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I'm scared

QueenMarvella:
Okay hun

I occasionally call my girlfriend talk less of texting, but we understand ourselves, loves and trust each other. Do away with this assumption, he loves you, if you feel to be around him get to him. From my view, his present top priority is his study, support him by understanding with him with time everything will be alright.

You said she is your ex and you are still monitoring her, it means you lack common sense. If she seduce your brother or not what's your concern? If you still love her go and restart your relationship with her and stop this rubbish monitoring.

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TINALETC3:
and ur types wl click like 2 dis ur unnecessary comment of urs

I like that guy. Na over seriousness go kill you for here. Dey there the tight face no follow good people catch fun.

That's nice development

sweerychick:
Good evening viewers! i have this issue has been bothering me, and i dont know if i can cope with it anymore particularly now we are making plans to settle down after my NYSC.

My man is too attached to his mum almost like an addiction. at first i was cool with it because his dad is late and i like guys that are close to their mums, but my man own is creepy and freaking me out. he calls his mum almost every hour, morning, afternoon, evening and even midnight calls.

One day his mum complained of headache, he almost left his office just to buy his mum drugs despite his mum telling him it's not serious, when i tried confronting him about this he told me that his mum is his soul and if his mum dies he would die along with her too, with all seriousness he told me this.

I've been very uncomfortable since that statement from him and it's making me have a rethink whether i can cope with him as a spouse.. please advice me..

As a woman, the way you feel about it is natural, because women are jealousy in nature, I'm not saying this to hurt you, it's a fact. it seem as if there is something creepy on the way it looks but I will tell you no. It started from the brought up foundation. Mom and son love in families are very strong some mom call their son pet names like daddy mommy, my husband, my love, sweetheart, etc. She sees her son as her only hope in life after she lost her husband and channel all her love for him while the son sees her mom as his everything he need in life to survive, the one that upbringing him when he was nobody, the best adviser and the best lifetime friend who stood by him when other friends abandoned him, the one that goes on debt to be sure he live a comfortable and successful life, the only icon of true love in his life, etc there are much to add but I don't really have much time to add more.
If the guy and his mom loves you, I will advise you to marry him, don't be envious about the love between both of them, it is from the foundation of the family and no one can modify it because it is an addiction. (as I'm typing this I'm addicted to my mom).
The only good thing you can do to please him is if you can love his mom the way she did, If you can do so, you are a perfect wife material for him and nothing on earth can separate both of you. Let his mom be your mom.
I pray you give birth to a son that is addicted to love you, then you will appreciate what you are experiencing today.

Same with me

Since he neither stole my money or your money to do his business I think is not my concern. The current economic situation has pushes many to crime.
Now, surviving in Nigeria is a tough game, if you can make it without robbery or stealing, I'm in support of you.
I don't care about the way I sound here, what I know is the fact, I put it straight to you is either you accept or leave it that way.

I'm interested

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Please read this post by VOA (Victor Okechukwu Anyaegbuna)
I repeat, PMB is not the problem of Nigeria. Take it or leave it.
So
WHO ARE THE KLEPTOCRATS?
Read this intriguing and provocative piece; yet Nigerians refuse to be provoked instead holding one man, Buhari, responsible for all their woes!
How far can you push a Nigerian before he reacts like an angry lion?
Isn't it a ridiculous mockery and insult that Nigerians are the only world citizens that when pushed to the wall, spend more energy to break the wall and cross over rather than fight back?
Read this and let's know who our real enemies and shameless oppressors are - GOVERNORS, EX-GOVERNORS, SENATORS, REPS. Can't we do something to get rid of these big thieves that use our power against us?
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
NIGERIANS WAKE UP!
A lion never shies away from a fight when it is hungry, neither does it blame the buffalo for resisting or refusing to be eaten.
How come our forefathers dared death and everything to give us a sane society?
Shaaaaaame!!!
Please endeavour to read this very interesting piece!

STATE OF THE NATION
A SELF DECEIVING COUNTRY CALLED NIGERIA

Twenty-one senators currently receiving pensions from government as ex-governors and deputy governors.

The current senators who once served as governors are Bukola Saraki of Kwara, Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso of Kano, Kabiru Gaya of Kano, Godswill Akpabio of Akwa Ibom, Theodore Orji of Abia, Abdullahi Adamu of Nasarawa, Sam Egwu of Ebonyi, Shaaba Lafiagi of Kwara, Joshua Dariye of Plateau Jonah Jang of Plateau, Aliyu Magatakarda Wamakko of Sokoto, Ahmed Sani Yarima of Zamfara, Danjuma Goje of Gombe, Bukar Abba Ibrahim of Yobe, Adamu Aliero of Kebbi, George Akume of Benue and Isiaka Adeleke of Osun.

The former deputy governors in the Senate are Ms Biodun Olujimi of Ekiti and Enyinaya Harcourt Abaribe of Abia. Danladi Abubakar Sani served as the acting governor of Taraba state.

Many former governors are also in Buhari's Cabinet as Ministers. This includes: Ngige, Fayemi, Amaechi and Fashola (SAN).).

In Akwa Ibom State, the law provides that ex governors and deputy governors receive pension equivalent to the salaries of the incumbent. The package also includes a new official car and a utility vehicle every four years; one personal aide; a cook, chauffeurs and security guards for the governor at a sum not exceeding N5 million per month and N2.5 million for his deputy governor.

In Rivers, the law provides 100 percent of annual basic salaries for the ex-governor and deputy, one residential house for the former governor “anywhere of his choice in Nigeria”; one residential house anywhere in Rivers for the deputy, three cars for the ex-governor every four years and two cars for the deputy every four years.

It is alledged that in Lagos, a former governor will get two houses, one in Lagos and another in Abuja, estimated at N500 million in Lagos and N700 million in Abuja. He also receives six new cars to be replaced every three years; a furniture allowance of 300 percent of annual salary to be paid every two years, and a N30 million pension annually for life.

This is the reality for all the 21 ex govenors and deputy governors who are currently serving as senators. This same is also true of ex governors who are now serving as Ministers.

NOW I ASK:
How many years did these guys serve their states as governors and deputy governors? Is it more than 8years? Is that a reason to be entitled to pensions for life? Even if they are entitled to pension for life, must it be so outrageous?

As if that is not enough: HOW on earth can any public servant with conscience collect salaries and allowances as a senator or minister, and still have the audacity to claim pensions equivalent to the salaries of a serving governor in Nigeria?

IT ISN'T ROCKET SCIENCE......

Once you are elected a senator or appointed a minister, you must forfeit any pension accruing to you from government at any level until you vacate office. This should also apply to senators collecting military pensions like former Senate President David Mark.

Yet these senators are in the Senate that is inviting the current finance minister to discuss the recession of Nigeria's economy. A senator pockets approximately 30 million naira monthly as salary and allowances. Our "honourables" are not interested to make laws that could restructure our country into economically autonomous federating States/Regions to save the country from sectional agitations that is threatening to destroy Nigeria. The sad and hopeless situation is that the rest of Nigerians are busy arguing based on party, ethnic and affiliations while these enemies of state continue to rape us.

Do you know that it costs tax payers 290m Naira yearly to maintain each member of our National Assembly in a country where nothing works & 80% of population earn below 300 Naira a day ? A working day earning of a senator is more than a yearly income of a doctor; it's more than the salary of 42 Army generals or 48 professors or 70 commissioners of police or more than twice the pay of the US President or 9 times the salary of US congressmen.

It's high time the country had a referendum on those outrageous salaries of Senators, House of Representative members and other political office holders.

If you are seriously against the looting of our commonwealth in Nigeria, in the name of democracy, please forward this to front page and share it on all social media.
MAY GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

tugrow:
you just said it all, my mum said so cos she sell it at her shop

MTN should consider the poor retailers or stop the selling of paper recharge topup and fully introduce online topup like VTU, pocketmoni, and others

Thank you my brother.
MTN believed they can enslaved us in our country. I know they loses more customers following the price increase. Sending sms to his subscriber and denying that they didn't increases the price can't change anything. They will soon fold up. Many are switching to another network when it comes to recharging while their line is only for answering call.
I'm a wholesaler I know the plight of retailers and the starting point of MTN failure.

Usually, mtn sell his recharge voucher for examples N100 voucher are sold at the rate of N96 to wholesaler. Since last month till now they increase their price from N96 to N97. At this point the wholesaler are force to issues the voucher to retailers at the rate of N98, in order to make profit of N1 while the retailers are sell it N110, stating that gain of N2 can't be enough because of their low turnover compared to wholesaler who only make N1 gain only.
I'm here to tell mtn that the profit retailers get from their voucher is very minimal compared to other networks. Hence they add little price to its value in order to survive.
What Mtn need to know is weather they agree or not a trader must make gain from whatever he sold. N2 profit from N100 is a capital NO.

Mek I Sidon here.

Rebuke:
Na wetin person go fit do to please una sef?

If d guy bin d flash cash now, una go stil talk say him too proud.

Haters always hating.......who yhu help sef? Who knows or cares if yhu hav any f**k to give?

Just as your name implies. Rebuke him from his dirty reasoning to clean one. Weh done sah!

Chai