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Education / Re: Who Are The Most Educated Nigerians? by venusmaze: 4:30am On Feb 08, 2007
can i just chip in and say going back to this topic will bring nothing but grief. The subject matter is baseless and not the thing you need for a united nation. Not saying dont discuss, just saying it is not a healthy debate, it has already brought out many unwanted characters in each of you.
Celebrities / Re: Michael Jacksons Kids:unmasked by venusmaze: 4:26am On Feb 08, 2007
they are all white. Did he adopt them?
Romance / Re: The Perfect Valentine's Day Gift by venusmaze: 4:24am On Feb 08, 2007
i am bad at buying for people, anyone embarassed
Education / Re: Who Are The Most Educated Nigerians? by venusmaze: 4:23am On Feb 08, 2007
ok please i remove myself now. sorry. if we carry on, it will be one thing then another then before we know it's war again. Ok we have both spoken, let us leave it at that.
Family / Re: If Your Husband Has A Child Out Of Wedlock by venusmaze: 4:20am On Feb 08, 2007
God! what can one do? if you don't leave you have to accept the child. I don't know. I won't reject any child. But i will be very hurt about the betrayal and pray for serious strenght to forgive him
Romance / Re: The Perfect Valentine's Day Gift by venusmaze: 4:16am On Feb 08, 2007
i don't know what to buy too. i didnt get him anything last year embarassed
Education / Re: Who Are The Most Educated Nigerians? by venusmaze: 4:13am On Feb 08, 2007
frewilly did you not understand my post? i was not saying any of you were right or wrong. no i did not quote because of that part of Bluenubians post at all. ok i have tried.
Romance / Re: The Perfect Valentine's Day Gift by venusmaze: 4:09am On Feb 08, 2007
ah no chance of doing that here, we expecting snow and all
Education / Re: Who Are The Most Educated Nigerians? by venusmaze: 4:07am On Feb 08, 2007
please can i say something please please  without anyone thinking i am taking sides? please. Ok it looks like everyone has been as bad as each other here, i was reading this and was scarred to say anything. But i am a christain too and i have to say everyone of you have been just as guilty

one last thing please, you came in wrongly Bluenubian(no offense) you taking sides and that is wrong and you will make this worse again, some have come and gone adding fire to it. Please enough
Romance / Re: The Perfect Valentine's Day Gift by venusmaze: 4:01am On Feb 08, 2007
hmm i have never been big on gifts, ok maybe some jewelery
Romance / Re: In Love With An Older Guy by venusmaze: 1:18pm On Feb 04, 2007
lol enjoy
Religion / Re: Do You Believe In Witchcraft? by venusmaze: 1:14pm On Feb 04, 2007
I am unsure of their existence too, though when you are a spiritual person, there are certain things or forces around, some will call them energies, but i am undecided.
Poems For Review / Re: Women by venusmaze: 1:12pm On Feb 04, 2007
good poem, did you write this?
Romance / Re: Why Do British Girls Love To Date Black Guys... by venusmaze: 1:10pm On Feb 04, 2007
enjoy the solo fight then , sorry i have no time for this, if you can't respect yourself, then i have myself to think of bye
Romance / Re: Is this called cheated on?? by venusmaze: 1:08pm On Feb 04, 2007
nothing. I refuse to go into cheap exchange of words with you now. I am bigger than that. enjoy the solo fightyou want to follow me because we disagree? fine. you want to run yourself mad? fine. but you will do it alone. bye
Romance / Re: In Love With An Older Guy by venusmaze: 1:06pm On Feb 04, 2007
listen you are taking this way out of proportion mamput. You are still smarting from a reply to an old post. thats incredible. I didnt call you a bad mother at all. Why you taking things so personal? really search yourself and how you have acted, and how you have now taken it upon yourself to follow me about and see if this is the way a grown woman should conduct herself? Today i can disagree with you and tomorrow agree with you. Don't take it personal or serious
Romance / Re: Why Do British Girls Love To Date Black Guys... by venusmaze: 1:03pm On Feb 04, 2007
aww, you poor thing. Like i said before don't take things personally. ok? i can never compare my you with my mum, peaches and pears well just don't get undue stress on my account, stress is a big killer.
Romance / Re: Why Do British Girls Love To Date Black Guys... by venusmaze: 12:59pm On Feb 04, 2007
this is seriously funny because one disagrees with you on another topic you have to follow me around every topic? lol. yes i am a good girl and a good wife. Since the day i mentioned my marriage you have been having palpitations all over the place, Please do and get yourself one soon . again respect your age mama
Romance / Re: In Love With An Older Guy by venusmaze: 12:56pm On Feb 04, 2007
this is serious so you are now following me round the forum lol oh my God
Romance / Re: Is this called cheated on?? by venusmaze: 12:54pm On Feb 04, 2007
looks like you have lost the plot, mamaput. Are you jealous that i am married? what is wrong with saying i am married? have you got an issue with marriage?
you are the one who likes to talk of your whole family on an internet forum. Why not respect your age
.

A Good girl never talks about here totto statues
-----by the way what in heavens name is this all about? are you educated at all? embarassed. Geez look at the way you talk. And you are a grown woman? check that. What status am i talking about that has got you so mad? oh is it my marital status? oh well what can i say? i am married is it a crime? arent you? what is your issue with it? oh! i forgot. YOU are divorced, you didnt say, ah now i see where the anger is coming from. SUCH IS LIFE cry

YES all our mothers may not be holy or angels but many sure don't go around forums cursing like you and rolling in mud with people young enough to call pikin on a forum.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: White Boy Wants To Meet Nigerian Men - Only Those Interested! by venusmaze: 12:45pm On Feb 04, 2007
mamaput:

So whats a good woman good daughter and good mother doing on a topic like this.
My daughter will never be found on a topic like this by the waz not even my mother

please can you really see how silly this sounds? are you for real? you say ur daughter wont be caught dead here, wat is so bad about what has been said here? all i see is a Gay man posting an Ad for a boyfriend, you who tell any and everyone your daughter at 17 can go and sleep at her boyfriends house, and she still lives with you, i am sure she has done worse than anything that has been said here. Madam please act your age please


your response is indicatitive of your refusal to face truths on another thread. why would a grown woman bring a disagreement from another thread unto another just because you didnt like what i said to you on that thread? I am truly amazed and quite embarassed you will choose to act in this way. It was nothing major, we saw things differently on that other thread, why follow me here just to pick up on what i say here at the next opportunity? to prove what? NOTHING! all i say here is they should leave the poster alone in his search, did you expect me to be homophobic? just because i said i have a good upbringing? see this is where a good education comes in , you have the ability to analyse and make rational decisions without looking stupid. You didnt even contribute to this topic, all you did was follow me to nit pick. Yes i am a good wife and a good mother, proud to be and i am not much older than your children i am sure. Are you jealous that i have my act straight?


PS
i can be on any topic i want here, the question is not where i choose to go, but rather what my conduct is and saying that your conduct could do with improving. PLEASE RESPECT YOURSELF
Romance / Re: In Love With An Older Guy by venusmaze: 12:31pm On Feb 04, 2007
would you rather tell her what to do? nobody knows the facts
Romance / Re: Is this called cheated on?? by venusmaze: 9:40pm On Feb 03, 2007
sorry so sorry, i use very few words like you know in my profession, abbreviations are the norm for me, so i have to try by best here.
Romance / Re: Is this called cheated on?? by venusmaze: 9:27pm On Feb 03, 2007
@Lady T
oh my this is funny smiley Lady T i said i agree with you, please read my post again, it was not addressed to you all i did was mention your name in one line saying i agree with you and that mamaput should not take things personally lol. Can you see it now? i hope so. Becuase i totally agreed with your comments start to finish , you were concise.

@Mamaput
if i play goodie two shoes here, that's great, because that's the person i am. No need to start taking things personal and getting personal. From you post you are not young any more, so act accordingly . Thanks for the compliment about me being goodie goodie. It's my mum's great job, atleast i know i was not allowed to have boyfriends at the age you proudly shout you let your daughter have boyfriends. And thank God for the family i am from, i managed to remain a virgin till i married and now have a son and a career. So again thank you very much. Like i said before if you choose to live the life you want, then by all means go for it, but don't start getting personal if the response others give are not to your liking. Besides madamme my mother won;t be caught dead here. FACT!
Romance / Re: Is this called cheated on?? by venusmaze: 2:00am On Feb 03, 2007
mamaput:

venusmaze all she wants to know is was she cheating,.
she did not come here to ask if she is old enough to have a boyfriend.
And not because some people did not have a boyfriend all must do it that way.
Its like saying my way is the right way. There is no right way.
There are even married people with kids still studying.
That is the problem with Nigerians.When some one is telling something and asking . rather than just answer they go off point ask another question . well something like what is happing here.
The deed is done so just answer



mamput
fair enough , i have read some replies to topics here by you and you have gone beyond the point in many cases, sometimes going so far removed from the topic than anyone can imagine, talking about your village etc. So please don't you think you are being sanctimonious by picking and choosing when you want to answer a question to the point? You can do this, if you choose, but don't accuse others of doing what you so often do. Just thought i say that. Please i don't  want a long drawn debate about on or off point issues.

Lady T i think summed up what i wanted to say. Please don't take things personal. it is a public forum and those who bare their private lives here can expect some form of criticism, it goes without saying. i know for a fact my mother wont come here telling a 17yr old to have a boyfriend, ifthe girl has a bf then she does, but my mum won't endorse it .FACT.


Sorry to 21Bee its about you at the end of the day, so back @topic
Travel / Re: London Is Not The Paradise I Expected by venusmaze: 11:57pm On Jan 31, 2007
so much misinformation *sigh*
Crime / Re: A Nigerian - Iwuchukwu Amara Tochi- Executed In Singapore by venusmaze: 9:55pm On Jan 30, 2007
I agree with Desiree. It was the consequence for his crime, sad. I would not have wished him death myself, but i am not going to cry about the law in Singapore. Who said they don't do thesame to their citizens?lol you need to google it.

Drugs kill, and destroy so there you have it.
Religion / Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication by venusmaze: 9:50pm On Jan 30, 2007
Please guys look at the poll results and give up this endless debate it says it all
TV/Movies / Re: Favorite Superhero? by venusmaze: 9:46pm On Jan 30, 2007
Ikamefa got me laughing out so loud right now  cheesy

ok my fav super hero has to be Wonder woman
Romance / Re: Is this called cheated on?? by venusmaze: 9:32pm On Jan 30, 2007
I have seen enough. embarassed

@mamput
She did not ask if she is old enough to have a boyfriend.
My daughter is 17 and has a boyfreind. Nothing wrong with it.

even if she didnt ask if she was old enough, i think david did a very wise thing and responsible thing. We are on line and there is no age restriction on this site, so sometimes maybe we can act responsibly when answering dilemmas such as this from a user who is apparently very young. You may want that for your child but it does not mean everyone else turns a blind eye. its a forum but there is such a thing as CONSCIENCE


Davidlyan
you are quite right about her age and her books wink

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