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unf. i dont see the pic. how u look now, short why not, maybe this will cool you alittle bit in the hot summer :-)

thanx

so have you made up your mind about the hair question yet?

of course I mean worse in the sense that I don't even know one word in yoruba !!! not that it is worse than Ibgo!
So dont get me wrong pls.

thats even worse, , sorry!

@vanitty

thx - i'm still learning igbo you know and it is not that easy, especially the pronunciation

@moyola

can u explain what aso-ebi is? sorry im not from nigeria :-)

there is always a woman and a man needed for one to be unfaithful :-)))))))

@osisi,

I am sorry my dear - so i guess you are at home right!?!
how boring, but hey, so we are already 2 people bored

Ok, maybe I should start:

- Sitting in my office, 1st floor in a metal trading company in Zurich (Switzerland)
- Alone (my boss and all the others have their own office)
- chewing on a paper-clip
- it is half raining - half sunny outside
- waiting to go home and cook something to eat (i think i will make fish today)

Everyone , pls, I am sooo bored at work, so lets start the conversation! What are you doing right now. I want to know it all:

- Where are you
- What are you doing there
- Who is with / around you
- Why are you there
- What are you planning for today
- Who are you

I think you didnt get me right,

i didnt mean that the man is allowed to have extra maritial affaires and the woman isnt.

NONE is - that is my opinion, and if one (no matther if the man or the woman) thinks he needs that, than
i prefer being alone,

Do me I do you!?!

I am sorry I totally disagree - I have been married once and I have been cheated on, that is the moment you have to go for divorce, not any later - - revenge in this case is the seed of your own unhappines, not a solution to your dissapointment and ager!

u want a womans advice

there you go - -ok 4-5 times, abeg, give her some air
it is def. not about quanitity but about quality, so stopp
that sh, or you will get a heartattack!!!!


rather one time - but good - than 5 times without result :-)
got me?

@poster

nawaoo!!!! This story really makes me speachless,

- He doesn't want you to meet his family (or visit him where he comes from). I mean even if you know some people from his family, of course you would want to know where he comes from
- He doesn't want you to learn igbo
- He doesn't want mixed kids

I am sorry to say but you must have really different expectations in a relationship than I do. Me i am traveling to nigeria soon to meet the family, then i will get married, I am learning igbo together with my boyfriend (and also on the web) and he is already talking about having kids.

Another thing - my boyfriend has a kid from another woman as well (swiss woman) and i know the kid and I have seen the woman - that is another thing - i am not saying she is my friend, but I think it is important that the kid and the mother know that there is anothr person on nis side, have you everthought about this, have you ever talked to the mother of the kids or the kids themselves,

I am so sorry, but in my eyes you have really accepted things you should not have accepted. This has nothing to do with him being a nigerian, he could be an american, a chinese or whatever man but if he is obviously telling you he doesnt want you to get close to him (culture, language, family) how can you even call such a person your husband,

I feel sorry for you all i can say (what we say in german

[center][size=8pt]Rather an ending with pain than pain without an ending[/center]

;d

@ centrino

you want to come to the wedding !?!
but you know it is not my own and it will take place in enugu :-)

@amigoz

lol, you are very funny, but thanks for saving my thread :-)

Thank you for the website, how nice that such a thing exists. You know I think this is a really good thing, i imagine it not to be the easiest thing in the world to adapt in a new society in a new culture.

@ tiffcisco
I will probably be moving within the next 2 to 5 years, denends on the money and how long it takes for me to organize myself :-) To what part i really dont know yet. I would like to open up a shop - and for that reason lagos would be my address, but if I can find a job or something to do in aba, i will go to Aba (where my fiance is coming from). I guess i will judge on that after coming back from my vacation (i am going to nigeria in 2 weeks :-))

pls,,,can you not find out the name of the website?

@bigug04

Sorry, i have never been to basel ( i live in zürich) and i have also never travelled to the netherlands, so i can not help you out with more information about that, u migth just have to look on the internet.

Trust is not about control -
if you trust your husband, there is no way you have to think of even answering his phone!

That is my point of view, i have my phone, he has his phone and unless he tells me to pick the call for him - his phone stays his private property - not because he has something to hide - but because people who call his phone are calling HIM not ME!

@blacksta

what do you mean by stay away?

YES - I got my visa, so everything is settled - - - very soon i will see igboland :-)

@morpheus24

its ok, i have checked out the oyibo page, but honestly, i think those are mostly people that work in a oyibo company and are not much integrated in the country, u know what i mean. From what i read they are rather negatively minded and have stayed true to their oyibo culture, i would prefer to hear from people that for example speak igbo and made good experiences, not those who just go to nja for work and then come back to wherever they come from!

No I am not nigerian - which would make me an expatriate if I live in nigeria :-)
and no i do not want to live in a place where expatriates are concentrated, i am very
fine with nigerians themselves, all I wanted was to find out what experiences people
who are not nigerians made when they moved to nigeria,

Did I say anything bad about nigerians. I am sorry but you have to read my text -
i want to go and live in that country, not tourist ok, so the last thing i would do is
make a difference between expatriate or nigerians. I just wanted to see if i could get
in touch with some people who have already adapted to the culutre and the life in nigeria,
as i am intending to do, 

@osisi

thanx, i will take a lot of pics and then show them to you aiiight :-)

cant wait to see everything and i am not worrired at all, more worried that
i will not come back because i like it sooo much .-)

@londoner

is cola nut the same as bitter cola' i have tried that once and i didnt like it :-)

allright :-) thanx for the advice

anything else i should prepare myself for?!?

@sagamite

yeahhh, u still remember me!?!

thnx, don make me blush ok, too many compliments!
so you are in to politics, i just think it is tooo boring to talk about it all the time,
but you are a man right! so you are excused :-)

so whaz up in london?

@londoner

yes they are igbos, so you think a nice handshake (and maybe a little bending) would do?
thankx for the advice