else can I do to salvage this situation?? Sorry for the long epistle though, and pls ignore my grammatical errors.

Touchey:
Your construction is very poor

your comment is very silly..........

@op, don't worry, u'll surely find her. Just put ur mind in it, and follow it up prayerfully... U'll get hooked in no time.

Maybe am the only one who belivs ur storyy... But u didn't have to upload ur pix.

Its a movie......

zinachidi:
north- boko haram


South- kidnapping


East- armed robbery

west- all of the above

Cute guys........ By the way, today is my bday. Just few likes will do.

Cute guy. .............. Meanwhile FTC

Darling drop that school and take that job pls. Am a graduate, earning 22k monthly, and am the luckiest of my 3friends who are still unemployed after 2yrs.

RIP mum, you would always be the best. Its been just a year since you left us and we r having a hard time with dad......... Sleep on my gallant soldier.

Waiting for yemisi's side of the story!!!!!!!

Why she no waka naked at once, make I know say she be real big girl...... Mtchewwwwww. Alex u sef dey wear chieftaincy go party ni?? What's with the red cap na??

[ quote author=ilobasama post=36226679]W[/quote]for wickedness

adewaletb3:

Seconded

thirded.....

cherylsmith:
Mbok mmenie idom?

mydear ami ndiongoke oo

markidoo:
udy eyen eka mi ke anam oo .ami ndi eyen akwaibom nkoh n ndung ke uyo. Mme yem ndi do ufan mfo. Nwed me ke quote.

hahaha. Makido mkpo abadie? Afo anamdie adiongo ke ami ndo eyeb akwa Ibom? Ok ami mba ke uyo nko.

starlingslimnet:
Haba she is a young snake and not dangerous.

you are not serious.......

Chai this guy dey sample fish for him palour oo....... Abi him wan use am as furniture??

breadandbutter:


ALL I SEE IS A FAKE PASTOR AND HIS FELLOW SCAMMER CALLED WIFE AND THEIR GULLIBLE WORSHIPERS SHINING THEIR YEYE TEETH LIKE ROASTED GOAT

if you have a bible, read matthew; 7v1-5.

You neva chi chom chin........

HungerBAD:
In one MONTH Buhari, has done more than GEJ did in 2 Years.

Pls tell me one thing he has done.... Am lost here.

Thebachelor:
Damn!!! She's so beautiful. If only the universe can take the whole of Tonto Dike and exchange her with just a leg for this marvellous design of nature on my screen.

Guy your wickedness no be here Oo..........

Even with all the money his father has, he still looks so KPAKOish........

Lucky him, atleast its better than being sentenced to death by hanging or firing squad.

ABIOLAXYZ:
Allahu Akbar

meaning, "welcome to the terrorists religion"

SSPX:
Stop wondering you heretic dullard, Mary is the MOTHER OF Jesuse Daughter of God the Father and Spoues of Holy spirit so she divinely connected and all grace we receive from God pass through her hand that is why she is full of Grace.

God abeg oo, eleyi gidi gan. Are u now saying that Mary was the spouse of the holy spirit?? Let's get this straight, so Mary was Gods daughter? Holy spirit's spouse (abi wife). That automatically makes God to be Jesus' grandfather. My brother, you seem to be lost in transit, get closer to ur bible n read more......

Aside the fact that she's fair, did she also bleach?? Her cheeks seems to be falling off.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha..... This new generation of singers, nobody gree reach 25yrs oo. I hear say frank Edwards na 21yrs sef. I no fit laugh oo. Abeg I wan declare age ASAP........ Who can help?

And you've got over 80likes for writing this poo Op you can't continue to deceive all the people, all the time........

Lilimax:
Understandeth what thou readeth?

Pls asketh him again oo

Silly talk...