ERockson: You attended the church for just almost 3 years and demanding financial help based on period you've been with the church, what about pastors's children that's have been there for more than 20 years. Pastos can not help everybody approaching them for helps. Now that you are nurse and earning money how many people have you have helped financially, how many school fees have you paid for the less privileges.
......my brother the thing weak me, no empathy here, Nigerians and their entitlement mentality, because you attended his church for three years so therefore he should sponsor you, why didn't you face the mother that gave birth to you ? Isn't it her responsibility to pay your school fees, and that aside anyway, before applying as a nursing student you obviously knew the fees the school will be charging therefore you should have prepared yourself for the fees. ..
ManknowThyself: Life is short, there is too much to know and life is no life without knowledge.
In life we learn through two possible means:
Through our personal experiences , ready to heal, forgive but not forgotten to gets to the divine destination of life. This is usually the best option anyway.
OR
We learn through other people's life experiences , some never healed, neither forgive nor forgot and still at the cross road of losing their destination of life. It takes true courage and determination for them to arrive at their destiny. This is usually for the ones that lack self love and self believe.
Big honest Question to answer alone in conscience cos you know your wife better than us all.
Will she do thesame for you if the ball was truly in her box to play?
If the answer is positive, you alone and God should make the final decision.
Anyway in both cases there's something to learn about life and God will always see us through our choice's cos life is all about choice.
Laird: For foreigners, Take note that getting jobs with work permits with visa sponsorships after studies in the UK is becoming very difficult.
Spouse betrayal is also a possibility and risk especially if the spouse is Fe**** gender
.... especially with generic course like construction. Sponsorship is like gold now. I personally know two that have done their masters in the UK here but are being forced to go back to Nigeria because there are no sponsors.
Naya261: I am married with Children, my wife is a registered nurse with about 8yrs working experience.
Please which one would you strongly advice Between Sponsoring my wife's Nursing career to the UK or Enroll for Msc in Construction Project Management in the UK?
My aim for the Msc is as a means to jakpa and reside in the UK to continue working not that I really needed the Msc.
Please i need your candid advice. Thanks.
..... your aim is to japa, I laugh. UK don hardooo. MSc nor go guarantee you jobooo. And you will need sponsorship, how is that gonna be possible.
hegelian: oya return home bro if you so much believe all you wrote.. una go dey where una escape too and be speaking grammar...we wey dey naija understand and hope you join us back home not writing epistle like a broken clock
.....my brother the thing weak me, cho cho cho, E nor talk about non stop running clean water, 24hr power, publicly funded education and the elephant in the room, the non existence of KIDNAPPING and BANDITRY on the highway. To travel these days, you get to engage in 7 days of fasting and prayer before embarking on a journey.
Yorubastardz: Imagine picking a child and taking responsibility to raise the child.
Only for the child to grow up and torment you every day.
Because his genetics and behavior are not from you. His parents might be mad people who abandon him as a baby.
Now you suffer and raise kid.... nonsense talk, where Anini, Oyenusi, Malami, Emefiele, and Godogodo adopted ? Only for the kid to be a thorn in your life
autoez: Oshiomole should just resign immediately abeg. This is disgraceful. Shame on all the people of Edo North senatorial district.
...Oh boy leave that thing, the Man has money, albeit purportedly stolen. He's acquired every material things a Man can have, if he then likes young fine complextion women, let him indulge himself, for crying out loud, how many more years does he have to live on earth and still be in active service.
Gadaffi9ja: In as much as I don't support fraud, most of the companies don't treat their employees well, imagine handling heavy transactions for ur company and ur pay can't even take u home.
....I concur,if the Man is not earning at least #500k a month take home, he shouldn't be allowed to manage millions.
jamesversion: Fake statistics. Assumptions go wound una one day.
... how is it fake, as if we need statistics to tell us the obvious, was it going to be south east where IPOB and sit at home is rife or NE and NW where poverty, illiteracy, Banditry have decimated the populace that they have become refugees in their own Land. And it can never be the middle belt where the Muslims are at a loggerhead with the minority Christians.
LagosOrigin: Igbo is the biggest and most successful tribe in Nigeria
The facts are there for all to see.
They tried to use politics to divide us because of our intimidating huge population but E no work. .
then the IGR of the South East should surpass all other states of the federation, but that's not the case, I'm I missing something. Lagos is still miles ahead.
Recently,a female neighbor of mine came to me to advise her on how to go about cuz her boyfriend just got some cash and has done everything for both of them to Japa to Belgium.
She's an Igbo girl from Ebonyi state. While her boyfriend is an urhobo and even hails from my village.
Everything she showed and told me were so glaring to be so untrue. I warned her ,of the danger she was about to face but from the look on her face,I could feel the joy that was already written. Na so I just lock up and mind my business.. but deep down on the inside of me,I said to myself,--"This one don already make up her mind to be bush meat"
The next thing I saw,was that she had already rented her room out,to another person and had already been paid by the new tenant,cuz her rentage was still ongoing. All of these happened without the knowledge of the landlady.
Like this,as I'm typing this, this girl is stuck right here. It seemed everything was all fallacy and the travel agent scammed the both of them. House rent she don chop. . New tenant has even moved in ,and she's still here.
Tho I wanted to confront her to ask what later happened to her Japa plan,but my banny said I shouldn't .
Not that I'm mocking her,but from what she told me,they spent over 15m naira on preparing their papers alone. Omoh, wetin dey worry we Nigerians. How can someone have that kind amount of money and still be thinking of travelling abroad without being sure of what it's gonna be like over there for him/her?
Op,the truth is very obvious and even me typing this wouldn't mind going on board should a free bus of Japa be parked in front of my house.
....my brother the thing weak me, I don't want to use the word stupid and reckless. Why risk that type of money with nothing to fall back on. 15 m is a lot of money.
buttlover: Ordinary snake bite una no fit handle. No wonder Tinubu and late Buhari is always on flight to foreign country at any given health symptoms. They don't believe their own health sector.
snakebite, particularly from a venomous snake, is a medical emergency requiring immediate, calm action and rapid transport to a hospital for antivenom treatment, my brother the thing weak me, living in Nigeria is by the grace God.
Flangelo12: There's no work Deziani did that would give her the freedom to spend £2 million at Harrods... .
....my brother the thing weak me, that girl is talking nonsense in what she wrote, why will Kola Aluko give her a blank cheque to spend as much as she likes, he can't be fvcking her, all I will say if a soup smells like banga soup it definitely must be banga soup.
Ahayalift: There are very good aspects of Sharia Law actually. Look at the ways many of our girls walk half-naked, they always cover well in the North because they know there is Sharia there. I'm not saying it should be introduced, I'm just saying we Christians have a lot to learn from Islam. I know the general narrative, but I tell you what I know many Muslims are far much more kindhearted than most Christians, I'm talking from personal discovery over Years of my experience. See: https://www.nairaland.com/8599625/music-alert-let-greatness-manifest
with all the girls walking around almost naked as you claim, Lagos is still the richest state in the country and with all the girls covering up in the North, these areas are ravaged by banditry, poverty and out of school minors. So how have Sharia helped the North? There's proliferation of kidnapping by bandits, most of the children are out of school and poverty is rife, that is why most of them have resorted to begging. And all these social ills is now spilling to the south Kogi, Ondo et al.
Richtaiwo: Oh, absolutely, nothing screams child development like handing a nine-year-old the latest iPhone 17.
Please, do enlighten us on the “positive impact.” Is it to help the child master advanced skills like doom-scrolling before breakfast, arguing with strangers online by lunch, and developing wrist pain from nonstop gaming by dinner? Or perhaps it’s for early exposure to luxury addiction, so they learn, at age nine, that happiness comes in titanium frames and yearly upgrades.
And yes, I’m pretty sure even Elon Musk, who shoots cars into space for fun, wouldn’t casually dump a bleeding-edge smartphone into the hands of a nine-year-old and call it character building. If billionaires with access to Mars are still cautious, maybe the rest of us shouldn’t be using “positive impact” as a creative writing exercise.
But by all means, tell us more. The world is waiting to hear how an iPhone 17 is the new ABC book.
....I don't just gerrit myself, is she suppose to sign up for Facebook or Snapchat Even as adults we all know phone is close to an addiction if you are not able to control yourself.
mmadu4: Cock and bull story .another lies for content
.....my brother the thing weak me, a blind Man can differentiate a Man in his 50s and 30s not to talk less of a fully sighted human being, it is like Nwabali telling us he is 29.
RemoteNaija: .It is funny how people immediately jump to 'Runs' or 'Men' whenever they see women renting decent apartments. We need to wake up; the economy has changed.
We are in the gig economy era. A lot of Nigerian ladies are quietly earning legitimate dollars remotely as Virtual Assistants, Content Writers, and UI/UX designers. Financial independence has no gender anymore. If they are earning in foreign currency, renting a flat in Lagos is easy for them. Let’s stop discrediting their hustle.
EnEnPeecee: Only you nine children. We never talk about the ones that are still in school ooo.
This is the best thing they can do with their looted stolen funds. Marry more women. Spill everywhere with children like rabbits and be creating problems for the security agency and the government. Nonsense
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Ayobeck: We have more third position medals than all other country kilode. If nah all this third position we make nah e be the trophy 🏆 we don won. Omo nah 13th title b dat if am correct What i know is naija have nvr loose third place . So we go win am e sure
..... regardless of what you say, I think we are still one of the top nations in Africa when it comes to football.
Sonnobax15: Bro,no need to write all these long epistle.
Just tell your mom you aren't financially okay right now and you can't shoulder the load she's about to place on you.
I was once in your shoe, talking about last year....but in my case,it was my elder sister's son.....I'm talking about the same sister who never supported any of us after the death of our mother.....Now ,she wanted me to help her take care of her over pampered and spoilt child.....I refused instantly even when my lady was insisting....
Today,I'm a bad person and I don't care......
.....I concur, .....my mum, my mum, what has she ever done for you apart from bringing you to earth, after birthing you and your sibling for your father, she went on to birth for another Man and both of them are unable to look after the child, what irresponsible parents, now they want to pass their responsibility to you. If it was me I will refuse point blank
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. New tenant has even moved in ,and she's still here. 