Persephone1:
Food is cheap in UK and even USA... Try buying anything outside food then you will know Nigeria isn't TOTALLY bad.

seborrhic:
the mumu is even proud of his response to a client

Resetinc:
Empty head minister,

Planes are equipped with GPS and pilots input their routes/destination to the gps which draws a line on a map, and they follow that line to their destination. If your plane doesn't have GPS, then a tablet or even your phone can run an app that does about the same thing, at least for visual flight rules….you don’t have to be a Nigerian to fly an airplane in Nigeria you empty head barrister, We have Control towers that communicate and monitor flight with radio assistance, and onboard inertial reference systems…
What the hell is a fvcking lawyer doing in the aviation ministry?? this country eeh!!

Zonefree:
So, what are we going to do with this information

Kimcutie:
Watch atheists have a feast here

muyico:
sign of end time, Satan isn't hiding anymore, this is the beginning of d end!

DeleTaller:
Even if Tinubu was really sick.. Is it proper for Dino to mock him on stage the way he did?

Dino lost everything politically from that day.

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

Fountainofyouth:
Tourist visa of what, 6 months? And after that you'll become a illegal immigrant? Why do you people like to invite problems for yourselves? Why can't you go there the right way legally then invite your family and live happily ever after? You want to become an illegal that will always stay under the radar so as not to be detected and deported, spending decades without physically seeing your family then expect your wife to remain faithful and loyal while you do countless shenanigans over there,

Oga stay in naija and hustle, you are not ripe to travel out yet.

Gwin007:
Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes

Thanks

Raskimonojendor:
I really wish I had a job to offer him. He has good qualifications.

tensazangetsu20:


She would have been better off never leaving Nigeria. After 20 years and all she can boast of is 30 million naira. Hmmmm and no papers and I am very sure her children also have no papers. She has jeopardised their future opportunities too as they are also likely to be banned from all of western civilisation.

uvie66:

The thing weak me from man whose boss appointed one of the worst CBN governor in recent times, a with the ill conceived ideas and didn't publish audited accounts for over none years, all these happening under the watch of his boss.

seanfer:
Babachir was quite when Emefiele was busy shortchanging the country.... I won't be surprised if his name pop up in the CBN investigation going on....

plaindealer:



Poverty mentality is when you always think you are beneath other people or that you are too poor and incompetent to do what the rest of the world does with no noise or disturbance from poverty mentality people.

plaindealer:
What is normal all over the world is strange and abnormal when it comes to obi and his fellow stone age villagers..

plaindealer:
In Kenya, the budget for the office of their first Lady is almost 4 times more than what Nigerians are screaming and yelling over..

The Kenyan first lady's office budget is a whooping N4 Billion and this was back in 2019 so just imagine the budget today.

Some Nigerians are just knee-deep in poverty mentality.

plaindealer:
In Kenya, the budget for the office of their first Lady is almost 4 times more than what Nigerians are screaming and yelling over..

The Kenyan first lady's office budget is a whooping N4 Billion and this was back in 2019 so just imagine the budget today.

Some Nigerians are just knee-deep in poverty mentality.nonsense talk so because Kenya is profligate in there spending we should equally do the same, UK that is almost twenty times richer than us do not have first lady office.and you also say Nigerians are just knee deep in poverty mentality when actually Nigeria is a poor country.

Wujio:
No let menopuase humble you o

McDoe:
She is saying the truth. Poverty is a disease and there is no point placing oneself in the burden and challenges of poverty.

If you wake up in the morning and there is no food or immediate basic needs, you will understand what she is saying.

Chris Oyakhilome once said, "I will never be poor".

KarinaSlim:
My senior cousin caught her husband cheating on her. Till date the husband doesn't know she knows. This man loves this my cousin like crazy. It shows. They married 2 years ago.

She told me that she will be walking out of the marriage by the end of the year (31st of December). The man doesn't know yet.

He still lives life thinking they will leave together forever.
She calls me for advice.
Me wey never marry, na me dey advice married woman.
I am thinking of telling her to go-ahead with the divorce becos she is bitter and it's telling on her.

She is as beautiful as me and so she will marry again.

But that her husband no try.

I'm thinking of telling her to call a big family meeting during Christmas period. Call his old father and mother to the house and some siblings. Cook delicious food. When everybody finishes eating, she should then drop the big news on their faces with receipts of their son's affairs before she leaves. Let them see the son they raised.

What do u think?

Matured minds




Modified
Thank you so much for your inputs. I appreciate. Funny enough. I have gotten the answers I needed from ur comments
So we have decided on what to do.
She will go ahead with my ADVICE above. It is the best for now for her happiness and joy. Life is too short to live in an unhappy marriage becos of an adulterous spouse.
Thanks once again.

I'm out.

Sheggy13:


The way some of those idiots talk about Peter Obi like he is some superhuman that will magically make Nigeria heaven overnight baffles me. For God's sake, this guy was very average as governor for 8 years in a period of oil boom. I suppose he made Anambra an Eldorado that other Nigerians are running to now. He couldn't even put in a place an effective fire service in the state, that they had to go to Asaba to get help. I really don't understand the hype.

God1000:
Nonsense, what operational reason does our navy have to own a yatch, they are just trying to save face

Cruise777:




Naira Devaluation


Should Nigerian First Lady ride in Uber or a non Bullet proof Tokunbo toyota Camry muscle?

With angry Xombidiot criminal, the office of the first lady need an executive car, four SUV for DSS a bus for press crew all fully bullet proof and preferable 2022 models

Previous First lady car pool was auctioned off after a certain milage traveling accross Nigeria....and what portfolio does the first lady hold if i may ask ?


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Unittyy:
The lady should socialize and mingle with people

uvie66:
....and you can't see ibo helping Yoruba, I suppose it's because of the warm hospitality of Yoruba that is why ibos populate Ladipo, Computer village, and Alana. The question is will ibos allow same in their territory?

Sunrise258:
Igbo always boast of having highest number of billionaires in Nigeria but whenever one of them is in problem, they suddenly became blind! Thank you Oluwabukola son of Olusola Saraki. Yoruba has always shown Igbo much love. From Femi Otedola helping Christian Chukwu to Saraki helping Mr Ibu. Nice one!

Okiton:


Just becos of 15k she go serve jail term

Na wa oOoOOh

Beremx:
NIPOST has lost its relevance. It's just an avenue to loot. Who still has a P.O.Box and P.M.B or even engage in courier service with them? Can't remember the last time I saw a stamp sef.

Nonsense