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budaatum:
No it is not "absolutely absurd"! And you better be grateful if you have not got reason to break off from your parents and siblings, because, some might choose to break off from their siblings and family because their family is toxic, or because the breakee himself is mentally damaged and mad like those you see walking around naked and lost in some of our markets and far away from family.

But his parents and siblings weren't toxic when they were gathering money for him to travel abroad? even if his mum is a witch she didn't use it kill him when he was a toddler then she is a good witch

SpencerForbes:
Possible reasons:

Fear of the Unknown: He might be genuinely afraid of spiritual interference or jealousy from people back home (village pipu )

The Pressure to Succeed: Not everyone abroad is "living the dream." He might be struggling quietly with finances or his mental health and feels he can't come home until he has "made it."

Painful Memories: There could be hurtful experiences from his childhood that make the idea of returning triggering or painful for him.

Quality of Life Differences: Once you get used to a system that works, it can be mentally difficult to prepare yourself for the stress and struggles of life back home.

Discouraging Stories: He might be reacting to scary stories he’s heard from friends—people who visited home and regretted it or faced danger.

New Family Bond: He is receiving so much love and support from his wife and her family that he no longer feels a strong void or need to reconnect with his extended family.

and does that stop him from sending money home or attending his parents funeral?

abidem4real:
Kwam 1 never rejected the child. They both just made it public. There must be a reasonable understanding between Bisola and K1 for keeping it secret till this time. I believe K1 must have been performing his fatherly duties on him since

K1 was never responsible for the boys upkeep (school fees,feeding, clothing etc)he is one heartless, greedy randy man it isn't as if he doesn't have the money

It is the actress I blame it's not as if k1 has ever had any good reputation since the beginning of his life maybe she thought she could lure him with her beauty and k1 will become changed and settle down with her all of a sudden by giving birth for him

That kwam 1 is the most irresponsible, unlovable, and incorrigible guy I have seen in my life very arrogant and stingy fool so why do women belittle their selves for him like this?it isn't as if he spends on them because he is very stingy and his character so worse he doesn't even treat his band members well.

Very greedy,insatiable heartless lout and many of the women who have dallied with him are even wealthy it must be they are under his spell because na dem go even dey give him their money!

Skj13777:
Can't ladies avoid pregnancy from one night stand or flings?

when you have low self worth and esteem she thought she could trap him into marriage by getting pregnant for him not knowing kwam 1 isn't marriageable that man isn't an husband material at all
Even women that has up to 4 kids for him aren't in his house anymore and the mumu never marry since that time probably she is waiting for kwam 1 to come marry her she go old.

Christistruth00:
El Zaki is from Zaria

Stop arguing what you don't know it's possible El Zaki is an ebira man I schooled in kogi state even their christians aren't that better very hot tempered and man'ne--rle--ss have you ever come in contact with the ebiras that you even know them that much?

where we lived in ekiti (ikole) for 27 years before we relocated to our home town in efon their are many ebiras there and they are the ones who farms tuber crops most(yams,water yams,coco yams etc) that's why in ikole ekiti yams are very plenty there and they are very versed in the use of charms a yoruba or any other tribes that plants the same yams with them even as the latter monitors his /her yams uses manure etc compared with the ebiras their harvests will never be bountiful and ample compared to the ebiras why? because they use charms to grow their crops and one even confessed in ado ekiti they used ghosts who died in accidents to cultivate their crops situated by the roadside in the midnight

few years ago in ikole one of the ebira farmers was about to die because when he was preparing yam setts(seeds) for cultivation the knife they used for the seeds slicing cut him in his right hand and it swelled to death because the knifes were already laced with charms if it was only the yams the knife touched that is how the yams would have being very large I am not discrediting them but go and price any ebira people's tlyams in the market and see how large they are

when my brother was wedding his bride in 2021 in Akure the 40 tuber of yams that was part of the bridal lists were purchased from the ebiras in ikunri market in ikole if you see how massive each of the yams was in size you will be amazed if I was still using the phone I used then because I snapped them I would have still had the pictures but when it spiolt I didn't save them on I clouds.

If ebiras are born and bred in other places apart from kogi they will have been so indoctrinated in the culture, languages and dressing of that place that you can't t even different them except maybe through their names and that's even if they are christians because their muslims also bear Islamic name when I was running my pgde in adekunle ajasin university in akungba akoko I was told to buy a drug from state hospital in iwaro I only saw it in a big chemist in oka akoka when I was buying it,it was after one of the vendors called another in ebira name I got to know they are ebiras, because their yoruba intonation is even more sharper than the real yorubas

It was there I got to know the owner and all the attendant are ebiras born and brought up in akoka and so are they many in akoko land.even one former governor of ondo state mimiko his mum is also ebira and the mimiko is very arrogant why do you think the ebiras always use this phrase'ebira ni mi mi kin se eniyan'? because they themselves know they are cruel and don't behave like human beings?

If El zakazaki was born and brought up in Kaduna you will never even know he is ebira ebiras are many in ondo state so the owo massacre survivors and even governor akeredolu then would have been able to identify them and why are you grouping ebiras with yorubas? we don't even share the same geographical boundaries,nor the same language only the igalas we can say we still share some similarities in our language

my mum's late elder sister admonished her kids never to date let alone bring any kogi person ofor marriage not because of the other ethnic groups in kogi such as the okun yorubas,igarra,koto nkarfi,or the ogori magongos but specifically because of the ebiras why?her tenants in Lagos were an ebira couple and they showed her shege is it their filthiness, unwillingness to participate in the compound sanitation,or paying their phcn bills regularly?

Our family friend in ikole were ebiras but is still won't stop me from saying the truth almost all of them are terrible !!

Acidosis:
Might be true. Ebiras and Fulanis are the most violent tribes in Africa. Christianity is why some of them are calm. But you see Ebira Muslims with poor or no education? The most violent, aggressive, and deadly people in the world.

They are even more callous than the fulanis and they are bold and fearless not cowardly like the fulanis if you see how one beheaded his ex girlfriend in broad day light on the street in minna Niger state some years years back.

she was trying to leave him because of his cruelty and bad temper it was on one of the front page news on nairaland here

I believe the ebiras are even more cruel, vindictive and vengeful than the foolanis infact almost all the armed robbery committed in that lokoja Abuja expressway on passengers are pepertrated by ebiras and they will after all still kill them even after disposessing the passengers of all their cash and belongings

very heartless ethnic group that owo church massacre many of the survivors confirmed the perpetrators were fulani as they spike their language there

This is extortion doesn't that man has siblings and parents?why allow him donate his kidney and even still train an able bodied lady like she doesn't have a parents to train her?

The man is already physically and health wise disadvantaged yet he still donated his kidney for a lady who may dump him later he was even her ex at one time a very heartless lady accepting a kidney from a physically impaired man?

dederocs:
A lot of burglars pose as cleaners, more investigation needed.

but still he should have confronted her first it wasn't as if she had entered the house or was armed infact wasn't she still on the porch?gun ownership has to be limited in the usa and many of her citizens has to be checked and treated for mental sickness

This blood lust and trigger happiness is sickening

This same Indiana or is it Indianapolis?an african american teenage basketballer was shot to death)just last month) by a white racist lady because he honked to alert her about traffic signs on a highway his car was behind hers and she was delaying causing a traffic jam

a fat sick racist goat!!

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sylve11:
hahahahaha. This go me laughing real hard. PDP=Power to De Punna

Fiyin007:
https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1PVQJHB8aj/
Faith receives his Innoson car.

Thank God oo

Nkl4u:
You can’t be too sure. Faith was a threat to imisi. Production knew they messed things up. The disqualification was too extreme

I just need to confirm how true the post is before I will say my mind

omo you really love this faith oo ever loyal till the end even after his Dq even I his fan can't love him more thanks for the love and concern though

Love800:
Pot calling kettle black.

Look at this sultana opening her gap-mouth saying faith has pride.
This very sultana that was very prideful till the pee incident humbled her.

Faith just hate when people challenge him in stupid ways, which makes him to yell out.

till today she never showed remorse very hat**†*f**l and v**il***e I love the way JJ disregards and even disrespected her on that dinner night she deserves it she dislikes everyone in that house and even herself that's why she allows JJ use her like a doormat

I believed if faith had tussled with another housemate be it a female or a male other than sultana he will still be in that house because biggy really likes sultana I remembered a day after that pee incident biggy asked her if she know she is very pretty?

she is even the real production pet because she should have been issued a double strike after the peeing incident not a week ban from alcohol that wasn't even enforced.If we argue that she didn't intentionally pee on dede's box did
faith also intentionally fall her down? so far she wasn't given strikes that day faith shouldn't have been d.q also if she had a
double strike she won't have confronted faith
that thursday not excusing faith because he overplayed his strategy and didn't know when to let go

or maybe he was spiritually remoted how person wey win innoson car and superkomando still dey fight for a meaningless wager?

But to be factual Biggy needs to do away with every week tasks and wagers that the housemates win and prize money may not even be paid this doesn't apply in big brother Africa or bb titans nah

even in a finale week biggy couldn't let the h.m have a stress and task free week and just let them enjoy had to give them a task on thursday 4 days remaining to the end of the season to still do a meaningless wager where the 2 of the h.m squabbled and one was disqualified

I have been saying this since 2019 pepper dem season is it greed?or what's the inordinate need to load the h.m with tasks everytime? it isnt as if multi choice hasn't made enough profits.probably faith would still have been in the house if there wasn't any wager this week

hiteelong:
Is faith not the first male to be disqualified?

There was this guy in khloe season, can't remember his name, I think he was disqualified with khloe

K brule even kemen a guy was disqualified in 2017 bisola's season

Bobodee09:
Bro most of them don't watch real time....they fFB and twitter highlights watchers.


At some point he got the point he has messed up time.......he is a smart guy ,I got it when biggie stylishly told him you come this far to start doing this rubbish, why are the only one reacting??

Your case with mensan...he admitted he wasn't talking to you...why the reaction??

Sultana case...tomorrow is the deadline...you aren't the only involved.
Other HMS were on the table for the task ....why are you the only reacting to Sultana coming late according to you??

I love how biggie really shut him up.....imisi haters supporting him should get BP drugs available on Sunday...I no wan read story that touch ooo

I am also a faith fan but supporting a bad behaviour I won't don't mind ibukzy even if faith killed someone on the show he will still defend him same as some of his fans on i.g and facebook I also blame Biggy why let him misbehave as he pleased without warning or giving him a strike earlier in as much as I don't even like sultana I won't still fault her because faith had it coming even if it wasn't sulty it would have been another housemates he isn't the hoh or biggy what is his business with when she came out? it's just remaining four days to the end of the show even if you don't do the task it won't stop biggy from feeding you or enjoying the rest of the week

He wasn't the only one in the group others didn't even complain even when he dissed her the first time and she didn't reply he should have stopped but no he didn't know when to stop as a Doct you should have the emotional intellect to let things slide when he jumped on mensan and koyin altercation I was furious with him even if mensan washes plates everytime and cries how is that his business? everyone came with a strategy it isn't as if he didn't have his own strategy too a ni ka pa
enu po ki a ba omo wi e ni e nkan ti o n se o dara how can you be so cocky as to talk to your fellow house mates any how? and be condesending while at it?his several wins got to his head even the ones he didn't deserve and started seeing his fellow mates as lesser

same thing he did with dede sometimes past because she didn't come early for their wager I blame biggy and some of his fans when I complain about his attitudes at times on X and Instagram his fans will swoop on me biggy should have repeimanded him earlier at least cautioned him his upbringing is fault

and I also heard biggy even gave him the grace to apologize yet he still couldn't.still felt, he was right and was never remorseful Zita was panicky, apologized to rooboy and biggy but my fave couldn't which kind pride be that? even when biggy called to address him with the housemate he was still smiling zita was remorseful at that point.

I don't think I will support any problematic h.m ever again better to stan a boring housemate even if he /she won't win or stay long at least that peace of mind go dey.

Adaumunocha:
I understand Faith's pain cos sultana convinced him not to start preparation of the creams last night cos she was tired. And she promised to help out first thing after workouts

I am a faith's fan but why does be need to be upset if sultana came late? he isn't the hoh and this is the final week why is it bothered about doing right on the task it isn't as if they are going to loose or starve he loves I too know must he always win a task?big brother should have warned him earlier in the game what's the need to always prove a point?
His always winning got to his head biggy also should have given him as strike earlier in the season I don't condone bad behavours!!

a final week and you are still bothered about a task?biggy enabled him to his downfall 4 weeks ago I said on Instagram big brother should give him a strike that he was doing too much his other fans bashed me see now? you would have thought I suggested multi-choice should hang him

Ibukzy:
Gawd how many times will this issue be corrected

Hope you watched life and not fromX

No offense?

slow down Mr I am also his fan but it won't stop me from being truthful that win wasn't for him biggy rigged it and you saw how it led to his outing from biggys house now?he became cockier and uncon*******ble after the innoson win must of you his fans contributed to his d.q must you always twist facts and lie for him?when you aren't imistars that loves to tell lies like their fave.

honestly faith loves to show himself what's the innate feelings you must win all the tasks? if he had left it for mensan or dede he may have still being in the house now you should know when to let go of some things!!

Biggy let most of his bad attitude slide and made people label him production pets instead of cautioning him!

Nkl4u:
Imagine the amount of money fans pumped in this week to vote for him, all down the drain😩

Yes and biggy caused part of it he should have given him warnings or strikes to tone him down same with other h.m that misbehaved you aren't the hoh what is your business with who want to take ingredients to make soap for a wager that won't even count?this is the final week must you always even want to win it isn't that you will starve or is big brother's house his property?

I supported pere but he was never even cocky and he minded his business at times only when he saw how white money wanted to monopolize that season he stepped in playing the villain will may be entertaining and keep you long in the game but at a point you had to stop faith didn't know when to stop

I complained here he shouldn't have won that car it was rigged for him that was the last straw that broke the camel's back his mis***de***"nours hit the roof after that being a fan shouldn't make you bl†***nd to your faves faults.

omotolly22:
Nobody noticed faith from week 1 -5 but his intelligence brought him luck to top contenders

And he lost it because of anger

Because of ordinary wager ,that has no benefits, show is ending on Sunday

I think he purposely does it I don't think he really has anger issues per say he is cocky and biggy enabled him by not warning or cautioning him I am his fan but it doesn't stop me from pointing out his excesses which most of his other supporters refused to do must you always want to win every tasks?

that innoson tasks why struggle to win it when he could have left of for dede,imisi or mensan I said it here then biggy rigged it for him but he also fans here said he won it far and square someone who was flicking his wrists any how couldn't lift his beam up ever since he won that car he became cockier,insulted mensan for what didn't really concern him even his carrying a chair on the kitchen cabinet wanted a strike what if it broke it? most of his fans and biggy contributed to his destr****ct***on.

I don't stan blindly you don't rub your triumph on your other housemates faces what will always saying I like to win ?it made him start misbehaving yet if we call out his faults many of his other fans won't let us drink and drop cup on i.g or Facebook.That innoson car will it be given to him or seized now?

so faith has been disqualified? waste of votes,supports and all big brother should have given him one or two strikes since 4 weeks ago like he did bright this would have curtailed his excesses!!

Teeroyzimma:
The way you guys find excuses for these housemates that you don't know from Adam really blows my mind, you guys are funny aswear. Even Ebuka is an alleged agege if you don't know. Now Bright's ex has come out to expose his dark secret on the internet, which makes that interview of him declaring that he wanted to kiss Kola was infact his actual true intentions, no gimmicks.

But she still wanted him like that before if not for his fall out with her now she won't have said this ija lode ti orin di owe

But to be factual I dislike injustice big brother should have given Dede or mensan that innoson car win faith swapped to the 2nd hand and he didn't lift his beam yet riggie saw it and chose to ignore it what mensan was disqualified for faith too should have been

moreover that car is jinxed don't think anyone who wins it can win bbn since 2019 I like faith o but thruth must be said

so nairaland icons have been changed?

Adaumunocha:
What if we'll have 2 winners come Sunday? A male and female It's possible oo

It may be possible bba once had 2 winners karen igho and one other guy during the season she won their prize money was split among them

Christlike01:
Your message is a perfect example of the kind of divisive tone you constantly accuse others of. You claim to be Yoruba, yet you consistently go out of your way to attack anyone who defends Yoruba housemates or dares to speak up when unfair tribal bias is shown. It's quite telling.

Let’s unpack your statement:
You said, "I am also Yoruba but I no dey carry am for head." — yet, you're quick to silence or shame anyone who even mentions their Yoruba identity or shows pride in it. Why the double standard? If you're genuinely Yoruba, why does it irk you so much when others show solidarity for housemates who are being bashed unfairly based on ethnicity?

You also labeled others as being tribal for simply discussing Imisi, yet in the same breath you implied that it’s only non-Yoruba tribes that can determine who wins. Isn’t that tribalism in itself? You can’t criticize others for having tribal sentiments when you’re clearly pushing one yourself — that’s the very definition of hypocrisy.

It’s also quite disingenuous for you to say, “He can’t even hide his tribal traits.” What traits exactly? Speaking out when Yoruba housemates are being attacked is not tribalism — it’s standing up for fairness. If other tribes defend their own, it's called support, but if a Yoruba person does the same, it suddenly becomes "carrying tribe on their head"? That double standard is the root of the problem.

Let’s be honest — your repeated claim of being Yoruba seems more like a convenient shield you use to justify attacks on actual Yoruba voices here. If you were truly about unity and fairness, your comments would reflect balance, not bias masked as neutrality.

No one is asking you to vote based on tribe — that’s your choice. But don’t shame others for seeing through the politics and supporting those they feel deserve it, especially when that support is based on fairness, not tribalism.

Also, your attempt to draw others into your personal vendetta — calling out names like “davody” and “christlike fellow” — only exposes your own emotional bias, not objectivity.

Disagree all you want — that’s normal. But don’t weaponize identity or pretend neutrality while pushing divisive narratives. It's transparent, and frankly, it undermines your credibility — if you have any!

so you can quote me but I can't? you keep reporting my posts and the bots delete it 3 of my posts have been deleted now lete answer you I am yoruba from ekiti state both parents are from Efon Alaaye a town in ekiti dad's family house is inisa while my mum's own is isare copy that? I don't see where Yoruba is being attacked only you and that other fellow is seeing or not joining the herd mentality is attacking yorubas?

must every yorubas like imisi?or na only imisi be the only western housemate there?if every yoruba viewers support only imisi who will vote for the rest western housemate?if I saw where yorubas are attacked even me I will reply emi gan o gbe enu fin alagbafo that attack is only in your head this will be my last reply to you since you can't take what you dish out!!

Oshokhai69:
Please what makes you different from him? 🤔

I have outgrown it he also need to outgrow his too and don't ever quote me again because any small thing you will block the person from replying