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Politics / Re: What is your reading of next saturday's presidential election? My view. by VeryKindHearted(m): 6:11pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
gentlekay2017: Obi has won plateau and nasarawa so far. |
Politics / Re: What is your reading of next saturday's presidential election? My view. by VeryKindHearted(m): 6:10pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
gentlekay2017: Obi has won plateau and nassarawa so far. |
Politics / Re: Presidential Election: Report Any Incident Of Vote Buying Here by VeryKindHearted(m): 12:32pm On Feb 25, 2023 |
The only problem is that I went to vote in Wakili kudu 3 here in Katsina. In my polling unit, Labor party logo is not on the presidential ballot paper. When I asked around, everyone around told me that Labor party is not on the ballot. I then went to another pooling unit and met LP party agent. I told them my experience. They went to check in their pooling unit and the Labour party logo is there. It seems they are using 2 different sets of ballot papers for the presidential election. I heard there are about 27 pooling units in Wakili kudu 3. |
Politics / What is your reading of next saturday's presidential election? My view. by VeryKindHearted(m): 1:54pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
I am able to observe that nearly all the core Hausa Muslims are behind Atiku, while almost all the Yorubas are behind Tinubu. All the igbos, South South and Middle belts (particularly if those people in the Middle belts are Christians) are behind Peter Obi. There are Hausa Christians behind Obi also. Of course there are exceptions. For example, a Hausa Muslim posted in a WhatsApp platform in Katsina that Peter Obi is the best candidate for the presidency. He was attacked and asked not to discuss politics in their WhatsApp platform. Also in the states where the party is APC or PDP, there are people in leadership who may do anything to make Tinubu or Atiku to win. But if it is given to the masses to decide, then Tinubu will win in all South West states and few northern states, Atiku will win in the core northern states. Peter Obi will win in all the South East, South South, North Central/Middle belts. I mean if there is no rigging by party ruling a state. |
Politics / Re: Old Naira: Your Loot Now Completely Useless, Kwankwaso Taunts APC Govs by VeryKindHearted(m): 6:57pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Anybody who wins this election and is sworn in, if the person has billions of old naira hidden somewhere, he can still reverse the whole thing and declare that the old notes are no longer illegal. I believe the advantage of this naira swap is that it may prevent vote buying. But it may be reversed when the new administration comes on board |
Romance / Re: Very Hard To Meet Good Girl Nowadays by VeryKindHearted(m): 3:17pm On Dec 04, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: (Opinion) This Is Why So Many Men Don't Want Women To Be Successful. by VeryKindHearted(m): 11:08am On Dec 04, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: I Told My NIGERIAN Family I'm GAY by VeryKindHearted(m): 6:07pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
One man asserted that the reason he became gay was because of how women behaved towards him. He said women so much rejected him that when a gay approached him for a relationship, he accepted and since then he has not looked back. He said immediately he became gay, some women became willing to have sex with him, but he no longer wanted sex with women. May God help us all to maintain our sexuality and morality. |
Romance / Re: (Opinion) This Is Why So Many Men Don't Want Women To Be Successful. by VeryKindHearted(m): 5:35pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Ballzproblem2: It is you and your generations that are idiots. I am happy you're not afraid of women getting successful. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: (Opinion) This Is Why So Many Men Don't Want Women To Be Successful. by VeryKindHearted(m): 12:42pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
Jeon: Ok. Thanks 1 Like |
Romance / Re: (Opinion) This Is Why So Many Men Don't Want Women To Be Successful. by VeryKindHearted(m): 12:10pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
When the queen of England died and a reporter asked women their opinions about the queen. Almost all of them said something along this line "The queen performed better than the males. She taught the males how to rule" Why not enunciate the achievements of the queen and leave males out of it. The same way males enunciate their achievements without belittling the female gender. Every time a woman succeeds, other women see it as a triumph over males. It is therefore not surprising that many males don't want a woman to succeed because it would potentially be used against them. The success of a woman is used as a facility to belittle men. This is the perception of many men. Although personally, I sincerely wish women success. I want 50 percent or more of leaders to be women. If there is any election and a woman is contesting, I always vote for her. But I wish that the society should disabuse the minds of women from the thinking that any time they succeed, it is a triumph over males. Because of this, they would use the success to deal with a man who fall into their trap. And because of this, many males don't wish a woman to be higher than them. |
Romance / (Opinion) This Is Why So Many Men Don't Want Women To Be Successful. by VeryKindHearted(m): 11:09am On Dec 03, 2022 |
Personally, I always conceive great affection and love for women who are in leadership role. Even if a woman is not attractive when I see her. Immediately it emerged that she is a leader of some sort; maybe she is a principal of a school, a commissioner, minister, etc, she immediately assumes attractiveness in my eyes. A previously unattractive woman would suddenly look attractive when I discover her position in life. But my discovery is that a rich woman always uses her position to fight and insult all males below her. A rich and successful man does not see women as the target for insult or oppression. Infact, a rich man may use his money to protect poor women. But there is no rich woman that has never oppressed a man before to show her superiority. I say this because I have witnessed it on so many occasions. Some males currently in prison are there at the instance of some successful women. There's no rich and successful woman who can say without any equivocation that she has not at one point or another used her influence or money to oppress a man. If a rich woman does not put a man in cell or prison, then she doesn't feel fulfilled. I have seen some males who only find a woman attractive if she is successful or popular. But such men soon get to discover that such women are not the candidates for such admiration. Immediately a woman is more successful than a man, she would not stop letting the man know he is nothing. It is usual to hear such women saying things like: A broke man should not come near me. One female writer in a newspaper once wrote that a man who earns N100,000 should not think of marriage. Because she is into some stuff which gives her more than N100, 000 a month, she would not stop insulting all men who earn below her. A wife that is more successful than a husband will not stop reminding him by her actions or utterances that he is nothing. But a more successful husband may still love and respect his less successful wife. It's said that the reason the ancient society did not countenance the success of women was to protect the male gender. That reveals the reason so many males don't want a woman to be successful in life, or to get above them in life. A woman drove a new and expensive car into a compound and as I was happy for her achievement, a man cursed her and her car. When I asked why, he said women should not drive good cars because she would look down on everyone whose car is not up to her own. While a man driving an expensive car would scarcely look down on all people, a woman in his position would consider everyone as dirt. Although there may be some successful women who are different, but they are few. That's my findings so far. Bye for now. 4 Likes |
Education / Re: 'why ASUU Is Always On Strike' Written By Adamu Adamu In 2013 by VeryKindHearted(m): 5:32pm On Aug 20, 2022 |
Eriokanmi: Ok. |
Education / 'why ASUU Is Always On Strike' Written By Adamu Adamu In 2013 by VeryKindHearted(m): 5:21pm On Aug 20, 2022 |
Before his appointment as the current minister of education, Adamu Adamu wrote'WHY ASUU IS ALWAYS ON STRIKE' in 2013 ] 1 Like |
Food / Re: Lady Regrets The N18k Worth Of Pepper Soup She Ordered (Photos, Video) by VeryKindHearted(m): 9:31am On Aug 15, 2022 |
So many women are very rich. I like those rich ladies and those who have good jobs. |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 3:56pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Karleb: Thank you. |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 3:54pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
ogawisdom: Ok. Thanks |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 1:08pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
Ishilove: Thanks for this. |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 1:02pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
godofuck231: Ok. Thanks |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 1:01pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
nnamdiosu: Alright. Thanks 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 1:00pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
frozen70: Alright. Thanks |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 12:58pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
JASONjnr: Ok. Thanks |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 11:09am On Jul 30, 2022 |
chiefolododo: Thanks for this encouragement. |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 11:08am On Jul 30, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil: Thank you so much for this words of encouragement. |
Family / Re: How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 10:30am On Jul 30, 2022 |
What makes her death so striking(in the negative sense although) is the fact that she always listened to me, although I am not the first born. When she was sick, if I mentioned that we should go to a hospital or church or anywhere, she would agree. But if my other brothers mentioned anything like that, she won't agree. Anything I agreed upon, she always bought into it. She seemed to have looked up to me more than to any other of her children. So aside from the pain inherent in the death of a mother, I am also sad because it seems as if I was not able to prevent her death, even though she looked up to me. |
Family / How Can I Get Over The Death Of My Mother? by VeryKindHearted(m): 10:30am On Jul 30, 2022 |
It's almost a month now since my mom died and I cannot begin to get over the pains of the loss. My father died 22 years ago when I was yet a small boy and because I went to stay with my uncles, aunt cousins, and grandparents, I was able to get over it after some time, because of how I was treated with so much love, because I was still a child. Children can easily forget pains. I have come to the recognition of the fact that there is nothing as painful as the loss of a mother. The first day my mother died, I thought that I would not be able to survive the knowledge that she is no more. Life looked so meaningless and unnecessary that it looked as if there was no need for me to continue living. Because everything I have achieved so far was to please her and make her enjoy my money and my little achievement. But she didn't even live to properly enjoy my money before dying. Although I have come to accept it, but the shock of her death still continues everyday. How can one get over the death of his mother considering the fact that someone cannot bring her back from the dead? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Choose Between 2 Parties: No Respect For Zoning Vs Fielding Same Faith Candidate by VeryKindHearted(m): 4:35pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
Let's assume you are required to choose between 2 evils namely: a party that doesn't respect zoning arrangements and a party that doesn't respect the religious diversity of it's nation. Which one do you think is less evil? |
Career / Re: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by VeryKindHearted(m): 8:11pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
chrisifeanyi: Nothing. |
Career / Re: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by VeryKindHearted(m): 6:12pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
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Politics / Re: PDP NWC Sacks Ayu by VeryKindHearted(m): 4:51pm On Jun 29, 2022 |
May the Lord's kindness and mercy heal our nation. All political parties need God's grace to touch the hearts of their leadership and flag bearers so that we can have good leaders in our country. No matter how evil our leaders are, God can change him or her so that the citizens can enjoy the fruits of good leadership. The leadership of a country is evil and corrupt because the citizens themselves are corrupt and evil. So it is usually God's punishment to a nation because of their evil and wickedness that produces evil leaders. But we hope for His mercy in Nigeria. Remember in Exodus 34:6-8, it is written that The Lord God is merciful and gracious, long-suffering, and abundant in goodness and truth. In Psalms 103:8 The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and plenteous in mercy Psalms 145:8 The Lord is gracious, and full of compassion, slow to anger, and of great mercy Joel 2:13 God is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and of great kindness, and repenteth him of the evil. |
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