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wristwatch:
U know some people are selfish with their reasoning. The deal has been done and refuse to take up the responsibility. Ofcos if it happens to his sis, he will forcefully allow dat guy to marry her.

don't mind em jawe.

Am beginning to see why NL guys think dirty of you female... SMH in disgust* not someone married nah...

unlike so many stories we hear about love reek, I know loving someone don't just start it takes phase upon phase till it become somewhat love so who say you can't love her because you think you don't now****
also about taking your baby, I think its very silly to do. let's assume you grew up that way, was it a pleasant experience, one you do want your baby to experience? at this stage it shouldn't be about you alone cause you now responsible for a whole lot..
also do you think if she was your sis you will allow a guy do same, knowing the stigma that comes with it?

OP you already said you tired of the relationship and have already opt out from it so, we can't be advising you on whether to or not...
All I gat to say are this;
male and female are tend equals in today's society so no one stand head and shoulder above the other.
both a guy and a girl both had somewhat a good and enjoyable life before entering a union or better yet a partnership cause.
partnership is to improve gain as well as improve reach not the other way round.
in partnership all stuff should be on earn make not the other way round.
so I think it should not be about one but both.
To guys and gals talking about the girls want and need I think it only make the girl a stand in bitch one the guy is paying for in service of any kind.. now I think relationship should not be about romance and pleasure but real issues on life.. imagine good business partners dealing on outing other than real issues

CuteEmma:
To me, it's the husband.

why the husband?

Lakayanah:
Thanks for the advice.

you sure welcome, what are friends for***

OP you did good to say the least..
but then and then a week its too much, who knows he might just be lying as not to make you come over. also OP don't you think you are being so overly assertive

OP it depends on what you make of it.
if you think you stupid then you are.
if you think you weren't then you are not.

Lakayanah:
my husband still makes contact with his first love and has strings of girl friends, that is my husband's headache I will not because of that cheat on him. I didn't act upon my feelings not because of what anyone would say it's just my principles call me old fashioned.

Now its clear to see were your suppose assumption problem is coming from.. It pains me for Africa women it really pains me to see how some men could treat their wife so, and yet expect some majestic treatment from one to their daughter later on...
Well sister though am not judging beside who am I to judge, still I will tell you its not Love as such thought are unhealthy to start with. let's just put it this way ' you remembering your college days doesn't make it the best moment of your life'. some moment or memory can't go away doesn't mean it takes much importance to the present. It was never Love and it never will beside you hardly know this to how much you know your husband.
if you have so much love in you which I know you do pour it on your family dear.

Even if we do say its Love, yet its one dirty Love. Assuming such an unhealthy relationship is happening b/w your husband and a certain married lady, what will you make of it ma'm?

OP you can't come here and say you haven't seen your BF during the day and expect any reasonable person to believe. that's for that.
And if at all what you say happen to be true I ve some questions for*****
How did you guys became Friends, later lover?
Was there no asking out as in Date?
How did you get to know he's a Doctor?
How long did you guys befriend before start having to play under the sheet?
let start with you answering this ma'm..

phlamesG:
yeah well dats ur opinion

I guess

what's moral might not be universally right and legal. haven't said that I would like to ask what makes prostitution immoral? after all its not its not a far bet, if in a way fornication isn't made illegal how then is a base on trade on such regard see to be illegal or not to be made legal?
I will so like to end here by saying just like every trade this comes with so much good as bad so how it affects the society both in large and small scale should be look in. though the way prostitute operate is alarming on my personal view I still think if it should be legalise then ethical law should be put in place ..

mirexxx:
quarrel




my sugar my honey

i will love him forever




lols

funny way to go about it.. nice sense of humour..

phlamesG:
Hian A girl with all those aforementioned attributes is a mirage

maybe in a way but it sure is possible. I really see the OP perfect gf attribute to be easy to shop for... #just saying

mirexxx:
guy i don't get u
fitting into d description now makes me single ?

we not quarrelling so take it lightly... there's this part were the OP said " a girl to love me now and forever", hope you understand my reason for saying/ thinking you single though you claim to be what the OP called perfect gf..

mirexxx:
who is single?

you I guess, after all you said "I fit this description". or did you mean to say you have not fit?

mirexxx:
I fit d description

now this getting interesting.........so does that mean you yet single though having all this traits??

texybaby:
tnx dear n yea am doing gud...tnx

you welcome T...

texybaby:
I understand u perfectly well I used scrabble as an dxample cs I dont play chess that much....its just an illustration anyway goodluck to u

thanks T, and good luck to you too....
hope you doing great today??

rokiatu:
I am not a fan just love that music and I intentionally quoted it.

oh OK... thought you one Rocker like myself he he.. I push you to play "circles"

rokiatu:
You only know your lover when you let her go.

I guess you one of Passenger's fan hehe

texybaby:
No it isnt too much....but u sound like you need a gold winning chess player...n if u r so perfect I don't think u need a perfectionist in that same game....it might get boring....u just need to o play d game in love n not look for d best words in d dictionary.....
When I played chess with my bro he beats me cs u sleps n wakes with a dictionary but when I played with my ex we made it fun...cs we will spell crazy words like love pearl sweets sex just fun n pet names u know....although there will b time we will play tournaments there r times I will let him win especially if am lucky to pick good tiles just to make him my man u know its better fun with ur woman..but that should not b ur yardstick for a woman

sorry now I understands you, well I'm not talking about SCRABBLE but the all compassing CHESS..
well little dig to chess will be important in knowing what I mean. Chess is a board game for very intelligent persons, persons with very strong mental endurance, persons with resilient spirit, persons with deep thought able to see the near end if not the very end of things... this are just a few I will highlight for now... so me wanting a lady that could play good chess means this and more... Hope you dig @ Tbaby?

texybaby:
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Well done ooooo

really!!! is it too much to ask for?

well I guess its because I'm yet to meet a lady that's we could play chess not just to play chess but a very good thinker that knows how life works and have deep understanding on a whole lot... and all this she can put down on the chess board....