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oxiide22:
small change wey u no fit dash am

Learn how to beg with respect, bitterness dey inside you well well.

Check this moniker, I created it for giveaway in 2020 the week lockdown started and I guess many nairalanders will still remember (fuckkthemod).

I nor stingy Oga but because you get bad head you nor go get chichi from me

oxiide22:
small change wey u no fit dash am

I’ll rather burn the money than to give it to you slowpoke. You just get mind begin attack me because of money wey you nor work for me, I don’t know you from anywhere.

You nor get shame at all

oxiide22:
UselessBuharist belong to this crew

Lol thank God say I nor belong to the crew wey dey beg for 5k on nairaland.

You come online dey fool your papa and mama because of some small change

oxiide22:
5k pls sir

So na because of 5k you say I stingy, the same ready my family don’t pity me ?

oxiide22:
yes I swear I pity you that's y I even shed tears for your story

Continue oo Oga, I dey very alright with my family… I nor get wahala

oxiide22:
you're right but help me pls

Bleep off sir, so if my family nor pity me na you wan pity me ?

Stay off my posts, comments and moniker

oxiide22:
Oga it seems you don't help the needy and you're damn stingy man you never person you're selfish that's your family don't pity you

Thank you sir, but nor be me cause your frustration in life na…. I fit nor even senior you oo nairaland nor be charity home boss.

So as you comment that nonsense now I go come reply your email or help you?

Sumptylism:
Take the documents to a bank for safekeeping.

...what if the lawyer sells your property?

The lawyer can keep the will...and the documents should be with the bank....

...you sef try dey "open hand small"...e be like say you like yourself too much....

...and this one wey you dey get issues with everyone...take am easy...your own dey your body....

...from parents...to sister...to brother-inlaw...back to parents...agents...and even girlfriend/baby mama....

Tell yourself some truth...take am easy...give willingly...and don't see people just as a means to your end...in short... don't be selfish....

...that na one secret of getting the "mumu button" in people....

...all the best in your endeavours....

If you read my first comment you go modify your comment.

Stingy man go buy car give in-laws for luxury?

Where you see girlfriend and baby mama for my comment, I avoided those words for a reason.

Who go get your time in the first place if you stingy and remember my sister didn’t squander my money I got angry with her because of how she looked away and didn’t even bother to go see what her husband was doing for me.

Life nor too hard like that bro, abi the stingy part na because I say make everything go to my son in the case of any eventuality?

Dfavouredone:
I like your spirit of forgiveness and your love for your family.

I will like you to put decision to give everything to son in case of anything happen into writing (Will) and hand it to your lawyer.

Thanks bro, considering that now.

Fearyourcreator:
Senior brother cus you dey the money... If not you go vex leave all of them... Na person wey see something dey fall back on dey easily forgive... If not Bros you go vex no be small

Lol bro na just who I be, I dey easily forgive and move on. This life nor too hard like that but I go give everything to lawyer the next time I come naija

Samantha124:
I have two brothers-in law and the first one started dating my sister while still in high school, him and I have that good brother and sister relationship. Sometimes we can even spent about 30 minutes talking over the phone and discussing about life in general and him telling me about the kids, that's how close we are.

As for the second brother In law, he started dating my sister while she was still in college, him and I have had a bit of differences in past because he has a drinking problem and I sometimes just don't like the way he behaves when he's drunk. But I accepted him as my brother in law because my sister loves him despite his drinking problem.

The main problem with my second brother in law started back in 2021, we were having a party at home and I decided to go to bed before everyone because I was tired. It happened that this brother in law of mine was drunk and he started embarrassing my sister and she decided to take him to the other room in the house and asked him to stay there. I was in my room sleeping, but not yet asleep when my room door opened and at first I thought it was just my mom, or one of my aunts or cousins. I expected the person to switch on the light since I switched it off, but this person started walking towards my bed. I lifted my head to check who it was and I found out that it was my second brother in law, I immediately dismissed him from my room.

I told everyone about it the following day except my father and my then boyfriend, who's now my fiance and they all laughed it off and said he was just drunk and lost, that I shouldn't make a big deal out of it. Fine, I let it go... Last year in August a close relative of ours was getting married and everyone traveled home to prepare for the wedding.

A day before the wedding my parents and two sisters decided that they were going to spent the night at the relative's place as they were help preparing for the wedding the following day, but I and my other sister were told to go home with our nephews and nieces... Later in the evening my sister brought my brother in law to the house and he had started embarrassing her again because he was drunk.. I was already in my room when they arrived, though I was not asleep, I decided to go and check on them because I can't stand my brother in law whenever he's drunk.... Apparently my sister immediately prepared a room for him to sleep in but he turned it down and said he was okay with sleeping on the couch in the living room... The room used to be previously my sister's before she got married and it's a bit far from the living room.

But mine is close to the living room, after he refused to go to the room that was prepared for him, my sister ended up giving him a blanket to sleep on the couch and she drove back to the relative's place. Everything seemed fine and we all went to sleep. While I was in my sleep I could hear some footsteps but at first it was like a dream, but then they started sounding like they were getting closer and they started to sound real... I immediately woke up and found my brother in law standing on my side of the bed, I jumped up from the bed and asked him what was he doing in my room, but he started apologizing and told me of how he thought it was the bathroom.

I was so scared I kicked him out of my room and locked the door, I checked the time and it was around 2am.. I Immediately called my sister and explained to her what her husband did and asked her to come and fetch him because he was scaring me... But she told me to just lock the door and don't mind him... I couldn't get some sleep since then and he came back to the door at around 4am and attempted to open it again, but it was locked.

In the morning I waited for him to leave the house first before I could get out of my room, I told the sister I was with in the house about it and she suggested that I tell Mom because Dad was going to overreact... I then told Mom and she said she'll see what she can do, I was hoping that she'll warn him about it, but to my surprise, she didn't do anything about it... I was hurt, but I let it go, again.

I could've told my fiance about it, but I didn't because I knew that there was going to be a fight if I did, and I didn't want a fight.

Now this past Thursday we traveled home for Easter and I was so happy to see my family again... As usual, we had a family chillax on Friday and everyone came through to hangout, this time my fiance was also there.. later in the afternoon I decided to go take a nap and I left everyone outside, as I was napping, I felt someone touch me and at first I thought maybe it was my fiance... I was shocked when I found out that it was my brother in law and he was trying to have his way with me but fortunately, I managed to screaming and everyone came running.

A fight broke out between him and my fiance and I was so scared because my brother in law is the kind of a person who likes carrying a gun with him, but they were separated... My father got to find out that I complained to my mom before about my brother in law, but she didn't do anything about it and now he's mad at my mom for letting things get this far.

Now the family is divided... I love my sister, nephews and niece, I don't want to cut ties with them because of her husband and their father, but I don't know how I'm going to do it because I don't want anything that has to do with my brother in law.. Some say I should press charges for attempted rape, while others say that I should let the family elders intervene... I'm still confused right now, I don't know what to do.

I just can't help but feel guilty that if I had told my Dad about the whole thing from 2021, all of this would've been prevented.

Good morning, you know your sister is not safe neither is your immediate family safe with that guy, imagine a drunkard with a gun.

You are a South African and must have heard stories of how these men kill their wives and sometimes their in-laws.

I thought they conduct mental and physical evaluation on people before they are given licenses to carry guns.

Please any update about the electricity problem in SA, when are we gonna have stable power supply? It has been stage 6 and 5 since Easter.

If these guys are taught lessons like this across Nigeria they will always remember nobody has monopoly to violence

emee701:
Lol na serious wahala. If you are to start another project. I can handle it

No wahala bro

emee701:
Bro employ me as an external supervisor to supervise your building projects for you. I would do a very nice job for you. I am an engineer

Bro hmmmmm, I won’t even advise my enemy to interfere with any building project my dad is handling or managing oo. In 2021we argued over the cost of plastering then I sent someone to check and give me an estimate………… my dad use pump action chase the guy from site he warn the guy from afar say the next time he near that site he won’t be that lucky.

Greenvaiper:
I carry all my property documents with me anytime I travel

Lol you get mind bro, I still think it’s safer in Nigeria

Jozilinn:
Abeg oga no vex but collect those documents from her,you should have learnt from this earlier get a lawyer to hold those for you for the sake of your son, family dey change oh even the most trusted....you sound pretty rich sir by now you should have known your son is an easy prey for selfish people, everyone wants to fight for their own and their children oh , besides you are the one doing yourself,like seriously your wife is in Nigeria and you are just giving money anyhow to people and exposing yourself,no matter anything your wife knows your son's interest is involved hmmm...No dey carry carry dey give try dey calm down life is too short,thank you sir and God bless you and your family.

I never marry bro, i was dating her and my son came.. she had my documents till we had issues and she willingly sent the documents to my sister.

I’m not rich but I just know say any money wey don reach 1 million fit buy land somewhere.

We suffer for rent na make me like properties like that. I will do as you have advised the next time I come Nigeria… but what if lawyer die who go give me my docs lol

ModCaller:
Real life sabinus. Continue

Dem say you sabicallmods

Iamicekid:
I always do this and always advice my friends to do the same, when u are outside the country in a year u will have 1 month of days off work in total, don’t collect those days off, save am till November or December which ever works for you, just make sure Na Dry season so that rain won’t disturb ur project speed, use that time come 9ja, buy the land u wan build yourself, commence the project yourself during the space of that one month, once ur holiday is over go back and repeat the same the following year, continue from where u stopped, my one cent

Bro nor be bad advice oo, sometimes money dey come before document. In the case of no document, man nor get choice. Imagine say I save my money in 2013 wen cement was around #1200 or thereabouts then I come naija in 2017 when cement na #2600 it will be double the amount I used in 2013. Price regulation nor dey naija the reason why we all rush to do something when we have the money

One of my parents sold my first house at roofing level, I got wind of it from a friend, I asked and I was further lied to. As if that was not enough dem pressure me to bring money for roofing for house wey dem don sell oo.

I made up my mind that i won’t send #1 for the purpose of that house again and they won’t know anything I do going forward.

2 yrs later I asked my sister to buy another land and start a project, I told her I’ll lodge you in a hotel near the project so that she can finish the project before going back home, I even beg her husband we agree oo she do am to roofing level her husband asked her to come back home. Na so them leave the house, 3 weeks later her husband tell me say dem see one very good land suitable for hostel make I come buy, rush rush I pay oo, they said I should just start the building project immediately, I ask my in-law can you handle it he said yes, na so I begin pump money oo, I give my in-law the job, he gave his friend the job and his friend gave a contractor. Dem chop me nor he small but I didn’t complain because the money dey then and I thought they were using the best materials only to come naija meet 21 cracks for house wey dem complete less than 2 months before I come naija. Before I come I don buy car for my brother in law, when I got to the house I was so disappointed right there I told my sister I will never talk to her again. I went and completed the one she was building before by myself. Long story short I sold the hostel last December the same day I bought another house with money I got from selling the hostel. The hostel was just there, nobody goes there to check, even the agent I gave to help me manage it dey do me anyhow.

Because I nor get anyone else to trust I went to my parents to help me build my living house… this one na another long story.

Me, my sister and her husband are cool now, she is even going to check the house I bought in December on Saturday. She has the documents to all my properties since wife never join but I tell her say if you hear say I close my eyes forever make sure everything goes to my son.

I be senior brother, I carry everything wey happen as part of life, I love my family

The judiciary will set Nigeria ablaze soon and if it starts from the north we are safe down south.

You see the reason they do everything to be declared winner whether legally or illegally and after the declaration they will say go to court because they know the judiciary has been seriously compromised

9jahotblog:
This is the law! INEC has the power to do what they did yesterday

By virtue of Section 65 of the Electoral Act, 2022, INEC can now, within 7 days, review results declared by a returning officer under duress or where such a declaration was made contrary to the provision of the law, regulations and guidelines, and manual for the election. This is without prejudice to the jurisdiction of a court of competent jurisdiction or election tribunal to review the decision of the returning officer.

Why do you APC supporters twist the law and interpret to favour your criminal activities

I trust my gender, they will negotiate higher for the private vagina… they just want to see what’s special there

accordadoga:

You know when I talk to you now, you will start crying looking for mod to pacify you

Fut9ure:
Bro i know what am saying

Even the vice chancellor knows that uniben is owned and run by the axemen( Aye)

I'm from Benin okay

Uniben is called futa jallon for a reason

Oga how far, you dey play 7? Which one be Futa Jallon for public forum where jus, juress and many other ju frat plenty

If there is an election today, they will still vote for APC. I’ve never seen people like them

Righteousness2:
What a collection of exotic automobiles.
Wow! Wow! Wow!

But listen, Having all these or even more without knowing JESUS CHRIST or Having a genuine relationship with JESUS CHRIST is not worth it. It is a waste. It is useless.

In all you aspire to get or achieve Here on earth, ensure you have the needful.
Ensure you know and have a relationship with JESUS CHRIST.
Because Life without JESUS CHRIST is a wasted life.

Bros I beg first leave that one for now, I dey always support you before but on this one I beg make I enjoy for this world before I comot because I don’t know what the other side look like not even you knows

Lol

Just dey play