₦airaland Forum

okrikaboi:
Yes they are right, you need to change your mentality and still take exercise seriously. But this is what nobody will tell you— you need to normalise filling your heart with hatred and anger. There is nothing wrong with it and it's a natural thing we humans feel. It will make you become the monster you were always meant to be. Remember those times you were underestimated and used, those times you couldn't help yourself or say anything. Fuel yourself with hatred and fill your heart with revenge.

Lol.

OP, disregard this clown.

allen113:
No be only angel. They should kill that thing and throw away abeg it looks irritating.

LMAO.

oyetpel:
Alright.
Keep following the news, you will get to know.

Noted.

Ganjafama:
It nosedived because she has the voice but lack talent.

She has the voice and talent but lacks consistency. One cannot do so much exploit if they are not consistent and show up always — they'll nosedive.

oyetpel:
https://www.leeds-live.co.uk/news/leeds-news/dead-man-woman-found-leeds-31549317?int_source=nba

Two bodies were found, a male and a female.

So you are probably right.

Nowhere in that article signified the woman there is this same dead nurse. You probably are imagining things.

Camera filters.

I thought the same about my friend who relocated to the UK two years ago when she kept posting dapper and overtly edited pictures of herself until she visited Nigeria sometime in November last year. Upon seeing her, I just knew there and then that, the more you look, the less you see.

She was the one who was even all over me and being complimentary about the texture of my skin and complexion. You can be here in Nigeria and be very fresh. Just less/no harsh rays exposure (particularly from 11pm-4pm), avoid the heat and humidity with all your might and stay hydrated inclusive of minimal and safe skincare and you will be good.

It is not about your location or where you stay, although it contributes to an extent, especially for those whose business kept them out in the sun.

OboOlora:

Which fresh? Have you seen the ones doing care job in UK?
Don't be deceived by the filtered IG pictures they take in Primark clothes o

LOL.

As a woman, the best time to get married is in your 20s. Except for unforeseen circumstances beyond your control like genotype incompatibilities, tribal segregation etc, do get married if you find a man whom you can integrate into his program, is ambitious, not given to mediocrity, can provide to the best of his capacity for you and loves you. I wish I started off earlier at 22 with what I have grown to know. I prefer for my kids to grow alongside me.

Of course, my opinion is not generalistic, but those who get it, get it. I look at my mother and I envy her. I wish I started off as early as she did. She had me at 22 years. She'd be 50 this year and we could pass as sisters, no jokes.

I mentioned sometime ago that as one ages, their standards stiffen. Ageing stiffens you. You become too self-conscious and could even set yourself up against yourself. Hyper-independence is a complex and that is what ageing will do to you, especially as a woman. With youth comes naivety (maybe not the right word to use), so it is best to capitalize on that if one finds a suitable partner they can lock in with. Marriage doesn't halt anybody from succeeding as long as they aren't married to the weapon fashioned against them. Everything can happen at once.

As a man, if you have a partner who's willing to grow with you, is contented with what you can provide, is supportive and well-grounded, you have no worries at all. There are no guarantees that you would be wealthy even into your 40s. In fact, with two in the picture comes a sense of responsibility and realization, so that reality pushes you to do better than you would have as a single person.

I'd implore my kids to get married early with my support if they don't mind. I love early marriage.

DigitB:
We men are logical all the time.

Most women claim they don't want to marry until they make their own money. Ask them what they're doing to make the money and you'll find out they're making chin-chin, small chops , cake, makeup and small tailoring then augmenting the income with hookup and hopping from one divck to another.

A woman marrying early will help her to align her goals properly. She don't have to keep worrying about men-catching most of the time. With her husband's support she can be whatever she wish to be.

LOL.

Juan13:
I have no pity for the man .these kind of men if you ask them for help now as a man he will say he got no money but will go back and give woman .a simp it’s a simp no mater the way it’s goes weather on wife or girlfriend. I wish him nothing but laughter if I know the wife I will send her small money to buy Heineken and drink to have urge to lash the said again today

You're very slow FR. Don't go and do something great with your life, keep hating on your fellow man because he refused to deal with your excesses and help you. Low life. Treating one’s wife nicely is now simping.

What haven't I heard?

PrinceofAgoAre:
There was no sarcasm

There actually was. You was just dumb to see it.

PrinceofAgoAre:
you still dey gamble inside matrimonial home??

You don dey turn addict small small oo..

You couldn't spot the sarcasm?

If I were you, I would deposit that million naira I just made into my Sportybet acc, and voila, I will be making tonnes of millions upon millions. Don't dull.

You men aided and abetted this rot, so why is this reality a surprise or a topic for discussion in the first place? You people and the women you condemn are on the same side of a coin. Very hypocritical of you to want better when you're not at the best of your moral self. For someone who has a penchant for “piping and swiping” women at the slightest opportunity that he has and even finds glee in it, you do have strong opinions about certain moral values that you don't imbibe or exude.

But well, we all like to eat our cake and have it back, so the stage is yours.

Karlifate:
I thought you toasted UyaiIncomparabl

She no gree

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As for you OP, you and I know you're chasing clout and when you genuinely want to get married, you will. Except you lack social skills or have a general bias towards women, then that's a you thing. If you truly want a relationship, you should know how to go about it unless you want some distinct qualities that is/are hard to find, perhaps matchmaking and referrals can help? If you don't mind, you should start considering an arranged marriage.

JASONjnr:
In the nearest future, there will never be marriages anymore.... People will be having kids and be claiming babymama and babydaddies....

To find a woman that wants to marry and stay married is the most difficult thing to achieve in today's Nigeria......

If you mistakenly find her, the family of the girl will frustrate.you I to leaving her.....

There are women who want marriage and want to stay married everywhere. I mean, everywhere. Well grounded women with great family values. But, you people have one or two experiences and suddenly box every woman into your dilemma.

Tightpussy2024:
As you grow older and wiser you judge with wisdom and not vengeance like the young redpillers still sore at haven't achieved much success in dating(or even any other aspect of their life).

Let go of all resentment you men have towards women and give yourselves the opportunity to enjoy life.

Life wouldn't halt, because you are angry with women.

2 cents from moi!

You're right.

imustsaymymindo:
Pansophist has a great mind.

He used to be more radical in the earlier days, but his views of recent carries a little too extra empathy. I wonder what could have changed. I would be here to watch him evolve, hopeful to see his future views.

This is because he has finally dumped redpill for you people. He used to be radical back in the day because he was suffering numerous heartbreaks and Nigerian babes had done a number of disappointments on his fragile heart, so he was taking his frustrations out on them, hence his radical views. Now, he has grown and matured over the years. Do you expect him to still keep dwelling on that same redpill shii you people spend time demystifying about women here?

Pansophist is now old and has grown grey hairs, so he has left juvenile character for you people to take over. If you ask him about the Redpill you people so champion about here on NL, I'm sure he'd ask you what it means. It is what growth and healing does to people.

PS: Do not bother quoting me.

Rooneyx:
Both if you ask me

LOL.

pansophist:
If she no date that useless boy, she wont have an opportunist waiting for sleep with her again because she needs money

Who's the useless one between her husband and the OP?

pansophist:
Her past doesnt matter lol

How your response take correlate? lol.