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Wow wow wow

Refreshing to see a man standing up and providing for his family. Good one Obavoh

Endured years of physical and mental violence from my ex husband. I sacrificed my happiness, life and mental health just to make the marriage work but it wasn’t enough for him

adecz:
Extrasoft Poundo & partners🍛 😀😀😀

Looks yummy

Just went through all your posts an I’m speechless

My pancakes are always too flat like crepes how do I make them thick and fluffy?

Omg this is scary

I admire your easy going lifestyle op you seem contented

Add crayfish and milk for more protein

May God keep us safe

Flowers and perfume are nice

sod09:
Where are you located some of us can be near you to offer help

I am in Taraba sir

Blacckrod:
Be strong. Abusers manipulate you to think they are above the law

Please drop your account number

Thank you ma.

godofuck231:
What are your resources what can you do to make a living and how son can you start a business, the easiest is cooking, a small location and good food , at least the most common in nigeria , service trays ad coolers , u ca start with what you have, ad value to your self and stop replying an aggressive man , keep your head safe , stop replying on impulse and see if this stops, if not then he's been bewitched

I am good at hairdressing. That is the business I wish to start sir. I can’t keep on living with him, The kids and I walk on eggshells around him

PlayMaker14:
Scared? Okay oh....


Just move out with the kids, I take God beg you... Their safety and mental health is more important than anything.

I will do all I can sir. Thank you

PlayMaker14:
I believe you have some little savings in your account... Report him to any of these organisation fighting against domestic violence, get an apartment, move there with your kids and get something doing for yourself.

I do not have any savings. I am afraid to report him to any organization. I’m scared he might bribe his way out and I will be on the receiving end. I just want to move away with my children in peace

Moh247:
Take him to a police station and have him sign an undertaken

Meanwhile try get a job and prepare for a divorce

Even if you sell Indomie and egg, or Ankara by the road side, or get a pos terminal you would make some money to survive and have peace of mind

Thanks sir. I am penniless as it is. I have skills in hairdressing. I plan to move me and the children far from him to start afresh

mariahAngel:
Leave the children with him, if you have to, and save your life. They'll understand.
You obviously feel trapped because of them, and he's taking advantage of that.

Thanks ma but I don’t have the heart to leave my kids with him as He hits them too. I can’t save myself and leave them in the condition I’m running from

Moh247:
Take him to a police station and have him sign an undertaken

Meanwhile try get a job and prepare for a divorce

Even if you sell Indomie and egg, or Ankara by the road side, or get a pos terminal you would make some money to survive and have peace of mind

The first time he hit me till I lost consciousness. I reported to the police but we were told to settle at home. This man laughed at me and told me he will be the one to bury me

mariahAngel:
So, what is keeping you there?

My children

PlayMaker14:
I won't advice you to pass the night there.... You're an orphan doesn't mean you don't have the right to live.


Get a room apartment somewhere far from him, carry the kids and move away from that beast.

I have nowhere else to sleep. We just moved into this town a few months ago. I haven’t made friends here.

Please I need help. I need to leave with my kids. I cannot bear this anymore .


I am not a scammer. I really need help. I am penniless and have no where to go with my kids.

Please I beg of you. I don’t want to stay in this marriage anymore. I want to move myself and kids as far away as possible from him.


PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME. I don’t want to die.

I have suffered all types of abuse from my husband for the past 6 years of our marriage.

I did my best to stay peacefully and bear in my marriage for the sake of my children.

But it is now obvious the man who swore to love and protect me wants to take my life because he knows I am an orphan who has nowhere to go and no one to run to.

He did this to me 3 days ago.