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Brandiebird:
This was so beautiful to read. This is the love I want or nothing at all!

What about you?

I really loved it, well written, thoughtful and lovely, hoping someday I experience this kind of love

Factcheck0001:
the number can b tracked

Don't b foolish enter police station first, na because say u no b Street guy

U n your guy fit arrange for am on d same dating side, find fine boy picture use am chat her up on a norms n make it legitly look like business as usual

Arrange police for one room, when she show u beat nonsense comot for her body first before u carry am go station

Omo I can bet na get inside pikin u b n she don see u finish

Thanks for this brother
Would involve the police
God bless you so much man

Factcheck0001:
e no get where u meet am?

No bro. It was from a dating app, only just her WhatsApp number was there so he chatted the number

Factcheck0001:
has she send d video to u?
Do u know her address?

Enter police station talk say na dpo u wan see, insist on seeing d dpo

Table d case to him with enough evidence dem go carry d girl asap
U n that your friend no get sense, later Una go Dey shout alpha male for here see as one small girl dey use your head take Dey play

Thanks man

Factcheck0001:
has she send d video to u?
Do u know her address?

Enter police station talk say na dpo u wan see, insist on seeing d dpo

Table d case to him with enough evidence dem go carry d girl asap
U n that your friend no get sense, later Una go Dey shout alpha male for here see as one small girl dey use your head take Dey play

Yes we have the evidence, the screen shot, transfer receipt and her WhatsApp phone number, but no address, hope these enough

Factcheck0001:
don't mind d foolish guy

Once d woman face show too in fact na me go first release d video let's see who go lose

Street go hail me n I go get rep, but she will b seen as lose

Her face didn't show that's the problem
So the guy just feel so bad 😔

danvon:
If he can record the conversation and gather evidence he can go to police and legally lock her up. His mistake was paying at all, the billing would never stop.

That's the problem can one even trust the police system.. The only evidence he has its just the chat, the transfer receipt, the phone number via WhatsApp and nothing else

UzorsTech:
It was with a lady, and unfortunately she demanded 50k but due to fear he paid 20k.and then she agreed.. But yesterday she called and said she needs the remaining money

And she has just been calling him, the guy is just scared tbh, and she said if he don't pay the remaining money or at least pay small she will send the videos to bloggers

danvon:
Was the sex chat with a guy? If it wasn't, I don't see any reason for him to be ashamed. He should shrug it off las las he'll say it was the devil.

It was with a lady, and unfortunately she demanded 50k but due to fear he paid 20k.and then she agreed.. But yesterday she called and said she needs the remaining money

Please folks a friend of mine a guy is being blackmailed, unfortunately a live sex video chat was being done, and so far has being feeling suicidal over it. Please he needs help, unfortunately the video was recorded by the person...

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Bro the red flags is just there, please don't get married to her cause you won't feel happy at all, your peace of mind would sink and dwell

Souzin:
Honestly don't know what to title this thread.

Well, I never thought I'd japa any time soon from this country until recently.

The plan to japa was presented to me by my cousin, who will sponsor the entire thing but it has to be an affordable university < €10,000 for fees

Now, I have been trying to get Information on where one can go study for cheaps in Europe with less stringent visa application process.

Most the information/thread on Nairaland are either old or abandoned.

Please, I'd appreciate any information, especially from those who recently travelled or are in the process of travelling.

PS: UK is totally out of it.
I have a Bsc. Statistics - Second Class Lower
And looking to do a Master's in Data Science/Analytics

Bro I know you said Europe but try NA Canada,
Especially CIMT is cheaper for tech courses.

Success

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IyaTola:
Nothing is Permanent In This World

I visited my 120-year-old grandmother and gave her some money when I was leaving and she told me she doesn't need money again.

That she can no longer buy or sell at her age, so I should give the money to the younger ones who need it.

I also have a former governor friend whom I worked with as a greenhorn PA. He was governor from 1999-2007.
Not too long ago, I saw him.

After check-in, he was left seated by the corner of the Murtala Mohammed international airport awaiting his flight.

No one even recognized him again, not even passengers from the State where he was governor, and as I walked up to him and greeted him, then asked if he wanted any assistance, he stretched forth his trembling hands to hold me and simply said,

"Thank you for even recognizing me again. I just want your attention briefly my daughter . Sit down let me ask you something.

How is your Governor doing?"

I also have a retired Major General friend whom I served as a golf caddy at the NDA golf course in Kurmi Mashi, Kaduna.
He was so rich he built a beautiful house he was so proud of.

I visited him too not long ago and wanted us to climb to our favorite spot on his balcony upstairs.

He stared at me with a broad smile and said, "IT, I can't remember the year I went up there. It is lizards and cobwebs and the likes that live there now.

Even the kids, when they come, they don't enjoy my company in the house any more than a few hours and they are gone.

I don't have the limbs to climb up there again and the cost of cleaning keeps getting higher."

I have seen a lot more things.
How yesterday became the day before, how today became yesterday, and how tomorrow became today.

How the past became history, how the present became the past, and how the future became the present.
Nothing ever remains where it is.

Your strength, your muscles, your beauty, your wealth, your guts, your worth, your courage, your talent, your YOU, will progressively diminish until it returns to its source.

The richest man in the world in the 1960s will not be on the payroll of the richest man in the world today!

Even the strongest lion in the jungle will someday become weak, and frail and be eaten by the same predators it once terrorized.

Keep that in mind always and know that no matter how appealing and tempting that thing may seem, our interest in it will diminish with time.

Our strength to consume or own it will vanish with time until everything is surely taken away from us or we are surely taken away from everything!

"Nothing is permanent in this world".

Wishing you very Reflective Times.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT!!!

A Beautiful Written Masterpiece!!!
I love This, always think About Stuffs like This All The Time
. God Bless you More Brother �

Hey Guys it's me again

Nostalgic photo

Explorers:
Queen Elizabeth II and her husband, Prince Phillip, Duke of Edinburgh can be seen walking around the palace.

Date: unknown.


Prince Philip died on 9th April, 2021, on 8th September, 2022, Queen Elizabeth II passed away.

Nostalgic photo

Kizzygentle:
Actually... I need to learn this.. Please I am in my mid 30s and is it possible to learn and earn from it decently? Were do I start from as a total beginner? Can I also learn from YouTube and how long will it take me if I am very serious about it?

Yes you can.. Get this app UDEMY

Rozross:
It’s nothing, it’s female nature to flaunt and not necessarily with any bad intentions. Guys always think ladies flaunt their assets to attract them but it’s not always so.

Been observing your comment quite a while, I love the way you reason! Brilliantly and rationale.

H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women . They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".

Well Said, and deeply true

GenderMix:
No doubt money is very key to sustaining a marriage. Infact it's one of the key ingredients that can help grease love. The lack of money can make love go sour...lol...

Having said that, marriage has an ultimate aim which is for companionship. As far as both of you have the drive to succeed and are not lazy and can cut you cloth according to your size then the amount may just be inconsequential.

If the man earns 100k, he has the qualities you like and is focused then you can start with that. Just ensure he has common sense and listens to advise. It doesn't matter if as a lady you earn higher than him. You guys should have plans and execute them together. Just encourage him by supporting him financially. Just assist him but let him be the one to take care of the major bills.

Plan around the money you earn. Don't live above your means. There are pragmatic means you can adopt to cut cost. Forget the pressure around, most of what you see are illusions. Just focus on your happiness.

I wish you best of luck.

Brilliantly Spoken!!

Viraltrends123:
Let them continue, the soldiers and police complaining for lack of weapon should also create an associate, and go on strike too.

Secondary and primary school teacher that are complaining about 15k per month salary should also strengthen their associations by merging, they should all go on strike too.

NMA and JOHESU should also merge so they can push for what they want, instead of migrating abroad, to people that doesn't even like them, the association should go on strike till fg double their salary, and provide enough equipment and PPEs.

Electricity workers should stop all this nonesense one day strike they always go for, go for indefinite strike, so their government would know what's going on.

Everyone should leave their place of work, come out and protest like we did during endsars, with seriousness, the revolution should spread to other African countries, let the foolishness of those we call leader stop, by the time we come out and start killing them one after the other.

The idiots hid millions of COVID-19 palliative, and lock millions of hungry people in their house.

They've used election to block people ears, we've forgotten that this same people have ruled us before and did absolutely nothing. Everyone is busy supporting same politicians that have been ruling us for over 20 years, 1 million match, trekking from states to states for the same politicians that ruled as governors before and did nothing. No one is talking about the 80 billion fraud, we are back to 2014 and 2018 situation, all we are concerned about now is voting the same leaders that have been ruling us, and couldn't achieve anything. Is this what we want to be doing every 4 years.

My Brother, I tire

Hey just follow your intuition, That's all and God will guide you through..

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Thanks

Adesina18111:
I love tattoos and I pray to have my body inked soon...every tattoo on these players has meaning to them and reason why they drew them is known to them...
I lost my mom in 2009 the day I gained admission...it was a painful experience to me...being her only child, the bond between us was and is still strong...so I wish to have her face at My back and I will name my first daughter her name...I must have my wife, kids' names on my chest and my Manchester United FC logo on my left arm...
Wish me well today Nairalanders...today is my birthday...
I dedicate this front page to my late mom... continue to rest on Mom

Happy birthday bro. And may her soul RIP, she's in Heaven ��

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