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tomi_ade:
feb 16th in the building, HOLLA!

oh my God, i wish it was 15th february cos mine is 15th of february.

saw someone whose date is15th in here,but alas his month is january.

Well i think am very close to meeting that someone who has the same birthday with me,so if you are that special someone check out my profile and holla me via my email address.

MINE IS 15TH FEBRUARY A DAY AFTER VAL.

Am not joking here,really when someone makes me angry i go to God in prayer Cry to him(God) telling him what the person did to me and what happened, i just pour out my mind to him and forget about the situation.

Hum marriage.

any way am still SINGLE because i want the bone of my bone to wait for sex till we tie the knot,and so far all the men i've met usually want to get down with me first and i don't really want that.

Marriage is something we can't really predict its outcome expecially when you rush into it with the wrong partner.that is why i suggest we marry our best friend,someone we really know in and out; not just a friend who is capable of hiding somethings from you until when he/she knows it already late to make a decision to remain in the marriage or not,expecially when you both legaly got married.

SO TRY KNOWING THE PERSON YOU INTEND MARRYING TO AVOID SOME UNPLESANT SITUATIONS LATER IN YOUR HOME LIKE, YOU KNOW

@ naijabands
But again, y not if not? All you IBBs wey get correct sense, abeg holler me at wildeji.hi5.com; I get awon boiz YAPA wey dey search for woman wey don born; una no go curse them for Labour room, after all, YOU V BN THERE!


hu ha ha ha ha naijabands will not kill me with laughter oh

@ olalekankb

you sure made a very good point. we have to be sincere with our selves. the truth is some of us might today think we can go ahead and marry such a man or woman,but when it comes to reality we find it difficult to do, most expecially when our close family members disagree to such decisions or when we think about the views from our friends etc. LOVE there say is blind, that is why some who said they can't today might with open eyes marry a single parent.

this love thing is really crazy,it makes you do the impossible.

@ sanrima

hahahaha you are very funny girlfriend.

@ topeorekoy

hmmmmmm what a tought provoking question.

@drrionelli

nice question.

i hope they would answaer it.

@ kateflow

i feel you.

the guy has to be honest from the onset not hiding or keeping it from you. because hiding the truth can really be disheartining.

@ hazel-eyed

you can as well keep your opinons to your self cos i don't think i need someone like you who is so shallow minded and dumb in the head to say a word on my tread let alone opinions.
and by the way, who told you am the one directly involved in these topics you mentioned or don't you understand english? well i think you don't cos merely reading your comments needs extra deligence on ones part because of your spelling error. i seriousely doubt what you graduated with in the university, that is if you even got to the gate of one. my dear pls do me a favour by staying clear off my tread. DO YOU UNDERSTAND? you better do.

@ hazel-eyed

am really dissapointed at you. you don't talk to people the way you just did.for crying out loud you are not glued to this topic if you think your time is being wasted here then i'll advice you stop posting. my God,Hazel-eyed, i don't remember telling you i am a carrier or that i am inlove with one so why talk to me like that? we all have our opinons and i don't think here that am in anyway being so defensive of this topic. neither am i abusive as you mentioned. to be really honest with you i  suggest as a lady to think befor saying things out to people.

@ Rocco

i seriousely respect you. you know what love is all about;Love can never be afraid.

@ crazykid

are you very sure love does'nt work that way?

Soundmind:
I will go on with her. I have a girl friend that is hiv+. Though she was -ve when we stated but along the line, she slept with a carrier and got it. Though she denied it initially but when she could not hide it again, she told me the truth.
She then said again "my life now depend on how you will treat me, if you break my heart, i will die" i have been going with her since then but i am -ve till now. I have had sex with her severally but protected but am -ve up till now. She atimes wished herself death but with good counsel and support, she has picked up. She is living a normal life and living well. Up till now, she is not on drug but is healthy.
Please, what kills most is the stigma not the virus. With good understanding, the carrier lives a normal life.
With love, you will overcome the stigma and give hope to the carrier.

Oh this is a very pathetic life experience. i must say that your types are rare. but on a serious note some people would think you crazy for sticking with her after cheating on you and contacting the virus. pls permit me to ask you this questions. DO you have sex with her unprotected befor these incidence happened? and what is that thing you saw in her that made you remain with her till now? do you intend getting married to her?

@ crazykid

(crazykid) you sure sound like one.

@ osereka

yes i would goahead and marry him,since its not a full blown AIDS. HIV victims can still live normal happy lives.

@ crazykid

is it only HIV victims that die young? olodo

more grease abi na oil to your elbowsssssssss. that is as many of you who wish to continue.

i have learnt alot in these topic sha. as i surport the virgins always.

timmy7:
@Topic
I can, but I won't

could you pls tell me why you won't

dany25:
Shallow thinkers we've got in here. Has anyone thought of the young widows and widowers, It could sure happen to anyone. So for those that said no they can't marry someone who already has a child, have u ever thought of u dying young (i'm not praying 4 that) and leaving your spouse with a young child to take care of, are u saying your spouse and child do not have the right to be happy again? Thats really unfair,

Thank you for your wonderfull opinion.

We are all matured enough to make decisions.but i would really love it if some of us think of it deeply cos anyone of us could be a victim and still needs to be happily married in life by the one he/she loves and not out of pity.

Personally i can get married to a man who already has a child,not out of pity but true love for him.
it does'nt matter to me if the child or children are really pain in my neck becos for you to really find true love there must be something  to pay for you to get it.and these might just be one of it.

Am sure some of you who said NO can be madly inlove with a single parent tomorrow that you just can't let go.

DON'T YOU THINK?

FOR THE MEN: CAN YOU MARRY A GIRL THAT GOT PREGNANT DURING HER SECONDARY SCHOOL DAYS  OR WHO WAS INNOCENTLY RAPED AND COULD NOT GET A ABORTION? AND IT ACTUALLY TURNS OUT YOU ARE REALLY INLOVE WITH HER BECAUSE OF HER GENUINESS AND CHARACTER.

FOR THE LADIES: IF A GUY WHO ALREADY HAS A CHILD FROM HIS EX WIFE (DEAD OR ALIVE ) OR EX GIRLFRIEND,ASKED YOUR HAND IN MARRIAGE WOULD YOU ACCEPT HIM AND THE CHILD WOULD HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU? OF COURSE HE MEETS YOUR DREAM AND REALLY LOVES YOU WITH ALL HIS HEART.

YOUR OPINION COUNTS.

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more oil sorry grease to your elbow bros.  

seina you are right. we all have our different opinions.

cracydemo,demonstration of crac, crazy demonstration, that was how fela (baba70) puts it.

but we can and should still show some love and consideration.