₦airaland Forum

Its a priveldge to be a woman and mother.

Personally i support the idea of allowing husbands into the labour room. but what i don't support is the fact that the woman preparing her mind that her husband MUST be there with her, because its very possible the husband is not around at that time of labour, and if you are already spiritually and psychologically prepared for such, now think of what happens to you( Difficulty in giving birth MIGHT occure) because the baby unknown to you hears and feels what you say and feel and refuses to come out until the father is there by your side. most of you might not agree with me but there is a bond between a mother and child immidiately after conception.

If he is around during labour/delivery oh glory be to God and if not then there is nothing to worry about but to relaxe and plan a surprise call to him yourself that you have given birth to your baby dont allow someone else to do it for you because an extra bond is created between the two of you by just breaking the news to him.

Happy Parenting to all the expectant.

I feel you Brother.

My advice to you and her is: First Pray together about it and relaxe your mind. Secondly, carry out some test to make sure none of you have any infections. Thirdly, stay off sex from the first day she sees her period till the 13th day. (Reason, to increase your sperm count waiting for the D-day). but first both of you need to know when she ovulate since not all women ovulate at the 14th day after the last period. How? a week after her menstruation carry-out an ultrascan to monitor her egg growth,that is when its likely to ripe and release (ovulation). lets assumes she ovulates on the day 14th after her LMP. so on day 13th night make love to her,let her lie on her side for a minimum of 20-30 min uninterrupted after the lovemaking. on the 14th Morning repeat the same and if you so wish again in the evening till the 16th day. after these stage of calculation. you can now have sex at random as you so desire.

If you need more explanation on this topic, i will be willing to give them to you.

hey ztyle don't be confused.

Am getting married to a fine young man, my bone and flesh. he's wonderfull.

Thank you Cadet. Yes its normal but I wish you know my reasons of posting.

10th of May 2008. for those who might want to know the real day.

i kept to my promise.

It seems the lady has been pestering the guy for marriage and the guy just wants to please her for a time,considering the way he proposed to her.The venue is'nt bad, its just the wordings that are incridible.

Well i think she should think very well if she wants to get back to him or forget about him.

He actually seems to me unromantic and unloving.

@ ituen

capital YES i knew she is a girl. am only playing by the rule you gave.

@ owodebsky

ol boy u harch oh.

@ clemcykul

wait until madam lice catches up with you.

i am clemcykulphobia _{whatever that means.}

_{***scraches head thinking and blinking eyeballs***}
[sub]*** runs out of the room panting, looking back and sweating uncontrolably to consult doctor*** [/sub]

tytylayor just propose to me. should i accept the offer of marriage?

so oyinbo sef dey fear like this. see the way the guy do mouth.

that was a nice one. keep it up.

are those pics for real.

those fat guys are really funny looking.

and the last pics really said it all.

well i think there are more things the female folks like in their men. And its definiently more than ten.

Wow, God catch am. Of course, he has a dirty mind. Men, beware o!!!

I guess you forgot the rules in here.


did you forget to ask a question?

@ gatekeeper

Hum. what a question.

Well if she is really pregnant then what's our business about the whole issue. i guess she has her life to live and besides she's not in any way accountable to any body except God.

i guess to quench their high temperament



Did you miss me?

Hey guys how are you all doing? i bet you are enjoying every bit of the fun. i have not been around for some time and sincerly i missed you all so very much.

@ ladynoni

Dearest i am sorry i have not replyed your mail, truth is i have not been around and i'v been so occupied where i was. i would give you a call soon.

Thanks for the good job you are doing on your blog and here on N/L.

My regards to Tessy our friend.

because you guys won't see me online for some weeks.







do you know where i will be going?

@ romeo


I am not surprised by your Rants you call comments, as you don't sound to me, to be someone responsible or educated. i wonder why people like you should be allowed here on nairaland in the first place.

Am a Nigerian not a Carribian






what tribe are you from?

yes! to cook . adds a dinstintive flavour





Do you need some bites?

Excuse me. OH Puulease






Did i just read your words "channed" ? _{i wonder what in the world you meant by that}

must you make any comments? _{long hissssss}

Thanks Sis' am sorry i saw the message after posting my comments on NL.

I am very sorry for the misunderstanding. i would loved to be part of the seminar,but i have a very busy schedule, if u dont mind can i  have your number Via my email so i can call you and get more closer to you?

of course i have teeth.






hum where is na wa? _{because dis na real nawa}

Plastic sugery and implant








on a serious note is havanay male or female?

@ deeteeneey


Fortunately ladynoni has posted the site ID, all you need to do is click on them and you will be on.


@ fellow posters

I am really dissapointed at ladynoni. she went and told the whole world Via her Blog that i came here pretending to be the real writer of the snippets i post on NL. when i'v actually mentioned earlier that i got the snippets from a particular site on the net.

naijabands:
@ Vera

I feel u my sis, but I learnt to turn my 'aloneness' to my greatest advantage; I was always doing (and acquiring) unique stuff that made my cousins seek me out !

But let's be truthful o- we do know how to get things to go in our favour

Yes we have an advantage there