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hazan041:
Please dear nairalanders I need your dearly advice

Am a student from a university here in Nigeria, it happens that I got 3.39 as my first gp which makes me unhappy but I didn't allow it to depress me... So the following semester I got 4.75 and now out of 8 semesters in total.. Am done with 4 now and my cgp totals 4.26 ... I have four semesters left.. Can I make it to 4.5? And what gp do I need to keep for each semester left to achieve that.... Thank you

Note: Don't talk about how grade doesn't matter in my life, am quite aware too as am not even planning to work with the degree

Guy grades don't matter in life tho but while you have the opportunity make the best grades, it doesn't kill. You still have 50% chance if you work very hard to repeat that cgpa you had earlier, for this year at least min. 4.6 constantly

wtf!

Hmm.....Nigeria was a country

APCNig:
It's because he was released, DSS will pick him up again and we shall see how many Flattinos will be ready to die for him.

You are very stupid for your ignorance.

G

Cheeeeiiii

wag008:
please, where you able to terminate, if yes, did the university of uyo jamb admission letter show? and could you tell me the process, i have this problem. thanks

bro I sent you an e-mail can you kindly message me.

Mtcheew

Hmmmmm

Chai.... Wetin d girl dey find 4 cobbler house.

Chai

Confusion

RIP

Wow....

Why fire these days...chauii . Its 2020 and yet another fire

I dont trust him all liesss

Hahaha....Toto been dey scratch am since 4 convent

Chaiiii You don Bleep up . . . This shows you are immature for Christ sake this is a social environment. What were you expecting appraisal?. Madam there would be criticism and insults. Face your music alp by yourself. You replied almost everyone with insults....
Just leave the thread it appears we can't help you. Someone greater than us above can help you. Tho I just hope you won't regret this.. Best wishes.

Ifyjos:
Its you that’s wicked see for the fact that you have been insulting me since I started my thread , it show that you are heartless evil soul and U have no peace and go and take your frustration somewhere else , u r taking as if u have a man in ur life and who will want to marry a heartless thing like u? Well all I know is my guy loves me a lot and we will get married . U old cargo keep waiting for a widower to marry you and that will be your sisters portion too not mine. I have a big God he can never failed me

Ifyjos:
Yes I want to confess to him but am scared of the outcome .

Repentance is not complete without restitution. When you commit evil against your fellow go and apologize to him/ her because you have sinned before God and Man. Who am I to judge, just amend your ways before it is too late and cause a lifetime damage to anyone please.

I shouldn't have replied you but seeing this your comment makes me wonder the kind of person you are. You are happy that she is infertile which only you know what you are saying here. Your word speaks jealousy. You are jealous that you didnt achieve anything while she has achieved more.
Now, you have succeeded in making her marriage to be destroyed that is a life term event. You have succeeded in making her lose a job that is another loss. You have succeeded in making her suicidal. Sending her to hospital every now and then. I thank God you've gotten your so much wanted revenge on her. Your excuse was that she told you words that broke your self confidence never motivated you.
Now, in addition yo what you have done you have seen her emotionally broken just like what you passed through that even make her to loose her job. You Nd your guy in ally beat her up. Your guy that she seniors. You held her hand down while a male stranger comes in to slap your sister for you. You don't give a Bleep because you hate her. You are rude to everyone that points out your problem. Now you've repaid Her in full coin.
Do you know that you can still achieve marriage because you are still young, get a job and move on. But your sister is getting old evening newspaper like some will call her a lady not married yet in her 30s.

Ifyjos:
So because she was working and waking early And if my child cry so I have to suffocated her because the queen of Nigeria was sleeping no way , all baby do cry and no way I would have kill my child just to make her happy , well she was buoyant enough to rent a place and sleep in peace. I don’t have any money to contribute but I do contribute with house chores and that’s more than enough and nobody forced or put a gun on her head to be contributing for the house and she did it for the sake of our parents which is her duty . Yes if I have more hair customers I can earn more than that 20k and I have nothing in my saving but as long I’m alive I know that someday i will pay her back that money and it will be more than 2millions. I accepted because of my child education matter if not I would have rejected.
Am not God but I know she is not fertile and she wish to be in my place to have a baby just like me and she has been jealous of me because at my age only 15 I can have a baby and she doesn’t ( I know what am talking about but I won’t go in details ) , she doesn’t discipline herself because she is not a virgin only virgins do discipline themselves. Yes I’m very proud of my child and I wouldn’t change her for the world. She is my pride and joy ,she is my doctor in the making

MXrap:
Building house house in a state like Abia is a waste of resources because there is no single good road in Abia state except sharing of kerosene.

I don't understand your point. So HE shouldn't build houses in his hometown/ village. Well, I hope you come from a very rich area with good roads and have built yours.

Ifyjos:
The problem is that I don’t think my guy , his friends and the 2 girls will be ready to open up , honestly haven’t told my guy about this because he just hates everything about my sister, he get so angry anytime I mentioned her name and I am the only one who want to say the truth . I just don’t know what else to do

Hmmmmm. ....Thats more complicated... For the fact that your guy hates your sister and you going back to apologize to your sister may make you loose everything. He miGhT see you as a backstabber, he might leave you, your family may kick you out , your sister may hate you for life. The gravity of what you did is deep.
Have you tried to bring about confessing your sister to him and see his reaction?
BUT THE FACT IS THAT YOU MUST CONFESS MAKE SURE YOU DO THAT.

Ifyjos:
Thanks your are right. I have an idea and I don’t know if it will be the best way to do it. What if I recorded myself voice recording narrating everything then send the voices to my sister fiancé on WhatsApp ( I will need to use a new number because he has blocked me , my sister and my cousin numbers) and please let me know if it’s a good idea

He might not respond well make sure you give him proves if not he would think that you are trying to make it up for your sister. He might not bulge

Hestywhyt:
Y'all should let this girl be biko...her reason for posting this here is still a mystery to me..probably she wants people to support her actions so she'll feel good cause she doesn't in anyway feel any kinda remorse about what she did...

i swear I think you are right

Guy I swear I still they wonder self wetin I go reply am so, I no one insult am need no day make I no vex too much on top person headache

NevetsIbot:
Baba reason this girl better curse na... Just download one hot curse give her!!!!!!!!!



The way I'm angry eh.. her sister hasn't even done shit to her o!!!! She didn't even face real abuse.. the hot kind of abuse!!!

Just make sure you comeback and giveus feedback okay?

Ifyjos:
Ok I will tell him but its not easy doing for me to do it face to face , but am thinking of doing it anonymous with a new number without mentioning it is me.

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You are still defending yourself..na the one wey dey vex me pass. It's as if you see no wrong in what you did at all.

I'm sure it's this insufferable behavior that made you get with a 24 year old at the age of 15. I'm very very sure you were warned, but your strong head did not allow you to hear word.

Now they are telling you to go and tell the fiancé what you did, and you're here talking about being scared. You were not scared when you were using days and gathering people to destroy your sisters life.

For once in your life think...just this once. Stop defending all your rubbish and go sort things out. I can't believe someone like you really exists.

Ifyjos:
I don't think he is married because its only 3 months since they broke up.

you don't expect her to live with him na because she is not married yet. She lives a moral life

I am the last child also, but when I was little my senior brother usually flogs me for disobeying him or misbehaving... There is no big deal in that you misbehaved. She was angry with you . Assuming you had that relationship with someone around your age might be understanding but he was far older than you. Do you know that he could have been sued of he it was in the states or anywhere in the world or even in Nigeria. Let me tell you that is not sane. For your elder sister she might have said derogatory remarks about you . Words kill faster than anything babe you felt wounded at least your sister would have defended you if your parents werent there for you.
But please try and mend the broken fences between you n your blood

Ifyjos:
Yes I accept my actions was very wrong and I regret it but she and her fiancé had no right to beat me because they are not my parents. My sis beat me for getting pregnant , yes he did right because it’s my parent but apart from him or mum nobody else have the right to judge me and do you think what she did was good by making me loose my confidence and motivation ?

I have cone to conclusion that the sister cooked it for long and she is being served what she did. If she is feeling sorry maybe she should try and reconcile them that I don't know after all everybody is entitled to their own choice of whom they love. Let her love the father of her child.

Ginaruby:
A lot of people blaming her.

Not mentioning the pain her sister must have caused her and her boy friend.

Some times we humiliate people feeling we are correcting them.

She should taste from her own sauce, why arrest your sister and her husband and keep them for three days. Is that not wickedness.

Anyway the both of you served well

Ifyjos:
She is 31

she senior you no b small ooo now do you realize that she go soon old, imagine if she doesn't marry at all maybe gets too old you should understand the pain you have caused her I think she has gone far with her fiance. Now, she has to start again I think she may be 32 years this year right. Age is not on her side .
Your sister might have caused you pain , I know she did that out of her disappointment in you she should not have said those words to you but do you know that this is not the time to think of those it . you said she might have ruined you but do you know you are on the verge of destroying her for life! Look at her age

Ifyjos:
Actually she sat on me and was beating me so when the beating was too much , he just couldn’t stand them watching her beating me so he pulled her and throw her on the floor , so I had to holds her hands while he was giving her small slaps to calm her down

wow....thats very funny