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Mkelv0106:
Female also masturbate just as much as d male do.. Why do we only focus and lay emphasis on just the male.
I want to hear d side effects it has on females, just as it has in male.
I want to know how d females feel after masturbating,.
I just want to hear it from a female perspective.

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Well we don't feel any harm

As The year 2021 is Running out have you stop stop Masturbation? At what Age Did you start masturbating , and have you been able to stop or you are finding it Difficult To Stop ?

donbachi:
Two guys dat does not even know me from adams.were gossiping about me.for my front and to my hearing.

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What was it All about ?

Lol even Kemi Ololunyo when get mental problem they Talk

justtoodark:
nigeria should be buildin more prisons....many nigerians need their heads resetted....

lock somebody for atleast 2 weeks up and see how quick their minds will reset....

i dont understand why nigeria doesnt use this opportunity....in america,prisons are multi million dollars cash flow....

two weeks too much at list 3 days

Breakthrough309:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm here to share my true life story with you all.
I have an active account here tho, but decided to open a new one.
My name is L, I'm from a wonderful family...tho a Christian polygamous family, but everything was still great with us * My mum, Dad and siblings* until Sept 2009.

My mum happens to be the first and younger wife...N:B just 2 wives
My Dad of course cherished her so much, but she was mostimes full of pride and stubborn, I can't judge her....we all have our weaknesses, and my Dad didn't complain.
Back to 2009, my first year in school..I was having the best moments of my life, in fact before 2009...I have never experienced so much joy as I did in 2008 because my parents were happy together * they used to fight a lot* but through out that year, everything was perfect! My Dad would chase and tease my mum and my mum became a humble and sweet wife too.

When the problem began:
My mum happened to be best friend with Mrs X, a relative of ours from my Dad side. She lives in Europe, hardly trusts any one except my mum, loves her husband like crazy, extremely jealous, Christian and fetish by nature. I remember there was a time Mrs X had a dream, that a cousin of mine, has a friend sleeping with her hubby * Hubby is a known flirt* she called my cousin, threatened her life that if she ever finds out the dream is true, she will deal with her. This wasn't a small issue.
Mrs X loves my mum obviously, she trusts her a lot and makes it obvious among family members.

The betrayal....
My mum happened to be best friend with Mrs X husband too, so when he came visiting her at her office, he flirted with my mum's colleague who is also married and they started dating...all these happened before 2009.

Mrs X suspected her hubby to be in love with another lady, because the relationship went on for years, but she has no idea who the lady is or was.

The revelation...
Mrs X came to Nigeria for her daughter's wedding, foolishly....my mum and her colleague who was sleeping with Mrs X husband and also married, showed up in the same attire. Mrs X being a jealous woman, watched her hubby closely all through the party and saw that he was giving special attention to the woman on same attire with my mum.
Note: all the members of my family were completely aware of the illicit affair of Mrs X husband and accepted it. Note: never pray for a family, who can't tell you the truth.
Mrs X did her investigation, got her in- law drunk, who spilled it all!!!
He told her absolutely everything!!!

Mrs X felt like dying, ah....her only best friend which is my mum betrayed her!
Note: Mrs X is very very very fetish in nature, she visits herbalists all the time.
All these happened, Sept 2009.

The Revenge;
I got home Nov 2009, I saw my mum sitting on the ground...
"Mummy, why are you sitting on the floor"
She replied " The chairs and beds are possessed"
I didn't even take it serious, because after a while, she started sitting on the couch again.
One night, I over heard her telling my dad not to sleep with her, cause each time he tries to her body feels heavy and when he lives he body feels empty...
Hummmm....I still didn't bother
Few months later, she started seeing things like wall gecko poo on the wall, she would start screaming, saying they sent it to her. Whenever she sees crawling insects like roaches, she starts screaming, claiming it was sent to her.
My mum became hysteria, she accused me, my Dad and siblings of attacking her in the spiritual realm.

Then the next year, Jan 2010...Mrs X called, told her he she knows everything and cursed her for minutes.
Hot curses!!
My mum went to her, apologized, but she refused to forgive her.
My mum got worst, she claimed when ever she enters a bus, the passengers are all trying to attack her...that my Dad put an evil mark on her head.
Hummmmm....a lot happened, then she went to church.
She was there for months, tho along the line....in the same church, a member took her to an herbalist, to stop the threats in her life. *Big mistake* My mum is a strong believer of God, how she got decueved, still surprises me till date, tho she later repented and through all the herbs away*
She came back home, all normal. She lived happily for months.
Mrs X probably found out, called her that she is ready to forgive her, this was around July 2010. Foolishly, she went and the sickness came back....this time 10times more!!!
Tbc

Sorry for typo errors, no time to check

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What the update did she scale through ?

Health360:
Dear fellow Nairalanders please Help me out, where can I get proper medication for Schizophrenia. I live in pain, confusion everyday!

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Any improvement ?

Cultistupdate:
Gun

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It means Dark magic it a slang use buy port Harcourt Boys

Seems Lot of people has hurt you.... I hope you won't start talking to yourself,you can read my first thread and comment too

No way in or out people must hurt you,as you see me I don't force myself on people once I see you giving me attitude I cut off from you immediately

donbachi:
It will not trend.if it happened in america.naija celebs would have been twitting,retwitting it and be posting "blacklivesmatters".

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I just tire for some celeb hypocrite ooooh very double standard people

Godons1:
Why the thing come dey pain you so, are you by any chance related to EMEKA?

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Stop fooling yourself and read for your post utme exam

Godons1:
Check the shape of his head. You can never guess wrong when you check the shape of his head.

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Reason I said you have a mental health problem Go see a physician or a mental health Doctor

Godons1:
That's the name of the Criminal

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But his name wasn't mentioned there na so how did you know the old man name is Emeka ?

Godons1:
EMEKA why na, weting those innocent Boys do you?

you look mentally derange wetin concern Emeka for this matter na ? Go and check your upper

Iliveforever:
Fraudulent activities.

Section 419 of criminal law

Lol nawa ooooh

Iliveforever:
Person wey dey cool off for efcc cell edo division like this

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What was his offence ?

chinchonglee:
He was shot at benin during a cult fight.

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Was he a cultist ??

finalboss:
nah pH slang.

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I thought as much

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Not a CULTIST.. STREET ain't SAFE no more, CUNTREE ain't SAFE.. INFACT CUNTREE don CAST big time.. better u carry ur own KALA to SAVE ur self in case BANTER take place 4 ur AMA or ARINA... WTF MAN

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I am not a man, but I know those Slangs, look am a Lagos mainland babe so forget

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Una de SEE y I de TALK sey make everybody carry der own KALA.. just DOG am 4 ur BAG.. As I de HERE so, me I get 2 KALA, old and new KALA.. amabobi any wer wey I de ENTER, I de carry my KALA.. Any MANCHI wey JUNZ 4 my ARINA, I go BLAST em left leg wit my old KALA then use my new KALA BLAST em right leg... WTF MAN

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Are you a cultist ??

Rrchrd:
Rarely you see men with such
Any man that behaves that way has a
Psychological disorder

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Same with a woman

Vision101:
@Vanessa..... don't mind Kobojunkie. Can you imagine people sitted in a board meeting and the chairman starts to talk and laugh to himself and everybody will just be watching him?

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Sounds strange

Kobojunkiee:
There is nothing wrong with your friend.. if she is the only intelligent conversation she can have, then she has a right and freedom to engage and enjoy the company that is herself.

Life is too short and too hard to be worried about what other people think abeg!

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Ok no worries

Kobojunkiee:
So, the cause of the drain is indeed from the fact that she is surrounded by emotional vampires who fill her head with negative words and ideas likely born of ignorance?

If that is the case, she needs to work on her self-esteem and self confidence. If she is dealing with depression, especially from being different, she needs to get necessary help or even read up on ideas on how to put all the toxic people and their toxic comments on full ignore.

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Sure Toxic people at times can mess with your mental health

KingEverest:
good friend

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Sure

Kobojunkiee:
I think you care too much what people think or will say. I have been living this way most all of my life and people don't avoid me as you assume.

Maybe small-minded individuals avoide me, and thank God for that because I have an aversion for small-minded folks. It's like I am allergic on some level to them. The moment I realize their present, it's like the wind gets knocked right out of me and I am scampering to get as far the help away from them as I can.

People will say what they will say. It is up to you to decide whether to give meaning to what is said or not. The choice is yours. As long as you are not a selfish inconsiderate jerk about it, there is nothing wrong with living life with you, yourself and yours as your best buddy!

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Okay

Kobojunkiee:
Does your friend tell you that it is compulsive behavior on her part?

Or is she drained because she has emotional vampires around her, some of whom may call themselves her friends, telling her that she is not normal for talking and smiling to herself?

Tell her to come online on nairaland and talk to other people about this so-called problem or hers so she can maybe get a different perspective to help her either cope or find a resolution.

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Well according to her she said people always says Unprintable words to her so that normally get to her... I think what she meant was people say bad things against her, so she allowed those negative words get into her.

Mamayam:
I have depression tho. Don't know the cause if that. It could be depression or anything. For me, most likely cognitive deficits.

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I think you should work on it, I am also depress too, but I don't talk to myself