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Autos / Re: SOLD!! Neatly Used Honda Civic 2006 Model For Sale @enugu by Ugoholly: 9:45am On Oct 20, 2023 |
I will pay 1m. Very serious |
Celebrities / Re: Rita Dominic Welcomes Friends To England Ahead Of Her Church Wedding (video) by Ugoholly: 7:29pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Sure. |
Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2007/08 Shuts Off At Low Speed Early In The Morning by Ugoholly: 5:59am On Dec 30, 2021 |
Check out the sensors |
Business / Re: Julius Eze Returns ₦2.5 Million Mistakenly Transferred To His Account by Ugoholly: 3:55pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
Good guy 2 Likes |
Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 4:28pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Still available. |
Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 12:53am On Jul 04, 2021 |
Interior
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Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 12:49am On Jul 04, 2021 |
The engine
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Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 2:51pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Sound mob
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Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 2:37pm On Jun 24, 2021 |
EVERYTHING WORKING PERFECTLY
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Autos / Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 2:35pm On Jun 24, 2021 |
A clean used 09 Toyota corolla urgently for sale in Anambra. Working perfectly with no issues. 2M just slightly negotiable Call/Whatsap 08023778811 |
Autos / Re: CLEANEST 2015 AVALON XLE 15M LAST!!! by Ugoholly: 3:16am On Feb 23, 2021 |
Location |
Autos / Re: Registered Toyota Corolla Sport 2005...clean And Sharp, Buy And Drive Etc by Ugoholly: 3:11am On Feb 23, 2021 |
1.3 |
Autos / Re: Superclean 2009 Toyota Corolla In Perfect Condition 1.590k by Ugoholly: 4:02pm On Feb 20, 2021 |
Will like to see the full pix. Where and how do i see it. |
Autos / Re: Carefully Used 05 Corolla Sport....Sold!!! by Ugoholly: 5:35am On Feb 20, 2021 |
I have 1.3 sir |
Autos / Re: *first Body Toyota Corolla 2006 Sport by Ugoholly: 11:26pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Very serious to buy for 1.3 |
Autos / Re: 2007/8 Toyota Corolla S (used) Gray... 1.650M by Ugoholly: 10:31pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
I tried your no is not connecting. Will like to come and see it. I'm in awka |
Autos / Re: *first Body Toyota Corolla 2006 Sport by Ugoholly: 11:59pm On Feb 17, 2021 |
Will pay 1.3 |
Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla Sport 08 For Sale by Ugoholly: 1:57pm On Feb 17, 2021 |
Location sir? |
Autos / Re: 2007/8 Toyota Corolla S (used) Gray... 1.650M by Ugoholly: 12:28pm On Feb 17, 2021 |
Where is the location of the car |
Romance / Re: A Nairalander Pretty Wedding Pictures by Ugoholly: 1:39pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
Everyone is invited. Am sorry |
Fashion / Re: Man's Oversized Wedding Suit Got Nigerians Talking On Facebook (photos) by Ugoholly: 1:36pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
The tailor carry d whole material wey dem go take sow for the whole men on suit sow for dis dude. |
Romance / A Nairalander Pretty Wedding Pictures by Ugoholly: 1:30pm On Apr 18, 2018 |
MJ WED MEKON My younger brother pre wedding pictures. Is happening on the 12th of May 2018 Please wish them well for me. Lalastica, you are highly invited.
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Politics / We Need Peace In Nigeria. Enough Of All This Killing by Ugoholly: 7:03am On Sep 17, 2017 |
“Mankind is a single nation” “I affirm that all human beings are brothers unto one another.” “Mankind is a fold, every member of which shall be a keeper or shepherd unto every other, and be accountable for the welfare of the entire fold.” “Do we not all have one father? Has not one God created us? Why do we deal treacherously each against his brother?” “None of you has faith until he loves for his brother or his neighbor what he loves for himself.” “What is hurtful to yourself do not do to your fellow man.” “And if a man from another country is living in your land with you, do not make life hard for him; Let him be to you as one of your countrymen and have love for him as for yourself.” “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor.” “Whoever loves another for the sake of God, in reality has expressed his love for God.” “Treat kindly the dwellers of the earth and God will treat you kindly.” “All creatures of God form the family of God; and he is the best loved of God who loves best His creatures.” “God says: If you wish to receive graciousness from Me, show graciousness to those whom I have created.” “Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” “Seek peace, and pursue it ‑ seek it in your own place, and pursue it even to another place as well.” “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.” “He who establishes peace between man and his fellow, between husband and wife, between two cities, two nations, two families or two governments…no harm should come to him.” “All of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit.” “Rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another,agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!” “Great is peace since all other blessings are included in it.” “The only reason that the Holy One, blessed be He, created the world was so that there would be peace among humankind.” “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” “The wolf shall dwell with the lamb, the leopard shall lie down with the kid, the calf and the lion together.” “And they shall beat their swords into ploughshares and their spears into pruning hooks.” “Nation shall not take up sword against nation. And they shall not know war any more.” WE ARE ONE. IRRESPECTIVE OF THE TRIBE, RELIGION. WE NEED PEACE IN NIGERIA |
Family / Why People Marry The Wrong Person : All Unmarried Must Read This Before Marriage by Ugoholly: 7:08am On Jun 26, 2016 |
Many married people are daily regretting and cursing their marriages. If you are single, know the reasons why people marry wrong persons and end their marriages in bitter separations or live to endure it. 1. YOU FOCUS MORE ON CHEMISTRY THAN ON CHARACTER Principle: Never marry someone because you’re in love. Falling in love is a state of temporary psychosis. It is the “delusion of fusion.” Identify the specific character traits you must have in your spouse and know clearly how to asses for each one. Background checks are essential, Be especially careful to check out the family. People from warm and loving homes will most likely be emotionally healthy people. Chemistry means there is physical and sexual attraction. Compatibility: Looking for sameness: same backgrounds, culture, language, interests,politics etc. Temperament types are important to know. 2. YOU EXPECT HIM OR HER TO CHANGE AFTER YOU'RE MARRIED The question you must ask is, “Can I live with this person the way he is now and be happy with him?” Principle: Never marry potential. This implies bad potential. He’s a chronic smoker and drunkard and says he’ll change for you. This is bad potential. If he doesn't change you’ll resent him. 3. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THE FUNDAMENTAL NEEDS OF MEN AND WOMEN This is all about making sure the male-female energies are in sync. Men and women each have one core emotional need. Men want to be respected. Women want to be cherished, which means they want to be protected, provided for, and guided. The ultimate prerequisite for a man to get married is that he is ready to take responsibility. He has to be ready to be a “man.” 4. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND WHERE YOU'RE GOING This means knowing what you stand for in life: Your values, priorities, and goals. Ideally you should not be considering marriage until you've answered life’s most important question: What am I living for? Two people who have the same life goal have a much greater chance of growing together and staying together in a deeply bonded way. A soul mate is a goal mate. Principle: The more clearly and narrowly we define ourselves, the better our chance of finding the right person. Tools: What are we going to build together? What are this person’s life commitments? What does this person stand for? What is he passionate about? 5. YOU GET INVOLVED SEXUALLY TOO QUICKLY Becoming intimate too soon can be self-defeating because it creates confusion. • It may create a false sense of commitment and depth. • It may block you from processing your feelings which is soul-tie • It may lead to overlooking problems that should not be overlooked. 6. YOU CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO IS ABUSIVE The definition of an abusive relationship is one in which you are afraid to express your feelings and opinions. Other indicators: • You don’t feel emotionally safe. • You have to monitor what you say. • You walk on egg shells around this person. • You don’t feel relaxed and don’t feel you can be yourself. • The person is demanding, controlling, or communicates with anger and criticism. 7. YOU DO NOT HAVE A CONSISTENTLY POSITIVE EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH EACH OTHER A positive emotional connection does not mean you are in love. Five questions to evaluate if you have a positive emotional connection: 1. Do I respect and admire this person? 2. Do I trust this person in every way and feel I can rely on his or her judgment? 3. Do I feel totally safe with this person (like I feel with my best friend)? 4. Do I truly care about this person and have a desire to give to him or her? 5. Are we open and honest with each other about our feelings and opinions? Your greatest tool for measuring the quality of the relationship is your feelings. Principle: Never dismiss anything that bothers you! Process everything that bothers you. 8. YOU DON'T COMMUNICATE WELL This is very important: You must be sure before you get married that the two of you communicate well. Good communication means: 1. We can talk openly and honestly about our feelings 2. We listen to each other and make it safe for each other to express ourselves. 3. There is no defensiveness 4. We trust that together we can resolve problems 5. We have confidence in ourselves that we can repair our breakdowns 6. We work well together; we’re a good team Principle: You must be able to repair breakdowns 100%, which means there is no resentment or bad feelings left over. One of the biggest mistakes people make is to believe that marriage will heal or fix their deep inner pain. In many cases, marriage will only make the pain greater and more unbearable! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: How To Bite Your Husband Everyday by Ugoholly: 6:44am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Lol 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why People Marry The Wrong Person : All Unmarried Must Read This Before Marriage by Ugoholly: 6:43am On Jun 14, 2016 |
A lot of work is needed before marriage. most of all is self control |
Family / Re: How To Bite Your Husband Everyday by Ugoholly: 9:31am On Jun 08, 2016 |
Thanks |
Family / How To Bite Your Husband Everyday by Ugoholly: 8:51pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
Many women are frustrated in their marriages because their husbands are hard nuts to crack, stone-hearted fellows and a man that can never appreciate their sacrifices in the marriages. This is my sure-banker tips that can melt any man and make him a loving caring husband every day. B-BOW TO HIM-A Woman must see her husband as someone to complement not someone to compete with. Bowing to him is not to worship but to acknowledge him as your leader and head coach. Your education, beauty, family pride and whole body must bow down to him just like the day you knelt down for him in the traditional marriage. The Bible says in 1Peter 3:5-6..” For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord” I-INSPIRE HIM-Instead of nagging, quarrels and negative criticisms, inspire and encourage him to be his best. Pray for him and pray with him. Stop comparing him with your ex-boyfriend, elder brother or father. Be patient with him like his mother and point out his faults with love not with fights. T-TENDERNESS IS THE KEY...Be the female with soft words and with soft touch. Call him sweet names like darling, My only Love, Apple, Sugarcane even bitter-lemon. Buy gifts for him and always prepared his best dish and eat with him. Know when and where to tenderly touch him...all men are sensitive. E-EMBRACE HIS FAMILY MEMBERS-Never ever tries to pick quarrels with his parents and brothers and sisters. Embrace and love them all, both the in-laws and the outlaws so that tension will be less in your home. Many men will side their parents and siblings if there are open confrontations..be wise and be a mother to him |
Autos / Re: *sold* Reg/used Volkswagen Golf4.. Auto, Alloy *sold* by Ugoholly: 7:39am On May 02, 2016 |
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Autos / Re: Corolla 2004,price 750,a/c Is Working So Much,location Enugu by Ugoholly: 4:59am On Apr 28, 2016 |
500 |
Politics / Embrace Change by Ugoholly: 10:33am On Apr 28, 2015 |
When you are aware and accept that everything around you is constantly changing, and that you have no control over 99.99% of it, you are able to embrace change like a close friend! Change is a like a river, constantly flowing and moving things around. The river of life is constantly bringing you ideas, people, situations - each one is an opportunity to be enriched or to enrich others, and to learn. Change is the play of the universe as it entertains us in the biggest light and sound show of all time. Why not sit back and enjoy the show? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Check if you are Shortlisted On Immigration Recruitment by Ugoholly: 3:15pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Okwereaku Ugochukwu 000000017740. Please help me check. |
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