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Nawa oo Nigerians are real enemies of progress, wanting freebies without tasking their brain.

When did a 250 words essay become so difficult to write

Babyosisi and everyone who contributed to this cause, well done. May God continue to bless you as you extend same to others in need.

Lmao!

1. You aren't breathing underwater lol
2. I can tell because in one picture you were letting put the air you'd probably gathered in before diving.
3. Nna you don't have gills na
4. You are neither Perseus nor Percy Jackson



Cool picture though

It looks good on the model, or maybe it's just the stage making it luminous
Nice color too.

Can't say it looks great on the other woman though.

Yuzedo why didn't you say you were getting married,?

Lilimax:
As in No Future Ambition
But a lot of people are equating a poor man to be somebody that does not have money

There's that too since it is a definition of poor also

Lilimax:
Please who is a poor man?

Wretched NFA niqqah

Yeah like all these ones screaming bloody murder will marry a poor bloke.
Nonsense.

jahstech:
@Uj
Wat are you guys up to now? Na wah o!

Hmmm?

Oh, derailing this beautiful thread

Lmao!!

Just be trustworthy and love us, and all will be well in your life.


Ermm and be very handy in the electronics/furniture/everything handmade department

ihedinobi2:
Hair-flipping, eye-rolling females...

Drama queens, honey

phabulous88:
Nne me I like you, oya talk your own Do you wonna think about it and get back to me? Don't spend forever thinking o, unless you're on your own. No time for #FriendZoning

I like you too *flutters lashes*

Oya buy me #5000 Richard card for starters.
Tomorrow i will send you my account number for your credit alert and when we're done you'll get my answer

The ball is now in your court

ihedinobi2:


It is a sin to not be attentive to a woman you love. Grave sin. And sin attracts the wrath of God. Fear the wrath of God. Fear sin. And thus be attentive.

Shikena!

*rolls eyes* uh huh

ihedinobi2:
Come! Don't you know that it is the fear of sin that makes you attentive, ehn? All these spiritually illiterate people sef. Smh.

You spiritual literate might want to explain the relationship to us illiterate ones.

MzNelly:
Don't insult my hibernated vestigial impudence! You're one of those ladies who stall and stall, yea?
Whatever rocks your boat tho.

Lol I don't stall. If I like you I tell you so, and ask for time.
Yes I am cynical and yes I like to be 150% sure about a person's intention and quirky habits I have to deal with.

If I don't like you, then you get an outright No that never changes.

ihedinobi2:
Oh c'mon! How can you be Bible-thumping and disrespectful? Or sin-fearing and inattentive? What kind of confused person is that?

Since when did sin-fearing make one attentive biko?

I think you're the one confused now.

micynute94:
I love your honesty, if ladies can be more open and be sincere.. life would have been easy for men.
I think this playing hard to get thing causes more damage than good looking at it from the guy perspective. Though some guys might disagree with me.
I see no reason why a lady simply can't say Yes or No without society terming that cheap..
Like seriously, my current gf told me Yes the first time i asked r and i can say statistically ** roll eyes** that i haven't love someone so fierce d way i love her.
I thinking this playing hard to get thing is highly over rated and considering this generation, it does more harm than good to the guy..
Funny enough, it's we guys that call the quick to say YES cheap.
Guess we are being paid back in our coins...

Relationship is truly a murky business..... ** smiles **

Counteractions dear. You find most of these are simply reactions to an earlier action.

If men enjoy the chase, then a woman who takes that away becomes an easy meat.

I feel a lot of men want the chase so much they lose sight of what the prize really is. Ic you want her, then whether she says yes now or in three days shouldn't change the way you feel.
But nah, people have had to make strange interpretation of things that everyone has their hackles raised.


I wonder if it's possible to fix this.

phabulous88:
Ujsizzle you're playing with 14 years!

Sophyrocks:
Thats full blown homo right there.

Let this one worry about that

ihedinobi2:
Lol. What? What's wrong with my definition, biko?


Puhleeeeease, everyone knows I'm the nicest guy. Can't help the fact that hair-flipping girls crush so helplessly on me. Not my fault *yimu*

Let me see.....
You just defined nice as bible thumping and a bunch of other things.
Some people call it being respectful and attentive.
......and a bunch of other things.



BuddhaPalm!!! Mind explaining 'nice'?

Sophyrocks:
If she repeatedly tells you No. simple. There is a difference between saying No and saying lets know each other as friends to see if dating is possible. Some ladies prefer that to just jumping straight away into dating perhaps they wanna be sure of whom is asking them out or due to bad experiences where they didnt take time to know their partners well. So just take it that you are just friends trying to know each other. There is nothing wrong with being persistent but its important to read body language and facial expressions. If your persistence seems to irritate a lady, move along and find someone else. If she starts acting Nice after uve gotten someone else, take her to be confused and keep moving.

If a lady begins to abuse the friendship to her advantage but keeps flashing the "friendship" card to your face, stay away from her and move on. Know when to stay and when to leave.

Nne are you sure you don't want to marry me?


*persistent female here*

MzNelly:
Some people may term this 'cheap', but i have no reason to play 'hard to get.'
The answer to your question is YES. When he asked me out, i replied in the affirmative that same minute.

How long did you pray before he manned up enough to ask you out?

3cycle
Taller guys are becoming annoying this christmas season and I don't know why

This is funny



I've dated a shorter (more like same height) and nothing went wrong.
I just had to get used to the idea that I'll probably never wear heels (which I'm not crazy about though) because I like being at eye level with the people in talking to.

And maybe it's a bit stereotypical and vain, but dammit I love height in a guy. It feels nice placing your head on solid chest, or turning your face into the crook of his neck

Short guys are fine too. No biggie dating them

Micynute94, if a woman says No I don't want to date you repeatedly, then you should take it at face value.

If she wants you, she'd likely than not express her desire to get to know you more, before making a decision. Should she decide that you are not for her after the window period, then take it at face value.

I think though that this (alliteration ) window period is the problem. The longer he waits hoping you'll want him back, the more he gets attached to you.
So if you eventually say No, he begins to feel slighted (hence the friend zone).

I don't believe anyone should keep anyone from moving on though. If you reject a person, then at least allow them find some else who will have them.
If they do move on and you decide you're starting to have feelings for them, then perhaps say so. If they are in a relationship, then hold your peace.

Everyone deserves a chance at happiness one way or another.

Romance is such murky business *sighs*

ihedinobi2:
Good you know


Sure you do. Now you won't continue guilting us for being Bible-thumping, sin-fearing, Church-addicted, hardworking, romantic gentlemen anymore, abi?

You know I am

Maybe someone should define what 'nice' means anyway.
I get the feeling it means a zillion things to a zillion people.



And mba o you are not nice at all. You're just annoying and so close to being clobbered to your grave
*by moi of course **flips hair***

Mynd44:
Na me you dey side-eyes? I will pluck em ooo

Meanie

Sophyrocks:
Swiitching from one personality to another to prove a point does not always work for every female. There are lots of females with diverse personalities and preferences. This is why lots of guys get confused. Most guys love to paint every lady with the same brush. I dnt just like how ladies confuse Nice guys to be that awkward. There must be something(s) a lady saw that made her reject a guy. In most cases, they are not physically attracted to the guy. Its best to stick to that than confusing the word "Nice" to mean something else. To me, anyone with the most pathetic personality can be Nice in order to get what he/she wants. Nice is Nice. Good is good. Bad is bad. simple.

Will you marry me?

*side eyes Mynd44 to Sambisa*

For your mind now you don summarise/conclude story

How far my battery na?
And are you still at that other place? Lunch could work if you are.

tsmall:
Punch? That's unnecessary ...Jail term await him.

Physical pain too.....very important.

jahstech:
You just nailed my point, we might be thinking about the whole issue from a different stand point, but I always prefer looking at this whole story of friend zone from the most important angle "MARRIAGE" instead of the gf /bf angle billions look at it from. Cos in the long run you would definitely be looking for this girl or guy you would like to spend the rest of your life with, so who is more husband or wife material? A guy or girl who wants you to be someone else or a guy or girl who just loves and appreciate you for just who you are?

I agree with Sophyrocks though. The problem here is associating this thing with being 'nice', which is just another word taken out of context again.

Nice is good. Not nice is bad. People have personal preferences when it comes to others. And I can't imagine there's anyone who doesn't want to be treated right (nice).

So where did this confusion spring from again
That's why I like to encase the word in pretty apostrophes....completely bastardized.

@Sophyrocks
Sam Smith is Gay?
Dammit!!!


@Ihedinobi2

I feel you women's pain, lol. I hope you never forget that masculinity = pride = male ego. We men are proud by definition. And pride is a defence for vulnerability. Add to that the fact that Love necessarily is disarming by nature. The sum is this: when men love a woman, letting down their pride to invite her in is the first thing they do. They don't stop being men or proud and masculine. That is why a man might be the most attentive and caring boyfriend and at the same time be a ruthless businessman with no known weaknesses. His vulnerability belongs to only the woman he has chosen to trust.

Hmmm. Yeah sucks to deal with pride *suitable emoticon missing from list*


Anyway, I want a nice guy

And biko who told you that you're nice?
This one you've been screaming "WE nice guys" since

jahstech:
I think you are still getting me wrong. Lets talk about a marriage setup, you are now in a marriage would you prefer a guy who is really nice and super caring to a guy who according to you "has masculine whatever" and never even shows affection or even doesn't give a crap since that what you are trying to tell me nice is "HORRIBLE"

You're becoming defensive, hence missing my point.
You should read my siggy.

And I wouldn't marry a guy who isn't attentive or caring, so I couldn't possibly be stuck in this situation you just painted.