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Ihedinobi: Ok. I'll bow to the dictionary. What then should we call a man who respects women, devotes himself 100% to his woman, and is no pushover?

He could be someone's perfect guy, not a nice guy(imo).

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Ihedinobi: Nope. I don't see how you're a woman. Is it just being born with a female body that makes you one or acquiring it along the way? I understand that women, like men, are made not born.

Obviously, if I don't trust your qualifications as a woman, I'm not likely to trust your friends', am I?

We're circling back to the same point I was making earlier.
A woman is an adult female obviously, but many others you choose it attach extra meaning to it just like some define a man as something other than an adult male. In the same vein, we all define being nice in different ways.
You can't strut around giving your own 'ideal' definition(well, you can) and even if you do, you can't expect everyone to roll with it.


You are a confident male..very admirable. But there's a thin line btwn confidence and arrogance and you're starting to tilt towards the latter....that isn't attractive.



I'll let you argue this with people who are actually interested in it, while those of us who don't share your views will keep believing in what we wish

Wu Zetian: Where is uj-sizzle getting her information from?? Urban dictionary??

What's that
Advanced English Dictionary.
Do I also have to post their etymology?

Caracta: Yes. But not for long. 12noon. Remember?

Isn't that what we've been trying to preach to them?

Can you stay 30mins longer? plsssss

Don't I loove my dictionary

Proverb
Nice Guys Finish Last

People who are decent, friendly, and agreeable tend to be unsuccessful because they are outmaneuvered or overwhelmed by others who are not so decent, friendly, or agreeable.

princesa: Till then, can we go sail that ship you promised? My head is wobbly with so much unnecessary arguments on here

lol ofcoz darling, we can sail the ship. Beautiful weather and just the right amount of wind
Come with your swim suit, we're gonna dive

Ihedinobi: Is nice = non-confrontational/non-assertive? In which dictionary? Puhleeeeeeeease!

literally) A male person who has a pleasant, friendly manner.


idiomatic, euphemism) An inoffensive adult male who desires romantic companionship but who is too bland and uninspiring to be attractive.



That's a dictionary definition of a nice guy.

But since we've made it our business as humans to use words out of their original meaning, i'll say the definition of a 'nice guy' is subject to different individuals.

You can't define it, cause who A views as a nice guy could be a Jerk to B.

Caracta: Why must you read my mind all the time? I tire for you o

babe,u still at work? I'm heading that way.

You people talk too much. We have this same topic discussed in 3 different threads

When i'm less busy, i'll feel more inclined to argue. Till then.....

Ihedinobi: How do I know what a woman wants? I was born by one. A strong-ass woman too. God bless my Momma!

I made a thread to explain the differences among the various categories of men. It's still got a great deal of potential because there are things yet unsaid there. But quiye a bit has been already.

There is no such thing as a Nice Jerk.

Love is not manipulative.

Being nice does not translate to being a pushover.

Now, my turn. How would you know what a woman wants?

Lets see...
I am a woman, and have spent my whole life as one.
I have female friends who talk about what they want, things they sometimes won't tell their man.
That makes me a better judge of what women want, not you.
You only get to observe and speculate. I live it.

Like I said, different strokes for different people.


Satisfied?

Danhumprey: If I have to be a jerk,a player, just to date(not marry) a gal,then I rather remain single. I just don't think I'm ready to date. I have my priorities. I was probably just playing around.

No one's asking you to change dearie, there are women out there who you're suited for.
It all depends to a large extent our emotional disposition. We all need that other half that can balance out.
Personally, because i have the tendency of being manipulative and a pushover, I need a man who isn't in the habit of granting my every desire.

So really, different strokes for different people

I think it's time we defined who a nice guy is

aManFromMars: Erm, I'm a nice guy, and nice=boring.

Honest truth.

Especially if ur the kinda guy that thinks 'cost' when ur girl just wants to go out and have fun.








So lil advice: learn to be 'fun'.. Once in a while....

You ain't boring btw. I like you

Ihedinobi: ^^ You can't be a "nice jerk" with her. She won't appreciate being manipulated and controlled (forget the nonsense some silly girls will say about how they like a man who takes no nonsense - meaning they like a guy who slaps them around, that's bs worthy of capital punishment). And you can't be a nice guy when you find her (assuming that you even can with Nice Jerk's eyes) after you've built yourself into a Nice Jerk.

Love ain't about control, low-to-no risk and safety, bro. It's about putting yourself out there to give someone else a good life regardless what it costs you.

I have a problem with this.
How would you know what a woman does or doesn't like?
If there's such a thing as a 'nice jerk' then that's a perfect combo.
It means he's nice enough to take care of you, and enough of a jerk to actually manipulate(that's not a bad thing, girls do it a lot) and take charge when necessary.
Very few women can stand pushovers, and it seems most nice guys are like that. The ever present I-want-to-please-her and don't-wanna-hurt-her factor can be a bore in relationships.

So really, if you think the slight trace of aggressive behaviour we see in a man doesn't make us giddy on the inside, then bro you still have a lot to learn.

Caracta: Oh i see... I guess something must have led to this then.

It's a high time we had a debate in this section of NL sef.

I already asked about the debate on the complaints thread, and so far our mods have deemed it fit to ignore it.

Caracta: For the love if everything in me, i want a "nice" guy...

No one is perfect but i want to be that girl my "nice" guy wants...his fantasy, his dream, his reality, his hope, his woman...all for him and him alone, till eternity. So help me God.

By the way, why is this thread dedicated to "nice guys like...?" Is it a gay kinda relationship. I'm actually confused.

NL is on a Nice Guy/Jerk wave currently

It'll blow over soon.

Samoranopapa: na true sha but kunle nearly die today ooo

We've learnt hunger is a good motivaton

oi front page things

Danhumprey: Okay. You didn't answer this: "Would u be my sweetheart"? I would really love you to be.


Meanwhile,follow back!

You haven't made an offer i can't refuse yet.

caseless: if his statement was cryptic, does anyone need a special microscope to see that there was an 'open subtext' that he can extend that hand of 'fellowship' to kunle?

Anybody could have read it anyway they wanted. For some of us, we see Dennis could have used it to his favour...he was covered. But look at it from his own eyes, it's not too long ago that he was punished and had his momentary leadership taken from him for helping the same Kunle. It's possible he thought Chidi's statement as a sacarstic reminder of that mistake, and that's what prompted his asking Chidi that question. Pardon him for being careful and wanting to hold on to this second chance at leadership...we all know he lives and dies for that privilege. It's his motivation first, with finding the lost symbol being a close second.

Hohoho if this role is ever reversed eh, Kunle go do Dennis something

Edmund is so hardworking, handsome, strong and smart. My kinda guy

It's not Dennis fault, he was just scared.
Chidi wasn't quite specific and his statement was very cryptic.

Ihedinobi: Bro, if that's how you lay it on off NL, you're going to always fail unless the girl's already into you and is giving you the green.

lol
speaking from experience?

Danhumprey: Uj darling. You haven't answer my question. You keep ignoring them.

I replied everything you asked.....i think.
If i missed something, pls post it again.

nbright: Introvert doesn't make one a snub..

You missed the point. Being an introvert most times mean you have difficulty approaching people and being 'free' with them. People who don't know you call that snobbery.

darnley16: when I first took a look at ur picture it scared the shit outta me , till I located the eyes lips and stuff. Then I said oh thts d head,,, ure pretty by d way , was just shocked thts all

lol this comment made my day
Thank you

princesa: are you guyz like really serious with this

Uju?

lol don't mind him

Ihedinobi: That's not really true, honeybun We both know how much you like me telling you that your smile controls my heartrate. That each of your kisses adds a new day to my life. That holding you is the prize for which I would climb Everest in the driest of Winters when the Others come out. That each time you say you love me, a new flower blossoms somewhere on God's earth. That me, you, the ocean and a lovely sunrise make one of God's best productions yet.

That your love is a song in my heart. That I live to wipe your tears and soar the skies with you. That not even death can truly separate us because if one part of you dies, you soon follow.

We both know that you love it when I sing our heart in words such as these.

Wrong. I hate it and especially when it's done in public.
Seriously cut it out or you'll wish you did.