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If seun doesn't do something to this bot that keeps banning people up and down many nairalanders will leave this forum imagine one can't make an harmless comment again? it is immediate banning

na wa for this bot wey dey ban me up and down o

Fuckyoumod:
Oga you can wash plates for your wife in peace without coming here to lecture or force nonsense on men of reason and good will.

If you don't have an issue with your father washing plates, doing laundry and toilet cleaning then why will you turn out differently?for your information everything is wrong in your home or family if your dad does that.

In every home, there are roles a wife must perform, children must perform and a husband must perform. Anything short, is a sign of a wayward family with no discipline.

If she can not perform her roles, make she remain for her papa house.

I am even surprised guys are supporting that I as a lady self no dey take nonsense what kind of sissies are parents raising this days?I like it a husbands help his wife out some times if she is ill, exhausted or stressed but that should turn it to a daily routine or as slave you will yell at especially when they have grown up kids!!

my Dad used to fetch water to the house because he sees it as a strenous job for a woman and helps in washing of clothes and bathing us at times when we were still little but after we were grown up he can't be expected to still be doing that again nah

The town I grew up in ekiti state I won't mention it that was how their late monarch first child a girl in her marriage then she will maltreat her husby he will do all the house chores the princess will be reading newspaper and be watching television programs.when the husbands family couldn't take it again they went spiritual I was told they sent an adolescent who was jazzed up and fortified she went to the house and sent the wife packing thank God she didn't have any child for him

till today she never dey husband house let alone has any kid and she in her early 60s I don't think the man in that twitter story has relatives still alive sha because why should be looking like that?

tuoyoojo:
This story is not complete but from the little information, I believe the guy is giving a dog a bad name just to hang it.

We have seen good girls come from broken and bad homes and bad girls coming from good homes.

He doesn't understand the family dynamics of the girl and even if that's the case of the mother talking down on the father, the girl should not be made to pay for the sins of the mother

Like I said before, there is definitely more to what meets the eyes as this is definitely too small to cause cancelling a whole wedding

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For the girl to even stand by and let her dad do the washing she deserves to be dumped she is a grown up for God's sake who knows right from wrong so her and her siblings can't stand up to their mum?them never born the woman wey go turn my papa to help!! her husband to be came to visit her in her house it isn't as if they came there together

I am surprised you as a man don't even see a big deal in that omo wa o ni bo si owo aye o

Romeo288:
Watin poor man no go see for inside marriage.

The wife might be the provider in the house hence the husband has been reduced to a walking puppet

I don't think it's because of her being the breadwinner the Dad is under a spell when my dad was retired involuntary from his job my mum became the sole breadwinner for some years before my dad could receive his gratuity and pensions yet there wasn't a day my dad washed plates,swept nor wash clothes for the household
my mum respected him till date the wife is evil and callous

Exousiang01:
He did the best thing.
He is going to end up like that man.
She was already brought up wrong.

Being raised in a home like that messes even a good child up.

She is going to walk into your home with that mindset, you really can't blame her because the idea of a marriage is what she saw her parents doing.
If this is happening in the presence of a visitor them chances are that he kneels to serve her food.
It will always follow the daughter.

I dated a girl who cooks egusi the way I don't like, doesn't season meat, just boils it with plain water and throws it into the soup.
I told her I don't like the way she makes it, she said that's how they make it in their house and she insisted that it right way.
I told her to go and stay in her father's house and continue cooking the way they cook in her father's house, you can't bring another man's house into my house...

same thing happened to a man I know in my town when he was dating the girl she won't make breakfast for him upon their are foodstuffs in the house,she will tell him they don't eat breakfast at home her mum is a deacon who rides on her dad.infact when her mum is going for redemption camp in december it's the soup she cooked like 5 days to december 25th her dad and the kids will eat till she comes back

This man later impregnated the lady in the course of their relationship fast-forward to when she gave birth and moved to the mans compound as the 2nd wife(he already had a wife before) she showed him shege, she won't make breakfast even with enough varieties of food stuffs because the man was well off,leaves home and come back in the night

She has returned to her father's house sha, some men self they lack contentments.A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage don't ignore red flags during courtship

McLizbae:
You talk am very well.

A man should help with domestic chores i am a woman too but not when he has grown up kids at home can't imagine my dad doing that or probably if he is the only one left at home sha!!

He did the right thing imagine a father washing plates in the house where there are grown up kids?one of them even ripe for marriage even I as a woman won't hesitate to dump the fiance and I will advise my brother or son never to marry from that family

The story sounds like a yoruba movie I have watched before and the lady who was about to marry the guy from that household had to jakpa too when she saw the unthinkable!!

Ibukzy:
What is bad in what he said,

i think based on who you support, you just find fault in everything Faith does

He is faith fan in disguise nah I never see him hype I'm fave on this forum before

fitzmayowa:
Script for next set of HMs for next season, act weird and different, paint different colour on your face, speak in vernacular whenever you feel like, cook your food separately with alot of pepper and get into many fights as you can and you are set to win the show......

doesn't mean the person will win what endears a winner to the viewers changes with every season that double kay won last season because they were married doesn't mean another married couple would win in another season.

Christlike01:
You're absolutely right!
Dede's friendship with Mide isn't genuine — it's a strategic move on Dede's part. You see, that Dede girl came into the house with a foolproof strategy, but unfortunately for her, she doesn't have what it takes to successfully pull it off. She's just a bland girl with no standout features except her carriage, which, to be fair, is commendable.

And this is why you hear phrases like "with her sandpaper yansh," "E no even fine like that," etc., flying around in the house. She specifically chose Mide in order to unconsciously set off the "most beautiful girls in the house" debate in the minds of both viewers and fellow housemates.

Dede, as friends with Joanna or Tracy, wouldn’t have been noticed — and she knows it. What is Dede in that house without Mide and Kola? Nothing! She's quickly falling off the ladder because her "friendship" with those two is becoming shaky.

The strategy she adopted is, unfortunately, best suited for beauty queens like Nengi, Mide, Bella, and a few others in that category — Dede no reach!

I’ve said it before: a bad-boy move by Kola for Thelma in that house would trigger a traumatic breakdown for Dede. But sadly, Kola is too soft to pull off such a move.

Dede is very pretty too anyways even prettier than nengi though it doesn't mean I like her

renderme:
Happy Birthday to my baby, Ayomide Iwasokun as she turns 24.❤️ My happy baby. Mimi (in brights voice).🥰🥰
Her light and grace and humour and kind heartedness just always shines through.

I pray she has a great day, even with this dire living conditions.

won't biggy make cake for her?

Uwosom:
Kola saying that he feels that Imisi is strong outside just feels like the friendship is a strategy. I hope that is not true sha.

It has always being a strategy I said it from the beginning that friendship isn't that really genuine from kola's side

hiteelong:
But you people should wait o

Imisi said she put her plate with milk still inside in the fridge, someone(kulture) removes it and put it in the sink.

So it wasn't as if she deliberately left it inside the sink and not want to wash

The problem here is kulture instigating wahala

Exactly kulture is also an instigator he knows faith and imisi don't see eye to eye and he removed her plate from the fridge as how?like he is the owner of the fridge?and faith should have also dropped the matter there.

tioluwalasee:
Joan’s mouth too is a bit sharp, Imisi wise to just avoid this fight. Focus on Faith

focus on faith because he is smallish right?eni owo ka la n le idi mo!!

endure207:
Denaris took a bottle of groundnut, faith didn't say anything, Jason took bread nd wen faith found out he didn't shout, buh let's all pretend dat imisi is not dre target

If imisi hadn't taken the bread to goad faith he wouldn't have reacted she took it when they were still sharing without dropping her name and a loaf at that,she could have just waited like Jason did and then take it she looked for trouble even though faith could have ignored her, however both of them over reacted

And as for denari what is he feeling like a finalist?na the people wey dey vote the delawood and glutton I blame with his boring ship with doris

fitzmayowa:
I thought Imisi say na mass communication graduate she be abi no be wetin she say she study for school be that

She has ond mass communication she didn't do hnd

Nkl4u:
What she did was wrong let’s call a spade a spade

The problem with imishit fans is that they stan blindly, maybe it's the bandwagoning mentality calling your fave faults out doesn't mean he/she won't win or they won't vote for him/her in the finals nah.

I like faith,bella, kayinkumi,danboskid,mide but it doesn't mean I don't call their bullshits out when they eff up when kk and danboskid were even still in the house I did it isn't as if,if any of them wins they will share with me out of the money or even care about my existence when they are out of the house.

Estellie:
The bread is in her breast because she’s scared he would come drag the bread off her hand like he did the pot..

Since big brother didn’t want to address the first incident then let’s all be crazy. Go Imisi !!! 😂

Na for back of microwave you dey watch your own big brother 10/10

This imisi is an instigator,and loves poking people sha since when faith rejected her love advance she has been unhinged I am waiting till when kola will reject Her advances too since she has falling helplessly for him she go show am shege too.

tioluwalasee:
Bro you do not know me, you do not know Faith, I do not know Faith, I do not know you. Get some perspective. Say na morbid hatred, wetin concern me with Faith outside Big Brother? I do not hate him, I might dislike his attitude but I still happily give him props whenever he deserves it. Say whatever is in your mind ogbeni, do you think I care? Do I know you?

who is your bro? you didn't see f(female)indicated in my moniker?

fitzmayowa:
She didn't keep her plate in the sink, the plate has been in the fridge since yesterday with milk in it, Kuture removed from the fridge and put in the sink, the plate still had the milk Imisi wanted to use....

Faith's manner of approach was terrible as no one will respond to him with that manner of approach.....

That kulture is an instigator self why bring imisi's plate out of the fridge what is his business?and he knows faith and imisi don't see eye to eye and faith should also tone it down though I like him but there's no point antagonizing all the h.m and playing the villian that won't favour any housemate this season.

what if Biggy use that style of nomination he used to evict amaka? then he will be so gone as he is disliked by almost all the housemates moreso the 2 ladies that were willing to give him a chance he has rubbished them he should tread softly.

fitzmayowa:
This Biggie's chance of evicting projected winner, he should give Faith the power to evict an HM today.....

na the bandwagon weiner he go evict nah you know as it dey go?

tioluwalasee:
Faith regime don start, first fight with Thelma, second fight with Jason now about batteries. Make this kind guy no be your course rep oh

Something is wrong with you sha like you didn't see how hated and unwanted he is by some housemates?as if thelma didn't prepare to fight and disobey him from the start this your morbid hatred of faith is worrisome I won't say all what's in my mind this night before Mumu spam bot ban me

mayor1814:
Biggie should ban all this talk of " if u meet me outside, u no fit folo me talk this"; " if not for biggie house, me and u no fit dey talk togeda"; etc mensah is d biggest culprit of statements like that... Biggie should ban housemates from uttering such kind of statements


U know u going to biggie house and u know others from different backgrounds will behave to u differently at times behavior u not comfortable with... Na una want win big money and showcase talents

wetin mensah do?he has never uttered that statement before anyway

Nkl4u:
I just tire for that babe. She suppose get cue from ebuka’s question tonight

Scatter ships . Sha just insert yourself into something that will give you talking point

If she doesn’t up her game, she will be going home sooner than we thought

she should go home sooner but borites like ivatar raving like an aro hospital patient,tracy who couldn't even own up to her claims but opening mouth like fish,denari with his boring ship, Johanna and koyin are even boring the latter large fanship because of good looks and even the purported weiner apart from her fake friendship with kola which entertainment does she provide self? should still remain in the house?

Afterall Isabella carried the show for the first 3 weeks she can rest the likes of soso will still be in the house but bella should leave?na wah oo
na naija viewers wey no well wey de vote ivata,tracy,denari,soso, kaybobo I blame sha as for kaybobo I read here he can't leave the house now because he cooks for them bla bla bla did he come to the house to be their chef?

late rico swavey and Lucy cooked for the housemates during their seasons and when they were evicted the housemates they left behind survived.

IamAsiri:
Do you think she would just call the name of a random restaurant and destroy their name? I would be surprised if there might be no element of truth in what she said. How would police go and investigate and expect to meet anything if the lady was right?

Another angle is that the lady may be suffering from schizophrenia.

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The police should have gone undercover say 2 or 3 of them and be on mufti