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Autos / Re: SOLD!! Neatly Used Honda Civic 2006 Model For Sale @enugu by Ugoholly: 9:45am On Oct 20, 2023
I will pay 1m. Very serious
Celebrities / Re: Rita Dominic Welcomes Friends To England Ahead Of Her Church Wedding (video) by Ugoholly: 7:29pm On Nov 26, 2022
Sure.
Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2007/08 Shuts Off At Low Speed Early In The Morning by Ugoholly: 5:59am On Dec 30, 2021
Check out the sensors
Business / Re: Julius Eze Returns ₦2.5 Million Mistakenly Transferred To His Account by Ugoholly: 3:55pm On Jul 12, 2021
Good guy

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Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 4:28pm On Jul 05, 2021
Still available.
Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 12:53am On Jul 04, 2021
Interior

Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 12:49am On Jul 04, 2021
The engine

Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 2:51pm On Jun 25, 2021
Sound mob

Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 2:37pm On Jun 24, 2021
EVERYTHING WORKING PERFECTLY

Autos / Toyota Corolla 2009 Model by Ugoholly: 2:35pm On Jun 24, 2021
A clean used 09 Toyota corolla urgently for sale in Anambra.
Working perfectly with no issues.
2M just slightly negotiable
Call/Whatsap 08023778811
Autos / Re: CLEANEST 2015 AVALON XLE 15M LAST!!! by Ugoholly: 3:16am On Feb 23, 2021
Location
Autos / Re: Registered Toyota Corolla Sport 2005...clean And Sharp, Buy And Drive Etc by Ugoholly: 3:11am On Feb 23, 2021
1.3
Autos / Re: Superclean 2009 Toyota Corolla In Perfect Condition 1.590k by Ugoholly: 4:02pm On Feb 20, 2021
Will like to see the full pix. Where and how do i see it.
Autos / Re: Carefully Used 05 Corolla Sport....Sold!!! by Ugoholly: 5:35am On Feb 20, 2021
I have 1.3 sir
Autos / Re: *first Body Toyota Corolla 2006 Sport by Ugoholly: 11:26pm On Feb 18, 2021
Very serious to buy for 1.3
Autos / Re: 2007/8 Toyota Corolla S (used) Gray... 1.650M by Ugoholly: 10:31pm On Feb 18, 2021
I tried your no is not connecting. Will like to come and see it. I'm in awka
Autos / Re: *first Body Toyota Corolla 2006 Sport by Ugoholly: 11:59pm On Feb 17, 2021
Will pay 1.3
Autos / Re: Toyota Corolla Sport 08 For Sale by Ugoholly: 1:57pm On Feb 17, 2021
Location sir?
Autos / Re: 2007/8 Toyota Corolla S (used) Gray... 1.650M by Ugoholly: 12:28pm On Feb 17, 2021
Where is the location of the car
Romance / Re: A Nairalander Pretty Wedding Pictures by Ugoholly: 1:39pm On Apr 18, 2018
Everyone is invited. Am sorry
Fashion / Re: Man's Oversized Wedding Suit Got Nigerians Talking On Facebook (photos) by Ugoholly: 1:36pm On Apr 18, 2018
The tailor carry d whole material wey dem go take sow for the whole men on suit sow for dis dude.
Romance / A Nairalander Pretty Wedding Pictures by Ugoholly: 1:30pm On Apr 18, 2018
MJ WED MEKON
My younger brother pre wedding pictures.
Is happening on the 12th of May 2018
Please wish them well for me.
Lalastica, you are highly invited.

Politics / We Need Peace In Nigeria. Enough Of All This Killing by Ugoholly: 7:03am On Sep 17, 2017
“Mankind is a single nation”

“I affirm that all human beings are brothers unto one another.”

“Mankind is a fold, every member of which shall be a keeper or shepherd unto every other, and be accountable for the welfare of the entire fold.”

“Do we not all have one father? Has not one God created us? Why do we deal treacherously each against his brother?”

“None of you has faith until he loves for his brother or his neighbor what he loves for himself.”

“What is hurtful to yourself do not do to your fellow man.”

“And if a man from another country is living in your land with you, do not make life hard for him; Let him be to you as one of your countrymen and have love for him as for yourself.”

“Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor.”

“Whoever loves another for the sake of God, in reality has expressed his love for God.”

“Treat kindly the dwellers of the earth and God will treat you kindly.”

“All creatures of God form the family of God; and he is the best loved of God who loves best His creatures.”

“God says: If you wish to receive graciousness from Me, show graciousness to those whom I have created.”

“Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”

“Seek peace, and pursue it ‑ seek it in your own place, and pursue it even to another place as well.”

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.”

“He who establishes peace between man and his fellow, between husband and wife, between two cities, two nations, two families or two governments…no harm should come to him.”

“All of you be harmonious, sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted, and humble in spirit.”

“Rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another,agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.”

“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!”

“Great is peace since all other blessings are included in it.”

“The only reason that the Holy One, blessed be He, created the world was so that there would be peace among humankind.”

“Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.”

“The wolf shall dwell with the lamb, the leopard shall lie down with the kid, the calf and the lion together.”

“And they shall beat their swords into ploughshares and their spears into pruning hooks.”

“Nation shall not take up sword against nation. And they shall not know war any more.”
WE ARE ONE. IRRESPECTIVE OF THE TRIBE, RELIGION. WE NEED PEACE IN NIGERIA
Family / Why People Marry The Wrong Person : All Unmarried Must Read This Before Marriage by Ugoholly: 7:08am On Jun 26, 2016
Many married people are daily regretting and
cursing their marriages. If you are single, know
the reasons why people marry wrong persons and
end their marriages in bitter separations or live to
endure it.
1. YOU FOCUS MORE ON CHEMISTRY THAN ON
CHARACTER
Principle: Never marry someone because you’re in
love. Falling in love is a state of temporary
psychosis. It is the “delusion of fusion.” Identify
the specific character traits you must have in
your spouse and know clearly how to asses for
each one.
Background checks are essential, Be especially
careful to check out the family.
People from warm and loving homes will most
likely be emotionally healthy people.
Chemistry means there is physical and sexual
attraction.
Compatibility: Looking for sameness: same
backgrounds, culture, language, interests,politics
etc. Temperament types are important to know.
2. YOU EXPECT HIM OR HER TO CHANGE AFTER
YOU'RE MARRIED
The question you must ask is, “Can I live with
this person the way he is now and be happy with
him?”
Principle: Never marry potential. This implies bad
potential. He’s a chronic smoker and drunkard
and says he’ll change for you. This is bad
potential. If he doesn't change you’ll resent him.
3. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THE FUNDAMENTAL
NEEDS OF MEN AND WOMEN
This is all about making sure the male-female
energies are in sync. Men and women each have
one core emotional need. Men want to be
respected. Women want to be cherished, which
means they want to be protected, provided for,
and guided. The ultimate prerequisite for a man to
get married is that he is ready to take
responsibility. He has to be ready to be a “man.”
4. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND
WHERE YOU'RE GOING
This means knowing what you stand for in life:
Your values, priorities, and goals.
Ideally you should not be considering marriage
until you've answered life’s most important
question: What am I living for? Two people who
have the same life goal have a much greater
chance of growing together and staying together
in a deeply bonded way. A soul mate is a goal
mate.
Principle: The more clearly and narrowly we
define ourselves, the better our chance of finding
the right person.
Tools: What are we going to build together? What
are this person’s life commitments? What does
this person stand for? What is he passionate
about?
5. YOU GET INVOLVED SEXUALLY TOO QUICKLY
Becoming intimate too soon can be self-defeating
because it creates confusion.
• It may create a false sense of commitment and
depth.
• It may block you from processing your feelings
which is soul-tie
• It may lead to overlooking problems that should
not be overlooked.
6. YOU CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO IS ABUSIVE
The definition of an abusive relationship is one in
which you are afraid to express your feelings and
opinions.
Other indicators:
• You don’t feel emotionally safe.
• You have to monitor what you say.
• You walk on egg shells around this person.
• You don’t feel relaxed and don’t feel you can be
yourself.
• The person is demanding, controlling, or
communicates with anger and criticism.
7. YOU DO NOT HAVE A CONSISTENTLY
POSITIVE EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH EACH
OTHER
A positive emotional connection does not mean
you are in love.
Five questions to evaluate if you have a positive
emotional connection:
1. Do I respect and admire this person?
2. Do I trust this person in every way and feel I
can rely on his or her judgment?
3. Do I feel totally safe with this person (like I feel
with my best friend)?
4. Do I truly care about this person and have a
desire to give to him or her?
5. Are we open and honest with each other about
our feelings and opinions?
Your greatest tool for measuring the quality of the
relationship is your feelings.
Principle: Never dismiss anything that bothers
you! Process everything that bothers you.
8. YOU DON'T COMMUNICATE WELL
This is very important: You must be sure before
you get married that the two of you communicate
well.
Good communication means:
1. We can talk openly and honestly about our
feelings
2. We listen to each other and make it safe for
each other to express ourselves.
3. There is no defensiveness
4. We trust that together we can resolve problems
5. We have confidence in ourselves that we can
repair our breakdowns
6. We work well together; we’re a good team
Principle: You must be able to repair breakdowns
100%, which means there is no resentment or bad
feelings left over.
One of the biggest mistakes people make is to
believe that marriage will heal or fix their deep
inner pain. In many cases, marriage will only
make the pain greater and more unbearable!

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Family / Re: How To Bite Your Husband Everyday by Ugoholly: 6:44am On Jun 14, 2016
Lol

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Romance / Re: Why People Marry The Wrong Person : All Unmarried Must Read This Before Marriage by Ugoholly: 6:43am On Jun 14, 2016
A lot of work is needed before marriage. most of all is self control
Family / Re: How To Bite Your Husband Everyday by Ugoholly: 9:31am On Jun 08, 2016
Thanks
Family / How To Bite Your Husband Everyday by Ugoholly: 8:51pm On Jun 07, 2016
Many women are frustrated in their marriages because their husbands are hard nuts to crack, stone-hearted fellows and a man that can never appreciate their sacrifices in the marriages. This is my sure-banker tips that can melt any man and make him a loving caring husband every day.
B-BOW TO HIM-A Woman must see her husband as someone to complement not someone to compete with. Bowing to him is not to worship but to acknowledge him as your leader and head coach. Your education, beauty, family pride and whole body must bow down to him just like the day you knelt down for him in the traditional marriage. The Bible says in 1Peter 3:5-6..” For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord”
I-INSPIRE HIM-Instead of nagging, quarrels and negative criticisms, inspire and encourage him to be his best. Pray for him and pray with him. Stop comparing him with your ex-boyfriend, elder brother or father. Be patient with him like his mother and point out his faults with love not with fights.
T-TENDERNESS IS THE KEY...Be the female with soft words and with soft touch. Call him sweet names like darling, My only Love, Apple, Sugarcane even bitter-lemon. Buy gifts for him and always prepared his best dish and eat with him. Know when and where to tenderly touch him...all men are sensitive.
E-EMBRACE HIS FAMILY MEMBERS-Never ever tries to pick quarrels with his parents and brothers and sisters. Embrace and love them all, both the in-laws and the outlaws so that tension will be less in your home. Many men will side their parents and siblings if there are open confrontations..be wise and be a mother to him
Autos / Re: *sold* Reg/used Volkswagen Golf4.. Auto, Alloy *sold* by Ugoholly: 7:39am On May 02, 2016
350
Autos / Re: Corolla 2004,price 750,a/c Is Working So Much,location Enugu by Ugoholly: 4:59am On Apr 28, 2016
500
Politics / Embrace Change by Ugoholly: 10:33am On Apr 28, 2015
When you are aware and accept that everything around you is constantly changing, and that you have no control over 99.99% of it, you are able to embrace change like a close friend! Change is a like a river, constantly flowing and moving things around. The river of life is constantly bringing you ideas, people, situations - each one is an opportunity to be enriched or to enrich others, and to learn. Change is the play of the universe as it entertains us in the biggest light and sound show of all time. Why not sit back and enjoy the show?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Check if you are Shortlisted On Immigration Recruitment by Ugoholly: 3:15pm On Apr 14, 2015
Okwereaku Ugochukwu
000000017740. Please help me check.

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