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Celebrities › Re: Portable Spotted F!ght!ng At Odumodublvck’s Concert In Abuja by ultraviolet27(f): 3:08pm On Dec 21, 2025
omooba969:
The remake of Ayinla Omowura. grin

The end wouldn't be a surprise. wink
so true probably ayinla re-incarnate and they are from the same ogun state self, funny enough if he was African american he for don kpai because they detest nuisance in that place.Tu pac didn't even worry to that extent and he was unalived!!
Celebrities › Re: Portable Spotted F!ght!ng At Odumodublvck’s Concert In Abuja by ultraviolet27(f): 3:03pm On Dec 21, 2025
[quote author=OgaTheTop2 post=137865270]I don't wish that for Portable even though he's a troublemaker. [/quote
Politics › Re: NAFDAC Bans Indomie Vegetable Flavour Noodles by ultraviolet27(f): 9:39am On Dec 21, 2025
Nairaland is always slow with news something I have read on facebook 4 days ago
Health › Re: Doctor Noah Kekere Harvested Patient's Kidney - PIDOMNIGERIA by ultraviolet27(f): 7:09am On Dec 21, 2025
Abuskid:
Some commenters above are already on doctors and pastors. But , investigation has shown that Noah Kekere is not a medical doctor but an economist. Though he started reading nursing but later dropped out, he has both B.sc and Msc in economics.
This happens in jos, a city in Nigeria, who knows the evil going on in the villages?

Nobody can tell you the number of non medical doctor that practice surgery and live happily by killing (treating) people in this country. I know two surgeons in my village but none of them is a lisenced doctor, one is an Anatomist by training while the other one is a town and regional planner.

I don't know of other regions in Nigeria, but this is rampant in the North and this boils down to two reasons I'm able to identify:
1-- Lack of awareness of the value of health to individuals and families, which culminates to become a societal problem. Here , you see somebody in pain but they don't care to go better facility for treatment. You talk to them they will say "Allah ne yake bada lafiya" , meaning is GOD IS THAT PROVIDES HEALTH.
Sure nobody can dispute that God is the provider of health but you need a trained and experienced medical personnel to treat you.

2-- Inadequacy of medical doctors and health personnel in general. There are many local government areas here, that you can count the number of doctors (there children) they've produced. Those healthtech guys are now our doctors and good number of them treat (worsen) complicated problems that might the attention of a consultant.


Medical practice is no longer for humanity but for profit making and this is not in any way unconnected to the manner in which our government handles health care sector in this country, Nigeria.
If you aren't from village you can't understand all this ..
Oh god our lives are in your hands, ya rabb.
surgeons in Eksuth teaching ado ekiti hospital just removed a patient 2 kidneys without his consent or are they economist too?

Earlier this year a few foreign doctors in an NGO hospital in the north also removed an orphan patient kidneys(2) in the guise of removing appendix because of his appendicitis diseasehim and his younger brother were orphaned because of banditry and terrorism so they couldn't afford the 65,000 fee for appendicitis surgery asked for in the teaching hospital,one have to be wary of any free surgery, or in an ngo not paid for by the government ,or a philanthropist.Though if they weren't orphaned their parents would have been able to raise the fee in the teaching hospital!
Celebrities › Re: Baba Fela Set To Receive Grammys Life Time Achievement by ultraviolet27(f): 5:55am On Dec 21, 2025
doggedfighter:
How can this be rivalry when this guy clearly said he doesn't understand Igbo yet his music appeals to him. The guy you are attacking may even be from same region as you. Your brother

And he said " those guys made music" which may even include all these people you listed.

But in your haste to launch tribal attack you missed the guy's point.

Let's take this attacks easy.

Take time to read people's post and make effort to understand them.

It's a small world still !
You dey mind am? him brain dey shaaakee I am yoruba but don't even get the hype about king sunny ade's songs?or maybe I am weird same thing with ayinla omowura can't even stand his music for 10 minutes I will feel nauseated I can still listen to most barrister songs though.

only Ebenezer obey highlife music,i could listen to over and over again I still rate ebenezer obey and oliver de coque above all those mentioned up there sha,the latter being that I don't even understand Igbo maybe the reason why I am fascinated!
Crime › Re: 10 Nigerian Pastors Who Went From The Pulpit To Prison | Their Shocking Crimes by ultraviolet27(f): 3:41pm On Dec 20, 2025
and you failed to mention pastor udoka ukachukwu a benin church pastor I can't remember the church name now he impregnated a NNPC benin senior staff wife(eniobong isinguyo)and still colluded to kill the husband to inherit his properties imagine how a wife could be promiscuous this was a full house wife whom the husband really took care of the pastor stabbed the NNPC man (victor isinguyo)to death and set him ablaze in his car.

Both the pastor and the akunnnah woman were sentenced to death but I read the woman has been released imagine that??

Also one prophet Alfa babatunde sotitobire in Akure was sentenced to life imprisonment when a child was kidnapped in his church during a service and the mother didn't know where about they said the kid was later found buried in the church so his church building was burnt down sha
Politics › Re: Umahi Reels Out Tinubu’s Achievements In South East, Tackles Senator Abaribe by ultraviolet27(f): 4:48pm On Dec 19, 2025
tunjijones:
This man that has been feeding on Nigerian tax money since 1999.

Deputy governor of Abia state from 1999 to 2007. Senator from 2007 till date. Na only you dey Abia state? Or na you get sense and intelligent for Abia state.

Allow the national cake go round. The one whey you don chop never do?
Abia people will still vote for him again I don't know how they think in that state a very greedy and voracious man!someone who has never done any tangible thing since he has been in the senate even if he did na only him dey abia that can perform wonders?his people will still defend him here!!

I don't think any politician can hold the west or north to ransome like him even as the latter people are known to be docile when bukola saraki's own got too much in kwara state they did otoge for him I don't know why they can't do it for the abaribe in Abia?
Politics › Re: Umahi Reels Out Tinubu’s Achievements In South East, Tackles Senator Abaribe by ultraviolet27(f): 4:38pm On Dec 19, 2025
Burob:
Despite being in the senate for over 20 years, Abaribe cannot point to any substantial achievement he has done in his senatorial district.

Only cho cho cho.
Funny enough his people will still vote him if he contest again as if he is the only eligible man in his senatorial district, but will lambast senator yayi and gbajabiamila who haven't even stayed in the senate for that number of years yet does meaning works,and tell us shebi is the money they stole they are using to do the huge projects?as if their is any politician in nigeria who don't loot?aren't(yayi and gbaja)better than the politicians who loots in their region and still will not do anything?

They celebrated a single drainage in aba but when bonny road was opened a region that has never had a pliable road before that even their son Jonathan from that region couldn't do they were still insulting this present government ain't saying tinubu is a better politician though but why couldn't Jonathan complete the road? their thieves are better and should never be questioned and touched but other regions own are worst and should be castigated

They have the worst crop of politicians in their zones,will never face them but knows the best for other zones!!
Family › Re: Man Criticizes His Late Boss's Wife For Remarrying After Six Months by ultraviolet27(f): 3:34pm On Dec 19, 2025
But didn't late governor Akeredolu of ondo state wife remarry his younger brother after 3 months of her husband demise and heaven didn't fall? or was akeredolu too not wealthy and all his kids grown up?

If it's the man he won't even wait for 2 weeks before he starts nacking another woman in my town here a man whom his first wife died not even up to a week and 4 days he had already started pressurizing my friend to sleep with him this was a man that still had 2 other wives I knew then o that's apart from the ones I didn't know!
Health › Re: Is A Carnivore Only Diet Safe For Long‑Term Health? by ultraviolet27(f): 12:55pm On Dec 19, 2025
LordBiden:
The vegetarian diet is the best form of diet to avoid every sickness and disease.
wrong!combination of each classes of food is the best.(balanced diet)humans are omnivorous infact you can scrap carbohydrates and you will still get energy from meats and fats from oil even raw vegan diets and fruits doesn't contain all the classes of food only that the animal protein musn't be too much that is why people only on vegetables and fruits will look skiny,unhealthy,

and may die of starvation and exhaustion later on.In 2008 a Usa lady died of starvation same with an Instagram influencer in 2023 they were both vegans and fruitarians there is nothing good in being skinny nor is it good to be obese too.
Food › Re: How Many Of These Can You Finish On The Spot? (Photo) by ultraviolet27(f): 12:27pm On Dec 19, 2025
one and half with that smoked peppered fish Boli makes me satiated quickly
Food › Re: ₦186k Contribution: Do These Food Items Really Measure Up? by ultraviolet27(f): 9:32pm On Dec 18, 2025
saintnegroid:
it does not.... Prices of things in the market have really gone down..... That bag of rice is not more than 80k, and you cannot tell me that the remaining few things is 120k
Bag of rice is even 52k as of 2 days ago in ado ekiti market and I know it will be cheaper in Lagos.
Fashion › Re: Cameroon's Stephanie Oben Wins Miss Africa International by ultraviolet27(f): 6:53am On Dec 18, 2025
Probably they used high intellect because that lady putting on blue gown beside her and the ugndan contestant are even more prettier than her
Health › Re: Average Age People Start Being Sexually Active by ultraviolet27(f): 6:45am On Dec 18, 2025
jaxxy:
in UK and US u can't enter a club or hotel untill u are 18 years and above.

In Nigeria 16 year old access clubs and hotels freely.

So who is really lying.
so na for club dem dey have sex? moreover teenage pregnancy before 16 years is high there especially amongst the african american female
Health › Re: Average Age People Start Being Sexually Active by ultraviolet27(f): 6:38am On Dec 18, 2025
age 19 for sexual activeness in nigeria?maybe during the 1990s and the early 2000s not this gen x and millennial era where you see jss1 female students getting pregnant the highest age one can be in jss 1 now is 12 years!!
Romance › Re: Can You Sue Someone That Promised To Marry You But Later Didn't? (photo) by ultraviolet27(f): 3:02pm On Dec 17, 2025
I want to sue a guy too is their any lawyer willing to stand for me here
Politics › Re: Mary Miller: Radical Islam Behind Killing Of Thousands Of Christians In Nigeria by ultraviolet27(f): 2:57pm On Dec 17, 2025
Angelindisguise:
Point of correction, the Northern Muslims hailed them because of their hate for Jonathan.
una can yarnkpata sha I ain't a muslim and never will be but which northerners rejoiced in boko baram because they hated president Jonathan?was obasanjo not the president when yerima implemented sharia rule in zamfara and their after,other northern states followed suit,not long after boko haram sect was formed by yusuf still it was during obasanjo 2nd tenure know your history when were you born though?
Agriculture › Re: Investment: Between Oil Palm And Coconut, Which Is More Profitable? by ultraviolet27(f): 2:38pm On Dec 17, 2025
Fcwilly:
Both are very viable ventures, but I will advise you in addition to both of them, try plant cocoa in-between them, it's a very good idea, cocoa don't like too much son, so the palm and coconut tree will provide a perfect shade for the cocoa tree. Mind you cocoa after 3 years start giving you money same as the palm tree depending on the species you plant.
fcwilly@yahoo.com
For further information.
Teak plants even yield more quickly than cocoa and coconut plant,it's more viable,and can be harvested forever it never declines you see cocoa before it matures,start flowering,and even after fruiting fulani bandit/herdsmen can set their cattles to the farm it(cocoa)is grown once they devour the trees and even with the cocoa pods the rest they set fire on it(that's their modus operandi in ipoti,ikoro,Ijero,epe axis of ekiti here)and the cocoa will never grow again until you replant it.But you see teak it's then it will even grow robustly the more it's like fire or ashes is a fertilizer to it.

moreover this cocoa it was only beneficial to those who had already had the trees for years and it was already fruiting before because the surge in price is seasonal I have an uncle and also a neighbour who his great grandparents (the latter)had a cocoa farm and also buys and sells It what it was sold for last year is not what it's sold for now a module was up to 13k - 13,500k last year but now this same module hardly can you sell it for 4k so it was only upper and last year it boomed in price now assuming someone wants to now use that as a comparison to start planting a cocoa tree which even takes longer to grow and fruits then their is no probability it may not even survive because of the useless fulani marauders and even if it does and their is no boom in price again it will be a wasted efforts

I am just giving a piece of my advice the op should do what will suit and work best for him though!
Agriculture › Re: Investment: Between Oil Palm And Coconut, Which Is More Profitable? by ultraviolet27(f): 2:36pm On Dec 17, 2025
Fcwilly:
Both are very viable ventures, but I will advise you in addition to both of them, try plant cocoa in-between them, it's a very good idea, cocoa don't like too much son, so the palm and coconut tree will provide a perfect shade for the cocoa tree. Mind you cocoa after 3 years start giving you money same as the palm tree depending on the species you plant.
fcwilly@yahoo.com
For further information.
Sports › Re: The Story Of Etim Esin --- The Nigerian "Maradona" Who Didn't Dazzle The World by ultraviolet27(f): 3:59pm On Dec 16, 2025
Kalulu44:
He's not begging if you must know. He's ok and doing fine
But you cruel sha 'o ni ika ninu gan o'even when you can't help or bless someone should you block another person from doing so?and did he ask to even see him because he is suffering and I see the way you have been tarnishing his image here from all your replies to everyone's comments yes he could be a chronic womanizer but if his case isn't spiritual or he wasn't under a spell he won't turn out like that his neymar also not a party animal,a clubber and a womanizer why is he still playing?

If you are destined to be destroyed and spiritually remoted even be a saint micheal you will still have misfortunes Rashidi yekini was disciplined yet still suffered this spiritual malady caused by jilting his girlfriend who stood by him then same with one yoruba player from Ibadan football club then I think is name is olaleye or olajide something he was even signed to a foreign football club but as soon as he got over there he started developing eyes problem that all his money and even his fellow players money(kanu,okocha,taye taiwo etc contributed for him) was ruined on it yet this guy became blind at both eyes he is back in nigeria now.

the last time I read about him on the net I teared up and one commenter up there was saying women are wicked,the most vindictive blah blah blah and they deserved the Islamic treatment of them but granted many women are,is this moniker(kalulu)not male yet derives pleasure in the downfall of another man?I as a lady if you know the shege I have seen in the hands of men yet it still haven't turned me into a monster!
Even if he was promiscuous does that mean he should be abandoned and left to rot away? at least he did sacrifice for Nigeria in the past too learn to imbibe compassion you don't what tomorrow may bring!!
Sports › Re: The Story Of Etim Esin --- The Nigerian "Maradona" Who Didn't Dazzle The World by ultraviolet27(f): 3:35pm On Dec 16, 2025
sacajawea:
As s.xual as I am, there is still a powerfully balanced side to me.

First it was party, then abroad again. After Keshi told you. Mtchew
His case was spiritual not physical (ordinary) he was destined never to play for international football league
Celebrities › Re: 50 Cent Surges On Spotify Charts After Diddy Documentary Release by ultraviolet27(f): 2:22pm On Dec 16, 2025
erniok:
Why haven't they attacked will smith, Denzel Washington, etc.

Keep your nose clean, you will say no and later look for who is after you.
Those ones aren't really that wealthy though who knows who they will bring down next?Jay z,kanye or even the 50 cent himself
Celebrities › Re: 50 Cent Surges On Spotify Charts After Diddy Documentary Release by ultraviolet27(f): 2:21pm On Dec 16, 2025
naturefellow:
Diddy is a snake! What do you do to snakes... you pet them? undecided
so also is 50 cent sha he is no better at least Diddy doesn't pretend or fake it that he is evil but you see 50 cent ehn?he is a green snake under a green grass,or should I say a wolf in a sheep clothing he will be biting you and still be blowing you breeze at least with p diddy you know where you stand can't say the same for 50 cent!
Crime › Re: Kano Cleric Killed While Calling Muslims To Prayer by ultraviolet27(f): 9:19am On Dec 16, 2025
Mvnster:
Trash, why has christianity abandoned "bloodshed and violence" as it was in the past?
Will islam ever do same?
That's Gotv a fanatic muslim using alternate moniker here don't be deceived
Politics › Re: General Gowon's Wedding In April 19,1969: Aerial View Of CMS Marina Church by ultraviolet27(f):
casualobserver:
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I am not the author but the 1st Nigerian or indeed sub Saharan African to attend university was Olu Atuwarse of Warri. Many refer to him as crown prince of Benin Kingdom (hence why some erroneously say Benin) but he was actually from Warri. He is also referred to as Dom Domingos.

He attended a university in Portugal in 1600. I am sure 1600 predates 1879 (Macaulay) and I am almost certain the ibos had not had contact with the Europeans in 1600.[center][/center]

By the way FFK’s grandfather graduated in 1885.
Yes I just checked now it's olu atuwatse in 1600 but even Dr wiliam Broughton Davis preceded africanus James b horton as a medical doctor a year before he had qualified as a medical doctor in 1860 something he was a serria leone creole of yoruba origin and I am not even igbo
Politics › Re: General Gowon's Wedding In April 19,1969: Aerial View Of CMS Marina Church by ultraviolet27(f): 11:52am On Dec 15, 2025
casualobserver:
There was always tribalism. If there was no tribalism Gowon would never have been a head of state because there would have been no coup.

https://x.com/fattylincorn_01/status/2000218007105061055?s=46&t=zIh8l0Y5x1WkbEiRY9Q56Q


By Prof. Ihechukwu Madubuike)

THIS IS SIMPLY THE REASON WHY HAUSAS, YORUBAS, EDO AND THE NIGER DELTA MAN WILL NOT TRUST THE IBO MAN AT THE CENTER AND WHY THE HAUSAS MAY NOT WANT TO RELINQUISH POWER IN NIGERIA

Any historians in the house to vet this but no insults or character assassination please:

Forgotten History Of Igbo Tribe And Northern Alliance.

Do you know that when Tafawa Balewa was Prime Minister of Nigeria;

Chief of Army Staff was from SE
Chief of Naval Staff was from SE
IG of Police was from SE
Chief of Defence Staff was from SE
Internal Affairs Minister SE
External Affairs Minister SE
Education Minister South SE
Many other key ministries to SE
Parliament President SE*
Unilag VC from SE
The University of Ibadan VC from SE
North resisted same at ABU!!!*

Still, there was dissatisfaction by SE, the officers from the region killed this same Balewa!!!*

*Out of all the most senior officers in Nigeria, SE has 37, none was killed. 8 from the north, all of them were killed. 10 from the west, 2 were killed.*

*Then Ironsi imposed a unitary system of government on the country so that everything can belong to a region who snatched it!*

*We must know our history so that when we want to make corrections, we will not end up concealing the truth.*

*This has nothing to do with tribalism but everything to do with the truth.....at times when lies litter the streets.*

*There is a tendency to think those are truths and facts.*

*What follows are documented facts that can be cross-checked for authenticity!"*

*Thou shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.*

* *“Prof. Ben Nwabueze was the man who drafted the constitution that took away powers from regions and handed it to the central government because his brother Aguiyi THEORY WOES IN NIGERIA TODAY:*

*The Igbo man is known to enjoy blaming the Hausa fulanis, Yorubas and indeed every other Nigerian tribe and Lord Luggard/Britain for their seeming claim of being in third class citizen status in Nigeria.*

*In their perpetual attempts to play the victim card, they recount the political events of Nigeria from 1914 to the present in a half-baked and highly selective manner which cleverly avoids the mention of the roles played by their elite who by all natural laws of judgement were actually responsible for the woes that befell not only the Igbo race but the entire Nigeria nation.*

*The story told in the post above is one of such selective and distorted accounts of history which the average Igbo man is fond of narrating.*

*However, the national archives have the complete and unedited history of Nigeria regarding the political events beginning way back from even before 1914.*

*I will therefore proceed to furnish my readers with the complete story for all to read and be endowed with enough facts so as to judge and act from an informed position.*

*Shortly after the 1914 Amalgamation of the Northern and Southern Protectorates, it started getting clear that the country was bound to fail as the amalgamation in question was done with colonial fiat without the consent and consensus of the different tribes which were over 300.*

*This prompted the political leaders to start asking for de-amalgamation so as to forestall the future danger which the forced amalgamation portended.*

*To that end, Ahmadu Bello, speaking on behalf of the Northern protectorate in 1944 described the amalgamation as* *"The mistake of 1914 which if allowed to remain will ultimately lead to unstoppable bloodshed and a failed country".*
*Awolowo, speaking on behalf of the Yorubas and Western minorities, described Nigeria as a mere geographical expression not qualified to be called a country let alone a nation.*

*Awolowo added that if the5 amalgamation could not be reversed, then Nigeria should be structured as a strictly federal state so as to enable each tribe enjoy autonomy this freedom from being dominated by any one single tribe.*

*But Nnamdi Azikiwe, speaking for the Igbos, denounced Awolowo and Ahmadu Bello, terming them ethnic champions.*

*He accused them of nursing a sectional agenda against the unity of Nigeria, and he declared further that the Unity of Nigeria was non-negotiable.*

*After moving the motion for independece in 1953, Anthony Enahoro proposed that a secession clause should be incorporated into the future constitution of Nigeria so as to give legal backing for any tribe to peacefully exit the forced union if it feels marginalized in future.*

*According to Enahoro, such provision in our constitution would instill in all Nigeria's future leaders the fear of the consequences of misgovernance.*

*But Azikiwe, speaking on behalf of Igbos, rose against him in the parliament and labelled him an agent of disunity, and enemy of Nigeria.*

*At a later date, Awolowo too made a case for secession clause, but Azikiwe again resisted him and instigated the colonial authorities to threaten him and Enahoro with charges of treasonable felony if they didn't stop proposing secession clause for the future constitution.*

*While Azikiwe did all these, Igbos cheered and urged him on because they felt the future Nigeria was theirs to dominate and lord it over every other tribe.*

*Before independece, Tafawa Balewa too had in a public speech described Nigeria as a British experiment and Nigeria's unity as a British intention which Nigerians themselves don't believe in. But Azikiwe kicked and demonized him too.*

*Had Azikiwe co-operated with Enahoro, Awolowo, Ahmadu Bello and Tafawa Balewa about the secession clause, Nigeria perhaps would not have been this misgoverned.*

*For those in doubt, here is a link of one of the numerous instances in which Nnamdi Azikiwe fought against the secession clause proposal for the future Nigeria constitution.*

*It should be noted that there were many Igbo members of the parliament in which Azikiwe fought against Awolowo's secession clause proposal in the link above, but not a single one of them rose against Azikiwe or condemned him.*

*Igbos initially never wanted to hear anything like secession in Nigeria because they so much believed, though falsely, that they were the most educated tribe. (The first Nigerian tribe to produce a university graduate is the Binis).*

*As an evidence of Igbo domination agenda hence their initial resistance to the idea of secession; here are some quotes:*

*"From all indications, the god of us Igbos have destined us to rule the whole of Africa"..... Nnamdi Azikiwe (1945).*

*"It is getting clearer each day that Igbo domination of Nigeria is just a question of time"... Oscar Onyeamma. (1949).*

*As at 1900, the whole of the present Benue State, Kogi East Senatorial District and some southern parts of Taraba State called Munchi District back then; were all in the Southern Protectorate.*

*Whoever doubts this should consult MacMillan Atlas for secondary schools in Nigeria. With that situation the South had a higher population than the North hence always had an upper hand in any democratic bargain.*

*But as at the early fifties when the regions were being created, common sense dictated clearly that these areas should fall in the future Eastern Region.*

*But against common sense, the colonial masters decided to gerrymander them into the Northern Region.*

*While they did that, Azikiwe who was supposed to be in Enugu fighting against it as the leader of the East, was far away in Ibadan struggling with Awolowo to rule the Western Region and also playing the spoiler role against Awolowo's attempts to have Kwara and present Kogi Yorubas carved into the Western Region from the North which was already too large by landmass.*

While he abandoned his burning house and was far away in Ibadan struggling against Awolowo for his own (Awolowo's) region, Igbos saw absolutely nothing wrong with that. Rather they applauded him as a nationalist.
Did you mean the first Nigerian university graduate is benin or the first graduat from a nigerian university is benin? Rev samuel ajayi crowther had already even graduated from fourah bay college in sierral Leone even before the first nigerian medical doctor who died in1879 at age 37 of small pox epidemic,in pre colonial lagos his name was nathaniel Philip he graduated from university of aberdeen (scotland) as at 1869 or so google it his grandparents were yoruba recaptive slaves from serria leone who settled back in abeokuta his grandparents were originally captured in a slave raid from the old oyo war and the oke odan war where dahomey army raided slaves from infact his grandpa was alaafin of abiodun of old oyo empire!!

followed by Dr John stone smith who later changed his slave trade name to Dr orisadipe obasa his recaptive great grandparents were were both grand children of the ikole ekiti king in and an egba royal family in pre atlantic slave trade era in nigeria infact Dr obasa's dad was a great grandson of king obasa of ikole ekiti then there are 3 royal families ruling in ikole I am not an ikole indigene but we lived there for 27 years,this former Dr John Smith eas the first senior boy of Methodist boys high school in bariga Lagos he had already became a medical doctor as at 1900 google is there for you followed by Rev samuel johnson who wrote the history of oyo and yoruba people and his younger brother Dr Obadiah Johnson, and Dr Leigh sodipe akinsiku all of them schooled in university in europe because U.I the first nigerian university had not been established then

Infact the first nigerian african university graduate ever though not based in nigeria as at then his grandparents were recaptive slaves of Igbo origin captured from the bonny slave raid freed in freetown serria leone his name was surgeon africanus b horton I had known this when I was reading makers of modern Africa volume 1 in my secondary school library I hate someone dishing out false information when did edo people start attending school let alone graduate from a university?
Family › Re: The Quiet Crisis Of Aging Men: What We Don’t Prepare Fathers For by ultraviolet27(f): 3:43pm On Dec 14, 2025
Orlandoo:
The question is, will you also do the same to your husband, just like your mom is doing for you dad, without bringing up the jezeblic tendencies?
why not??
Family › Re: The Quiet Crisis Of Aging Men: What We Don’t Prepare Fathers For by ultraviolet27(f):
I am surprised many male nairalanders are even blaming the men thank God many of you be man too and you go old I pray you no go jam manipulate wives and seriously seun needs to do something about this spam bot that will just be banning people anyhow if not your forum members will reduce drastically imagine one can't express herself again even when your comment had no insults you will be banned!

Back to the topic I am a woman and I wonder how a Dad whose job description doesn't permit him closing before 7 will bond with the kids on weekdays if not only on weekend my mum was a retired teacher later became a principal who closes by 2:30 to 3 at times while my dad a lecturer and sometimes Hod closes by 6 and even after that organises meetings and seminars too so who will have time to bond with the kids more if the job description were reversed won't it be our dad who will bond with us more? still doesn't make my mom not loving us too especially as my mum also have holidays which will make her available to the kids more compared to my dad who even in his 8 years of lecturing I didn't think he had sabbatical more than 3 times and that was to further his studies

It's the job of a good wife to still impart in the kids that despite their dads job schedule doesn't allow him have enough time doesn't mean he isn't still caring for them more kids value things that are physical to them even though it's minute and perishable than more important things that will last more and will better their future my mom buys clothes and shoes for us yet we we will appreciate it more and even complained that my dad don't do this for us my mom will then caution us that so our dad who pays our school fees,buy books,take us for medical care ,and buys foodstuffs don't also care for us?or are they not even more important than shoes and clothes that will fade and tear and that we should always appreciate him the more also but you know some other wife's will never correct their kids and let them assume their father isn't loving or caring to them?
I am a mom now also and I understand better I take care of both my parents even my dad more because I understood his sacrifices for us.

even when he started living with an hereditary delibitating illness which exhausted him and was later involuntarily retired,was owed his pension and arrears for few years before he was paid and my mum became the sole breadwinner she never made it known that all the tuition fees and materials she bought for us while in the higher institutions didn't come from my dad, even though we knew the reality then never did she rub it on his face or let it potray to her own family.
my mum could never leave her husby and travel for a week even when we had grown up and could cook she could never travel then more than a week probably because they are destined for each other when my brother wanted to name his son in Ibadan and my mum was invited both my parents couldn't go because of dads health and he couldn't drive his car at a long distance again I even thought my mum will stay like 3 weeks to familiarize with the baby mbah o after 6 days she ran back to ekiti though her in-law (my brothers wife mum) was there too despite she knew I and our last born was with my dad then: we were keeping him company and still taking care of him we were even old enough to be married too then oo

my mum will warn us that if any of us is abroad and wants her to come visit or live permanently she isn't going without her husband but many of our nowadays mother's can never do that how can you abandon your man at old age to go live with your kids?if I use the correct word now bot will ban me and it isn't as if it's because she was my dad's only wife even that was how her grandmother whom she took after her character was she was loving,loyal,and devoted till the end and she wasnt her great grandpa's only wife.
society isn't fair on men so I prefer they even marry more than a wife at least all of them won't neglect him for the kids at old age

I pray my son marries someone who will love him unconditionally as my mom loves my dad so also should you nairaland men pray to marry a woman like my mum who is also wise may you not jam a manipulative,unfeeling,self centered woman who will render all your sacrifices on your kids as a waste!!
Family › Re: The Quiet Crisis Of Aging Men: What We Don’t Prepare Fathers For by ultraviolet27(f): 12:36pm On Dec 14, 2025
gerizzim:
it all starts from how well we bond well with our children and loved ones.

Most father's that are hard hit are those that are always too serious and too strict with their kids up even till when they are mature.

Too much of shouting ,insults and derogatory remarks at them creates a cold relationship btw father and child. Even before that child bcoms an adult, he has already left the huz.

When these children leave the house through marriage, they rarely get in touch as they should . To them leaving the house is like a big relief for them.

It is good parents esp father's should relax their grip a bit on their children when they come up of age. Relate with them more like a friend . Be there for them.
How will the father bond well with the kids when he is almost 24 7 outside hustling?and the wife's may be a full time house wife or her work schedule let her close early and be with the kids more?it the man is always at home more and can't really febd for the kids you still blame him and tell him he can't fulfill his fatherly duties it's the wife who should always imbibe and tell the kids the both parents are their providers and both parents love them equally but it's just dad's nature of job that can't make him available to them 24 7 only on weekends

my Dad was a retired he closes at work by 5:30 or 6 at times most times before he even does other outside hustle before getting home he is already exhausted while my mum is a retired principal who will close early to be with the kids?thank God my mum is a good person even when dad was retired involuntary and wasn't paid his gratuity and pension early mum became the sole breadwinner he never rubbed it on his face or made we his kids disrespect him nor did outsiders or her family members

are you a man you better pray your wife is sensible,selfless and empathetic like my mum if not the story will be the same then if my mum buys us clothes or any other thing if we thank her she will still tell us to go thank our dad because he does other things like payment of school fees,rents, buying of foodstuff,medicals which we the kids don't feel directly but it's even more important so they both take care of us that's what a good mother should do.

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