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Your head is so empty, I just feel so sorry for your neck cause it has no idea it has been carrying an empty head for so long.

We4all:
Olamide is an overrated musician with eyes like an owl.

I have a laptop.

dawnomike:
Get a laptop... then get back to me

Noted.

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slimanyd:
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Favfables1:
OP...
Honestly eh ...
Marriage at this point shouldn't be your priority, not because you're "young", but because I feel you need to make the most of your time now...

Let's be real here....
Marriage is WORK!
Marriage is BILLS!
TM &wedding both cost a lot of money...
And soon after that, the kids starts coming and definitely expenses starts building...

If you have to add all these expenses in addition to house rent which could be in millions depending on your location and type (selfcon, 2bed room et Al) it will be choking in my opinion...

And besides, what if she decides to stop working in the cause of her pregnancy? The entire weight will be on you and as such building your house will slowly and steadily move to the back of your priority list, hope you get the point?

If I were in your shoes, I would build the house first....
From what I can pick from your write up, you seem to be a "hustler" and you're doing really well for yourself...

So in 2years max, those lands would have multiple structures and tenants in them, getting married then, wouldn't be "late", would it?

Well ..
That's just my opinion...
Either ways Sha ..
Just do whatever it is you have in mind...
Good luck...

baby124:
Build your house first. I am concerned a 20yr old is talking about marriage. Please give yourself time as a young man to put things in place. You guys can date for another year or two. Support her by advising her on growing her business, growing career wise and business wise. Get to really know her to understand who she is and if you both can be a couple. Make her understand that you both need to be stable. Stop her from giving you money monthly please.

Do you live together with her? Why is she giving you money? Just tell her as a man you need to make sure you guys have a house to stay before marriage and you are working on it. Marrying early is good but 20? That’s crazy o. Early for me is 25 sef. That’s when the brain becomes mature. Imagine the change in your behavior 20-25 vs 26? Make she work on herself small.

We don't stay together but she comes and stay may be for a week and then goes back. Her reason for giving me money is that she feels I have hidden financial struggles I will not tell her. I stopped her from giving me money, but instead she will come to the house prepare a list of things we need go to de market and buy them. Last month I broke my hand, so I told her I need a washing machine cause I can not wash my clothes, The next day she bought the machine and brought it home.

cococandy:
that’s a focused young lady

The second land I bought late last year, she pushed me to buy it, I wanted getting a small Lexus that period, she insisted I buy a land, she said me getting a car was not necessary for me cause it will increase our expenditure.

cococandy:
Your girl sounds like a good girl but young

1) stop taking her money please. Thank you!

2) you can get engaged for now. Build the relationship while you build your portfolio

3) encourage her to invest in herself too. So that she doesn’t spend her youth investing in you and then 5-10 years later, you leave her in the mud for someone else.

I always feel like whenever guys make a thread about their relationship issues, it’s usually the girls that need advice but they are not the ones online seeking help. Someone needs to be advising that baby girl at that her young age. Imagine giving a man monthly pocket money. She needs to be reinvesting it in whatever is giving her the profit and planning for life after college. You guys can keep dating

I have told her to stop giving me any money, once it's month end, she will buy the things lacking in the house without even telling me. What ever I want to do, she will like to contribute her own share.

baby124:
Please leave that 20yr old. Let her finish school, serve and get a job. She’s looking for husband without graduation or job. She’s probably running from something at home or lazy and wants to enter where soft. She will immediately get pregnant and not be able to contribute anywhere h but debts on your head. Give yourself 3-5yrs. In that time, hustle, build a 2/bed, 4 flats. 2 of those if you can. Live in one flat and rent the rest out. You can build in phases, till complete.

Grow your business and enjoy being single responsibly with protection. No sex without protection till you have found someone mature enough to work with you truly and, you are both married. Let that 20yr old go and build herself. Release her.

She has graduated already, but has not served yet. She works in microfinance bank, she also has a baking shop, with 5 girls working for her.

rickpat:
bro don't marry cus you are not ready mentally...cus if you are ready you won't ask this question... marriage doesn't stop one from building a house...more than 95% of people that married early like 25 to 27years didn't have a house...they built after marriage...you ain't ready...calm yourself and the girl down...I hope you understand

Thank you so much.

Good evening my fellow nairalanders,

Please I would like you all to advise me on the decision I'm about to make, and I will be very brief.

Ever since I graduated from School in 2018, I have been trying my best, and God has been helping me in all that I do. Ever since I was a kid I have never believed that I need to travel overseas to make it in life. I have been able to save up 17 million naira cause I do a lot of hustling to make money, I have been able to purchase two plots of land. I wanted to start my building project by October this year, but my fiancée told me we should get married first and build together. We have been dating for 6 months now, initially, we broke up when I got admission cause she said she could not stand the distance. Late last year she called me that she could not find a man that could make her happy, that she wants us to continue and ever since we started dating she has been supportive, she works in a microfinance bank, she has a baking shop also, every month she gives me 25,000 to support the expenses in the house, she doesn't even know I have such savings I just told her I want to start my building gradually. I'm 26, while she is 20. Should we get married or should I start the project I have in mind. Please I need advice from you all, Thank you.

Abeg make una no mind my use words ooo,,am not perfect and nah my first post be this..

That's was how he scored during friendly games last season..at the best to him

fuck419:
Not really. He needs to be goal scoring form to start the season proper. That's the essence of the pre-season games.

If you wait for the season to start, some players will never pick form until the end of the season or when the club is in relegation list.

It's good as long as he doesn't sustain injury.

I would like to know more guy

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Lekan239:
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Built2last:
Buhari would rather give it to Abubakar Shekau than an Igbo man.

Impossible

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To use you do ritual the hungry me..why can't you just type something meaningful and move on...

EmekaA125:
Ogoniland is Igboland

Eastern state has one the worst road networks in Nigeria..yet we carry Tinubu and Yoruba matter for head..me I believe every Region has its own setbacks..

To use you do money ritual the hungry me now like this.

Henrydonland:
He could have just donated his vital organs to people in need before killing himself so atleast he could have died a fulfilled death.

Have you ever known peace. Even before this Fulani herdsmen issues started, killings like this have been happening in the East.

Badorey6:
I don’t dialogue with Fulanis.

You will all soon be sent back to Jalo where you come from.

The NBA chairman was butchered by Fulani herdsmen and every one defending this gruesome act by herdsmen will never know peace.

As ehen the matter tire me.

Habibullahee:
I wonder how is turned be now that any unknown gunmen are profile to be Fulani?

Sometimes crimes like this are not carried out by Fulani herdsmen. When bishop of Owerri Diocese was kidnapped, Fulani herds men where accused of the act,but after investigations it was found out that they where innocent,,am not trying to say what they are doing is right...

If I should call you a pig that will be literally offensive to pigs.. sometimes it's better to keep your mouth shut and give us the impression that you are stupid than opening your mouth to clear all doubt..Kai 50 naira condom would have saved me from sharing this platform with you...your father bleeped up....

tsephanyah:
Bastard from the lineage of the most corrupt gene in the world. Come to Nigeria, I dare you. Attention seeking bastard just posting on twitter to stay relevant amongst your deadbeat criminals. You people are funny, posting stupid things against the government so that your White masters will not send you parking. Fools they all thought Buhari will give them shady contract to steal. After they realize it will not happen, they turn to political activists.

Suicide is never the option....many of us here are struggling just like you. but I believe it will only get better...abeg reply that email immediately.

E get as the year be o ! Bad news from every angle...Naija which way..any way \/\/1K3 fit dish out some cash again.

But when Federal Government collects tax from Nigerian Brewery and allocate it the the North you collect abi...bunch of hypocrite...

You no go kill person I swear..

Dreyton36:
If that kind Switzerland prison dey naija make them con add Arizona with coooold Pepsi join am with steady cold water
Make them add mp3 join too with olosho

I swear na everyday people go they call police for phone they claim crime wey them no commit

Boy: hello officer , I just slap one old woman in her 80's and she faint , i know say I suppose collect like 2yrs imprisonment abeg quick come God go bless u in advance

Police: oga if u like kill buhari na me and my family members space remain for here , go and sin more you idiot

Lights up my kpoli in peace

IgboWarlord:
The only Peace Onuoha i know na my ex babe wey go marry Malaysia yahoo boy and the marriage crashed after two years..Such joy i felt....She's now running POS business around TransAmadi...I intentionally drive past her kiosk just to get a good laugh....

Is she a Nigerian actress or Niger Republic actress,I for like know oo..RIP to you Daddy

Kennyswag:
Waste the igbo man

you are talking in the nonsense.....that's how you will be wasted some day.....