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@ abilityman

i like your positive attitude to life keep it up.

@2dye4

what you said is right, life is a risk and love is a choice.

i hope others learn from this.

but note pls that the poster of this topic is not the one in love with a victim so dont direct it personnaly to her. its an open topic to both males and females to share their opinions.

ethereal:
mak una take em easy o.
there is more to marrriage than "the hymen"

please sing it into thier ears loud.

who says virgin spouses make the best mate. all we need is the best that comes from God,virgin or not virgin. shekenna.

@ hazel eyed and seina

agreed,its difficult for us. but this person needs you,your love and care.and you know he or she could do the same for you. why leave?

come to think of it even when you both get married as HIV negatives,YOU still need to be carefull not to contact the virus, you don't have to be cheating on your spouse befor youcontact it.

Think about it we all live carefull lives,aint we?

@ HAZEL-EYED where is the true love you profess to have for that someone then? remember it could happen to anybody.

@ DEB i second SANRIMA'S question to you. what if you were the victim?

degubi:
being educated or not does not guarantee success in marriage, status symbol is not a perequisite for happiness in marriage, the character,values and beliefs of an individual will determine his or her success in all aspects of life. know what u want, if u will be comfortable with a less educated person so be it, if u won't then do not go into it.

That is it, you just said it all "being educated does not guarantee success in mariage"

LOVE SHOULD BE THE PARAMOUNT THING.

@ degubi

degubi:
@ThiefofHearts
Here's a suggestion, instead of looking for someone that will have no one to compare you to, how about you learn NOT to suck in bed.

thanks for that imput, i intend to get all necessary info on the steps for good lovemaking so that when the time is right i can apply what i have learnt.

its being a while i saw your post, i hope u've being okay?

hmm this is interesting. i can sence its getting hotter by the day in here.

Hazel-eyed:
i don't understand u, the person u fell in love with is it the same person u are due to marry?or u are due to marry a healthy normal person but now u are in love with the hiv guy?please answer,

Am sorry you did not get the question very well. what i mean here is the person you are getting married to (male or female) was diagnosed to be HIV positive not FULL BLOWN AIDS and you're really inlove and looking forward to your wedding day. what will you do expecially when you are old enough to be married,both famillies know about your relationship together, and this person is asking you to keep it a secret and go ahead with the wedding?

I hope you get it now. mind you am not the one involved.

I just need your opinion cos it could happen to anyone or family member.

Seun:
Not being a virgin isn't such a big issue, really. It takes a while to accept this as a 'morally upright' person.

Why do some women regret not being virgins? They regret it because they didn't enjoy the sex!

thank God you said "SOME WOMEN" because i enjoyed it then. but that does not mean i would go back to it when am not married.

Well some of you made some very good points. you see personally i am not a virgin but for over two years now i've resolved not to have sex with the one i would eventually get married to and by the grace of God i've kept my word.

Each time i remember am no more a virgin it pains me. because its some thing we women should cherich and feel proud of and also make our husbands proud. i would like to state here that its not only virgins that end up been the best wife material.that is why men and not only women need to pray for a good wife. Virgin or not.

Now the question seun posted to we females: personally i would'nt mind getting married to a virgin since i know i can take him to the world of new experiences when it comes to making love to your spouse, understanding is what matters here. but i would really like to get married to a man who will always make me look forward to the time he will be home with me, you know, wheather wild, mild, slow and honey and what have you. Virgin or not.

Truely you met and fell inlove with this person who has all the attributes you desire so much in a mate; but is HIV positive what will you do expecially when you are due to be married.

Hmm God help me to make it to heaven (amen)

@verpaki

you see what i mean; if he can't show me to his parents or friends because am not a graduate and not from a rich family then he does'nt really love me.

Must all men marry a graduate.or vise-visa.

They say the world is coming to an end soon. no body really knows when it would be.

do you also believe it?

They say the world is coming to an end soon. no body really knows when it would be.

do you also believe it?

haba stimulus are we qurreling?

lol. of course they are babies.

oh my, for me i want my man to

1. understanding (does'nt  shouts at me but cherishes me for who i am)

2. compatible (humor,interest etc)

3. Faithful (does not sleep around with women)

I for one would express my love by being faithful and loyal to him, not too demanding that is understanding his finiancial status because for me money is not everything that makes love grows and strong.








LOVE YOUR MAN FOR BIENG YOUR MAN MO MATTER WHAT.

Came across this topic where it was discussed and i need your opinions.