Family › Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by UOBEN(m): 12:00pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff: This marriage matter.
A lot of people build their marriage on the wrong foundation.
Money, sex, looks, loneliness, desperation and some other mundane reasons.
The best foundation to build a marriage is on friendship and that's why you'll hear marriage counsellors say "marry your friend".
Take away sex from most relationships there will be nothing left, you'll discover the sex isn't even enough to keep it going. Sex that should be the icing on the cake has become the entire cake.
Money that should add spice to the marriage has become the entire food. He must have money, he must have a good car, she must be working and earning her own money etc. Once the money is not there anymore, water done pass garri.
Don't get me started on the Looks part, you'll marry because she has big bumbum and boobs, or because he is tall dark or fair and handsome with a six inch rod. A time will come that all these things won't do it for you anymore.
Marry your friend. That person that comes to your mind when you want to have deep discussions about your dreams, your bad day, your plans, your failures. That person that you will forget about time and keep talking with cause conversation and laughter and joys and tears just comes real.
That is what brings intimacy. The attraction, sex, money, looks all those ones na jara.
My opinion o. So before you mention me and insult me, take note of the fact that it's my opinion, make Thunder no fire you this morning. you are favoured I swear... |
Crime › Re: NOUN Clerk Arrested For Killing His Colleague Over N70,000 Debt by UOBEN(m): 11:25am On Jan 11, 2021 |
He vowed never to pay back...and behold he never payed back..RIP TO THE DEAD. |
Nairaland General › Re: If You Wish To Have A Better 2021, Stay Away From These Five Things. by UOBEN(m): 1:21pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Omo na GAMBLING o....that thing nearly sent me into depression in 2020. |
Properties › Re: How Much Is One Bag Of Cement In Your Area? by UOBEN(m): 8:13pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Here in Obinze a bag of cement goes for 4100 ..... |
Romance › Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by UOBEN(m): 11:34am On Nov 19, 2020 |
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Career › Re: Molten Iron At An Indian Steel Company In Lagos Kills Many Nigerians Working by UOBEN(m): 7:10am On Apr 14, 2019 |
if government don't take care of its citizens, who will ? |