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Firstly you guys weren't lovers, they match made you guys. So she's not really into you yet, she only want to settle down. So she's still keeping her option open cos you've not yet married her and you've not committed her in any way, you only made your intention known. You rushed it bro, you should've collected the marriage list and fixed the date you're coming to present those items on the marriage list. Then that would've been the right time to test her and if she fails, then you have every right to walk away. So forgive her, but don't rush things, get to know her much better before marriage.

Yes ooo..... when it seemed as all hope was lost, the all knowing God came through for me. May His name alone be praised for ever and ever in Jesus name Amen.

Chai....this girl is a chronic thief, she deserve 20yrs imprisonment without an option of fine, the judge was very lenient. As she claimed she didn't demand of the TP money, so it was AI that generated her account details and sent to the guy. This thief had the mind to block the guy after receiving the money. She's not even ashame, she's here telling the public this stupid cooked story. Though this whole thing is still like the work of a content creator to me.

Having more than one girlfriend at a time, marrying a first daughter that have many younger ones and lastly investing in a girlfriend etc, are financial mistakes.

My guy to be frank with you, your wife is cheating on you, for her to exchange pleasantries with the guy and later both of them pretended as if they don't know each other speak volumes, also for her to lie to you that she was in the house with she wasn't there prove she's cheating, cheating start from lies. Also why did the guy run away having sighted you, if he wasn't guilty of something?So I recommend divorce, cos a cheating wife or girlfriend can never change, though don't divorce her quickly until you get substantial evidence. Just behave normal and play along, let her know you believe her while watching her closely you will definitely get her. You can buy a phone and put it on recorder hide it in your house anytime you go out or go to work, then when you get back take it to a private place and play it, you'll definitely hear her conversation with the guy or any other guy then you take your final decision.

Marriage is a very good and enjoyable thing, when you have the finance and good spouse. No one have the right to pressure any adult into marriage, it's solely a personal decision. Those people pressuring you to marry, 99% of them can never dash you common 5k to sort out your finance in marriage if you're broke.

This man is right, though he doesn't have the right to tell who goes to heaven or hell.
Now to the Catholic members, how can you guys be worshipping cement mix with sand? God hate idolatry so much, on different occasions, He ask us to worship Him and Him alone, anyone that bows for any image apart from God is worshipping another God, not the true God.

This constituency money should be stopped as the people that the money is mean for aren't benefitting from it. There's no project from this money in any constituency that worth 20million.

State governor should provide which land? no state governor in the SS will provide land for people to do their private business. If anyone need land it should be bought or the FG should also give us accomodation and shop free to do our businesses.

This is the only solution for now, if this brainless government continue to float the naira, the naira free fall will continue.

Mr Obi please call this your man to order, if not LP won't stand any chance of winning subsequent election in this country. This is the hight of wickedness, is he paying them with his money, are they not all Abians irrespective of party affiliation. We thought
LP was different, now they've proved us wrong. All eyes on LP now.

Nice one, Abia state is heading the right way.
The hair guy, please drop your number here.

Iam so shocked by many people's comment here, I hardly comment but I have to do so cos this's a matter between life and death. In Akwa Ibom State, there's no amendment to custom and tradition, don't allow your fiancee or your future mother inlaw to lead you astray, for the sake of your fiancee's life. Listen very well, go and get the marriage list from your fiancee's biological father, the bride price and every other thing should be paid to him,
his kinsmen & your fiancee's mum alone. The marriage should be done in his hometown and he's the one to sit as a father that very day. Any amount of money you can afford, give it to the man that took care of your fiancee. If your fiancee and the mother refuse to accept it, please and please cancel the marriage. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

Iam so shocked by many people's comment here, I hardly comment but I have to do so cos this's a matter between life and death. In Akwa Ibom State, there's no amendment to custom and tradition, don't allow your fiancee or your future mother inlaw to lead you astray, for the sake of your fiancee's life. Listen very well, go and get the marriage list from your fiancee's biological father, the bride price and every other thing should be paid to him and his kinsmen. The marriage should be done in his hometown and he's the one to sit as a father that very day. Any amount of money you can afford, give it to the man that took care of your fiancee. If your fiancee and the mother refuse to accept it, please and please cancel the marriage. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

No wonder the Bible says judgement will begin in the church, if Christians that doesn't read the bible but read their so call pastors alone, know the Genesis of tithe, then no Christian will ever think of paying tithe. These business men in the name of pastors, single out only tithe from numerous mosiac laws and command their gullible members to obey only for their selfish interest. Did Jesus Christ pay tithe, did the Apostles pay tithe or commanded anyone to pay tithe? The Bible have said that no one will receive salvation through the works of the law, as no one can keep the whole. I urge Christians to read their bible with understand, so that these business men will stop deceiving them.

A big congrats, indeed God's way isn't man's way. May God's name alone be praised!

You both are wrong, but your wife get the greater blame, the Bible says wife shouldn't refuse the husband and likewise the husband. You've to be a real man and take proper control of your family, no woman respect a weak man. Don't beg her again, don't even call her or any of her family member, wait for like a month or two if she fail to return, then am afraid the marriage may not work. Also did you hurt her in anyway before she start denying you sex and also do you satisfy her doing sex?

The leg shouldn't be amputated, try mirracell plus, they're many testimonies concerning issues like this.

Please someone should help me ask El-rufei if the North had come to South and negotiated, when Ex president Obasanjo handed power to Ex president Yaradua. Ex president Obasanjo did that peacefully respecting the rotational presidency agreement. The North now have no excuse, they should also peacefully handover power to a southern president.

I don't really understand why people can't call a spade a spade, the wife is the root cause of all the problem, the wife doesn't have any respect for the husband and she encourages the children to follow suit. The man need to stand firm as the head of the family and discipline the wife and his children properly when need arises or else he will continue being a house boy in his house. It's the responsibility of the father to cater for his family, also respect from his children and wife isn't negotiable.

My young guy, women are very versatile, they take decision base on situation surrounding them at a given time. Prepare your mind that she may or may not be your wife, so that if the worse happen you will not develope HBP.