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Blame after a husband’s affair is a very common topic on my surviving infidelity blog. Sometimes, the faithful wife will blame the other woman more than she blames her husband. (An example is something like: “We were happy, but that woman sees a happily married man as a challenge. She was determined to have him and she wouldn’t stop until she got him. She didn’t care if my family was destroyed in the process. I loathe her for what she did to us.”

With that said, there’s no shortage of wives who place a good deal of blame onto their husband’s. It’s not unusual for me to hear comments like: “my husband should be so embarrassed by his idiotic behavior. Here’s a middle aged man chasing after someone who isn’t his wife. Doesn’t he see that none of it is real? I’m the one who has always stood by him but I guess that doesn’t matter to him. What a jerk.”

The other woman who is cheating with a married man will often blame the wife for not giving the husband what continue reading
https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/23/whose-fault-is-it-when-a-married-man-has-an-affair/

Many more questions full there

ybalogs:
Very Good leading questions.

There are a few intimate questions to ask your girlfriend once in a while — not only will it be romantic, it’s also a good way for the two of you to communicate and get in touch with each other’s inner sentiments. So when cuddling over the couch or simply being together one ordinary day, pop her these questions and find out what she thinks and feels about you:

Do you know how lucky I am for having you? Well, this isn’t really a question. Technically, this is one way of asking and letting her know that she means so much about you. This a sure fire way to boost your girlfriend’s ego and confidence in your relationship. So go ahead and tell her what an amazing girlfriend she is.
Do I make you happy? Well of course you do! Your girlfriend will definitely say that, and this is a good opportunity for read more
https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/23/questions-to-ask-your-girlfriend-get-sweet-and-romantic-with-your-girl/

Check out one website www.igodotv.com/relationship

debonairprinx:
I would love that. Hopefully I find something useful.

Lols

firstking01:
So, what are we supposed to do with her nau

Nollywood actress, Anita Joseph, has declared she has turned a new leaf in 2017.

The actress noted that she will no longer be posting nude or semi-nude pictures online.

Recall that the actress, known for exposing her breasts online had lambasted men, who according to her, masturbate looking at her sexy pictures.

The busty actress had described them as hypocrites who hide under the cover of abusive comments to admire her secretly.

But in a new statement, she told the Punch, “This is 2017; the time of unclothedness has passed. I must not always show my body to be beautiful.

“I am growing up and becoming more mature. A lot of things will be changing about me this year. For my birthday, a lot of people expected me to wear swimming trunks and practically go naked. But I wore long dresses and they were still sexy.”

The ‘ Tears in My Heart’ thespian, responding to whether she was intentionally putting on those revealing outfits to tease men, said, “I take pictures and I post them. I don’t care who the pictures are teasing; that is not my business.

“I have a good body and whatever I wear suits me; it does not matter if it is long or short. Even if I wear a long gown, it is still going to be sexy. At times when I put on those sexy and revealing clothes, it is because I am on set.

“When I am filming, I wear whatever suits the character I am playing. Normally, I love clothes that cover my body because they make more sense and flatter my figure,” she added.

https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/22/actress-anita-joseph-vows-to-stop-posting-nude-pictures-online/

yes went to court self

Laveda:
Pheeew!

Shii is back again.

Miss Anambra Sex Video: Lady who ‘coordinated’ lesbian act, blackmailed Chidinma, exposed [PHOTO]

A new development has surfaced in the controversial lesbian sex tape scandal involving the crowned winner of Miss Anambra 2015 competition, Chidinma Okeke.

Recall that the embattled ex-beauty queen was last year entangled in a lesbian sex tape scandal in which she was seen having a ‘cozy time’ with her female sex partner, simply identified as Ada.

The video which went viral online showed Ms. Okeke in a lesbian act with Ada, who is reportedly

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https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/22/miss-anambra-sex-video-lady-who-coordinated-lesbian-act-blackmailed-chidinma-exposed-photo/

Dont fall out of love bro i can prescribe sites for relationships for you

debonairprinx:
One major problem of mine. Falling out of love easily. Most times I wish to put more effort into making things work, I just don't feel it anymore.

Open the link

Mrdecent:
What is the solution... I can't read it here

That cannot be a solution. There are many of them

AgbenuAnna:
Run for your life

Opinion differs

MabraO:
.

To me it doesn't

At be I think so

mayoor15:
yes it does, but karma will always come back to hunt people that does that

It counts

MabraO:
What's so special about saying this sef. Wen Dey say action speaks louder than voice
This is 2017 I don't take people by their words only by their actions.

It means for some people

But it happens

mayoor15:
Why will you be I'm a relationship with a married man, you are not helping his marriage in any way... Anyways, karma will always come back to hunt you...

I get a lot of emails from women who are in a very common and extremely painful situation: they’re hung up on or involved with married men. A lot of them tell me that the reason they can’t let go is because the man is in a “bad” marriage or that the wife is even downright abusive.

If you can relate to this, there’s something you need to know. No matter how wonderful a man is, the ONLY thing that counts is whether or not he wants to be with YOU – permanently and fully. Moreover, a man who stays with an abusive woman wants – on some deep level – to be abused.

This means that if you are a nice, good woman, even if he were to leave his

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https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/22/what-to-do-if-youre-in-love-with-a-married-man/

lols

seunny4lif:
And ?
What's my business with how America is be control



Abeg when is Buhari coming back
We miss him

DozieInc:
How true is this

check the details bro they even attached pictures

adajoe555:
this is really true oh . hope my won't end up like that

are you afraid?

Well this is uncomfortable.

Donald Trump has been president for roughly a few hours, and we’re already seeing the first sign of danger ahead.
It’s understandable that the new administration would revise the official White House web pages to reflect the positions of the incoming Commander in Chief, but some key pages have disappeared entirely.

Among them, the page dedicated to LGBT rights.

When the Obama administration created the page, it was used to showcase legislative/judicial achievements and policy updates affecting gay and transgender Americans. It also featured campaigns to combat suicide among young queer people, like “It Gets Better.”

Well, not any more.

Anyone trying to find the official LGBT White House page is now met with this lovely screen:
source: https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/21/trump-deletes-homosexual-lesbians-right-from-usa-main-website/

TheSlyone2:
That's because Words aren't enough.

He is certainly looking beyond just words

Lols no be small words aren't enough

kenonze:

exactly

You may not have noticed at first but once you did, it’s all you can think of. You may not be able to recall the last time he did say it and you wonder exactly when he fell out of love. If you question him, he just smiles and tells you you’re being silly or that he doesn’t want to talk about it. A woman always knows when something has changed in her relationship. If he hasn’t expressed his love for you and his actions say more of the same, it’s time to take control. If you leave this situation unattended, he’ll become increasingly distant to the point that he eventually dumps you.

Try to think back to when your boyfriend stopped saying “I love you.” Although you may not be able to pinpoint the exact day you should be able to approximate the time he started to pull away. Was there anything in particular that you two were arguing about then? Did something happen that hurt him emotionally? If you can determine what may have contributed to his feeling less connected to you, apologize to him for it. Let him know that you regret what happened. Be genuine and heartfelt when you do apologize and vow to right the wrong. This one act alone can sometimes help tremendously.

Perhaps it’s been more of a slow progression and he’s been pulling away from you for awhile now. In this case you have to reflect on when you two were first together and how the dynamic between you two back then differs from the dynamic between you now. Sometimes a couple simply stops trying to keep the romantic part of their relationship alive. They end up living more as friends than partners and although they still deeply adore each other, the love may have slipped away. If you feel this is the case, you need to put more effort into rebuilding that lost spark.

Regrettably what it usually means for a relationship when your boyfriend stops saying “I love you” is the end is near. If he’s not the type who does well with confrontation he may just allow the connection between you two to die a very slow death. This can take months or even years. If he’s more direct, be prepared for him to tell you in the very near future that he needs some time or a break. A man who isn’t in love will eventually want his freedom so he can seek out a relationship with someone he truly adores.

source: https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/21/your-boyfriend-stopped-saying-i-love-you-what-it-means-for-your-relationship/

mengho:
So how do I go about dating
A fulani girl Hausa Girl Yoruba Girl & Igbo girl
I am planning to marry all four if possible, don't worry money dey plenty

na Malaysia girls get money bro

but it doesn't mean that the abuse don't happen

When you want to date Asian women who are both beautiful and vibrant then Malaysian girls are the perfect choice. If you have got your eyes on a Malaysian belle then you need to make the right moves to get to her heart. It is important that you don’t get carried away by the innocent appearance of the Malaysian women as some of them can be trickier, so in this article we have included some important tips that can help you date single Malaysian women successfully.

Most men prefer online dating website as a medium to reach out to single Malaysian women as this boosts their chances of finding someone who is compatible and seriously looking for a relationship. Furthermore, dating sites offer a safe medium to help you highlight your finest qualities in order to seek the attention of single Malaysian girls. So, if you are looking for a potential partner online, here’s what you should remember:

Be Honest and Genuine

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https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/07/play-your-cards-well-when-dating-malaysian-women/

Fix Marriage After Verbal Abuse – Helpful Tips for the Victim and the Maltreater


Verbal abuse proves that words can be a powerful weapon because they shoot the very soul. Consistent name-calling, harsh flare-ups and glaring insults form part of this subtle aggression that inflicts psychological violence. They destroy the confidence and threaten the life of the abused. It can exist in any relationship, even in marriage.

If you’ve suffered from this issue, you wonder if there is there still a way to fix your relationship. Fortunately, there is. Just read the suggestions below and find out how to overcome this serious trouble.

For the Abused

Accept and let go of the problem.

No problem can be resolved without accepting it has happened to you. If you keep denying you are in this situation, you will never get over it.

Go through the pain and put a period on it. It may seem unmanageable but have the power to leave yesterday behind. Forgive your partner and start afresh.

Regain your self-esteem.

When you can’t defend yourself from the painful accusations and abusive jokes, you gradually lose self-esteem



by igodoTV

https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/07/fix-marriage-after-verbal-abuse-helpful-tips-for-the-victim-and-the-maltreater/

President Muhammadu Buhari has said Nigeria will do everything possible to ensure that Gambia President, Yahya Jammeh, hands over power peacefully.

The incumbent Gambian President was defeated by Adama Barrow in the presidential elections held last month.

https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/05/we-will-ensure-jammeh-hands-over-to-barrow-peacefully-buhari/

hammedkola:
I use all these too...but this is what they are all displaying;- "-- Best viewed with Microsoft Internet Explorer and Mozilla Web Browsers. "

i have the same problem have you solved yours?

PLEASE MY FINGER PRINT AFTER CAPTURING REFUSE TO PROCEED ANY HELP?

please
see the error message

DTOBS:
It's server problem...

Thanks so if i keep trying it will go right?