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BuddhaPalm:
@ Mynd44

"Green-lights" are very very real - like your arm, or the device you are looking at, right now.

And they are not some 'nice' things another human being does. They are tangible Indicators of Interest - sexual interest. And can be consistently relied upon - if you know what to look for.

Actually, it would be quite weird if we didn't have them - other animals do.


As humans, a massive part of our communication is sub-communicated. Body-language, tonality, etc. And these are largely unconscious.

So most of our mating signals are sent and acted upon unconsciously.


What do most girls say after they've just had sex with a new guy? "It just happened". They are not lying. As far as they consciously know, it really just happened.

So those times you thought you saw a green-light, you most likely did, but what you saw was maybe, Step 1, in a multi-step mating dance. And this you cannot talk about, because she's largely unaware of what she's doing. Or more accurately, what is happening - because its her body doing this on its own.


These are the most common IOIs:

=> Eye-contact: if she repeatedly holds you gaze longer than normal: Sexual Interest.
=> Touches you more than normal: Sexual Interest.
=> Proximity: This takes many forms, and I find instances of this quite funny. She walks right into you as if you're a glass door - as in she go jam you . Crosses the road to walk on your side. Slows her pace, or increases it - so you guys cross...in hopes you will do your job. Drops something, or bends to adjust her footwear.
=> Aha...Preening: flicks her hair, repeatedly (no hands) - like she's some bird or packs it, to the sides, continuously. Displaying neck or revealing nape.
=> etc

But the biggest one, even in the absence of these, is COMPLIANCE! If she's compliant to your touches, invasion of her personal space, your leadership - let's go over there, stop that, sit on my lap; kissing, etc. She's in.

But your best option is to assume that EVERY girl you like, likes you already and will be interested - if she gets to experience you. So you give her the opportunity by going over to engage her.

In fact, if you're masculine, and she's there listening to you - on some level, she wants your cóck in her mouth, period. She just doesn't know it yet.

Even when she's standoffish, has a big scowl on her face and pretends not to hear what you're saying. She will soon come around.

Delusional? Maybe.

Potent? You bet.

JoeCutie:
Chei! Uju, which one be that na?

JoeCutie:
Me? Plenty!!! Dem yapa!

naijaboiy:
LoL,,i'm not putting off the existence of the green light.

All i'm saying is I simply go for it whether I see a sign from the lady or not. This is because I have come to accept the fact there must be rejection in this game. So i'm ready to accept
What ever comes my way.

slyowokoya:
I wish you guys would stop saying Korra is weak, nothing could further from truth.

Aang's timid nature made him weak. The avatar state helped get things done. Things he never have the lever to do otherwise. Even when he reached age 40 Thof was still him pushing around.

No on pushes Korra around. She will face down anybody friend or foe. Yes she gets her butt beat sometimes, but that girl can take just as much as she gives out and she gives a hell of a lot!

When Aang faced the fire nation, his opponent did not study him. Ozai wanted to kill the avatar by brute force, so when Aang went into avatar state Ozai was defeated, boring... (the fight was awesome)

Korra's opponents were all smart intelligent enlightened pple. Avatar state did not intimidate them they were ready for it. Korra over came, she is AWESOME!

naijaboiy:
That's it o!

They expect you to notice subtle signs as if you don't have better things to do.

And when you don't notice they call it "your loss"

LoL...who is the actual loser? The girl that wanted your attention or you who didn't bother to notice something like that simply because your instincts didn't follow up?

edi287:
Azula took a cheap shot from behind.

JoeCutie:
Lol. OK I get, but that's how most girls reason sha.

jaybee3:
Is it about battery?
Make i begin beat chest sharpish....nwanne, i will build you your own personal battery factory for nnewi

Mynd44:
Huh?

But I wanna do you na

JoeCutie:
Chai! Na so so 'chop chop' girls want.

Uj nwanyi oma, even you? Wetin una want?! Chai!

Seun:
I hate the avatar state because it's like God mode. The avatars get their asses kicked but once they go to the avatar state, they win. The only reason the avatars don't win all their battles is that they don't go into the avatar state immediately, leaving them vulnerable to poison, etc.

Mynd44:
I will give you my heart ❤

Mynd44:
Send me your number and I will tell you *wink

Mynd44:
You know I will gladly do you...I hope jaybee does not have a gun

jaybee3:
F
Please upgrade me.....I don't want to be permanently stuck on amber

jaybee3:
It seems confusing because you made it so.
Why don't you let the dynamics of relationships play out seamlessly as they should instead of turning yourself into a traffic light detector.

A girl that wants you will always want to be around you. #endoff!

Tymax:
That's if she is desirable to me o. As a guy na, I would think she's just playing hard to get. But I get tired of mind games easily so I'd leave her alone.

jaybee3:
Uju been giving Amber light since 1880 <= Neither green nor red.

Nonso23:
Roflmao!
Old threads are really something else.

Karleb:
If not for aang, I guess I would have given up on Korra. Imagine kuvira beating korra flawlessly even with the avatar state.

Mehn! That's pathetic!

jaybee3:
What number or combination of numbers are you?

samflex:
official, that software update has some issues...guess it isn't compatible with some Lumia phones