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Romance / Guys( modified) !! I'm in A Dilemma. My Daughter Is Not Mine & I'm Set To Marry. by Vanzetti: 12:12pm On Oct 02, 2020
I would make this short as possible .I met my girlfriend when I was in my 300 level. I am her first. I met her when she was 18 years old, seeking admission. She is young and beautiful no doubt one of the reasons I'm attracted to her.

She gained admission in unilag because the school I studied in didn't offer the course she wanted. She gained admission that year I met her I had known her for about 8 months already. I was already in my 400 level as she resumed 100 level. We had asexual relationship also ( I deflowered her tho..)

She got pregnant for me when I was in my in my final year in school. It happened as she came back from school, she decided to drop at my place to spend the night. I never knew she was going to that and I was not prepared, if not I could have used protection that night.She called me after like 1 month to tell me she was pregnant. I love this girl so much.
She came to my place begging me not to deny her saying her elder sister also got pregnant for someone but was denied this made her parents mad. Her father had threatened that she must provide who was responsible. I later agreed and I followed her. The father (he is very rich' a senior oil worker) had promised to deal with me if I end up leaving his daughter after my schooling.

He had informed my parents and traveled down tho.. Arrangements were made that I would wife his daughter.
I had doubts that I was the father all those while but I couldn't voice out. On several occasions when I was on my IT in Lagos, this girl would deny me visit after work but prefers to visit me at her own time. My work was not far from yaba o, either she visits me at home or I only come at night claiming she is busy.

Even when I was in school I dont do night calls. Even decline video calls. As per guy wey I be, I sabi say bodi no be firewood cos I was also doing some outings on my own end.
I stay in Lagos too so I understand the rush in unilag especially for year 1 considering her beauty and nice body.

FFWD she gave birth to a girl tho. I just had to accept it but still had my doubts. I could not even tell my mom because she knew of our relationship and might tag me stupid. I had made it in mind after my schooling I would do a DNA test.

I saved some money after service and I could have gotten married this year. I took my daughter which I had already lived secretly to the hospital when I was sick claiming that I wanted her to accompany me. My daughter is already 4 years.
The result came out and she is not mine. I ran the test in another hospital same result. I confronted her and she was in tears, she told me that she was confused and didn't know who the father was, that I was the better option. She had a boyfriend in Unilag who was about 18 years and the sane level with her. She had sex with him before coming back and landed in my place and also had with me. She was ignorant.
Her father threatened her that she most provide the person and there us no where for her to go because I was close by. And she thought u should be the one..she wasn't sure.

The bone of contention here is I already like my daughter and my girlfriend though I'm still very bad. But i have been with her after most if the times after she had given birth. She is in her fathers house.
The father has plans already and I to start work at Mobil in Eket. Following arrangements to marry his daughter he has only two girls and doesn't want them to carry children both without fathers .
I still dont know what to do, should I cancel everything and tell the father? considering the trauma I faced as a students and inconveniences I had while in school.
Will she be a faithful person in future? Will she use it against me?
Do I get her pregnant and speed up with the marriage procedures?
I dont want to regret at the end. My mother won't like it if she knows that the girl is not mine and won't consider her as her grandchild.

Modified: I appreciate your contributions as I am beginning to analyze a lot.

Some friends here and outside has adviced me that I should make it open to the family. If I want to marry her because she left school after pregnancy then I can go ahead and get married to her as someone who gets married to someone with a child already.

She has been on my neck since... She says shee was young and naive that she loves me more. I had been with her all this while. She told me tgat we can have other children also.
I have asked her of the father, she says she doesn't know of his whereabouts anymore. That she never even knew the paternity and thought I'm the one.

My daughter on the other hand loves me so much and my mother likes her a lot.
I still love her tho.. Even tho I had my doubts.
I had already packed to resume work this month.

I'm still confused.

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Crime / Re: Scammers Can Now Be Caught- You Mistakenly Or Greedily Sent 50k To Get 100k. by Vanzetti: 10:34pm On Sep 23, 2020
This should not still be a leverage for anyone to stupidly or greedily send money to anyone.
Run away from ponzi schemes, you thread at your own peril.

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Crime / Re: Scammers Can Now Be Caught- You Mistakenly Or Greedily Sent 50k To Get 100k. by Vanzetti: 10:33pm On Sep 23, 2020
LhasaAsp:


You're just a scammer that's all.
We will get you soon

Don't mind the fool, he dies not even know the definition of a scammer.
Sports / Re: Sport Centre Drop Your Verdict: Ars Vs Liv (FA Community Shield) by Vanzetti: 11:31am On Aug 29, 2020
grin grin grin

Arsenal go hear am today.
I predict 4 _1 victory for the Merseyside
Pets / Re: Lets Share Pictures Of Our Dogs by Vanzetti: 8:16am On Apr 10, 2020
Hargbo:
what breed is this
Lhasa Aspo Breed
Pets / Re: My Lhasa Asp. Breed Dogs by Vanzetti: 12:21am On Apr 10, 2020
Beautiful dogs
DM...me if you are also interested.. 1 months old
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Pets / My Lhasa Asp. Breed Dogs by Vanzetti: 12:20am On Apr 10, 2020
1 moth old
Lhasa Asp.. Breed

Pets / Re: Lets Share Pictures Of Our Dogs by Vanzetti: 12:15am On Apr 10, 2020
DM...me if you are interested.. 1 months old
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Pets / Re: Lhasa For New Homes by Vanzetti: 12:13am On Apr 10, 2020
DM...me if you are also interested.. 1 months old
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