LhasaAsp:


Thank you very much. I have Jesus Christ I believe in Jesus. If not I would have indulged in fraudulent activities and wickedness.

Happy New Brother,I said to myself let m check up on Yu, I know things are not doing to well with you but stand strong my gee.
Happy New year 2023 you shall smile.

Let me tag all the giveaway threads.
Cc: rontolo

jimmyolasun:
aradugbo egba wa ooo

Why u dey cry ?

LhasaAsp:


Aye yii ti su mi.
Aye le.

It is well with you bro hang on. . . . . Nairaland show this guy some love.

Vanzetti:


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DroppingLiquid:
Guys if you perform cunnilingus on women, can you please identify yourself here? I'm carrying out a survey.

First question.

1. Do you suffer from any kind of stomach ulcer?

2. How often do you give cunnilingus?

Depending on the detail of your answer, I might award 1k (data or airtime) to you.


PS: The reason I'm carrying out this survey is because through some rigorous research of my own, I may have come across a breakthrough in ulcer immunity research.

Thanks for your cooperation.

Wow!! Very good question let me equally participate in the survey.
1st Question:
Nope I don't have stomach ulcer. I do eat all foods without problems no issues.
2nd question:
Yes I do give head regularly like 3-4 times a month with my fiancé too. I don't think I should expect any stomach ulcer so soon.
IMO :'Vjay has Alkalinity and it helps to balance the aciditu/toxicity making the stomach safe from ulcer attacks'.

I'm done with the survey.

aribisala0:

You lack education and no one loves you enough to tell you the truth

Ehyaaa. E Pele o

At last .
Only in APC government that we have been insulted by all these relegated countries.

God Punish Ugandans . They deserve IDI AMIN. No pity.

luscioustrish:
Let her parents and your mum know the truth with the evidence you already have.
.
Let's see if her dad will still follow through with the plan, this is marriage and not a relationship...be wise, place all your cards on the table and let no one bully you ontop audio promises.

That is what I am planning on doing.
As for the marriage I have not even decided about that.

After so much time dedication and emotional attachment, its not easy to use the exit button.

I am seeing better advice. I dont even know the next woman I might meet. They are better ones out there too.

This was a life I had already picked up to believe for over 4 years. The love I have had grown.
We are humans.. I need to think about.

Firstly, everyone must know about it.
Next I evaluate my self.
Thanks to your contributions and other reasonable contributions.

LedRock:
What is there to understand from a man that can't survive without his babymama's family, you a disgrace simp.

You lack understanding. If only you can read.

egopersonified:
Better tell your mum and dad(or uncle) all these before you tell her dad. You are behaving like someone that fell from the sky without family. How does she treat your friends and strangers? Does she easily look down at people or mock other's misfortune?For your info, love is not enough to sustain any long time relationship. Be careful not to become a boy boy to her and her father. Be very careful.

Alright.

LedRock:
Words from a simp! Go ahead and marry her, it will end in tears.

You just opened your mouth waaaa!!! Without understanding anything.

GLYCOLYSISS:

One thing I'm very certain of, is that if you knew half of the redpill teachings ,you will definitely not be in the mess you find yourself, and should you happen to be in there,you know the right thing to do.

OK sir!!!!
I appreciate.

GLYCOLYSISS:

Your last paragraph, you're definitely not confuse, you're just not mentally, emotionally prepared to make the right choice.
The most difficult men to point out there foolishness to, even when it's staring them in the eyes are men in love.

Lots of red flags, but then, being blinded my emotions, and not ready to see through the said lady's manipulations and games, advising you is likened to pouring water in a basket, technically, a waste of time.

One thing I'm certain of,is that you're not ready for genuine advice sir and not prepared to embrace the harsh reality .

You're more concerned about how she feels
Was she concerned about how you would feel when she was fucking and sucking the d*ck of other guy(s)
She even brought baby home during her d*vk sucking journey and you're still confuse on what to do
Got no respect for weaklings, neither does she!
Your mummy would be dissapointed she got to raise such a pussy as a son!
No apology man !

The last paragraph you quote 'I had already packed to resume work this month' clearly States I had packed my things waiting yo resume before the result showed up.

That's why I'm thinking of backing out or not.

GLYCOLYSISS:

Your last paragraph, you're definitely not confuse, you're just not mentally, emotionally prepared to make the right choice.
The most difficult men to point out there foolishness to, even when it's staring them in the eyes are men in love.

Lots of red flags, but then, being blinded my emotions, and not ready to see through the said lady's manipulations and games, advising you is likened to pouring water in a basket, technically, a waste of time.

One thing I'm certain of,is that you're not ready for genuine advice sir and not prepared to embrace the harsh reality .

You're more concerned about how she feels
Was she concerned about how you would feel when she was fucking and sucking the d*ck of other guy(s)
She even brought baby home during her d*vk sucking journey and you're still confuse on what to do
Got no respect for weaklings, neither does she!
Your mummy would be dissapointed she got to raise such a pussy as a son!
No apology man !

You've said so much without saying anything.
Life is more than what you think man. Decisions are being made.
If I don't feel a thing about her or don't give a Bleep. I can use the exit button.

Foolishness you may say... It is wise for one to think rationally and someone to provide rational advice.

It would only be easier for a man to have done that which you said without thinking if there id no iota of love existed in the first place.

The human mind is more wired than just being redpill... You feel anyone is a LovePeddler. You can get married tomorrow and your LovePeddler Wifey still brings a child for you to father.

SeniorGee:
This is very tough.. you need a lot of wisdom in handling this. Your father in law to be thinks he has one over you. I feel you should present this case to hola s diplomatically as possible, with the intent not to leave his daughter since you truly love her. Tell him it's a secret between you both and you don't want your babe to know about it cos you really want to be with her. At least you get some leverage in the marriage if it turns positive but if it backfires no worries bro, you lost nothing. Maybe it was never yours. Don't go into that marriage without any bargaining power as you may end up a slave.
May God guide you bro
Cheers

OK let me understand you. My gf knows already, her dad I'm planning on telling him but I would do that very soon.
The babes ( gf and her daughter)I like her so much after spending time with them all these years.
I just want to key the man know, maybe it won't be as if he is doing me a favor.
Pregnancy or not, I could have still been with her.

I'm just trying to weigh the options in my life. I dont even know how my mom would feel about it. Already my sis is cool ( I explained to someone already).

I am thinking man. But j would certainly tell the father.

Damitism:
Well, to each his own. For me, I will rather not marry and remain single than settle down with this type of lady. We are talking of the rest of my life with an unfaithful lady. No, I won't sign up for that.

All the best to you OP in making the best decision for yourself.

Ubunja, come and see something.

I have spoken to so many people. Some came with the notion that women still cheats at one time in life. I may get married to one. At the end of the day, she might even get pregnant outside.

Some Gave me the instances of how they discovered one of their children aren't theirs. I mean this was someone who got married to his wife without any children from wedlock.

Homeboiy:
If I were in your shoes , this is what I will do
1. Immediately the DNA results came out, I will call her to explain . If she give me the same explanation that you wrote up there.

Then I will calm down and make everything secret between us. Besides people adopt children, so no big deal in this cos the real biological father doesn’t even know that he has a daughter.

2. Breaking up with her will affect many things in your life now, you will start afresh. She was naive and had sex with her course mate and I have not seen where u have mentioned again that she have cheated on you since your dating.

You will ruin that little girls life

Accept her and move on

I explained everything to her bro.. After the DNA test. You can go back and read properly the ending part. She was the first person I confronted.

Truvel:
Op, Ur Story Get K-Leg Oo. U Said U Deflowered Her, She Got Pregnant 4 U. How Come Ur D Pregnancy Is Not Urs? Or Did U Use C.D?

I was the one hu deflowered her. Read properly, we dated before she wemt to school. I did not use protection, when she came back from school.
She called me then that she was pregnant for me. I later found out it is not mine.
Case solved or answered.
I used" pregnant for me" then because j thought it was mine.

DonEd:
My guy,

Everyone has made mistakes of being fooled cos of love even those that are insulting u now. No reason am.

Now, to the matter at hand, if u love the girl and u wanna wife her, do so as someone who is marrying a single mom.

But, the parents should know that u r marrying their daughter out of love for her and the child and not sympathy or threats or even the job opportunity.

From now on, I suggest u get busy doing the work of getting her pregnant, this time, carrying your baby.

Have it in mind that the past might come calling anytime in the future. Be ready.

My two cents though.

Thanks so much. That's my plan. I still love her having stayed all this years.
I will let them know. I will take it as a marriage to a single mom. She claims she loves me too.
I spoke to my sister who is only aware and she told me that I have gone too far to back out.
Tomorrow I would battle on moving on and trying to patch up. The other guy or anyone can come up who didn't even face as much as I have.. If I claim to love her. I should do so.
My sister opined so above.

I am still open to more contributions. I am beginning to analyze a lot if things from different point of view.

Skmoda360:
Op, you need to come clean and let the father be aware and you can still marry her if you want a better future for yourself......but please do the needful asap

I have decided to make it known to the father. I still dont know what to do. Let it be that I refuse to tell them because if my selfish interest, which is not so.

flyingpig:
Look, if you want this to sail smoothly then everybody has got to come out clean. How do I mean? Open the window, let the smoke out from the kitchen.



SHOW THE LITTLE GIRL'S GRANDFATHER THE DNA TEST FOR HIM TO SEE YOU WERE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHILD. HE CAN TAKE YOU BOTH TO HIS RELIABLE HOSPITAL TO RE-CONDUCT THE TEST. ALSO SHOW THE TEST RESULT TO YOUR OWN FAMILY SO THEY CAN STOP LIVING IN FOOL'S PARADISE.

AFTER THE REALIZATION AND THE STORM CALMS DOWN. YOU AND THE GIRL CAN GO ON SELF-ASSESSMENT TO ASSESS IF YOU CAN STILL CONTINUE WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE PLANS. BECAUSE FOR ALL WE KNOW IT MAY EVEN COLLAPSE AFTER ALL THIS REALIZATIONS BECAUSE HER PARENTS NO LONGER SEE HER SAME WAY AGAIN.

I would keep you updated. I'm supposed to start by this month. But I would march down to her parents place.

Originalsly:
Bro.... she was living a lie with you. Was she right or wrong to do so? You are now living a lie with your parents and her parents and her daughter. Is that the right thing to do? Like with her and the child.... the same will happen to you.... whatever is hidden in the dark will one day come to light. Cancel the wedding... but you can still have a relationship with the child. Your fiancee was sleeping with her mate.... then reporting to sleep with you. I hope you don't believe that has stopped.

I have seen your point and it makes more sense.

flyingpig:
You will and that kind of job will be worth it because it came with clean hands and decent history and from God. Not with a shoddy history that you will keep living with fear and paranoia and haunted mind, that you will always be wanting vacation everytime.

God bless you sir.

flyingpig:
He's right. When that father comes for his child, he will take all the claims. And when your father in law dare finds out you were not the real father yet enjoyed all the benefits and worse off, knew before you got the job, he's gonna hate you.

I don't know why people like to get themselves into complicated things instead of just walking away.

Goodluck to you. Don't say you were not warned to walk away.

Okay. What happens if she goes on to bear more children for me. I love the girl so much and she has been in tears since.

I just need an answer, what if she bears more children for me. Do I still stand at a disadvantage?

For the fact that I'm not the father, the other guy has right if he eventually knows because he was on no account confronted. He can come later and fight the child out from me.

flyingpig:
Bro, marriage is an eternal affair. Never enter into it for the wrong reasons of intimidation with false child and enslavement.

Worst person to work under is your father in law. You will be subjugated and enslaved and he will dictate the terms of your family including the see position you use for your wife. No respect. Please don't go into that marriage. It is all shades of the wrong reason. Don't worry about the harsh job climate outside. God of Oyedepo and Adeboye are there for you. If you're smart, intelligent and network well you'll eventually find a job after a while.

You are indeed wise. I thank you so much.
I grad with a 2.1 chemical eng. I believe I can get good job elsewhere with the help of God.

Prinnce1:
This one no be movie script..... Am confused on how to help you. Mobil eket, bros this is not simping but been smart accept the baby and start work . You were too fast to tell her sef, if I were to be you I would have held that as an exit plan.

My mistake just realised.

YoonSung10:
This case is beyond my contributions. If you make move now and tell her to find the father and expose the truth, it will safe you now but if you cover it up and marry her, you will regret if forever, it will surely backfire in future.

I doubt, if she goes ahead and bare me more children it won't.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Instead of u to concentrate on your studies, your vision was to become somebody's first. Anyways congratulations on having it all. E no easy abeg!

You be idiot .. Inasmuch as it is serious this made me laugh a little. You sound like one of my friend that makes a joke out of stuffs.

flyingpig:


Bro, don't mess your future just because of promises of job assurance by your father in law.

Left for me, your father in law is a no nonsense type. He will use you, control you and emasculate you for being the one who bequeathed wealth to you. Especially for impregnating his daughter and knowing her the wrong way. It doesnt even seem like the girl truly loves you because all the while you never truly mentioned in real terms the depth of her love for you.

You are being tied and blindfolded into this marriage with false child and promises of a job. It will end in tears and frustration. Better to walk into a destination with my ego, pride and eyes wide open than my eyes blindfolded and ego in someone else's hands.

Thanks I thought the same man. Maybe she has no choice because she us afraid of lifting the child alone.
I had moved my things down already to start work this month to enable me pay for the bride price by next year.

The parents dont know I'm not the father. I can walk out of their life. The heaviness I feli in my final year and sleepless night during my project is still making me think. Passing through such problems at the end I walk away.

Iyoocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

You're just more like the broke version of ozo. A girl brought pregnancy to you and you foolishly accepted even when you had your doubts.
You were not scared of turning her down because of her Dad, you were only after her father's money and connections as a top oil worker, now they have stupidly tied you down with marriage and it's now obvious to you that no money is forthcoming your eyes are now fully open.
If only you were a certified gee you should have requested for a DNA immediately the girl was born but her papa money don cover your eyes.
Better end that union right now and save yourself the stress, she's not your daughter and she's never going to be. The real dad no matter how useless and unconcerned he's right now when he comes for his daughter even if it takes 50 years he's still going to have more advantage over you!

Bro I was a student in my final year and I was dealing with projects. what did you expect me to do. Considering the stress I had gone through because of this child.
I had my doubts but I could not do it or request for the DNA of the child. What if it eventually turned out to be mine. Besides no money to even do a thing like that. I decided to take it slowly.

As for the work, I have moved my things down to start work this month.
I still appreciate your contribution.