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Nnamdipapa:
Honestly, the other part would have to read between the line and make the decision as to when to leave. No one needs ro be set free in 2025 and my advice also goes for the lady who is dating a guy not up to her standards.

That someone is not good enough for marriage dies not mean she is not useful for other purposes. Also, I am increasingly not seeing the purpose of a marriage to a successful young man after being married a long time myself.
If I have a redo, I will go with a baby mama of one child and take care of the woman znd child while never getting married.

I still think you're wrong and it is fine if you object. You do not use people without their permission, else that's just plain manipulation. If they aren't what you want, you must set them free.

And this is largely your opinion and not a generic one. We have to be careful sometimes not to project what we perceive as truths and opinions onto other people to accept.

Manculated:
Don't mind me, Na Sapa dey confuse my thinking at the moment😂

Once i have spare cash, I'm definitely upgrading to Fibre Cylinder.

Madam, Abi you will give me money to buy the Fibre Cylinder🌚

🌚🌚🌚

Nnamdipapa:
Run for your life.

The purpose of marriage is for the two to combine assets and benefit from the effect synergy. Not for two liabilities to combine or an asset with a liability.

You will regret bitterly ten years down the lane. Keep her as a fwb or gf while you build yourself and evaluate other options.

It is wrong to string people along knowing that you won't eventually settle with them. That's plain wickedness. It is better to set them free so that someone else can have them since you don't deem them fit for marriage.

bazoodo:
Hi everyone

Is it advisable to marry a struggling 38 year old woman? Yes she's employed but financially not stable. ?? Any pros and cons?

Thank you

If she's employable, employed like you postulated and industrious, then very well. That's a great step.

Financial stability is something that can be hard to hack especially in this part of the divide where one has to work thrice as hard as anything to break even. On the other hand, a lot of people are just late bloomers, had less access to information that could have helped them earn money or skills to pave way to their financial freedom, or were just plain unambitious or laid-back. And you know that thing they say about time? A lot of people do not utilise it well; they stay hoping that things will just metamorphose or would glide from one enjoyment to the other. Well, reality bites hard in the end.

Is the suitor financially stable to carry the burden pending when she breaks even? Does she have skills that can be invested in should the need arise?

Be very practical with your eventual decisions.

MrrKay:
Good day Nairalanders,
I trust we are doing great in our respective fields.
Please i need to get a microwave oven and grill, I need suggestions on the product to get from users.
I don't want to make mistake I'll regret tomorrow cos this stuffs now cost fortunes.

Thanks and God Bless us all

Qasa.

RAF.

Syinix.

Ambiano (UK product).

Salter (UK product).

Hoffmans.

Better believe what I tell you.

Manculated:
I will surely pass.

I still prefer the steel cylinder.

Gas gauge will do the job for me.

Meanwhile, Fibre glass cylinder remains the best.

Lol. Fibre glass cylinder remains the best but you prefer the steel cylinders? Isn't that ironic? The Fibre glass cylinders you posted are just as similar as what this thread posits.

Karleb:
This is why I laugh when Pansophonist is always talking about marriage via recommendation.

Pansophist.

backbone503:
Gambling. Particularly virtuals. This shit dries up your pocket, makes you do things you'd never have done and makes you age real quick.

Lol. Did you write this from experience?

Jakpon:
Who ever you are. Wherever you are. Just know that you are very beautiful. Don't forget that

Lol. Thank you.

Ishilove:
Death of the uncircumcised Jesus ke? What does that even mean? 😕

LMAO. Nairalanders can be so impossible. The comment threw me off. 😅

lendahand:
I agreed with her oo but after trad, she must take in.

Leave her alone and find someone else who's yoked like you to marry.

Your mind is somewhat primitive.

lendahand:
imagine 34 year old lady I want to marry is insisting on court wedding, trad and white wedding before she will allow me have sex with her, can you imagine? Me I like her and she is a virgin but her conditions can't be met by me.

So, do you expect her to give you her chastity for free without a sense of commitment knowing you are bound to eventually flop considering how humans can be unstable and mentally volatile? Do you really expect her to do so? Think your response well and respond truthfully.

GloriousGbola:
Hello.

How does this work please?

I have been considering getting a charcoal stove for boiling water.

It is a smokeless charcoal stove that you can use right inside of your kitchen. It doesn't emit the smokey fumes and ashes that the local one does.

DeepSight:
I swear.

Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Lol. Shey na the new rule wey Seun implement dey cause all these ones?

merits:
*You are not my type.
* I can't wait for you.
*my family won't agree with me to marry you.
*you are too short and your palm be like sand paper 📜cuz dat time I was a chronic farmer so farm tools implement makes my palm strong like that of gorilla . I cried that day like mad man

LMAO.

I laughed so hard at this, especially the third point.

Procashtips:
You are not in the position to decide what is correct or not as long as it's not an unanimous conclusion.

I decide which side to lean to.

Continue being on the side you want to lean on then. Someone else will correct you tomorrow.

Procashtips:
Well, some sources put it at 1995 to 2010

Incorrect.

More sources peg the Gen Z generation from 1997.

Procashtips:
A 30 years old person is also a gen z, so not like a 35yrs old is far off.

Wrong.

The oldest GEN Z is 28 years old (which starts from 1997-2012.

Babangidapikin:
Let it hit Nigeria so 3/4 of us can go away ...

Inclusive of you and your family too, I guess.

DEXTROVERT:
So when is the sallah public holiday.
Na that one concern me

Lol.

WantsandMore:
You don’t know the meaning of what I wrote up there do you?

I do.

But, is that what you were asked?

WantsandMore:
Who can say where the road goes, where the day flows! Only time, and who can say if your love grows as your heart chose only time.
Who can say if your heart sighs when you delete those memories? Only time.

Is this what they asked you?

MrJavaS:
Funny how it's impossible (1%) chance of getting a lady's attention on Instagram, they set their accounts to private and then set up the account to only receive message requests from accounts they follow. To be honest I don't believe it's possible to find love online.

I remember a lady who ignored my DM posting a viral video that started with "Public announcement to all the men's in my DM".

I've met a lot of guys online and everything went smoothly. It's nonsensical to keep making yourself unavailable when you'll remain single if no guy shows interest in you. I tire for the opposite gender

You're incoherent.

Obviouslyblunt:
Yes. That’s the only way to healing. If you don’t, you never loved them to begin with.

Not exactly true.

Elyonboy:
Yes she is the one for me, I just needed other people's opinion on the matter thanks 🙏

About furthering education. That will wait for a while. She is very understanding, cooperative and Obedient

So, since you're sure with all the convictions you have that she's the one for you, why are you then here seeking for validation or second opinion?

If the majority of people here dissuade your motive about the girl, would you go ahead with their opinions?

You seem to have misconstrued life choices at 33.

immortalcrown:
Inconsistent people are the ones that do such.

I don't rush to take or get photos of people, no matter who they are. But when I do, deleting them can only happen by an accident.

Nice submission.

This is my forte too.

pansophist:
Womanising is low level vibrational act.

You are forking women other men have dumped their cream in, and God forbid, engaged in mouth action in that place. Jeeez.

Lol.

UyaiIncomparabl:
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2) Orange commercial mixer grinder (can crush ice, blend nuts, smoothies, soup, chop, etc)

3) VTCL Excella mixer grinder (pocket friendly but very effective).

You see these blenders, take it from me, you’ll use them till you get tired.

Especially Orange Commercial blender and VTCL. My customers testify for them.

It is funny how I made this comment in 2023 with an open mind and have made over 25+ customers and returning from this single comment. Sold more than 6 of the Vtcl blender to a single customer in Dec. Amounted to over 700k+ sales on just the Vtcl blender from people on here only. Even with my absence on NL, I still get a lot of traction from this “single comment”.

Thanks, Nairàland. 😊

Still ready to serve you anytime, any day. Just start by sending a message to the number on my signature. Thank you all for the consistent patronage. I still remain your best plug for blenders and your general household items with the best prices. 🫶🏼😀