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Babe, I don confuse for this your story again .... See do what concern you after all its your sister and she beat you? How old is your sister?

Ifyjos:
Yes I accept my actions was very wrong and I regret it but she and her fiancé had no right to beat me because they are not my parents. My sis beat me for getting pregnant , yes he did right because it’s my parent but apart from him or mum nobody else have the right to judge me and do you think what she did was good by making me loose my confidence and motivation ?

So you are saying your sister does not love you?

Ifyjos:
Of course I will tell her because I love my sister even taught she never loved me but me I loves her plenty and what I did was stupid and evil but that doesn’t make me evil.

So, he slapped your sister...hmmnnnn whike slapping her what was she doing? Did she fight back? There is nothing like small slap hope you know that?

Ifyjos:
Yes sir u got it right that was what really happened. My guy didn’t beat her for the insult because if he did beat her for all the insult she gave him for the past 5 years, he would have badly beat and injure her maybe she would have end up at the hospital. But he only gave her small slaps , that was all

She was beating you now, that was because you slapped her and you in turn fought her too, tgen seeing you losing the fight that triggered your baby daddy to fight for you becos he loves you am I not right? She felt insulted that an outsider would touch her so she called the police. Your baby daddy also took the opportunity to beat her up because of the insult she hauled at him is it not so? Also, you said he beat her with respect , am confused here, what do you mean to beat with respect? Also how did GE beat her font hide anything say the truth. Did he blow? Slap? Push? Please help expAnciate a little on this side of the story?

Ifyjos:
She was beating me so My guy beat her up for self defence. he beat her with respect so it wasn’t that bad. She arrested us to proof that she has the money and can do whatever she like

If you love her as you said, why not help her out before its too late. The m8stake is done so no need for castigation when you still have time to make restitution.

Ifyjos:
Of course I do care about my sister and if I didn’t then I wouldn’t be here seeking advice on how to get her and fiancé back together. Some people are concentrating on insulting my guy and me instead of resolving the problem I have . I don’t have peace of mind, my sister is in pain and to know that I have been the one that caused her pain it just break my heart. I have left the house since 7am and I’m still at my friend house and won’t go back home until evening because I can’t longer bear to see in her pain. I love my sister she is my everything

;National Anthem and how does he intend to achieve that? What about his People? Does he have a degree? Does he have funds? Wake up oooo

Ifyjos:
He is a car washer and he has better plans for the future , his goals are to start up businesses , marry me , built a house , buy cars and send our daughter to study abroad. In Hid we trust

People Will come here seeking for advice and then they WOULD still BE arguing with you

Now, do you know why your conscience pricks you every now and then and why your guy doesnt feel it.. Because it is blood and you have hurt HER and you know it, keeping silent Will NOT make it better. Now what if the guy moves ON marry another woman and your sis get to hear of it. Do you know what you've just did you've destroyed HER UNION.

Ifyjos:
I don’t hate her but I’m trying to clarification on what she did to me because some people are blaming me for getting pregnant at a young age , and they are blaming my guy because he has nothing. But I know that God has better plans for me and him , the situations that we are passing through today , it is not permanent and one day it will become a story to motivate others. Like I said getting pregnant at a young age was wrong but She is my greatest blessings from God and I don’t regret having my child , she is the best daughter ever

Okay, if you say so then why NOT put HER OUT of HER misery try reconciling HER and her fiance bavk. If you ask HER for forgiveness she WOULD NOT react well knowing all what she has lost due to your act. By the way what about HER fiance? Has he moved ON?

Ifyjos:
I don’t hate her but I’m trying to clarification on what she did to me because some people are blaming me for getting pregnant at a young age , and they are blaming my guy because he has nothing. But I know that God has better plans for me and him , the situations that we are passing through today , it is not permanent and one day it will become a story to motivate others. Like I said getting pregnant at a young age was wrong but She is my greatest blessings from God and I don’t regret having my child , she is the best daughter ever

Hello, if you are still angry with your sister, which i know you are why don't you LEAVE HER and let HER wallow in the PAIN you've caused hER after all its your revenge. Then go ahead and get married or PRAY for your guy and hope TO live with him... You MUST bear the consequences of the action you destroyed her happiness just as you said she destroyed yours but yours is NOT destroyed by the way becos your man is still there.

Ifyjos:
She doesn’t want the best for me , all she wanted is for me to become a single mom and suffer while she will be happily married

Wow, i cant believe what i just read there is no justification for destroying HER relationship with HER fiance for heaven's sake. After all you and your "guy" are still together hoping you get married someday right? Then why ON earth did you go after destroying HER image. Tho, what she did was wrong i mean very wrong the incessant insults she hauled at you. In my opinion i thought she felt infuriated by the relationship between you two, she May NOT have been comfortable with what the guy did TO you, getting you pregnant at that young age and it pained HER TO realise that you love him.
She consider you immature for that kind of relationship and don't why you Love the guy so MUCH. Well, if you are truly sorry irrespective of the outcome try and make restitution TO HER tho outlining what Led you TO it and ask HER for forgiveness. You are NOT a witch, you are just human and CAN err what redeem US is when we realise OUR mistakes and amend them.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

[color=#006600][/color]hmmmnn this is bad

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

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[quote author=LuciferKristi post=74507344]The day they will sleep off watching TV & the car mysteriously starts & crushes them to death on the armchair, then they will come to Nairaland to wail.


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Sokoto State Governor , Aminu Tambuwal , on Wednesday said the success of the Peoples Democratic Party ’ s North West rally held in the state on Monday was instilling fear in the minds of his Kaduna State counterpart , Nasir El – Ruffin, and his cohorts.
El -Rufai had on Tuesday claimed that the PDP rented people from Niger Republic to attend the rally.



But Tambuwal , in a statement by his Special Adviser on Public Enlightenment and Mobilisation , Akibu Dalhatu , said El -Rufai ’ s claim was “evident of political frightening and an attempt to score cheap political goals .”
He said the statement was a proof that the All Progressives Congress and its leadership were shocked by the huge turnout the rally recorded.


The governor described the rally as “ the final burial of APC government in the North West and Nigeria in general.”
He said the party would fail in the forthcoming general elections allegedly because of bad leadership , corruption and failure to end terrorism among others .
The statement read, “El -Rufai should not forget so soon that his hands were deeply involved in messing up of the present administration as a result of his bad governance and policies as governor of Kaduna State , through mass sacking of innocent primary school teachers, unnecessary demolition of peoples landed properties , disregards and disrespects to traditional rulers, Northern elders , leaders and other respected institutions, escalation of insecurity , refusal to obey the court orders and rule of law among several others .

“El – Rufai is coldhearted . It was the same North- West people that he and his party begged for support in 2015 , but because the failure of APC government, incessant hunger and poverty all over the region , that have made them to defect to PDP . He is now calling them foreigners .
“What scared El – Rufai and his co- travellers was the success recorded at the Sokoto PDP campaign rally. The Sokoto gathering no doubt instilled fear in the minds of El -Rufai and his cohorts so much that in their wildest imagination their party , the APC will fight it impossible to record a replica of such mammoth crowd in any state of the North West including El – Rufai ’ s own state of Kaduna .”
Tambuwal said he would defeat APC and deliver the entire North West to PDP because of massive support , love and loyalty of the people of the area .

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President Buhari on Thursday met with representatives of Nigeria Student and where he promised to see it that the current industrial action embarked upon by ASUU comes to an end in the shortest possible time.

President Muhammadu Buhari on Thursday appealed to various labour unions in the country to reduce their agitations to enable his administration to concentrate on repairing damaged infrastructure. He spoke during a meeting with the executive committee of the National Association of Nigerian Students at the State House in Abuja. Buhari specifically mentioned the Academic Staff Union of Universities and urged the striking teachers to appreciate the efforts of his administration at fixing collapsed infrastructure.


“In three-and-a-half years, we have improved tremendously on what we met. We are trying to do infrastructure. “No matter which part of the country you come from, you will see the efforts we are making in terms of roads; we are trying to fix rails, we are trying to do power, through the use of gas and solar. If you note what we have done in these three-and-a-half years, you will not regret voting this administration into power”, a statement by his Special Adviser on Media and Publicity, Mr Femi Adesina, quoted Buhari as saying.

Buhari added he would speak to ASUU to call off the current industrial action “so that they don’t encroach on your efforts to qualify (graduate) in time.” In a veiled reference to the call by ASUU that the government should meet its financial demands, Buhari told the students that he had laid bare the income and expenditure of the government in the 2019 budget for all to see. “There is a tendency for you to think that you can do better than anybody, but it is very good for you to know the facts that leadership entails”, he added.


However, he assured labour unions that he meant well for Nigeria by focusing more on rebuilding collapsed infrastructure for now. Speaking earlier, NANS President, Danielson Bamidele-Akpan, praised the administration’s efforts in tackling insurgency in the North-East. NANS also sought urgent government intervention to end the ongoing strike by ASUU.

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