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 Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 4:57pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Sexkillz may i suggest you be a bit more specific in ur next debate. You don't say debaters are allowed two posts countering their opponents opening argument and then tell a debater that she's allowed to post whatever she wants as her 2nd post. You need to be specific. If it's opening arguments then that should be all there is....why are pple also allowed to counter rebuttals?? |
| Literature › Re: Guess The Author Or The Book by UjSizzle(f): 4:47pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
vescucci: Le Bible?right  |
| Forum Games › Re: The Last Man Standing "Game Of The Mind" Let's Try It. by UjSizzle(f): 3:59pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
His is not an option |
| Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Made Me What I Am Today...a PROSTITUTE! by UjSizzle(f): 3:40pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
It's not exclusive to women. Anybody blaming someone for their bad choices is just plain stupid. We are all in control of the decisions we make. I have an ex who keeps saying he's now a gigolo because i broke up with him......and i never cease to tell him how senseless he is. Your future is in ur hands, whatever you make of ur past experience n mistakes decides ur tomorrow. |
| Literature › Re: Guess The Author Or The Book by UjSizzle(f): 3:33pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Age old bestseller. Multiple authors. Name the book? |
| Literature › Re: Literature/Writing Section's "Chat Central!" by UjSizzle(f): 3:14pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Hello everyone. I finally made out time to read Lost Symbol (frm my lappy); it's bn sitting in there gathering dust for a while....and for the life of me i cldnt seem to get past the 4th chapter. I've always hated ebooks...takes away d comfort of reading  . Right now i cld do with a good old fashion paper back novel. |
| Forum Games › Re: The Last Man Standing "Game Of The Mind" Let's Try It. by UjSizzle(f): 2:40pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Know you'll never be close to my bedroom. |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 1:54pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Excuse me, aren't we supposed to counter our opponent's opening argument? |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by UjSizzle(f): 1:39pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
Wow according to a vast majority of users, romance section users are the black sheeps of Nairaland. Hmmmm |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 11:00am On Oct 13, 2012 |
Please my opponent's argument is in blue and my rebuttal in red. thank you |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 10:59am On Oct 13, 2012 |
AYOBASE: Pls I will like us to get one thing clear based on the definition from dictionary. We are all familiar with those words making up the topic. But not to bore you, I will pick the suitable ones from the multiple definitions of each word. -Man: A husband or a lover -Right: Morally right and acceptable. -Assert: State a fact or belief confidently. -Superiority: higher status or taking oneself better than others. -Authority: The power or right to give orders and enforce obedience. -Relationshsip: Marriage Clarifying on the definition mentioned a man as stated in this context is a masculine gender, right however is a legal concept erroneously used by the populace as privilege or advantage. However its proper rendering would be justice, ethical correctness or harmony with the rule of law; the word assert is rightly stated as well as authority, but a relationship is not precluded to marriage but includes, courtship, friendship among other union between individuals. From this definition, I can synonymously say ''A Husband is Morally Right and Acceptable to Confidently state his Facts and Beliefs because he is of Higher Status in the Marriage and/because he should give orders and enforce Obedience in the Marriage.'' From this definition, I can correctly state that a male gender is legally guided to impose a higher status or exuding himself as being better than a female gender in a marriage, courtship, friendship or union of any sort including political gathering, social or employment establishment . Some of you may think I’m taking this over the edge but I must state clearly that jurisprudentially, where there is a right, there is a correlative duty and as such, my opponent has clearly defined the duty and place of the woman gender all over the world to being subordinate, enslaved, diminished to their male counterpart, correction, their male commanders. Im very sure I have been able to convince you with that. But resting my fingers here might leave some confused. In order to avoid confusion it’s pertinent to establish a fair ground that this discussion is not restricted to marriage but entwines in various strata of life. For instance would it be correct that a man must exercise this perceived right (as perceived by my opponent) even in politics and as such England should have no Queen, instead a distant male cousin should have ascended the throne; or that Liberia should have insisted that a female cannot rule over the dominant male; or a husband should insist his wife remains unemployed as he can superiorly cater for his subordinate family. This is what various enactments which came to portray gender equality achieved in rebutting. The way the Husband handles his wife (putting the house in order or chaos), will surely tell on the Child(ren)'s upbringing. Remember an adage that says ''Good child is for the father, and the bad one for the mother''. And you all can attest to it that what the child meets on arrival is what he/she is gonna build on. Just like what you and I built on on our arrival. What do you want your children to meet on their arrival? Orderliness or Chaos? However, limiting the argument to that of my intelligent opponent, there are many single mothers out there who have raised great motivators for the society. Many out there have given credit to the back bone of the woman who raised them even in a family that includes a Father. Little wonder why a child , especially the males choose to endow their mothers over the father or little wonder why my most esteemed and of course perceived domineering male opponent of mine quoted his mother and not his father’s “wise“ sayings. Order out of Chaos has always been under the exclusive reserve of women in a home. An expression commonly used by males is ‘I want a woman who can keep a home’, in other words, bring order. Lest I forgot to add, Man came first, while the woman follows, although there is freedom of speech for everyone in EVERY relationship, but the man has more authority and right to assert it (what makes me a man then if not that). And a WISE woman shouldnt allow familiarity to bring about RUDENESS to her man. Out of defensive sentiments displayed in relationship by the women, a WEAK man would tend to compromise his ego to allow peace to prevail, but eventually making dormant WHAT MAKES UP A MAN, and which will cause HAVOC later in the home (Indiscipline and Disobedience in the home from the wife down to the Children) A woman who wants her man to perform his responsibilities BETTER in the M-A-R-R-I-A-G-E should allow him to assert his authority while she remains S-U-B-M-I-S-S-I-V-E. A WISE wife wouldn't counter or overrule her husband's pieces of advice, or rather rules, and neither will the man, but by pleading, teasing, undertstanding, and of course being ROMANTIC......pls note, this is not a case of Master to Slave relationship. It (i.e. Marriage) is for the mature in mind! A ''Young, wild and free'' lady is no fit for a submissive wife. Even ''Old, wild and free''! Man was created first and out of a need for a helper, woman was added to the equation to join in the responsibility handed over to humanity. If I were to subject myself to his reasoning, then women all over the world can never lead, or preside over meetings or have a higher status in companies over a less educated/ experienced male worker. But even the males of the society will batter my opponent if they see his logic. This slavery as a result of a ‘wise wife inability to counter her husband piece of advice’, forgetting that the perceptive/ intuitive spirit of a woman has afforded countless of men financial and social distress. Thus, the common expression, still by men, ‘I should have listened to my wife’. Suggestively then equal communication builds a stronger opinion, thus two heads is better than one. I refuse to subject this intelligent discuss to a frivolous banter as it relates to havoc, rudeness, indiscipline or a cooperative man as being perceived as weak. This angle employed by my opponent shows that not only are women perceived as subordinately inferior in a marriage but also incapable of making the right contributions unless they are mute to their man; and that a cooperative man is weak or (worse) Man - Ego = Woman! To crown it all, our Heavenly Father used Apostle Paul to tell the Women to be submissive to their husbands. And not forgetting that we, the husbands also have more important roles to play in their lives since we became their Fathers, Lovers, Friends, Teachers, and Husbands! 1st Corinthians 11 verses 11 and 12: Nevertheless, in the Lord, woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman … This is apostle Paul teachings on equality. Without even asking you, and plus the rapt attention you gave reading this, coupled with no grumbling or murmuring, Im so sure that I have been able to persuade you that ''A Husband is Morally Right and Acceptable to Confidently state his Facts and Beliefs because he is of Higher Status in the Marriage and/because he should give orders and enforce Obedience in the Marriage.'' Thank you. I need not grumble or murmur as my opponent may expect his perceived subordinate females to, but would conclude that intelligence should be tampered with reasoning; or do I align myself with my opponent’s argument as a submission of my ’perceived’ subordinate nature to his male dominance superiority. Thank you. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 8:27am On Oct 13, 2012 |
Coming up |
| Health › Re: Daily Exercise And Food Routine For Those Who Want To Lose Weight by UjSizzle(f): 12:11am On Oct 13, 2012 |
Today's log 8am: tea n bread 4pm: beans 10pm: a glass of milk n biscuit |
| Romance › Re: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by UjSizzle(f): 11:19pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
ijebabe: *Enters the Judges Lounge*our arsenals are over flowing with weapons of mass destruction |
| Literature › Re: Guess The Author Or The Book by UjSizzle(f): 11:15pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
I agree Danielle Steel is a sadist. Dunno the other riddle but I'll put my trust in Santino |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 11:09pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Shollypopz: lol....the second round is tomorrow morningmorning  Hope say nepa n network no go Bleep up |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 11:07pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Thankyou judges. I look forward to tomorrow. D-X na u i dey wait oo. |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 10:37pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
okpara ugo: I suggest you make use of Etisalat 15mb free. This debate is a must watch. hmmmm.....e don red.i thought they've stopped giving those. |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 10:27pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
You won't believe how hard my heart is pounding. Keep it coming judges. |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 6:06pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Did Nepa have to pick now of all times to cut power?!?! Mtcheeeew |
| Romance › Re: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by UjSizzle(f): 5:28pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
delkuf: Killz, am having problem with changing to blue. I beg u, let me go on with out changing the blue, plsafter copying n pasting ur thread, click on the down arrow on the 'change colour' tab. Select the colour of choice. You'll see two square bracket enclosed 'quote'. Cut the first bracket and paste it at the beginning of ur post while leaving the second one at the end. It's not that difficult. |
| Romance › Re: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by UjSizzle(f): 5:08pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
I dnt get why half the debaters aren't present. I dnt want to spend my night here o. |
| TV/Movies › Re: Waaaaaay Over Hyped Movies by UjSizzle(op): 5:06pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Naija suppose don get boko haram film by now. |
| Forum Games › Re: The Last Man Standing "Game Of The Mind" Let's Try It. by UjSizzle(f): 5:03pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
Enough is a really old movie |
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