₦airaland Forum

Samcathe:
What's the best way to invest in the T-bill primary market? Wema Bank told me they have issues with their app, even though they assured me some weeks back that I could place my bid on it.

Odunharry:
Yes rate for 364 Tenure dropped but 18% hmm

Odunharry:
Nawa!! You hear inflation has gone up and you position hoping DMO will consider and perhaps leave the rate unchanged irrespective of the oversubscription, only for the rate to go down by almost a percent. This is just so depressing abeg!

Thanks boss. Rates have remained flat for the past 2 auctions for 90 and 180days but dropped slightly for 364days tenure.

GodgraciousR:
Yes. received on the 30th from stanbic bank

DaddyRochie1642:
It's over one year I lost my mother to stage 4 breast cancer, the breast cancer was not detected early,

- I remember that day very clearly like it was yesterday,
- It was on a Sunday morning, she was responsive their on her hospital bed, she was even smiling with the doctor attending to her,
- I was there, my younger brother was there, my older cousin was there, we were there by her side, the doctor attending to her left,
- Few minutes after the doctor left, mummy closed her eyes,
- We immediately rushed and called the doctors to the situation, the brought their machine for CPR, the machine couldn't detect her pulse/vitals,
- She was pronounced dead after several efforts.
- I couldn't believe I just saw mummy die before my eyes,
- My younger brother went nuts right there in the hospital, my older cousin shed tears, his eyes were red, I was too shocked, I just sat down beside her body and held her hand for over an hour, she was 52years old.
- This memory plays in my head each day.

- My younger brother was never himself After mummy's passing,
- He developed some kind of mental health issues, it was so bad for him,
- My younger brother became a complete shadow of himself, this is someone that is full of Life and energy when mummy was alive.
- Doctor said it was schizophrenia which was triggered due to the loss of a loved one as he was very close to her.

- With combined efforts, my younger brother slowly overcame the mental health issue,
- Each time I look at him, I'm so glad we rallied around for him, I am so glad I played my role and stood by him at that low point in his life, I'm filled with happiness each time I see him.

- Witnessing a loved one die in your presence is a scar for life, it can damage a person for Life.

You can share your experience if you wish, it is not an easy thing to talk about.

Adexvivacity:
OP, fear those under 30 singles.... Imagine someone telling u to cook if u dnt like how she waste food 😂😂😂😂😂

Kobojunkiee:
Is Tinubu in this marriage with you or what?

brain54:
I read carefully the first time...

Between the lines too. And this your comment only proves my first comment to be right that there are other issues/complaints you were suppressing that have made you frustrated to the extent of wanting to abandon your marriage.


It's not just about the food issue definitely. I can also deduce your madam might be an obstinate person.

So yes when you write don't think you can condition everyone's mind to the direction you want to convey!

garriAndsugar:
Start dishing the food by yourself after she finishes cooking

Kobojunkiee:
You are not the first man to earn money abeg and you are not the first man to earn and cook at the same time, so please make we hear the word. If you wanted a wife who earned money for her family too, you would have married a woman who did just that so let's not deviate.

You have a situation where clearly, you and your wife see things differently. Instead of creating an issue where an issue really ought not to exist— anyone can cook— the easiest solution would be to take over the cooking yourself and do so the way you prefer it done. They say if you want something done right you have to do it yourself that is why I gave you the suggestion from earlier.

brain54:
The marriage generally done tire you...

It's not only about the over cooking!

Kobojunkiee:
If you don't like how she does the cooking, even after letting her know your concerns, then the next best thing for you to do would be to take over the cooking duties so you can help minimize waste and she can maybe spend her energy on other things that need doing.